FabSwingers.com forum: site supporters single guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if any others feel uncomfortable _iewing single guys profiles who are site supporters?

We tend not to _iew these profiles because it tends to lead to unwanted mails from them just becausr we _iewed their profile.

If we liked what we saw we would get in touch. But get some remarks telling us we viwed their profile.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Just wondering if any others feel uncomfortable _iewing single guys profiles who are site supporters?

We tend not to _iew these profiles because it tends to lead to unwanted mails from them just becausr we _iewed their profile.

If we liked what we saw we would get in touch. But get some remarks telling us we viwed their profile."

Why don't you set up the "who's looked at you" bit so that you don't show up as having _iewed their profiles?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

_iew their profile but do so by deselecting yourself from being tracked

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Huh? Why is this limited to site supporters? Not all men who support the site send mail to everyone that _iews their profile. If we did, we'd have absolutely no time to do anything else....like send those "fancy a fuck" messages everyone loves so much.

In all seriousness, you can change your settings so that you don't appear on anyone's "Looked At Me" list if you are THAT worried about advances from men. And/or set your messages filters.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and/or block single guys from contacting you and you do the search and initial contact

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Huh? Why is this limited to site supporters? Not all men who support the site send mail to everyone that _iews their profile. If we did, we'd have absolutely no time to do anything else....like send those "fancy a fuck" messages everyone loves so much.

In all seriousness, you can change your settings so that you don't appear on anyone's "Looked At Me" list if you are THAT worried about advances from men. And/or set your messages filters."

Now then, could you kindly stop stating the bleeding obvious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another have a go at single guys jeeze. Why look in first place you can tell they single when it says man not couple etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shock fucking horror...maybe they liked UR profile???

if EVERY single guy just sat around waiting to get some interest, we'd be getting literally fuck all

its called selling urself!

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I am grateful for people _iewing my profile as I have so many things going against me (married/age etc). I will sometimes send a message to someone if they have _iewed my profile. Often though,(as in the OP's case) I am blocked due to age.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"and/or block single guys from contacting you and you do the search and initial contact"

The OPs say they will meet single men but, sadly, not my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*sorry OP...just had a peek....

theres a bit that says we do like to get mail from verified single mails and a face pic

*my site supporter status runs out soon...expect some mail

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are well aware of filters and know how to use them thsnk you.

You are one of many single guys and you cannot possibly speak on every single males behalf.

The question we are asking is and we agree its not every male supporter why do some feel the need to mail us just because we have _iewed them. Surely common sense would dictate if we _iewed and liked we would get in touch quite easy really

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"We are well aware of filters and know how to use them thsnk you.

You are one of many single guys and you cannot possibly speak on every single males behalf.

Its just to let you know they are interested in you. No harm in that. People don't initiate contact, even after _iewing a profile, for lots of reasons.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"The question we are asking is and we agree its not every male supporter why do some feel the need to mail us just because we have _iewed them. Surely common sense would dictate if we _iewed and liked we would get in touch quite easy really"

If it was that obvious....it wouldn't be an issue surely. Some men have had contact from women, men and/ or couples whose profiles they have _iewed via searches. You think those men are getting upset about the unsolicited mail?

Why can't it also be the other way around? I've messaged a selection of people that _iewed my profile before, and they went on to lead to great meets.

Again, just hide yourself from appearing on the "Looked At me" pages if it is that big a deal. Unless of course you really enjoy the attention, and just want something to moan about. at this point, i can't really tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

politeness and marketing.

when you use some shopping sites you get follow ups, exactly the same thing,

remember communication is king, the time to worry is when you don't get any messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are well aware of filters and know how to use them thsnk you.

You are one of many single guys and you cannot possibly speak on every single males behalf.

no its common sense to realize they are interested and will mail....sorry ur friday rant/moan...is shite IMO

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By *olfgangvwMan
over a year ago

Mansfield

"I am grateful for people _iewing my profile as I have so many things going against me (married/age etc). I will sometimes send a message to someone if they have _iewed my profile. Often though,(as in the OP's case) I am blocked due to age."

Totall ya gree and exactly in the same position

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"We are well aware of filters and know how to use them thsnk you.

You are one of many single guys and you cannot possibly speak on every single males behalf.

Aaah bless: you don't read the forums much do you?!!

I only meet single men and don't go into bashing them...well not in the forums anyway. But some appear to stalk people they message, write to people who've looked at them, do all sorts to highlight how pushy, desperate some of them are.

Par for the course, but easy to ignore really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think i was not clear with what i was asking apologies to all for confusion but it is early....ish.

Its not so much the initial mail. Its more when we reply saying no thanks its then we get the well you looked at my profile first mail its that subsequent one that annoys not the one after _iewing profile. I must learn to think what i am asking..... Anyway nice to chat with you all xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are well aware of filters and know how to use them thsnk you.

You are one of many single guys and you cannot possibly speak on every single males behalf.

no its common sense to realize they are interested and will mail....sorry ur friday rant/moan...is shite IMO"
aww bless you for your polite response i really like you today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think i was not clear with what i was asking apologies to all for confusion but it is early....ish.

I see uve checked my profile..fancy a fuck?...if not WHY not...

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Think i was not clear with what i was asking apologies to all for confusion but it is early....ish.

Okay fair enough, but happens across all groups on here. Anyway, best to maybe block all men from messaging you both for now, then actively seek out the ones that take your fancy and initiate communication with them instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh dear another single guy who thinks hes a smart ass with sarky quips. The obvious answer is maybe your shite and we never liked your arrogant attitude... Simple really. But if you require clearer clarification msil us privately and we can discuss in more detail

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Or just use the incognito function so that you can look at anyones profile and they won't know, therefore stopping all messages saying "you looked at my profile, want to fuck?"

But then I guess you'd have nothing to moan about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering if any others feel uncomfortable _iewing single guys profiles who are site supporters?

We tend not to _iew these profiles because it tends to lead to unwanted mails from them just becausr we _iewed their profile.

If we liked what we saw we would get in touch. But get some remarks telling us we viwed their profile."

Two issues here: 1. You need to go in Privacy and hide yourselves being seen looking at profiles. It's a bit like Dorothy at the end of Wizard of Oz and the ruby slippers - you had it all de time honey!!!

2. Why does a single guy mentioning that you _iewed him (which you DID) affect you so much? Are you offended that - shock! Horror! - a single guy might have 'designs' on your missus by any chance???

This is Swinging. If you find something as basic as that hard to handle, it's time to look in the mirror.....

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear another single guy who thinks hes a smart ass with sarky quips. The obvious answer is maybe your shite and we never liked your arrogant attitude... Simple really. But if you require clearer clarification msil us privately and we can discuss in more detail"

reference to me?...erm..pointless, arrogant?, I believe I made light of the initially poorly worded OP...

absolutely no need to take things further..

cheers

wee smartass

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

If you use the "reply and quote" button we can all see who you're insulting

I agree with what everyone's said, if you're aware of how to stealth perve then do it - it'll knock those pesky single guys mailing you on the head and you can mail who takes your fancy

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