FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys pretending to be fems ?

By *dam_Tina OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Hi all

I'm sure this topic has probably been done to death but myself and Tina are quite new to this so I'll get it off my chest !

We've had a couple of FFM's and both loved it so we've pretty much decided that that's what we're looking for. I may be a bit biased but Tina is very tasty with a great body so I thought we wouldn't have much trouble finding what we're looking for, but we get messages from loads of 'single fems' that I'm pretty sure are just single guys because they always disappear when Tina says she'd like to chat on the phone. We're not at all pushy but realise that early phone or cam contact is essential to make sure we're talking to an actual girl !

This isn't a rant, but I wonder what the guys get out of pretending to be girls ? Is it some strange fetish that I'm not aware of ?

And by the way, if any real single bi fems read this and like the look of us please get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are mainly picture collectors and get off on contact with a real couple - almost like their own porn show.

Check veri's and always insist on a fem to fem telephone conversation early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had the same trouble but when looking for couples.

We found publicing our insistance on a very early fem to fem phone call even just to say hello,before any arrangements or discussions helped out the ladyboys (as we call them)

Its the way some guys are unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn."

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

I think Julie is really a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This isn't a rant, but I wonder what the guys get out of pretending to be girls ? Is it some strange fetish that I'm not aware of ?"
Lol read this bit and couldn't help but think about all the TVs and TS people on here.

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By *dam_Tina OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Yawn."

Thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men with sexual issues perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is seeing my pussy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door."

Everyone is entitled to ask a question on the forums, whether it has been asked 100 or 1000 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door.

Everyone is entitled to ask a question on the forums, whether it has been asked 100 or 1000 times

Yeah but honestly some things just don't need to be discussed again and again. Anyway I'm off again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This seems to be common on every type of social media forum not just here or on dating sites. Due to the large number of single guys I would imagine that for some guys its the only way that they really get to chat to other people, men and women, as the social side of this site is as important as the sex side. Im not condoning this, its as annoying for guys that are chatting to fake women as it is for females and couples, just offering an possible explanation.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door."

Don't let the door hit ya in the ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door.

Everyone is entitled to ask a question on the forums, whether it has been asked 100 or 1000 times

Yeah but honestly some things just don't need to be discussed again and again. Anyway I'm off again."

Like penis size? Bbw? Being blocked? What's for dinner? The list is endless - no wonder new posters don't like posting with that sort of attitude.

They are asking for opinions and that is the nature of the forums regardless of topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door.

Everyone is entitled to ask a question on the forums, whether it has been asked 100 or 1000 times

Yeah but honestly some things just don't need to be discussed again and again. Anyway I'm off again.

Like penis size? Bbw? Being blocked? What's for dinner? The list is endless - no wonder new posters don't like posting with that sort of attitude.

They are asking for opinions and that is the nature of the forums regardless of topic. "

Ahhhh but 'What's for dinner' changes every day so theres a constant supply of new replies. Gotcha smarty pants.

Ps.Spag bol tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn."

All subjects are repeated, we can't read back to months ago in the fear that we repeat. Let people write what they want, just don't bother commenting if it bothers you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door.

Everyone is entitled to ask a question on the forums, whether it has been asked 100 or 1000 times

Yeah but honestly some things just don't need to be discussed again and again. Anyway I'm off again.

Like penis size? Bbw? Being blocked? What's for dinner? The list is endless - no wonder new posters don't like posting with that sort of attitude.

They are asking for opinions and that is the nature of the forums regardless of topic.

Ahhhh but 'What's for dinner' changes every day so theres a constant supply of new replies. Gotcha smarty pants.

Ps.Spag bol tonight.

Hey how do you know my pants say that

. Nah because no one has a different meal every night of everyday for the year so there are repeaters hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door.

Everyone is entitled to ask a question on the forums, whether it has been asked 100 or 1000 times

Yeah but honestly some things just don't need to be discussed again and again. Anyway I'm off again.

Like penis size? Bbw? Being blocked? What's for dinner? The list is endless - no wonder new posters don't like posting with that sort of attitude.

They are asking for opinions and that is the nature of the forums regardless of topic.

Ahhhh but 'What's for dinner' changes every day so theres a constant supply of new replies. Gotcha smarty pants.

Ps.Spag bol tonight.

Hey how do you know my pants say that

. Nah because no one has a different meal every night of everyday for the year so there are repeaters hahahaha"

Repeaters!!! Now that's a different post altogether lol.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Didnt you leave this thread at least twice ? hows that going for you ?

As for the OP its been a thing on the internet since year dot (guys pretending to be girls), why do they do it ? I guess ANY attention is better than no attention, access to private pictures a cool "back and forth" fantasy message that sort of thing.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We actually had one just this second, unverified been on here 3 months, 3 pictures all getting multiple hits from porn sites looking for "anything" at any age.

Sigh its just tedious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didnt you leave this thread at least twice ? hows that going for you ?

I think my braces are caught on this post as I just keep getting dragged back.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I once saw a wonderful tag line on a chap's posts on another forum.

'The internet, where men are men, women are men and children are the FBI.'

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By *dam_Tina OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I think my braces are caught on this post as I just keep getting dragged back."

Still at least you're contributing....yay

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Profiles lie... sad fact.. pretending to be straight pretending to be fem..for some its just fantasy and word play and they never actually meet. Like everything else in this world you have to sift through the mud to find the gems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People get offended by you asking for the female to prove she's real, but unfortunately in this sad day and age, it's required for a lot of couples as to not waste time and effort,

Can always spot the genuine couples or singles because when asked they don't mind at all,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profiles lie... sad fact.. pretending to be straight pretending to be fem..for some its just fantasy and word play and they never actually meet. Like everything else in this world you have to sift through the mud to find the gems. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door.

Everyone is entitled to ask a question on the forums, whether it has been asked 100 or 1000 times

Yeah but honestly some things just don't need to be discussed again and again. Anyway I'm off again.

Like penis size? Bbw? Being blocked? What's for dinner? The list is endless - no wonder new posters don't like posting with that sort of attitude.

They are asking for opinions and that is the nature of the forums regardless of topic. "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I feel your pain!

If I could get back all the hours wasted in here chatting to 'women' who disappear as soon as you mention 'phonecall', 'webcam', or 'photo with today's date on a piece of paper', I would be a very happy boy. I may even have met some more genuine people. Don't let it put you off trying for others though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yawn.

Someone keeping you up? Did you need to read the thread? Or post?

I just wondered in thinking it might be offering a different _iew to the other 1000 posts on this subject. It doesn't. I'm leaving.......slams door.

Everyone is entitled to ask a question on the forums, whether it has been asked 100 or 1000 times

Yeah but honestly some things just don't need to be discussed again and again. Anyway I'm off again."

Go.on then, start a new thread that has never been talked about before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amazingly..there are couples(even verified well), where u learn that through almost all communication that leads to the meet stage have actually been with the male half!- work that one out how u wish...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea if we have come across this phenomenon but we tend to have single ladies message us, then just stop after a few messages.

no idea why.

whether we arent flirty/dirty enough no idea.

although we tend to send more functional messages when speaking to someone we want to meet (do's and donts, limits, what we, and they, are looking for and so on) rather than what we would do to them in minute detail, or how either of us like specific things done.

would rather these things be found out during the evening lol

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Here in Wales it's a huge problem.

The excuses are endless

Wife's ill, wife's working, time of the month, she's shy and won't talk on the phone. I could go on

It's a complete joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are mainly picture collectors and get off on contact with a real couple - almost like their own porn show.

Check veri's and always insist on a fem to fem telephone conversation early on."

Depending if they want to give it out that quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes get this singles fems mailing and really men over the years .. So now ask to see on cam or chat on phone to start with .

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By *HAEDRUS2013Man
over a year ago

LONDON

"Hi all

I'm sure this topic has probably been done to death but myself and Tina are quite new to this so I'll get it off my chest !

This isn't a rant, but I wonder what the guys get out of pretending to be girls ? Is it some strange fetish that I'm not aware of ?

And by the way, if any real single bi fems read this and like the look of us please get in touch

Occupational hazard! Try not to take it too personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There're girls and G.I.R.L.S.

Guys In Real Life!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

[Removed by poster at 19/09/13 19:22:31]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many many people here pretending to be alsorts. Men masquerading as females is just one combo

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"There're girls and G.I.R.L.S.

Guys In Real Life!"

I liked this, nice one! And so true!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Many many people here pretending to be alsorts. Men masquerading as females is just one combo

you have females posing as another female to catch fuck buds out, wives/husbands doing the same..

go with gut feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here in Wales it's a huge problem.

The excuses are endless

Wife's ill, wife's working, time of the month, she's shy and won't talk on the phone. I could go on

It's a complete joke

Isn't that men pretending to be a couple not guys pretending to be a woman?

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By *exiSlutBabeWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

I would EXPECT someone to ask me for an early fem to fem chat on the phone, it only takes 2 minutes and helps show each other that you are what you say you are.

I haven't been on the site long (about 6 weeks) and have half a dozen or more real meet veris, but I often get mails from single fems or couples who have been on here for at least a year who have none.

Some will be genuine but if an attractive couple or fem cannot get a meet in over a year I tend to think they don't want one and everyone is attractive to someone

But it is the same single males, if they have been on here for a year or more with no verifications then I tend to avoid them, going to a social or a club is open to everyone.

I accept that some might not want to go to socials or clubs but for the most part it is because they are dreamers or wannabe's.

As for Yawning at any thread, we all have the choice to ignore threads that are of no interest to us, new members with new _iews join all the time, new members that have not seen previous threads and new ideas from old members.

My response to someone who yawned ? I blocked him, I would hate to bore him

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