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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone had arranged to see me on friday, we talked on the phone, only today i noticed he isnt on the site anymore, im not that bothered if i see him or not, i just thought it was a bit queer and he has been on here before.

I assumed that he didnt want to meet me but i sent him a text asking if he still does just in case, as he has my address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me last week. How bliddy annoying!! Luckily I don't give out my address too early or my number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people lose their bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This happened to me last week. How bliddy annoying!! Luckily I don't give out my address too early or my number "

yes he could of just told me, maybe if he changed his mind. its funny how some people keep joining and leaving, like they dont know what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or his wife found his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone had arranged to see me on friday, we talked on the phone, only today i noticed he isnt on the site anymore, im not that bothered if i see him or not, i just thought it was a bit queer and he has been on here before.

I assumed that he didnt want to meet me but i sent him a text asking if he still does just in case, as he has my address. "

Don't worry my love!It seems to be par for the course on here of late.Im wondering if Fab has had its day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some guys (I said some) they like the thrill of it , have a nosey at our public pics, send a few messages. Then if they actually chat with people and arrange a meet they have a wank over it and leave.

As said above, they lose their bollox when it comes to actually meeting so they weren't worth your time anyhow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well reading between the lines...

Ena wants a shag and today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs it s not friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ffs it s not friday "

No but it is hump day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ffs it s not friday

No but it is hump day "

Momma do ya Hump ??

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Surely just because they have come off the site doesn't mean they don't want to meet you. Did he reply to your text?

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

[Removed by poster at 04/09/13 10:26:52]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely just because they have come off the site doesn't mean they don't want to meet you. Did he reply to your text?"

not yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he found himself one of those 'life' things lol.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Maybe he found himself one of those 'life' things lol."

wtf is that? Can you start a thread so I can learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone had arranged to see me on friday, we talked on the phone, only today i noticed he isnt on the site anymore, im not that bothered if i see him or not, i just thought it was a bit queer and he has been on here before.

I assumed that he didnt want to meet me but i sent him a text asking if he still does just in case, as he has my address. "

He might not be all he seems and got found out

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or his wife found his profile "

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I have an apartment and don't give out the number until people get here at which point I can usually see them. Not only are there picture collectors there are also address collectors too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he found himself one of those 'life' things lol.

wtf is that? Can you start a thread so I can learn "

Well apparently it involves interaction (not that kind) with the outside world. Can't be more specific as I tried but only got as far as my front door. Took one look and thought "fuck that" and retreated back to my man cave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really annoying for us (single guys) as its hard enough for us to meet people let alone when other single guys are putting further doubt in peoples heads by being no shows and playing people around!

Makes it harder for couples and single women to trust the genuine guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such happened to me, but at least the person in question had the decency to warn me in advance and give me his mobile number. Agreeing on a meet and then going AWOL without warning is bad manners.

I know others will say 'get over it', 'his loss' etc, but I find it quite disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to balance it a little but shock horror single ladies and couples also have to been know to do similar. I once drove 80 miles to meet a couple after chatting ages and swapping pics and phone calls only to get to within 10 mins of thier place and find since I left home they had deleted profile and blocked my number. It happens to us all. Don't dwell but move on. Positive mental thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Funny. He just sent text message saying that the last message i sent him said that he maybe should find someone else instead, so he deleted his account.

only i have just read all my sent messages and thats not true, i did say to him that maybe he should find someone else because i dont wear fancy undies when he asked me about it, but that wasnt the last message i sent him.

so i think he just changed his mind.

now im not sure about another man because he said he will be coming but if his wife wants him to do something on that morning then he will have to cancel and he would let me know by friday morning. what on earth could his wife be wanting him to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just to balance it a little but shock horror single ladies and couples also have to been know to do similar. I once drove 80 miles to meet a couple after chatting ages and swapping pics and phone calls only to get to within 10 mins of thier place and find since I left home they had deleted profile and blocked my number. It happens to us all. Don't dwell but move on. Positive mental thinking."

Driving 80 miles i would be livid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny. He just sent text message saying that the last message i sent him said that he maybe should find someone else instead, so he deleted his account.

only i have just read all my sent messages and thats not true, i did say to him that maybe he should find someone else because i dont wear fancy undies when he asked me about it, but that wasnt the last message i sent him.

so i think he just changed his mind.

now im not sure about another man because he said he will be coming but if his wife wants him to do something on that morning then he will have to cancel and he would let me know by friday morning. what on earth could his wife be wanting him to do. "

Maybe his wife wants him to not fuck another woman lol. Some wives are a little old fashioned like that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a lot of things . Married , Girlfriend , Bottled out, Maybe feels to risky , Maybe he just changed his mind people do .. And some come back the next week next day doing same thing .

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Funny. He just sent text message saying that the last message i sent him said that he maybe should find someone else instead, so he deleted his account.

only i have just read all my sent messages and thats not true, i did say to him that maybe he should find someone else because i dont wear fancy undies when he asked me about it, but that wasnt the last message i sent him.

so i think he just changed his mind.

now im not sure about another man because he said he will be coming but if his wife wants him to do something on that morning then he will have to cancel and he would let me know by friday morning. what on earth could his wife be wanting him to do. "

She might be getting him to wear the fancy undies,,

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I'd be a tad worried about having given a total stranger my address - Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people lose their bollocks "

Not literally, I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be a tad worried about having given a total stranger my address - Z"

This! Always meet in a neutral location first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a new couple message myself last week...it said... Will you wine and dine my wife and have fun with her?....

I thought strange request, but why not, so I messaged back....can I see a pic first?

Two minutes later they had deleted their account!!!!

Wtf was that all about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happened to me last week. How bliddy annoying!! Luckily I don't give out my address too early or my number

yes he could of just told me, maybe if he changed his mind. its funny how some people keep joining and leaving, like they dont know what they want."

how very dare you think that being undecisive is only the ladies area of expertise.

i will have you know many men cant make up their minds, hence we are allowed the failsafe 'whatever you want, babe. im easy' lol

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By *xaratvTV/TS
over a year ago

bolton

I had a couple who mailed me regular for a meet so i said yes meet you in the village on a saturday evening at 8 pm two days before the meet the couple just vanished off this site no word of warning ,nothing maybe i was being naive thinking it was a genuine couple oh well life is full of upsn downs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he found himself one of those 'life' things lol.

wtf is that? Can you start a thread so I can learn

Well apparently it involves interaction (not that kind) with the outside world. Can't be more specific as I tried but only got as far as my front door. Took one look and thought "fuck that" and retreated back to my man cave."

You mean your braces got caught on the door handle again! Hahahaha

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

2 weeks ago, I had arranged to meet a couple for the second time, at their request, on Saturday 14th September. I then went on holiday only to find, on returning, that they are no longer on this site.

I had their mobile number so I sent a polite text and was told the husband didn't want to share his wife any more. I totally understand that but it would have been courteous to send a message before deleting their account to cancel our appointment.

Mind you, courtesy is in very short supply on here when it comes to answering messages.

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