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When did 42 become old?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its their choice. But no, 42 isn't old. Apparently you have to be 53 to be classed as middle aged now!

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

There is little known breed of woman. She goes by the name of cougar. Apparently they like younger men... Doubt it will catch on though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you too old for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why? "

same reason as you don't want to meet anyone under 25 and over 50 I guess?

just out of interest why is it ok for you to not want to meet people depending on age but not them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42 became old the day after 41 was replaced by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why?

same reason as you don't want to meet anyone under 25 and over 50 I guess?

just out of interest why is it ok for you to not want to meet people depending on age but not them? "

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Well we all seek different ages/types and wouldn't it be boring if we all wanted the same thing

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By *cecream101Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Is age really a problem ,in a club if you saw a female or a male that was sexy as hell would you really ask there age ???

It's a guide for us if there over who will no lol and if people lie saying there single but have a wife what's wrong with you saying your 38 lol

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Announced last week, didn't you get an invite to the meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait until 53 dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why? "

Yeah you're old

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

That's me middle aged then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old?

Christ there is no hope!!

Saying that, seen people in their 20's on here that look middle aged...so it isn't all bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42 is old? Oh shit. That's me done for then...]

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42 has always been old, or middle aged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I didn't when was it? I seem to miss all the announcement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because its their choice. But no, 42 isn't old. Apparently you have to be 53 to be classed as middle aged now!"
thanks for sharing that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't want to lie about my age. I mig look younger than than I'm but I'm at the end of the day 42

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"No I didn't when was it? I seem to miss all the announcement! "

It was next to those ads which sell stay press trousers for a £10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't want to lie about my age. I mig look younger than than I'm but I'm at the end of the day 42"

You probably do to an eighty year old.

No point in lying about your age as another member found out in a thread he started here in the forum. Poor guy was told point blank he looked older than his real age let alone what he stated .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh ok.. That's why. I'm still waiting for mine to arrive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 seems to be a major cut off point for many not 40 on alot of profiles!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"35 seems to be a major cut off point for many not 40 on alot of profiles!!"

Ahhh here, dont be saying that, I though it was 45

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Because its their choice. But no, 42 isn't old. Apparently you have to be 53 to be classed as middle aged now!"

Hey, I'm 51 and I've not had a midlife crisis yet. I want my money back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have varied criterias set on our profiles and age being one of them...

Get yourself to some clubs & houseparties as this put yourself in the shop window... If you do look younger than 42 you will be in for a surprise or two if you conduct yourself appropriately....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the old farts club LOL.


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in the same boat but we KNOW we are in better shape than most younger people we come across in clubs.

Jurassic Park!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our cut off is also 40, any guy younger than that is definitely not for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't it the day before your 42nd birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why? "

maybe you should try reading profiles?

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Your only as old as you feel age is just a number, as all who put age limits on will find out in time when they grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My reg playmate is 57 his not too old lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why? "

Do you need another tissue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because its their choice. But no, 42 isn't old. Apparently you have to be 53 to be classed as middle aged now!"

Oh bugger!Does that mean I now have to go all beige,have a perm and watch anything involving Angela Rippon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because its their choice. But no, 42 isn't old. Apparently you have to be 53 to be classed as middle aged now!

Oh bugger!Does that mean I now have to go all beige,have a perm and watch anything involving Angela Rippon?"

You forgot wearing incontinence pants and taking Phylisan along with your horlick and large sheepskin slipper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because its their choice. But no, 42 isn't old. Apparently you have to be 53 to be classed as middle aged now!

Oh bugger!Does that mean I now have to go all beige,have a perm and watch anything involving Angela Rippon?

Not to mention the shuffle and the downturned mouth!

You forgot wearing incontinence pants and taking Phylisan along with your horlick and large sheepskin slipper. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why? "

because they're not interested in meeting guys over 40 I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No men over 45 winds me up....I'm 46....how can I tell them I'm 26 in my head tho.....grrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No men over 45 winds me up....I'm 46....how can I tell them I'm 26 in my head tho.....grrrrr"
esp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No men over 45 winds me up....I'm 46....how can I tell them I'm 26 in my head tho.....grrrrr"

Have you tried cutting it off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many a fine tune played on an old fiddle!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"many a fine tune played on an old fiddle!! "

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"No men over 45 winds me up....I'm 46....how can I tell them I'm 26 in my head tho.....grrrrresp"

Tea hasn't had a single message since he turned 46 last month lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No men over 45 winds me up....I'm 46....how can I tell them I'm 26 in my head tho.....grrrrresp

Tea hasn't had a single message since he turned 46 last month lol!!"
it can only get better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"many a fine tune played on an old fiddle!! "

Shall I jump on the train to Hull with me fiddle then..????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope 42 aint old otherwise i best get some fun in whilst im young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope 42 aint old otherwise i best get some fun in whilst im young "
its not old its young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No men over 45 winds me up....I'm 46....how can I tell them I'm 26 in my head tho.....grrrrr"

I have my preference at 45 but i dont block anyone out of that and its not set in stone....just as a marker for around my own age few years younger few older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No men over 45 winds me up....I'm 46....how can I tell them I'm 26 in my head tho.....grrrrr

I have my preference at 45 but i dont block anyone out of that and its not set in stone....just as a marker for around my own age few years younger few older.

"

Wish there was more like you then

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Because its their choice. But no, 42 isn't old. Apparently you have to be 53 to be classed as middle aged now!"

53, Jesus I still have time to live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha wait till you get to 60 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No men over 45 winds me up....I'm 46....how can I tell them I'm 26 in my head tho.....grrrrr

I have my preference at 45 but i dont block anyone out of that and its not set in stone....just as a marker for around my own age few years younger few older.

"

Sorry but nobody over your set limit of 45 can PM you. The site won't allow it as its blocks people over your set limit.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

For us it is simple.. I am 47 so MrsH likes a younger guy, as she says she has one oldy at home so why go out and meet another. Having said that if we are in a club and see a guy she fancies it does not matter how old he is if there is an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after 42 they will need dedicated wheel chair and zimmer frame access so its a matter of practicality mate - sorry.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why? "

Pity you're not closer. You're just my cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after 42 they will need dedicated wheel chair and zimmer frame access so its a matter of practicality mate - sorry. "

How very rude!!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sympathise dude but its the rules of the site im sure you will be ok

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Since 42 is the meaning of life, it is ironic that it is also considered past it by a few.

Retires to the Restaurant at the end of the Universe.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Because its their choice. But no, 42 isn't old. Apparently you have to be 53 to be classed as middle aged now!"

Oh no!!!!!!! Does that mean I need to hang up my basques and don the curlers, baffies and housecoat????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because its their choice. But no, 42 isn't old. Apparently you have to be 53 to be classed as middle aged now!"

oh goody that makes a young guy then as im not middle aged yet hee hee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since 42 is the meaning of life, it is ironic that it is also considered past it by a few.

Retires to the Restaurant at the end of the Universe. "

I hope they have a swingers section at the resturant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't want to lie about my age. I mig look younger than than I'm but I'm at the end of the day 42"

You look good to me & I agree you don't look 42. It's a sign of how the world is changing, middle age & old age are starting later & later now which makes the old stereotypes no longer fit. I don't think I look or feel my age but hayho.

If they block your messages due to the age range then think of it as their loss & the gain of women over 40!

Jacqui

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why?

Do you need another tissue?"

Another helpful reply

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

This site continues to amuse me: the sense of entitlement is so ugly! It's ok for people to have preferences yet they become apoplectic when others have theirs if it excludes them!

Get over yourselves! Not everyone wants to be pawed by the oldest swingers in town.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Personal preference i guess? I personally would feel a bit weirded out by having sex with someone the same age as my parents .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal preference i guess? I personally would feel a bit weirded out by having sex with someone the same age as my parents ."

Ditto with people the age of my adult children

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why? "

It's probably more to cut down on the amount of mail they receive in here.

If you were to attend a social, your age is possibly one of the last questions an interested woman is likely to ask.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why?

Do you need another tissue?

Another helpful reply "

It is what i do. Why, are you getting butthurt on his behalf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your only as old as you feel age is just a number, as all who put age limits on will find out in time when they grow up."

big physical difference between a 21 yr old and a 55 yr old say...

yh thats why i have age limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I should count my blessings. Thank heaven that there are folk who appreciate coffin-dodgers.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Well, I should count my blessings. Thank heaven that there are folk who appreciate coffin-dodgers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I should count my blessings. Thank heaven that there are folk who appreciate coffin-dodgers. "
63 an wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your only as old as you feel age is just a number, as all who put age limits on will find out in time when they grow up."

Oh I missed this post... Shall I rip it to shreds for it's patronisation?

I must be one of thousands with an age range, and apparently we're all immature. I must be immature because I won't meet smokers or attached men.

I think Roget needs to make an entry adjustment in his theasaurus: another word for preference is immaturity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No men over 45 winds me up....I'm 46....how can I tell them I'm 26 in my head tho.....grrrrr

I have my preference at 45 but i dont block anyone out of that and its not set in stone....just as a marker for around my own age few years younger few older.

How come i get mail off older then?

Sorry but nobody over your set limit of 45 can PM you. The site won't allow it as its blocks people over your set limit. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't want to lie about my age. I mig look younger than than I'm but I'm at the end of the day 42"

The answer to the question of life, the universe and everything in it is 42. Be content with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after 42 they will need dedicated wheel chair and zimmer frame access so its a matter of practicality mate - sorry.

How very rude!!xx"

I was joking. Check my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site continues to amuse me: the sense of entitlement is so ugly! It's ok for people to have preferences yet they become apoplectic when others have theirs if it excludes them!

Get over yourselves! Not everyone wants to be pawed by the oldest swingers in town. "

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

We won't see a 42 year old either ... doesn't mean we won't be friends with, or chat to a 42 year old at a club but we'd not go looking for one.... it's outside of our age prefs ... and you know what? That's absolutely fine. Some people won't fuck a 17 year old ... it's personal choice Doesn't mean everyone's the same. Just means some people have comfortable levels for what they'll do.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I get blocked from mailing ladies my age because they put their limit to 40.. Why? "

Because that is their age limit!

Thought that was obvious!

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