FabSwingers.com forum: Incomprehensible mindset

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A person wants to meet but will not send a clear face pic. Ermmm shall we just have red carnations in our lapels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fishy so move on and say thanks but no thanks if they can't or wont exchange face pic's. There are enough fakers on here you don't need to arrange to meet any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A person wants to meet but will not send a clear face pic. Ermmm shall we just have red carnations in our lapels?

tell him to bugger off its not blind date

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know block and move on... I had to share because I can see the funny side.

Cilla, where are you chuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have a pair of couples that want to hook up but wont send face pics.

body pics yes, but face, not a chance.

and havent even stated its because of their profession, as i know one of the couples hubby does the same job as me, so not like its career threatening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had that a few times along with the lines if you don't like what you see just walk away ....um yes a single woman is going to meet someone she knows nothing about no pic nothing lol some men don't think mind you I've asked a few if it works they all say yes....yeah right as if

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have a pair of couples that want to hook up but wont send face pics.

body pics yes, but face, not a chance.

and havent even stated its because of their profession, as i know one of the couples hubby does the same job as me, so not like its career threatening."

I dont buy into the career stuff.

Most if not all of us are on here 'secretly'. If you bump into some you know then if there is embarrassment it is mutual. It is not as if the other party can run around telling everyone as they would give the game away themselves

There is the need to be cautious, but some people are just paranoid

Plus I hate it when you do go for such meets and sadly the face isnt what you expect!

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

how the hell are you s'posed to recognise him in a crowded pub? If he turns up. The only people i worry about seeing me are my kids, i don'tworry about anyone else after all, if they are on here then we share a hobby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have a pair of couples that want to hook up but wont send face pics.

body pics yes, but face, not a chance.

and havent even stated its because of their profession, as i know one of the couples hubby does the same job as me, so not like its career threatening.

I dont buy into the career stuff.

There is the need to be cautious, but some people are just paranoid

Plus I hate it when you do go for such meets and sadly the face isnt what you expect!"

+1 and what makes them think their career is any more important than yours. hypocritical if you ask me. We all take a certain amount of chances being on here and meeting people we don't really know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have a pair of couples that want to hook up but wont send face pics.

body pics yes, but face, not a chance.

and havent even stated its because of their profession, as i know one of the couples hubby does the same job as me, so not like its career threatening.

I dont buy into the career stuff.

There is the need to be cautious, but some people are just paranoid

Plus I hate it when you do go for such meets and sadly the face isnt what you expect!"

agreed.

not only that, but if they are famous or in the public eye they feel the need to hide.

well i dont live the celebrity led lifestyle.

couldnt care what people are doing or to whom, so if, for instance, jordon/paris/beckham/henry kelly/kathy burke or whoever, approached us for a meet, we generally wouldnt recognise them as famous anyway.

shit, missus desnt even watch the news or read papers lol

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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+1 and what makes them think their career is any more important than yours. hypocritical if you ask me. We all take a certain amount of chances being on here and meeting people we don't really know."

It's not about whose career is more important. We each make choices about and for ourselves and if those choices don't suit others, they don't have to meet/ play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"+1 and what makes them think their career is any more important than yours. hypocritical if you ask me. We all take a certain amount of chances being on here and meeting people we don't really know."

Maybe the sort of people with jobs that might lead them losing their job or being plastered all over the local rag if they were found on a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"+1 and what makes them think their career is any more important than yours. hypocritical if you ask me. We all take a certain amount of chances being on here and meeting people we don't really know.

Maybe the sort of people with jobs that might lead them losing their job or being plastered all over the local rag if they were found on a sex site."

I anticipate the majority are paranoid. perhaps a very small % may be famous or in the public eye but sadly such roles do mean you lose your privacy. I dont necessarily agree with it but thats what happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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+1 and what makes them think their career is any more important than yours. hypocritical if you ask me. We all take a certain amount of chances being on here and meeting people we don't really know.

It's not about whose career is more important. We each make choices about and for ourselves and if those choices don't suit others, they don't have to meet/ play."

Ok on that basis I'll print a cock pic and go around the pub and ask all men to drop their trousers so I can ID them... Hahaha I can picture it now.

Then when he says "cupcake it's me", I'll say "but your cock looks younger in the pic

, goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"+1 and what makes them think their career is any more important than yours. hypocritical if you ask me. We all take a certain amount of chances being on here and meeting people we don't really know.

Maybe the sort of people with jobs that might lead them losing their job or being plastered all over the local rag if they were found on a sex site."

Exactly. Remember the teacher who got fired and banned when pics of him moonlighting as a stripper got shown. Some people would suffer way more severe career-consequences than others so have to be careful.

Having said that, if you're gonna meet someone then refusing to show face pics is a bit daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I teach, but will happily send a face pic as long as its not naked I can not see a problem

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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I dont buy into the career stuff.

I do and I understand why people are concerned. It was not too long ago that a local woman lost her job as a primary school teacher for taking part in "wife swapping orgies".

All you need to do to cause a lot of damage would be to make the accusation to the media without outing yourself. The media and righteous hysteria will do the rest.

Anyone working with kids risks losing their job because swingers are an unprotected target. A bit like gays used to be when coming out in some jobs meant resigning. Until it becones accepted and tolerated I will stay in the swinging closet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I teach, but will happily send a face pic as long as its not naked I can not see a problem"

We send them to people we are chatting to/ interested in. But I am still careful... if it was one of the parents I'd never be able to look them in the eye again haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont buy into the career stuff.

I do and I understand why people are concerned. It was not too long ago that a local woman lost her job as a primary school teacher for taking part in "wife swapping orgies".

All you need to do to cause a lot of damage would be to make the accusation to the media without outing yourself. The media and righteous hysteria will do the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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+1 and what makes them think their career is any more important than yours. hypocritical if you ask me. We all take a certain amount of chances being on here and meeting people we don't really know.

It's not about whose career is more important. We each make choices about and for ourselves and if those choices don't suit others, they don't have to meet/ play."

isn't it? Yyou haven't read some of the profiles on here who state just that then as in we won't show our faces due to our jobs or career etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I teach, but will happily send a face pic as long as its not naked I can not see a problem"

Apart from the fabswingers.com watermark.

But yes keep your clothes on and your misdemeanours private!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I teach, but will happily send a face pic as long as its not naked I can not see a problem

Apart from the fabswingers.com watermark.

But yes keep your clothes on and your misdemeanours private!"

You could reasonably argue that anyone could have submitted your pic, stolen from Facebook, to Fab and that's how the watermark appeared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I teach, but will happily send a face pic as long as its not naked I can not see a problem

Apart from the fabswingers.com watermark.

But yes keep your clothes on and your misdemeanours private!

You could reasonably argue that anyone could have submitted your pic, stolen from Facebook, to Fab and that's how the watermark appeared."

I doubt 'reasonable arguments' would count for a great deal. If most people were reasonable it wouldn't ever be a concern.

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