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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been seriously thinking about letting a guy fuck me. I am bi curious but terrified of how it might make me feel. Can anyone tell me what it's really like to have a real cock up your arse I've had vibes etc is it better? I can't stop thinking about it.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

One way to find out

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Is it the physical or psychological feelings you are worried about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it the physical or psychological feelings you are worried about? "

It's the psychological feelings I'm very worried about what shall I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What shall you do in what aspect?

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By *cotslad007Man
over a year ago

armadale

I tried it once, and to be honest it hurt. I dont think it was due to the guy being to big or lack of lube. I just couldnt relax enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seriously thinking about letting a guy fuck me. I am bi curious but terrified of how it might make me feel. Can anyone tell me what it's really like to have a real cock up your arse I've had vibes etc is it better? I can't stop thinking about it. "

Go for it first time is very strange then you will go back for more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What shall you do in what aspect?"

Well I really want to try it as I love the thought of it and I find cock attractive but once It's done I can't ever change it and worried it might affect my head I.e regret

I also want to know if a real cock is much different to having a dildo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seriously thinking about letting a guy fuck me. I am bi curious but terrified of how it might make me feel. Can anyone tell me what it's really like to have a real cock up your arse I've had vibes etc is it better? I can't stop thinking about it. "

You might have a better choice in the "brother" site, called fabguys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need more foreplay perhaps? A nice relaxing warm oil massage leading up to it ought to do the trick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your curious. You just need to feed that curiosity. Just take it easy. Go with the flow with whoever you meet. Its your body at the end of the day..so just ensure your limits are respected.

Good luck mate. You only live once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What shall you do in what aspect?

Well I really want to try it as I love the thought of it and I find cock attractive but once It's done I can't ever change it and worried it might affect my head I.e regret

I also want to know if a real cock is much different to having a dildo "

Life is too short for regrets, if you have tried things with blokes before then why not.

Just talk it through and might be easier with a MF bi bloke couple as not so intimating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seriously thinking about letting a guy fuck me. I am bi curious but terrified of how it might make me feel. Can anyone tell me what it's really like to have a real cock up your arse I've had vibes etc is it better? I can't stop thinking about it.

You might have a better choice in the "brother" site, called fabguys..."

Why? He might want to do a mmf and also plenty of bi guys on here willing to help novices!

More people on here too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having also played with toys and vibes and strap-ons, I think I'd like to feel the real thing twitch and throb inside, especially at that moment just before when you stiffen extra hard and swell a bit more. Just seems like I'm missing out on something..

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A MMF would be perfect I would feel so much more at ease if a woman was looking into my eyes and talking to me maybe kissing me and turning me on etc whilst the guy was up my arse.

I'd love this to happen but it seems impossible to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What shall you do in what aspect?

Well I really want to try it as I love the thought of it and I find cock attractive but once It's done I can't ever change it and worried it might affect my head I.e regret

I also want to know if a real cock is much different to having a dildo "

It'll mess with your head only if your not mentally prepared. Having a cock is different in the sense that the experience is shared by another person.. Body heat, heavy breathing, & two bodies moving together is something a dildo just can't give. I guess you have to decide which it is that intrigues you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just need to know what it's like and what it's feels like to feel a cock inside my arse feel what it's like to push back as a guy cums. It really turns me on but I know once I've cum I might regret it though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just need to know what it's like and what it's feels like to feel a cock inside my arse feel what it's like to push back as a guy cums. It really turns me on but I know once I've cum I might regret it though! "

Why do you think you'd regret it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just need to know what it's like and what it's feels like to feel a cock inside my arse feel what it's like to push back as a guy cums. It really turns me on but I know once I've cum I might regret it though!

Why do you think you'd regret it?"

I am not sure if its just because I'm horny and outgoing or because I really do want a guy to fuck me and have sex with men on a regular basis or if I just want a one off I am scared where it will lead

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My biggest problem is finding a couple willing to do it I've tried but noone seems to be up for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find the right couple an they know the situation then there is no problem with it. I recently gave up my bum for a cock, The 1st time I was a little nervous but providing you can relax, use plenty of lube and take it slow you will be fine, it is completely different to having a toy in your ass. If they know it is your 1st time then they will be respectful and not just bang away at you.

Life is to short for regrets & if you try it & deide you don't like it then you have got the curiosity out of the way & don't have to do it again. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you find the right couple an they know the situation then there is no problem with it. I recently gave up my bum for a cock, The 1st time I was a little nervous but providing you can relax, use plenty of lube and take it slow you will be fine, it is completely different to having a toy in your ass. If they know it is your 1st time then they will be respectful and not just bang away at you.

Life is to short for regrets & if you try it & deide you don't like it then you have got the curiosity out of the way & don't have to do it again. xx"

Thanks Lynne that fills me with confidence only thing is you have had cock lots before I presume in pussy mouth etc I've never even touched a cock apart from my own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you find the right couple an they know the situation then there is no problem with it. I recently gave up my bum for a cock, The 1st time I was a little nervous but providing you can relax, use plenty of lube and take it slow you will be fine, it is completely different to having a toy in your ass. If they know it is your 1st time then they will be respectful and not just bang away at you.

Life is to short for regrets & if you try it & deide you don't like it then you have got the curiosity out of the way & don't have to do it again. xx"

Thanks Lynne that fills me with confidence only thing is you have had cock lots before I presume in pussy mouth etc I've never even touched a cock apart from my own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you find the right couple an they know the situation then there is no problem with it. I recently gave up my bum for a cock, The 1st time I was a little nervous but providing you can relax, use plenty of lube and take it slow you will be fine, it is completely different to having a toy in your ass. If they know it is your 1st time then they will be respectful and not just bang away at you.

Life is to short for regrets & if you try it & deide you don't like it then you have got the curiosity out of the way & don't have to do it again. xx"

Thanks Lynne that fills me with confidence only thing is you have had cock lots before I presume in pussy mouth etc I've never even touched a cock apart from my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just need to know what it's like and what it's feels like to feel a cock inside my arse feel what it's like to push back as a guy cums. It really turns me on but I know once I've cum I might regret it though!

Why do you think you'd regret it?

I am not sure if its just because I'm horny and outgoing or because I really do want a guy to fuck me and have sex with men on a regular basis or if I just want a one off I am scared where it will lead "

Maybe you're scared because you already know where it'll lead & you're not ready to accept it.. It can lead to pleasure or stitches (if not done right).

I don't know if this helps but there are things I fantasize about that I wouldn't do because I don't really want to. But they're hot horny thoughts that take me to a very good place

Basically, you're the only person you can't lie to. You must know what you want and what you're ready for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just need to know what it's like and what it's feels like to feel a cock inside my arse feel what it's like to push back as a guy cums. It really turns me on but I know once I've cum I might regret it though!

Why do you think you'd regret it?

I am not sure if its just because I'm horny and outgoing or because I really do want a guy to fuck me and have sex with men on a regular basis or if I just want a one off I am scared where it will lead

Maybe you're scared because you already know where it'll lead & you're not ready to accept it.. It can lead to pleasure or stitches (if not done right).

I don't know if this helps but there are things I fantasize about that I wouldn't do because I don't really want to. But they're hot horny thoughts that take me to a very good place

Basically, you're the only person you can't lie to. You must know what you want and what you're ready for."

I'm ready for a cock that's all I know but I don't know if I will regret it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm ready for a cock that's all I know but I don't know if I will regret it "

Perhaps your also ready for changing your profile from "straight" too?

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

My mantra in life is as follows.

Regret nothing - learn from everything.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best statement I ever read was better to die at least trying something than die regretting not knowing I tried it with the outlook if I didn't like it i'd never do it again,just had my cock sucked at 1st next week I was sucking cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess you'll have to take one step at the time. Once you have found a couple that you can play with in a relaxed way, and get used to the idea and sensation of being pleasured by a man, then - if there's a build up of trust - a next step can be taken. It's all about pleasure. Your imagination is going riot at the moment, and is way ahead of the reality. Allow yourself time. Don't force or push things (pardon the puns). Good luck

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By *adyH and GrissomCouple
over a year ago

Llantarnum

If I've learned one thing it's = don't regret what you've done, you can't change it but regret the things you didn't do because who knows what fun you could of had xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mantra in life is as follows.

Regret nothing - learn from everything.

Xxx"

YESSS

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Stop thinking too much

Get fucked, if you like it fine, if you don't fine

Come to think of it I have never had a go on an XBox before (same situation what do you have to lose?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop thinking too much

Get fucked, if you like it fine, if you don't fine

Come to think of it I have never had a go on an XBox before (same situation what do you have to lose?)"

Wonder if the Kinect has a simulation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A MMF would be perfect I would feel so much more at ease if a woman was looking into my eyes and talking to me maybe kissing me and turning me on etc whilst the guy was up my arse.

I'd love this to happen but it seems impossible to find "

Disagree you won't feel comfortable with a woman there fir your 1st time with a guy....u need 1 on 1 and find a guy u fund attractive and click with, if he will chat to you for few weeks that's a guy worth meeting, chat, meet up, see how u feel, plenty kissing, touching, exploring and only try anal when fully aroused and into it, u will regret it if u don't try it mate, I was in your boat years ago, tryed it, loved it but then met a woman so didn't do again for years, just getting bk into it now, good luck mate, Craig

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Are you worried you're going to wake up the next day and be gay as a row of deckchairs or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seriously thinking about letting a guy fuck me. I am bi curious but terrified of how it might make me feel. Can anyone tell me what it's really like to have a real cock up your arse I've had vibes etc is it better? I can't stop thinking about it. "

please can I watch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it the physical or psychological feelings you are worried about?

It's the psychological feelings I'm very worried about what shall I do "

Sounds like you need to explore your sexuality...at a snail's pace!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seriously thinking about letting a guy fuck me. I am bi curious but terrified of how it might make me feel. Can anyone tell me what it's really like to have a real cock up your arse I've had vibes etc is it better? I can't stop thinking about it.

please can I watch?

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Kinky...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you worried you're going to wake up the next day and be gay as a row of deckchairs or what?"

Oh matron.....lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been seriously thinking about letting a guy fuck me. I am bi curious but terrified of how it might make me feel. Can anyone tell me what it's really like to have a real cock up your arse I've had vibes etc is it better? I can't stop thinking about it.

please can I watch?

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your very welcome to watch if you can find me a guy

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