FabSwingers.com forum: Attached men REALLY get on my tits!

By *ubberdollie OP Woman
over a year ago

Stoke

This has probably been on here a hundred times , but...

It really makes me mad when married or otherwise attached men mail me. It clearly says on my profile ' No attached men'. They always say ' I am married , wife doesn't know but i'm being honest with you,. But what about her in doors? Surely she deserves the honesty????? Grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See the thread below

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Can't see you're problem. You're allowing them to wind you up, where I, delete, block without hesitation.

Result, my blood pressure remains stable.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Completely agree ... and its usually .. 'yes i'm married and no she doesn't know, but its got nothing to do with this and meeting you' ... god they need to get a grip..

And then we are in the wrong for refusing to meet them for that reason...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do they get there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see you're problem. You're allowing them to wind you up, where I, delete, block without hesitation.

Result, my blood pressure remains stable."

Exactly

Being angry about someone else's behaviour is pointless and a wasted emotion. Delete, block and then move on. The worst that happens is they message you again via another account, delete block and move on. Repeat and rinse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are just chancing their arm,like no single guys and yet they still send messages!!! People dont want to read the full profile,and even then if they do and they are excluded they still send it in the hope they will get a shag!!

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Wow ... a man bashing thread, never seen one of these here before.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It isn't confined to married men, lots of our mails are "trying their hand" and don't match what we ask for.

It is not going to stop as thats what some people do so we accept it and just say no ta

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Having said that, yes, i imagine having to read the same thing over and over again must get quite tiresome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has probably been on here a hundred times , but...

Once upon a time, many moons ago (do you like stories?

), I put on my X-site profile "Single men only". I soon had to learn to elaborate cos men thought they could get around it with having no marriage certificate. Soooo that meant single men included those with partners or girlfriends

If my profile is read, those men are now under no illusions: "NOOOOOOO to men in any type of (sexual and/or marital) relationship. I really really really really don't care about the state of your marriage. It's a shame some of you miss the sarcasm in the "and/or".

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Wow ... a man bashing thread, never seen one of these here before.

Poor men always get it in the neck....and yet the mails from couples and females that we have had obviously don't read our profile ( when it was full )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow ... a man bashing thread, never seen one of these here before.

Its definitely long over due

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't he title actually read married men won't get on my tits?

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By *ubberdollie OP Woman
over a year ago

Stoke

"Wow ... a man bashing thread, never seen one of these here before.

God you are a wally. I have told you before I DON'T bash single men! I was talking about those who are not single, perhaps you need help reading?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't he title actually read married men won't get on my tits?"

Or want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are always going to get chancers, that is the nature of life Im afriad ....try not to let it wind you up

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"Wow ... a man bashing thread, never seen one of these here before.

God you are a wally. I have told you before I DON'T bash single men! I was talking about those who are not single, perhaps you need help reading?"

I don't recall ever owning a red and white striped jumper, hat or scarf so I've no idea what your talking about - and I certainly don't recall ever having entered into a conversation with you before. You must be mistaking me for another wally.

Having said that, it strikes me that if you've been over this before then you must be posting it again - so surely you're the one repeating yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow ... a man bashing thread, never seen one of these here before.

God you are a wally. I have told you before I DON'T bash single men! I was talking about those who are not single, perhaps you need help reading?

Having said that, it strikes me that if you've been over this before then you must be posting it again - so surely you're the one repeating yourself."

If the BBC - the TV (television)station - didn't have repeats, our TV (television) licence subscription would increase.

If the forum didn't have repeats then the forum would be empty and we wouldn't get to read about the BBC (big black cocks) and TVs (transvestites).

Hey I thought it was amusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't he title actually read married men won't get on my tits?"

That seems to be the source of the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a shame that some (men or women) dont put as much effort into finding whats wrong with their partners as to why they dont give them what they need/want, than they do finding extra marital sex with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow ... a man bashing thread, never seen one of these here before.

It's clearly not bashing all men. Just cheating men.

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

lets not forget there are plenty of women on here who are cheating aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawntastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has probably been on here a hundred times , but...

Hi, hope you've chilled out a little bit now

What if that said married man had permission to play from his wife?

Is he chancing his arm or is he being honest & seeing if you would still be interested?

Lets face it, he's not cheating, no hearts gonna be broken.

Just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't confined to married men, lots of our mails are "trying their hand" and don't match what we ask for.

It is not going to stop as thats what some people do so we accept it and just say no ta

im guessing as the op only meets men that the op cant comment on fem and couples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops quotedcwrong post

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"It isn't confined to married men, lots of our mails are "trying their hand" and don't match what we ask for.

It is not going to stop as thats what some people do so we accept it and just say no ta

im guessing as the op only meets men that the op cant comment on fem and couples..."

We only meet men

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"This has probably been on here a hundred times , but...

My profile says the same but I still get messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has probably been on here a hundred times , but...

Moaning women get on mine :D

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By *ubberdollie OP Woman
over a year ago

Stoke

Call it moaning if you like but I would say I was just expressing my opinion, after all that is what the forums are for eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has the guy in question broken any site rules?

If he has then report him to Admin and they will deal with it

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By *outhernchappieMan
over a year ago

brighton

So glad this has been brought up- my in box is full of women with flip side of the coin- the queue is huge and my in box is full- I also have to delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and lookin to meet other women alone but my wife knows all about it as its part of her fetish where she likes me being with other women and I hope that show through in the verifications we have paired up with the description on our profile but if anybody did ever be not sure then my wife would be happy to talk to them on the phone to confirm anyway

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I am married and lookin to meet other women alone but my wife knows all about it as its part of her fetish where she likes me being with other women and I hope that show through in the verifications we have paired up with the description on our profile but if anybody did ever be not sure then my wife would be happy to talk to them on the phone to confirm anyway"

I don't think this thread is about you!

There is married and playing away, and then married and playing with permission, there is a big difference, I will play with someone with permission but not a cheat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has the guy in question broken any site rules?

If he has then report him to Admin and they will deal with it

Don't think I have ..... But thank you anyway for the input . Its a forum the op was expressing her opinion and I expressed mine . This subject has been flogged to death over and over again on the forums it gets boring .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP says she is looking for "romance" and "social" side so any married or attached man reading that should realise NSA sex is not her prime objective.

Please guys, read the bloody profile and do not waste these women's time.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Can't see you're problem. You're allowing them to wind you up, where I, delete, block without hesitation.

Result, my blood pressure remains stable."

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"It isn't confined to married men, lots of our mails are "trying their hand" and don't match what we ask for.

It is not going to stop as thats what some people do so we accept it and just say no ta

im guessing as the op only meets men that the op cant comment on fem and couples..."

Well someone should! Don't you just hate attached couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having said that, yes, i imagine having to read the same thing over and over again must get quite tiresome."

Exactly and yes it is. Often they dont mention it in the actual message and then you read the profile or vice versa. It is very annoying. The simple answer to all those cheating people on here is, if it states on a profile that you won't meet attached people, then dont bother messaging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has the guy in question broken any site rules?

If he has then report him to Admin and they will deal with it

Unless you are the married guy in question we are at cross purposes here as my question was aimed at the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has the guy in question broken any site rules?

If he has then report him to Admin and they will deal with it

Unless you are the married guy in question we are at cross purposes here as my question was aimed at the OP

No not the person in question but if I am married I wouldn't waste my time messaging the op as her profile clearly states no married/attached men . Thanks again for trying to get be blocked

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By *ubberdollie OP Woman
over a year ago

Stoke

"Has the guy in question broken any site rules?

If he has then report him to Admin and they will deal with it

The thread may have been brought up before but as I have only been on here a couple months I have not seen it. And if it bores you, why are you even reading it?

I enjoy participating in the forums, and find couples and single women are always polite, interesting and funny. But it seems to me there are a few single guys, who, no matter what the thread is about, feel the need to say something unpleasant.

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By *playCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We decided not to reject attached people who are honest with us. If one can hide it from his wife he can easily hide it from us. So we would feel bad to reject people who are honest with us but to let the complete cheaters do it anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thread may have been brought up before but as I have only been on here a couple months I have not seen it."

I found the option (top left) to search for a topic quite handy.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Ignore/delete...move on..

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

OP, type cheat into the search box and you'll find loads (well 35 threads)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am certain a lot of couples and women have met married men without knowing it but still put no married men on profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its different if you dont know they are attached. There has to be some element of trust in this world.

If you dont know they are cheating then you have no involvement into their desciet.. but if you know then you have willing involved yourself and ok'd the cheating.

People will lie about alot of things on here... would be impossible to protect yourself from every unknown lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has probably been on here a hundred times , but...

Awwwww wee lamb. Life must be hard...

(Not married incidentally! Just HATE pathetic whining)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has probably been on here a hundred times , but...

I promise you won't get a message from me..

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has probably been on here a hundred times , but...

Awwwww wee lamb. Life must be hard...

(Not married incidentally! Just HATE pathetic whining)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has the guy in question broken any site rules?

If he has then report him to Admin and they will deal with it

Nothing rude intended but out there in the big wide world there are lots of plain speaking folk who simply say it like it is.

If honesty presented in that manner is likely to offend its probably best to not ask in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you...you go Girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has probably been on here a hundred times , but...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% single, 100% horny xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% single, 100% horny xx

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