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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy !

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have had some nasty messages off guys for meeting others, as if I had to ask permission or something!

I have made it clear that I am not looking for a regular play partner. It doesn't stop some men from trying to dictate what they expect me to behave like, but that's their problem.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like women who like sex and I find it an attractive trait that the women I have sex with also have sex with other guys. Makes them more attractive to me

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By *ornieandhotCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Sadly it happens even when you are part of a couple

D x

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Makes you wonder why on earth these particular guys are on here in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just ignore the idiots. tell them to grow up and bugger off to sunday school if they want to be moralistic mother fxxxxx's. it's your life, live it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

Nope! No problems here!

Guess some guys want their cake and to eat it too!

ooh - cake!

Yum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's blocked you for meeting someone else then to me that's him doing you a favour! I mix up one offs and regular meets, but anyone trying to stake a claim gets ditched...not what I'm here for

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

"A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

You should feel flattered hun, cos if he blocked you it must mean you mean something to him, and he doesn't want to share!

My regular chappie, always comments if I meet someone else and admits to being a bit possessive but I actually find that really cute cos he is such a lovely guy .

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like the term "semi-regular". There's nothing worse for me than someone pushy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

some folk think you should only meet them,best to let that type slip away,no room for that type of attitude when swinging it should be reserved for more private relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I hid my verifications got grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the term "semi-regular". There's nothing worse for me than someone pushy."

you can have regular playmates,as long as they understand the score!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call that twatiness and I cant stand it from any group on fab

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"That's why I hid my verifications got grief "

You see this is actually why I don't hide my veris. I wouldn't want to meet with someone who has a problem with whoever else I meet anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why I hid my verifications got grief

You see this is actually why I don't hide my veris. I wouldn't want to meet with someone who has a problem with whoever else I meet anyway

Plus when I post new veri's my FB usually gets keen to pay a visit as he likes me being a bit of a slut!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

Cheeky sod. Better off without him. I see someone regular. He sees others. I see others. Never been a problem for the last two years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies I feel relieved really as he was too possessive and now I feel free to do as I please

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the possessive ones are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies I feel relieved really as he was too possessive and now I feel free to do as I please

er shouldnt u have always???????

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Thanks for the replies I feel relieved really as he was too possessive and now I feel free to do as I please

That's how it should be.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It is sad but people don't stop being people just because they joined here and possessive odd people who would cheat on their OH (if they had one) don't stop being possessive odd people because they signed up here.

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By *ree8iveMan
over a year ago

CORNWALL

From a guys point, I've got one FB who is a fantastic lady, and she just got under my skin in a way I hadn't expected or experienced before. If I saw her post a veri from a meet or say she had had a very naughty weekend, I'd get a touch o. green eyed monster! It took some time to sort out in my head, but its fine now. I told her and she thought it was quite sweet, lol. We are still good buddies now, thank goodness!

Maybe the only way this guy could cope was to 'walk away'. Perhaps you were the one that snuck under his defences!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From a guys point, I've got one FB who is a fantastic lady, and she just got under my skin in a way I hadn't expected or experienced before. If I saw her post a veri from a meet or say she had had a very naughty weekend, I'd get a touch o. green eyed monster! It took some time to sort out in my head, but its fine now. I told her and she thought it was quite sweet, lol. We are still good buddies now, thank goodness!

Maybe the only way this guy could cope was to 'walk away'. Perhaps you were the one that snuck under his defences! "

I hope that's not the case as Id hate to hurt anyone on here. The people I meet always know im only here for fun not a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the profiles especially with

"only meet with my fuckbuddy" or "fuckbuddy has the final say who I meet"

and theyve been on the site a few weeks or months..

then profile delete

then back again..

repeat the cycle untill u get bored and see the same fucking moany profiles..and apparently swinging experts

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

As I said I like the fact that my regular chap is a bit possessive, it shows me he thinks i'm worth hanging on to. However , I have blocked a guy I went to a club with recently as after just one meet he started checking up on what I was doing and became a right royal pain in the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies I feel relieved really as he was too possessive and now I feel free to do as I please

Feel free to do me!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies I feel relieved really as he was too possessive and now I feel free to do as I please

Feel free to do me!!!"

Haha maybe I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies I feel relieved really as he was too possessive and now I feel free to do as I please

Feel free to do me!!!

Haha maybe I will

This sounds promising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a very special lady on here weekly and think the world of her... I'm the opposite of the OP situation as I enjoy the prospect of her meeting other guys and particularly hearing about her adventures and conquests as she does with me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely wants his cake and eat it too...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

Think the sex is better with a guy meeting regularly but I have had the same experience twice now. Don't like the the one-off thing! It's often too cold! A few years ago, I kept a regular for a year...with no issues, if he was busy a couple of weeks...well I might meet someone. And vice versa. Keep the faith a decent FB will cum' (pardon the pun!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why I hid my verifications got grief

You see this is actually why I don't hide my veris. I wouldn't want to meet with someone who has a problem with whoever else I meet anyway

Ah but the other end of the scale I can get grief because of who I have met that is sod all to do with Joe Bloggs!

A no win situation.

OP though one thing don't let it bother you and your status is a bit daft considering.

Move on - plenty more on here.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Dont get Jealous of my wife, so no way i'm ever getting jealous if somebody I play with is meeting others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think the sex is better with a guy meeting regularly but I have had the same experience twice now. Don't like the the one-off thing! It's often too cold! A few years ago, I kept a regular for a year...with no issues, if he was busy a couple of weeks...well I might meet someone. And vice versa. Keep the faith a decent FB will cum' (pardon the pun!)

I too think the sex is better with a regular guy. Oh well back to the drawing board

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

I also have a couples profile, we both have independent meets, I think it's called swinging or something like that?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It sounds as though it's a weight off your shoulders. If he was this possessive already, then heaven knows what he would be like in a few years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

I also have a couples profile, we both have independent meets, I think it's called swinging or something like that?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

With a figure like yours. Either would do me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A regular guy has blocked me for meeting someone else.

The irony is he meets others. Do other people have problems with regular meets? Is it better to have one offs?

With a figure like yours. Either would do me

Aww thank you thats very kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex involves emotion for most people so you can expect feelings, including jealousy and possessiveness. pretty normal in the human species.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

it does happen ive been dropped from friends list for simalar reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's done you a favour really its saved you from an argument and left you free to do what you want

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"its the profiles especially with

"only meet with my fuckbuddy" or "fuckbuddy has the final say who I meet"

and theyve been on the site a few weeks or months..

then profile delete

then back again..

repeat the cycle untill u get bored and see the same fucking moany profiles..and apparently swinging experts"

100% this

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