FabSwingers.com forum: Are Bi Males the Fab Lepors?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All,This is just my humble findings since ive been on fab in the Bolton Area.

My name David, I love women though I also enjoy TGirls. I updated my profile to Bisexual as I felt that was the right thing to do. Very recently I receive messages saying im interested in you but you being bi worries me, what have you done with a man?

1st of all, around 80% of these women's profiles state either bi cur or bisex

2nd of all, how does that effect anything to do with that we are talking about? If I promise not to jump on the Frist guys dick i see is that ok?

Anyway, I was wondering if any other people have come across this as I feel its like school time again an your wearing the wrong trainers. If anywhere you should be able to be yourself without people looking down at you it should be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bi fem and you are correct, I never get asked those sort of questions about who I have been with etc..so I suppose it's a case of double standards (again) ..I have no problem with bi guys and have met and played with a few..as long as they wear a condom then I don't see there is anything to worry about...

the way I see it is that although this is a swingers site, there are still some very narrow minded ppl out there..if their comments bother you that much just block and move on

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"I am a bi fem and you are correct, I never get asked those sort of questions about who I have been with etc..so I suppose it's a case of double standards (again) ..I have no problem with bi guys and have met and played with a few..as long as they wear a condom then I don't see there is anything to worry about...

the way I see it is that although this is a swingers site, there are still some very narrow minded ppl out there..if their comments bother you that much just block and move on"

I whole heartedly agree with this post. Be true and don't bother with anyone who judges you that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the messages very nice to hear that its not as bad as I think.

I agree, I would just block them but how does that benefit anyone. In my head everyone should be able to say what is on their mind. In truth I just want to understand why on a swinging site a bi male is a little too taboo for most people?

Again, welcome your responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the lady in a bi couple, while we haven't quite been made to feel like the op suggests it is noticeable that esp couples with bi males are rare. I suspect it is this attitude by others which prevents men from putting bi on their profiles or even from thinking of exploring that aspect of their sexuality at all. Makes me so sad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stepped out of this whole bi debate on this site its just juvenile,

I will say though if their male counterpart is uncomfortable around bi guys then he/they are the ones with a problem not you. Don't feel obliged to explain yourself and move onto another couple who's mindset belong in this century

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By *hristine and MarieCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Somewhere north of Spalding

I think the main concern is unprotected anal sex and the perceived disease risk.

For me the concern is that any bi man only really wants my partner, not me.

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Is a Lepor and American Leper?

Or ...

A Lemur that wants to be a Meerkat?

And what I ask is...what's wrong with being a mere cat anyway?

Miaow!

Goodnight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the messages very nice to hear that its not as bad as I think.

Again, welcome your responses "

He only you weren't so far away we'd be happy to show you just how comfortable we are with this taboo and just what our responses would be!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the main concern is unprotected anal sex and the perceived disease risk.

For me the concern is that any bi man only really wants my partner, not me."

Hi Guys, I dont wish to seem rude but the chances of unprotected sex is the same with a straight of bi guy. Easy way to tell, he is wearing a condom

I get we all do not want to catch anything but on a site like this unless you know the person how sure can any of us be?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Guys.

Now this is very welcomed an truly wish I was further down south. What I find strange is that Manchester as a whole I have always found to be a very tolerant place, for gods sake we have the Gay Village! Though it does seem that the southern swingers at least on fab that is have less issue with bi men ?

Makes me think about day trips and moving lol

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By *harma and GregCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I am a bi fem hubby straight we have never been asked what I have done with other women however we have had a fair few guys offer to suck/fuck my hubby (which scares the shit out of him lol) but we don't care if the bloke is bi as long as he understand Simon is straight and off limits while playing!!! So if the bloke can "play straight" we are fine to play and don't care who he has been with as long as he wears a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mentioned this in a previous post last week on here - around 80 - 90% of the guys that contact us on here have straight on their profile....so for the ladies/couples who think they are meeting straight guys think again!

Maybe when they are quizzing you regarding what you have been up to, they should also quiz the 'straight' guys...being straight on your profile doesn't mean you are a saint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the main concern is unprotected anal sex and the perceived disease risk.

For me the concern is that any bi man only really wants my partner, not me.

Hi Guys, I dont wish to seem rude but the chances of unprotected sex is the same with a straight of bi guy. Easy way to tell, he is wearing a condom

I get we all do not want to catch anything but on a site like this unless you know the person how sure can any of us be?"

Regards perceived disease risk, my Mr is bi but only as far a oral, plus he is one of the most thorough people about safe sex I've ever met. This certainly isn't most people's perception of bi guys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am a bi fem hubby straight we have never been asked what I have done with other women however we have had a fair few guys offer to suck/fuck my hubby (which scares the shit out of him lol) but we don't care if the bloke is bi as long as he understand Simon is straight and off limits while playing!!! So if the bloke can "play straight" we are fine to play and don't care who he has been with as long as he wears a condom

xxx"

Play it straight ? Do you mean not act camp or not dive on your husbands dick the moment I see it lol Im a footballer and rugby player, Im the least camp man you'll meet and as for diving on the dick, I think I could control myself

All that I say in jest, I am just trying to point out sometimes we judge too quickly. I would like to say that if you Husband is straight on his profile the men shouldnt putting that in a message. thats not what you signed up for.

Finally point, I hope all men straight or bi are made to where condoms

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

SuffolkCouple. You guys keep talking this way an i may have to come down and see you. I too am only orally bi but still always believe in safe sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mentioned this in a previous post last week on here - around 80 - 90% of the guys that contact us on here have straight on their profile....so for the ladies/couples who think they are meeting straight guys think again!

Maybe when they are quizzing you regarding what you have been up to, they should also quiz the 'straight' guys...being straight on your profile doesn't mean you are a saint

Again another understanding an stunning couple from downsouth. I couldnt agree more with your comment an have already started to look at house prices

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shouldnt matter if a guy is straight or bi, as long as you are using condoms and regularly get yourself checked at the clinic then you are minimising your risk.

Of course if a bi guy was playing with a couple with a straight male half then the bi guy should play straight.

And where does the assumption that bi guys prefer cock come from. Doesnt the word bi mean the like both.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Profiles sometimes lie... fact. You just really never know.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

So many men say straight on their profile but when you chat it turns out they are pretty flexible....

I prefer bi men though, I guess we all have a preference.

Be who you are though!

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Well we come from the same area as the op

We have been open and honest about our sexuality and it doesn't appear to affect our ability to meet couples or singles

At the end of the day we are hardly going to jump on any straight people

And you only need to look at our verifications to see how many straight males in couples we have met

I think if people are truly honest the reason they say no bi men are for 2 main reasons

1) they presume that the male will be putting it about too much and in any hole

.. Understandable as bisexual /gay males are more at risk of sexually transmitted diseases - this is a fact

2) often some men are so masculine that heaven forbid their cock comes into contact with another male

To the op good on you for sticking to your profile and being honest

The amount of straight lads who mail us and then when we say we only meet bi males suddenly are bi .. Is amazing

But for that reason we just delete !

Be true to yourself and you won't go far wrong

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Hi All,This is just my humble findings since ive been on fab in the Bolton Area.

1st of all, around 80% of these women's profiles state either bi cur or bisex

2nd of all, how does that effect anything to do with that we are talking about? If I promise not to jump on the Frist guys dick i see is that ok?

Never had anyone say they were worried about me being bi, I suppose there are some who are put off me because I am. However I just think to hell with it I'd rather be honest. If I'm with a couple and the guy is straight I won't doing, if bi or gay you tend to know who is and isn't, it's what they call Gaydar, never let me down yet. If they just don't want to meet you because you're bi to hell with them, are they the sort of people you want to meet anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

next time you are in the South West message us.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It shouldnt matter if a guy is straight or bi, as long as you are using condoms and regularly get yourself checked at the clinic then you are minimising your risk.

Of course if a bi guy was playing with a couple with a straight male half then the bi guy should play straight.

And where does the assumption that bi guys prefer cock come from. Doesnt the word bi mean the like both. "

Someone from the Northwest, Come on down, talking scene. Great to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and looking at your profile, most of the men on here would sell a leg for your verifications.....

doesn't look like you are having too much difficulty....

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By *harma and GregCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

xxx

Finally point, I hope all men straight or bi are made to where condoms

We we have had a few men offer to "jump on his dick" lol no I mean if we are playing I'm the only one who gets touched lol!!!! I can deal with camp so if you wanted to meet and let out your camp side

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone so far for commenting on what I thought no one would.

Its great to hear feedback from couples and singles. Please feel free to continue, im just going to go back to work and I'll check in a n chat later. I am trying to respond to each person as I feel if you have taken the time to have a conversation with me, its only fair I respond

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The amount of straight lads who mail us and then when we say we only meet bi males suddenly are bi .. Is amazing

But for that reason we just delete !

So true, I also have a couples profile with a T Girl and the amount of straight guys who mail us is ridiculous. So if the people who are saying no bi men think it's wonderful way of not seeing bi men it doesn't even work!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"and looking at your profile, most of the men on here would sell a leg for your verifications.....

doesn't look like you are having too much difficulty...."

Kinda Shy now after that post. Thankyou but one thing is I think all my posts are from meeting people at a club. I dont mind club meets but never been asked my sexual orientation though lol When all anyone can see if a profile, my point is I feel I get judged too quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the fact that she asked what you have done with a man suggests she is a little perturbed about sucking something that has been up another mans bottom (yes, we all know anal sex can be had with women too, but go figure).

for us, its no bisexual men that are lepars, more those that cant read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooo bi men are not lepers!

Lets just say we offer a different type of 'service' than pure heterosexuals!!

Generally people have terrible lazyitis when they read a profile! They see a word n subconsciously the brain goes 'oh that's not for me ' and interest starts to close down!

I'm a bi man but I do not engage in anal activity BUT I will snog men

I meet men who contact me with STRAIGHT as their status who say they won't put bi because of the prejudice if others! - And no one likes to b belittled or laughed at.

YET u look at numerous couples profiles n the woman invariably is bi and the man is straight

I think for some men the ingrained aspects of the perception of men being bi prevents them from wanting any m on m activity. Maybe it makes them feel 'less male ' to indulge or maybe the idea they just find repulsive. I'm no authority so thus is just an opinion I'm expressing

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

the way I see it is that although this is a swingers site, there are still some very narrow minded ppl out there..if their comments bother you that much just block and move on"

It annoys me when people sanctimoniously declare people on a swingers site are narrow minded if they have preferences...that exclude them!

I don't play with bi men for the same reason I don't play with married men: they inhibit MY enjoyment, and this is all about me! I like anal play, I get off on humiliation and embarrassment and a straight guy blushing and reluctant excites me. A bi guy enjoying it doesn't do it for me. Using wax, shaving pubes etc can't be done on married men, so I don't meet anyone who doesn't fulfill my sexual needs.

If others want to take on all comers to feel they are "swingers" go them! I'll stick to meeting the like minded straight, single guys that fulfill my sexual needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SuffolkCouple. You guys keep talking this way an i may have to come down and see you. I too am only orally bi but still always believe in safe sex

Well you know where to find us.... if you're ever down here look us up!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"As the lady in a bi couple, while we haven't quite been made to feel like the op suggests it is noticeable that esp couples with bi males are rare. I suspect it is this attitude by others which prevents men from putting bi on their profiles or even from thinking of exploring that aspect of their sexuality at all. Makes me so sad!

What makes me sad is peoples inability to accept they won't appeal to everyone and people don't need to justify their choices. On a site where every pot has its lid why people are hung up on those not interested in them instead of those that are puzzles me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and looking at your profile, most of the men on here would sell a leg for your verifications.....

doesn't look like you are having too much difficulty....

How long should they take to judge you? After a few more minutes consideration would they like you?

Maybe they don't want to meet someone that would have sex with a 99 year old. Maybe you're too young. Maybe it's not that you are bi at all, some other reason!

If you are allowed to have preferences, why can't other people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya, I read both your comments and I see your point. People are allowed to have their own choices when it comes to their sexual experiences and needs, though sadly you are missing the point of this forum post.

As a bi male, I feel that sometimes due to my sexual orientation I am judged unfairly at times, not all the time may I add. The point of this post is to highlight that some people can be a little short sighted.

My example is this, I was chatting with a woman in chat and everything was going fine. She PM, we spoke for 40mins about life and fab and arranged to meet in a few days. I then received a message a day later, questioning my profile and that I was bi, asking detailed questions about my sex life.

Needless to say we arent meeting but it made me wonder, I was the same person as yesterday that "turned her on" & "made her laugh" So was I in wrong so showing that I am bi on a stupid profile ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"and looking at your profile, most of the men on here would sell a leg for your verifications.....

doesn't look like you are having too much difficulty....

How long should they take to judge you? After a few more minutes consideration would they like you?

Maybe they don't want to meet someone that would have sex with a 99 year old. Maybe you're too young. Maybe it's not that you are bi at all, some other reason!

If you are allowed to have preferences, why can't other people?

I agree their are a million reasons why you dont wish to meet someone but my point is, my experience was due to me being bi. People are allowed preferences though if bi is the reason I ask why ?? "A rose by any other name would smell as sweet"

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

i had one of my best orgasms sitting on a chair watching five bi guys on the bed so its a big thumbs up from me to all you bi guys ...your such a turn on for this gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and looking at your profile, most of the men on here would sell a leg for your verifications.....

doesn't look like you are having too much difficulty....

How long should they take to judge you? After a few more minutes consideration would they like you?

Maybe they don't want to meet someone that would have sex with a 99 year old. Maybe you're too young. Maybe it's not that you are bi at all, some other reason!

If you are allowed to have preferences, why can't other people?

You say "people are allowed preferences" (which is very kind of you btw), but then go on to say "if bi is the reason why they don't meet" you ask "why"? Erm, because its THEIR choice!! The same as its YOUR choice not to meet single males. Think of all those bi guys who are at this very moment asking themselves why you won't meet them.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"I stepped out of this whole bi debate on this site its just juvenile,

Well the trouble we had with bi guys as the majority...yes majority...but not all have insisted that there is no such thong as a straight man.. appatently according to the majority that we spoke to when we first joined insisted that we were not being truthful and mr fun was really gagging for cock as all men were...now in those scenarios who exactly is in the wrong ? As far as we are concerned its not us as we make it clear we are both straight. So we got to a point where we just said forget it no bi men its bloody easier..

If that was their attitude in messages what the hell they gonna be like on a meet.. not our type of fun anyway.

Then we had a social meet with a straight guy when we first joined fab and the whole time he was making eyes at mr fun.. thought he was joking at one point as he was fully aware mr fun was straight.. yet still turned out he was bi.. but lied to get meet but was more into men than women..

So with us its not a case of being in the wrong century at all or being ignorant or whatever you want to call it.

If bi guys want respect and to not be feeling i dont know out their own or not someone choice for reason etc then maybe they should show straight people the respect that they themselves seek. (yes some are fine but we came across too many that werent for us to be okay with meeting).

Do we have issues with men being bi No..do we want to play with them ...No.

Are we okay with men being bi yes of course..as long as they dont force their choices onto us...as we wouldnt force ours onto them.. but that applies or should do with all preferences and choices in this lifestyle.

Just pick the ones that dont mind..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What bothers me isnt someones sexuality - hell, we are all here for fun but its the fact that your preferences, clearly stated on your profile, are completely dismissed and we findourselves wasting time having to message back and politely ask people to re read our write up.

These messages are in the main from bi guys and it becomes pretty wearisome frankly - it ends up in looking like we are homophobes by having to place addendum after addendum on the profile asking bi guys not to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love MMF with bi men, mmmm turns me on so much

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

No bi men are not lepors but we choose not to meet bi men. Nothing personal just our preference.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I won't meet openly bi guys - thats my preference, and also because having an intimate relationship with a bi or gay guy affects the things that are important to me... (I'm also pretty good at sussing out the less open ones)

You cannot donate blood/plasma etc (or eggs which I have done in the past too) for AT LEAST 12 months after having sex with a guy who has had sex with other men.

I'm a regular blood donor, and thats something that is important to me.

Also, from some of the bi guys I have known, they are more prone to risky behaviour (from my experience before anyone jumps on me) so its a no thanks to that lifestyle for me - and I don't care if anyone thinks that hypocritical because I'm a bi lady.

Basically, its my choice who I play with. Its not hypocrisy, or prejudice - its my choice. You choose who touches your body, so why should I not have the same options, and if that means I say no to bi men, then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state openly I'm bi AND that the play with men is of particular importance to me (I'm NOT into anal but love kissing guys n pretty much anything else with them)

I DON'T get many couple meets on here but I've had a few - it doesn't worry me cos I appreciate fully this site is mainly centred around the vagina so I'm not gonna b griping .

People are all different n what floats one boat will scuttle another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a hangover from the 80s when AIDs first raised its ugly head and was heavily and dramatically public service educated. Originally it was found in the male gay community and was in fact called GRIDS.. Gay related immune deficiency syndrome

I think because of the sledge hammer media there was a public feeling that gay sex between two men was one of the biggest risk factors. Also helped the straight public distance themselves from the phobia. That together with the established gay-phobia amongst boys and young men leads to bi men getting a rough deal. Especially as lesbian porn is a genre most watched.

There is certainly more suspicion of bi men than women.

I think it is gradually changing but we are not there yet.

I shouldn't matter. Safe sex is the responsibility of any two or more people being intimate.

I am bi without a doubt but still wouldn't advertise it except on here or amongst like minded souls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a world of difference between bi males and bi females and not just the obvious ones.

The fact that bi women may not want to meet bi men doesn't make them hypercritical at all.

Also as was mentioned earlier, contrary to most bi guys, bi women aren't of the misguided belief that all women are bi and secretly lust after sex with other women.

Nor do bi women go "cottaging" or importune other women in public toilets, saunas etc, that type of behaviour does seem peculiar to men.

And last but not least, most bi women won't lie just to get a shag.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a world of difference between bi males and bi females and not just the obvious ones.

The fact that bi women may not want to meet bi men doesn't make them hypercritical at all.

Also as was mentioned earlier, contrary to most bi guys, bi women aren't of the misguided belief that all women are bi and secretly lust after sex with other women.

Nor do bi women go "cottaging" or importune other women in public toilets, saunas etc, that type of behaviour does seem peculiar to men.

And last but not least, most bi women won't lie just to get a shag.

XXXX"

And the female body is FAR more pleasing to the eye than a blokes!

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By *lueDevylMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

"There's a world of difference between bi males and bi females and not just the obvious ones.

The fact that bi women may not want to meet bi men doesn't make them hypercritical at all.

Also as was mentioned earlier, contrary to most bi guys, bi women aren't of the misguided belief that all women are bi and secretly lust after sex with other women.

Nor do bi women go "cottaging" or importune other women in public toilets, saunas etc, that type of behaviour does seem peculiar to men.

And last but not least, most bi women won't lie just to get a shag.

XXXX"

And not all bi men do either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

":FunCpl2013:"

Don't want to get into this subject but I didn't want to just ignore you either

But I have to admit I get it, if you have had bad experiences of people from a certain persuasion that isn't your thing anyway why bother to meet that set of people, that doesn't matter what persuasion bi, top gear watcher, its just easier to say no and focus on what does interest you,

There are extremes in any situation and the "my bf is straight and will punch..." will continue to irritate me, but from your perspective I do have to admit I get it and agree with you,

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

":FunCpl2013:

Don't want to get into this subject but I didn't want to just ignore you either

There are extremes in any situation and the "my bf is straight and will punch..." will continue to irritate me, but from your perspective I do have to admit I get it and agree with you, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look for bi guys and appreciate honest profiles

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

On the issue of grotty sex , meets in toilets etc. Can I say I've seen some pretty dirty looking dogging pics on heer without a condom in sight. And it did not look like a bi male convention to me!

I have absolutely no issues with bi males. And will meet a bi guy if he fits the bill physically . But I am put off by submissive fellas and i'd need to know he preferred pussy given the choice.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you will only be treated like a leper if you allow it... I have never felt that way as I do not contact people who choose a preference not to meet bi guys. I applaud them for their honesty.

socially if people will share a drink with me, cool... if they choose not to drink with me because I am bi, I am the richer for not being invited to drink with them.

I like who I am and I am not prepared to compromise to shoot my load.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

And last but not least, most bi women won't lie just to get a shag.

XXXX"

not bi ones, but a good few straight ladies pretending to be bi to get their man a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And last but not least, most bi women won't lie just to get a shag.

XXXX

not bi ones, but a good few straight ladies pretending to be bi to get their man a meet

Have to agree with that one too, women being coerced into saying bi to appease their men.

Mind you, real bi women can tell, unless the fake gives an Oscar winning performance.

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over a year ago

"i had one of my best orgasms sitting on a chair watching five bi guys on the bed so its a big thumbs up from me to all you bi guys ...your such a turn on for this gal"

You lucky lady..... 2 had me going but my head is practically exploding at the thought of 5 of them!

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over a year ago

"and looking at your profile, most of the men on here would sell a leg for your verifications.....

doesn't look like you are having too much difficulty....

How long should they take to judge you? After a few more minutes consideration would they like you?

Maybe they don't want to meet someone that would have sex with a 99 year old. Maybe you're too young. Maybe it's not that you are bi at all, some other reason!

If you are allowed to have preferences, why can't other people?

The answer is- Because they don't want to meet bi men. It's that simple. Don't feel bad, it's just the way it is.

Yes you might chat to someone and get on great but then they find out you're bi and it puts them off. Such is life.

There's lots of posts from people that were chatting nicely then something happened and they never heard from the other person again. It's not the just the bi thing it could be anything. Lots of people do like bi men, meet those. x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't feel they are.

Every now and again you come across a profile that will state 'no bi men, no one who has been with anyone bi, no one who lives on the same street as anyone bi, no one who has once watched Julian Clary joke about fisting Norman Lamont' or something along those lines, but I pass them by (after blocking them so I don't keep opening them up when I've forgotten who they are).

Gratuitous leprosy joke: how do you shake a lepers cock? On a piece of string

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't feel they are.

Gratuitous leprosy joke: how do you shake a lepers cock? On a piece of string

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over a year ago

"Hi All,This is just my humble findings since ive been on fab in the Bolton Area.

1st of all, around 80% of these women's profiles state either bi cur or bisex

2nd of all, how does that effect anything to do with that we are talking about? If I promise not to jump on the Frist guys dick i see is that ok?

You have done the right thing, honesty is the best policy. I am bi, but can play with straight couples and am not even tempted to touch the male partner. I prefer to play with a fully bi couple, as it's more fun all round, and I find them to be more relaxed, accepting and adventurous as well as keener on the importance of safe sex. There are plenty of bi couples out there, and by making yourself known as bi, you have opened up another opportunity to meet people that might not have given you a second glance. Some straight couples will cross you off their list, but thats their loss.

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

"i had one of my best orgasms sitting on a chair watching five bi guys on the bed so its a big thumbs up from me to all you bi guys ...your such a turn on for this gal

You lucky lady..... 2 had me going but my head is practically exploding at the thought of 5 of them!

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it was awesome esp when i got to play with them too it was def a learning curve for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i had one of my best orgasms sitting on a chair watching five bi guys on the bed so its a big thumbs up from me to all you bi guys ...your such a turn on for this gal

You lucky lady..... 2 had me going but my head is practically exploding at the thought of 5 of them!

it was awesome esp when i got to play with them too it was def a learning curve for me

An where was my invite ??

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over a year ago

Aye yai yai

I say to myself does any of all oqf thus really matter in the great scheme of things

People make their choices - that's how life goes. It is endemic in2 everything we do. The food we buy, clothes, we wear, friends we make, where we live bla bla bla n so on.

Who we bonk about with is just a further extension of the foregoing.

If people dont wanna meet certain other types of people then it just ain't gonna happen AND I doubt since the commencement of this post that ANYONE has changed their position or point of _iew.

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