FabSwingers.com forum: Age

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why can't men of my age get meets

If you're over 55 its so hard but you look at profiles and couples and ladys say they will meet men upto 99 why put it if you don't mean it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't men of my age get meets

Have you seen the reams of threads of young men saying the same thing? Ok most don't blame their age

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

So you can have an upper age limit, but if you're excluded it's not on?!! Right...gotcha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you speaking on behalf of all the 55's and over??? If so have you spoken them all?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I agree I am not the best looking bloke in the world .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer older people and we know a few that do, maybe you could try a different search criteria

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I have seen women and couples in here only interested in 'older men', you just need to be patient and you will find them.

I do agree though; it is just lazy to use the 'up to 99' tag when they obviously do have an upper limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is people join site's like this and think they are going to be inundated with sexual propositions which couldn't be further from the truth.

There's thousands of guys to choose from so you've really got to stand out. Sometimes it's just luck that you are available at the right time.

I've heard a few times from different woman that I must get a lot of interest. Truth is I don't. Not as much as i'd like anyway.

The fact you come in to the forums moaning about it is, I would imagine, an instant turn off because you seem needy. An attribute not well sort after in real life never mind a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea what age George Clooney is but I suspect he wouldn't struggle to get meets.

Other things rather than a simple date of birth might have more influence on whether a person cannot get a meet.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I go the basis of how people look on their photos, how their profiles put them across and how well written their emails are. I've come across dickheads of all ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go the basis of how people look on their photos, how their profiles put them across and how well written their emails are. I've come across dickheads of all ages."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are both past the 50 mark and still having a ball.It's not what you've got it's how you use it.

As a couple we don't meet single guys, primarily because once you lift the filter on here we get swamped with e mails. Simmularly in a club single guys expect sex for paying to get in..? even couples and ladies pay to get in but it doesn't guarrantee them a shag.

Politeness, talking to both parts of a couple and good manners go a long way.Remember husbands on here are letting others have some sexy fun with their loved ones? Treat couples and ladies with respect and don't be pushy.

Then you may get invited back to somewhere ? Rome wasn't built in a day so it takes time to build up a reliable friends list.sometimes slowly , slowly works much better??

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

"Why can't men of my age get meets

If you're over 55 its so hard but you look at profiles and couples and ladys say they will meet men upto 99 why put it if you don't mean it .

You've been a member for 7 months and have 4 verifications... what on Earth are you talking about? You cannot get meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't men of my age get meets

Have you seen the reams of threads of young men saying the same thing? Ok most don't blame their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your single and male not many people want you.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

as anyone actually said I won't meet you because of your age?

As a lady on here, you are spoiled for choice on who to meet... but there is someone for everyone, so just have patience and the right person will be along sometime. I accept not everyone would want to meet me, do I bother about it? Do I buggery... I don't need my self-esteem and worth to come from who tells me I'm what they are after on here!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

It may also depend on who you are contacting. We used to get a lot of over 50s wanting to play with MrsH when she was in her early 20s despite the fact we had no over 40s on our profile.

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

We will only meet people within a certain age range but that could certainly change on a case by case basis. We just figure it's better to have an idea based on experience of what you want, desire etc. It's perfectly acceptable to have your limits or whatever you want to call them. While we may have an idea of an age range we'll meet, not everyone does ... so it's certainly not hindering the swinging scene :D Since we're not full swingers in the usual sense (we won't meet couples), we're sure there's more couples out there that suit others far better anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I agree I am not the best looking bloke in the world ."

Just because you think that doesn't mean others will think the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think there you have hit the nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there you have hit the nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem is people join site's like this and think they are going to be inundated with sexual propositions which couldn't be further from the truth.

There's thousands of guys to choose from so you've really got to stand out. Sometimes it's just luck that you are available at the right time.

I've heard a few times from different woman that I must get a lot of interest. Truth is I don't. Not as much as i'd like anyway.

The fact you come in to the forums moaning about it is, I would imagine, an instant turn off because you seem needy. An attribute not well sort after in real life never mind a swinging site.

As single fem will always check a profile 1st before answering a message. So check your profile, there has to be something that will get a womans attention

Foryureyesonly.. Just checked yours & it's hidden, that is not a problem as you have lovely body pics which will get my attention. Shame yu're not in SW. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't men of my age get meets

If you're over 55 its so hard but you look at profiles and couples and ladys say they will meet men upto 99 why put it if you don't mean it .

My reg playmate is 57 and awesome

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