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By *ittlemisspink OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

If u get talkin 2 some 1 on here an thay eventually tell u there in a relationship do u step bk or carry on any wAy

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Step back 100% every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how big their tits are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly it all depends on the person, and what you're hoping for. Personally for me it's all about the person and their reasons, I don't always step back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would step away. Ive been cheated on in the past and would want no part in aiding someone to cheat on their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where your standing. If, for example, say, on the edge of a cliff.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

step back all the time ..unless their partner knows ..i'm seeing a guy off here with the full blessing of his wife ..they both have singles profiles and so far its working out great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

carry on anyway, beggars cant always be choosers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but if they have nice tits!!!

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By *ittlemisspink OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Depends how big their tits are!"
haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step way back.

I'd hate to be cheated on.

I like honestly from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how big their tits are!haha"

Not forgetting the Foo Foo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% step back, would never willingly or knowingly help a cheat to cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% step back, would never willingly or knowingly help a cheat to cheat."

This

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh


"100% step back, would never willingly or knowingly help a cheat to cheat.

This "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly! Well as this is a sex site and i tend not to ask questions due to the fact that its none of my buisness to why anyone is on here or attached or not, for me everyone has their own reasons and should not have to justify themselves to anyone.... However as long as they dont live on my door step and i dont know either of them then doubt i would step back..

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

I step back if such information isn't disclosed at the beginning of a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowingly get involved in breaking up a relationship

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you or as the tried and tested playground taunt goes how would you like it if I did that to you?

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts

Carry on if its a one off, step back if friendships are starting. Just saying

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

step back immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly! Well as this is a sex site and i tend not to ask questions due to the fact that its none of my buisness to why anyone is on here or attached or not, for me everyone has their own reasons and should not have to justify themselves to anyone.... However as long as they dont live on my door step and i dont know either of them then doubt i would step back.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married he doesn't know um on here. I would prefer singles but seem to get a lot of marrieds messaging me, so well I've met them

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts


"Honestly! Well as this is a sex site and i tend not to ask questions due to the fact that its none of my buisness to why anyone is on here or attached or not, for me everyone has their own reasons and should not have to justify themselves to anyone.... However as long as they dont live on my door step and i dont know either of them then doubt i would step back.. "

spot on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Step back, it isn't judging its playing the way I feel comfortable.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Depends how big their tits are!haha

Not forgetting the Foo Foo."

I don't care how big their foo foo is.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Step back 100% every time"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step back it happened to me an not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

step back every single time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

never shit on your own doorstep, if they lived miles away and was staying in a hotel via work id meet, if they was local i wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the partner knew they were on here, we would be ok with it, if they are "cheating" then we back away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Step back, it isn't judging its playing the way I feel comfortable."

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such morals!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!"

but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...

onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land


"Step back, it isn't judging its playing the way I feel comfortable.

Absolutely "

Exactly

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Depends

never shit on your own doorstep, if they lived miles away and was staying in a hotel via work id meet, if they was local i wouldn't "

Same here, I've no problem with married folk playing away from home so long as my neighbours aren't likely to remark on "Jane Smith's husband" coming to mine

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By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Bristol/Gloucester

Step back... But there are occasions when I haven't done in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step away.. im here for nsa.. that means no chance of any come back or greif from playing with someone

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I would step away immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step away and block them

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Step away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had this happen a couple of times. We don't really get involved in people who are playing with an unaware partner anyway - But the main issue for us would be that they were not upfront about it to start with. If we had been chatting for a while before they told us it would be an immediate step back.

Perhaps we are wrong but we take the view if it is a single person profile they are single. I know there is not an option for "attached but playing away" but if they are not single then they should be upfront about it, if not on the profile then when chatting to people via messaging. We think people deserve to have some idea of who they are playing with, especially if there is any possibility of repercussions from an irate partner. But that could just be us

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!

but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...

onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved"

That's rubbish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!

but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...

onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved

That's rubbish!"

how so

you have judged the situation by deciding its ok to get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!

but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...

onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved

That's rubbish!

how so

you have judged the situation by deciding its ok to get involved"

If you read the post correctly then you will see that what I said referred to judging people not situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on regardless. I'm not here to judge people, just fuck them!

but you are judging by deciding its ok to have sex with them...

onlyvway to not judge is to not get involved

That's rubbish!

how so

you have judged the situation by deciding its ok to get involved

If you read the post correctly then you will see that what I said referred to judging people not situations.

"

People or situations, either way you have made a judgement call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lifes too short for one to be bothered!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If not bothered then no need to judge

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Step back 100% every time"

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Depends on the circumstances. Have played with attached guys in the past an no doubt will in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whether we admit it or not we al make judgements. We judge the person we are chatting with, judge whether or not we want to play.

Married or not is none of my business, if a married person is on here either man or woman then they have their own reason for it & that is none of my business.

I personally have met with married men & had repeats with them & find them to be more truthful & discrete than others that are genuinely single. xx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"If u get talkin 2 some 1 on here an thay eventually tell u there in a relationship do u step bk or carry on any wAy"

I would walk away simply because they werent man enough to admit it from the beginning....

More respect for honesty on here than anything....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I personally have met with married men & had repeats with them & find them to be more truthful & discrete than others that are genuinely single. xx"

We did it once, we met with an FB couple.

Great sex, fantastic time but driving home we both thought there were two innocent victims at home somewhere who had no idea what their 'loved ones' were up to.

Imagining the pain that they would go through if the story came out made us vow to never knowingly do that again.

Having seen the devastation that friends have gone through when a partner cheats makes us realise we want none of that on our conscience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA, if your looking for more then attached people might not be the best way to go

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Although i'm sympathetic to the moral questions posed on here, i would definitely play with an attached woman, as to me its only casual fun and sex we'll be enjoying, not a full blown relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what happens when said married persons "better half" finds out?? They message the people their so called faithful hubby/wifie met and you get involved. Been there once and never again! He had 3kids of whom had 2birthdays in the same weekend he got kicked out cause he was dumb enough to not talk to her about his wants in sex and cheated on her! Step away and dont look back! Marrieds may be more discrete/truthful but when it comes to them not seeing their kids what would you rather for them??

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Carry on. I'm not the 1 who made the commitment she is I would never cheat on anyone that's why I choose to stay single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what level we've communicated on. May still chat as friends. Wouldn't meet tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step away. To complicated

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


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I personally have met with married men & had repeats with them & find them to be more truthful & discrete than others that are genuinely single. xx"

Truthful! Really? Presumably they are willing to lie to their long term partner why on earth would they be truthful to a relative stranger. I suppose they have nothing to lose by telling the truth in that situation so you're probably right

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"If u get talkin 2 some 1 on here an thay eventually tell u there in a relationship do u step bk or carry on any wAy"

I pass them by, plenty of others on here lol

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley


"Depends on what level we've communicated on. May still chat as friends. Wouldn't meet tho."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask at the start of the convo, no mix up further down the line then... But if it was to happen, I would step back and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marriage does seem complicated when mixed with fab

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

Tho I love performing cunnilingus,

If she's cheatin, I ain't eatin!

But if her guy says its ok, I'll shag her from here to saturday

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley


"Marriage does seem complicated when mixed with fab"

i just think its taboo to screw another guys Missus if he doesn't know!

If you can't stay faithful then don't be in a relationship simples

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By *ovetobenakedMan
over a year ago

stotfold


"Step back 100% every time"
me too ide step back no cheating I would hate to be cheated on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone saying its OK should put themselves in the shoes of the person being cheated on.

Have some respect for yourself and the other person who probably doesn't deserve the heartache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marriage does seem complicated when mixed with fab"

it isnt marriage thats complicated, its people that mix cheating with swinging when in fact they are 2 very different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marriage does seem complicated when mixed with fab

it isnt marriage thats complicated, its people that mix cheating with swinging when in fact they are 2 very different things."

Our marriage is just fine X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend more on the circumstances, why the person is playing away.

If its to get back at other half then absolutely not but if they are trapped in a loveless marriage or partner is incapable of fulfilling their needs any more. Then yes i would carry on.

But more often than not, i would not meet.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

No I wouldn't step back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would step back every time. But would also put a note on there profile so they can't come back a few weeks or months down the line and try to say they are single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marriage does seem complicated when mixed with fab

it isnt marriage thats complicated, its people that mix cheating with swinging when in fact they are 2 very different things."
I wasn't meaning my marriage, yes I'm cheating, so I don't expect people to want to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I wouldn't step back. "

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I wasn't meaning my marriage, yes I'm cheating, so I don't expect people to want to meet me"

Pity i'm not near cos i'd love to meet you

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"If u get talkin 2 some 1 on here an thay eventually tell u there in a relationship do u step bk or carry on any wAy"

If they are genuine, i.e. meeting, it wouldn't bother me in the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have nothing more to do with them and I have no problem saying I'd be judging them either, we judge people everyday, its human nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seeing as we generally talk to couples, then we would expect them to be in a relationship lol.

if a single of any sort, then generally chatting is as far as things would go.

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Carry on at the end of the day we are all on hear for fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step away. It's just wrong!

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