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Whats wrong with being truthful?!

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By *incolnLovers2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

During our years of swinging, we come to realise what we like and dont like...I found I dont like big big cocks! So...truthful is how I planned to be. So, when speaking to a guy, I will ask if he is VWE VW as my preference is not to play with big. Guys just get cheeky with me Why? I'm only saying what I prefer! Sore/unconfortable is how I find sex with a big cock, I prefer to enjoy myself. I dont know why guys get offended about it...I dont mean any harm, just saying my wants xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its your body, your choice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete then block then move on

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By *incolnLovers2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln


"Its your body, your choice..

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Thats what I think too! I'm sure it would be worse if I wasted their time by having a meet with them, only to find me saying...sorry to waste your time but I'm not in to big cocks so I'm truthful from the messages...! Ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People dont usually like it if your honest, and i think some men have had women on here telling them how wonderful they are and they expect you to be the same.

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By *incolnLovers2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln


"Delete then block then move on "
yeah I should do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be truthful

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By *incolnLovers2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln


"People dont usually like it if your honest, and i think some men have had women on here telling them how wonderful they are and they expect you to be the same."
I think you're right, obviously there are loads of wonen who love big cocks so I imagine I'm in the minority but guys need accept we all dont love them lol....ouch springs to mind for me ha ha. They would not have a good time with me, wouldnt be shouting deeper deeper ha ha

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By *incolnLovers2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln


"Always be truthful "
Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to quote a line from a film, cant think of the name, you cant handle the truth, I found on other dating sites that it was the people who had honesty in their description that were the ones that hadnt a clue what it meant .....you have to be honest to yourself first and foremost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its best just to say thanks but your not realy my type, saves any arguments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably not use to having a women refuse them, because let be honest I'd more than most of the women on here want the bigger cocks, so they are shocked when they get turned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete then block then move on yeah I should do "

You are born with a fixed number of heartbeats so don't waste any on cheeky or arsey people.

Looking at your profile you don't seem to be doing to badly tho

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I can honestly say I really do not care one iota what others think about my sexual choices. I've sent potential playmates packing with their sacs still full for misrepresenting themselves.

No skin off my nose as I'm in my house and I didn't take the day off specially.

I don't waste time continuing any conversation with those outside what I'm looking for: result? Happy, enjoyable time on Fab!

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By *incolnLovers2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

Yes true! Its great that guys have big cocks that women love and they do But in my experience, they stick it in and bang bang bang fast as they can and I'm like, oh my god, stop!! They surely cant be having good time with me lol, it must show, I aint moving, I'm stuck lmao! Besides, I am sure our profile says no big cocks so why they getting in touch lol. When I say, sorry I'm not in to big cocks, they're like, well you havent tried mine! If its big, it aint for me ha ha. Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes true! Its great that guys have big cocks that women love and they do But in my experience, they stick it in and bang bang bang fast as they can and I'm like, oh my god, stop!! They surely cant be having good time with me lol, it must show, I aint moving, I'm stuck lmao! Besides, I am sure our profile says no big cocks so why they getting in touch lol. When I say, sorry I'm not in to big cocks, they're like, well you havent tried mine! If its big, it aint for me ha ha. Ouch "

Have had the same awful experiences, i dont think they cared though as long as they were enjoying themselves.

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By *incolnLovers2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln


"I can honestly say I really do not care one iota what others think about my sexual choices. I've sent potential playmates packing with their sacs still full for misrepresenting themselves.

No skin off my nose as I'm in my house and I didn't take the day off specially.

I don't waste time continuing any conversation with those outside what I'm looking for: result? Happy, enjoyable time on Fab! "
Well said I do spend my time on Fab not wanting to hurt anyones feelings cos not everyone is going to suit our needs and we certainly aint going to always be what they want and we wont get offended....just if they say it nicely I nicely say, sorry your cocks too big for me and I know thats strange ha ha but they can be right down cheeky back to me Ah well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy who sent me a message saying he was 9" + local and available to meet that day

I message him back telling him that as it says in my profile I'm not into VWE guys and he replied back saying ok it might not be that big , but I again replied back saying that he was too big

I then got another message back saying he is in fact not sure how big he is as he has never measured himself

I again said thanks but no thanks , he then sent another message saying he had just measured himself and he was just over 5 "

So in just a few messages the guy had gone from a 9" plus cock to one just over 5 inches and was still pissed off that I said no

I just blocked in the end but was funny

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By *incolnLovers2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln


"Delete then block then move on yeah I should do

You are born with a fixed number of heartbeats so don't waste any on cheeky or arsey people.

Looking at your profile you don't seem to be doing to badly tho "
Yeah we've done well with this site....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"During our years of swinging, we come to realise what we like and dont like...I found I dont like big big cocks! So...truthful is how I planned to be. So, when speaking to a guy, I will ask if he is VWE VW as my preference is not to play with big. Guys just get cheeky with me Why? I'm only saying what I prefer! Sore/unconfortable is how I find sex with a big cock, I prefer to enjoy myself. I dont know why guys get offended about it...I dont mean any harm, just saying my wants xx"

There is nothnig wrong with being truthful as long as its done with tact. There are many who are calculated with what they say and delight in offending under the flag of honestly. I think we can all be honest but do it in a non offensive way.

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By *incolnLovers2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln


"I had a guy who sent me a message saying he was 9" + local and available to meet that day

I message him back telling him that as it says in my profile I'm not into VWE guys and he replied back saying ok it might not be that big , but I again replied back saying that he was too big

I then got another message back saying he is in fact not sure how big he is as he has never measured himself

I again said thanks but no thanks , he then sent another message saying he had just measured himself and he was just over 5 "

So in just a few messages the guy had gone from a 9" plus cock to one just over 5 inches and was still pissed off that I said no

I just blocked in the end but was funny "
ha ha ha....thats so funny! Imagine he did message a woman who wanted a 9 incher, what on earth was he going to say to her when got there and produced his 5 lol....so daft but funny

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