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By *exycouple 123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

St Helens

We love the social side of swinging,meeting new people,exchanging experiences,few drinks etc..

We are also happy to flirt,kiss and get naked in the same room,but like to go to separate bedrooms when it comes to fucking.

More space,more intimacy and great to compare notes afterwards.

Any likeminded couples agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No only same room swap here as we enjoy watching eachother xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I don't agree either x I like to watch my partner cos that turns me on and also it makes me proud of him while he's fucking another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope sorry much prefer same room, same bed is even better, all that touching, hearing and seeing each other mmmmmm

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex

We both enjoy separate rooms more than same room as its more fun and exciting wondering what each other is getting upto but not everyone does seperate rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're another couple who prefer seperate room fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but I don't agree either x I like to watch my partner cos that turns me on and also it makes me proud of him while he's fucking another woman "

Proud! Why proud?

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

We only play separate room with couples much more fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We enjoy both but prefer same room - if we're with a couple that prefer separate room fun then we'll go with the flow -Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both, but would only do sep room if we had got to know the people well beforehand.

They are very different situations, and we get a different buzz from each.

The majority of the time we do same room though.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Separate rooms for us too. We both love to hear all about it. Like a lot of people are saying it's becoming harder to find other people who also enjoy this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No only same room swap here as we enjoy watching eachother xx"

I would prefer that too. Separate rooms seems too secretive to me. I would like us all to share the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same room only for us

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Same room only for us , love watching Ken fucking another woman ,such a horny sight , and he loves watching me in action .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself. "

Yes intense emotions with a swinger can lead to hurt, I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself.

Yes intense emotions with a swinger can lead to hurt, I know "

If insecurity exists, I would recommend that you don't swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself. "

Intimacy doesn't necessarily have to be emotions, it can mean privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both, we just with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do either/or. If Mrs Red is really good, she is allowed our regular single male for some fun while I'm at work, then I come home after he has gone and she gets the same again from me

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

The buzz comes from the mind filling in the gaps when the parties go separate ways.

Has to be said it's a great mind fuck too.

Something very exciting about the separate room thing!

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We do either/or. If Mrs Red is really good, she is allowed our regular single male for some fun while I'm at work, then I come home after he has gone and she gets the same again from me "

Very horny!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself.

Intimacy doesn't necessarily have to be emotions, it can mean privacy. "

I am sorry, I do not see intimacy and privacy as the same thing.

However, why does one need privacy from one's partner? What does one do in separate room swaps (later described in detail) that cannot be done in front of your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself.

Intimacy doesn't necessarily have to be emotions, it can mean privacy.

I am sorry, I do not see intimacy and privacy as the same thing.

However, why does one need privacy from one's partner? What does one do in separate room swaps (later described in detail) that cannot be done in front of your partner? "

Being single, you may not understand the ways of a couple.

It doesn't have to be deceitful what they get up to, it can be an extension on the fun, talking about what each other for up to, how and why when.

Hearing actions, groans and moans without seeing can heighten imagination.

After all, Sex is a very large prevent in the mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself.

Intimacy doesn't necessarily have to be emotions, it can mean privacy.

I am sorry, I do not see intimacy and privacy as the same thing.

However, why does one need privacy from one's partner? What does one do in separate room swaps (later described in detail) that cannot be done in front of your partner? "

Sometimes it can be quite off putting when the person you're with seems more interested in watching their partner than they're own fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both, something exciting about watching each other, but something equally exciting about just being able to listen and imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but I don't agree either x I like to watch my partner cos that turns me on and also it makes me proud of him while he's fucking another woman

Proud! Why proud?"

It makes me proud to see him making another lady get a couple of hours pleasure and for the partner of her to get very turned on by watching, so it then benefits me ( selfish I know! ) and to think wow I have that all the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do either/or. If Mrs Red is really good, she is allowed our regular single male for some fun while I'm at work, then I come home after he has gone and she gets the same again from me

Very horny!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer seperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for us but we would never do separate rooms unless we've got to know the couple before

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We preffer to be able to watch eachother, as it winds us up a ton.

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico


"No only same room swap here as we enjoy watching eachother xx"

Same here. I want my hubby to watch me be fucked and I want to watch him! Preferably at the same time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never play in separate rooms. In fact we don't like straight swaps with other couples, for us we enjoy a foursome, all together touching each other.

Swinging is something that we find a bit kinky, a bit taboo etc. We want to experience it together and we want to see it. We want to explore sex and do things that simply the two of us together can't. Separate room seems very secretive to me, distant. I really can't see the fun in it at all, therefore we don't do it

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"We love the social side of swinging,meeting new people,exchanging experiences,few drinks etc..

We are also happy to flirt,kiss and get naked in the same room,but like to go to separate bedrooms when it comes to fucking.

More space,more intimacy and great to compare notes afterwards.

Any likeminded couples agree?

"

Yes quite agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same room for us too

We are pretty new to this as a couple but a huge part of it for me is being able to watch Zoe having fun with a smile on her face x x

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By *exycouple 123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

St Helens

It seems the 'separate room'thread has provoked quite a reaction.

It just goes to show how diverse this wonderful game of swinging can be.

I would never preach or attempt to inflict my preferences on others,just enjoy whatever does it for you!

Happy swinging,Fabmates.XXXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems the 'separate room'thread has provoked quite a reaction.

It just goes to show how diverse this wonderful game of swinging can be.

I would never preach or attempt to inflict my preferences on others,just enjoy whatever does it for you!

Happy swinging,Fabmates.XXXXXX"

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

We don't mind either but I do prefer separate rooms. I think sometimes, some people who are controlling like same room so they can keep their eye on partner. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love a bit of both during a meet we have alot of trust and safeness in our relationship and its a massive turn on for us, for example we had a meet this week hubby had 6 orgasms in 12 hrs and i had over 10 after our meet left we fucked more talking about the things that happened when hubby wasnt with us and visa versa it takes a lot of trust between couples to enjoy it but if youve got that seperate room can be amazing fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done both and single over night stays

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Both for us but we would never do separate rooms unless we've got to know the couple before"

Same for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No only same room swap here as we enjoy watching eachother xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself.

Intimacy doesn't necessarily have to be emotions, it can mean privacy.

I am sorry, I do not see intimacy and privacy as the same thing.

However, why does one need privacy from one's partner? What does one do in separate room swaps (later described in detail) that cannot be done in front of your partner? "
we do separate room only, and have found from past experience a lot who do same room do so because they don't trust their partner...... agreed not all come under this heading, but for us there is total trust so separate room works for us!! also stating 1 on 1 in sep rooms is a danger is nonsense, some couples have had major problems when they play in the same room, have witnessed it first hand!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems the 'separate room'thread has provoked quite a reaction.

It just goes to show how diverse this wonderful game of swinging can be.

I would never preach or attempt to inflict my preferences on others,just enjoy whatever does it for you!

Happy swinging,Fabmates.XXXXXX"

and you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have never done sep room but wed love to try it with the rite cpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the idea. Something we havent done yet but we really want to do just got to find the right couple ! ( i am in a couple and im just on my single profile )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same for us, separate rooms so much more thrilling!!

in fact, our ideal swap would be separate hotels, each going either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never play in separate rooms. In fact we don't like straight swaps with other couples, for us we enjoy a foursome, all together touching each other.

Swinging is something that we find a bit kinky, a bit taboo etc. We want to experience it together and we want to see it. We want to explore sex and do things that simply the two of us together can't. Separate room seems very secretive to me, distant. I really can't see the fun in it at all, therefore we don't do it "

Well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same for us, separate rooms so much more thrilling!!

in fact, our ideal swap would be separate hotels, each going either way "

Do you think it is the enhanced risk of losing the partner to someone with whom they have spent an intimate 1 on 1 time that enhances separate location swaping? No judgement - just asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well with my current wife it is same own partner and voyeur fun with the occasional bi fem play thrown in.

With my first wife we use to swing and indulge in separate rooms however the flirting teasing etc use to go on for a month or so as we got to no them and it was difficult as it had to be in 50 mile rad for us to meet regular .

She use to say she could relax more and be more dirty and horny with another if I ws doing the same with his wife next door , we use to video ourselves and watch back later , takes all sorts we even indulged in the retro keys in a hat scenario but you can easily become unstuck on that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself.

Intimacy doesn't necessarily have to be emotions, it can mean privacy.

I am sorry, I do not see intimacy and privacy as the same thing.

However, why does one need privacy from one's partner? What does one do in separate room swaps (later described in detail) that cannot be done in front of your partner? "
So, so true! Total transparency in all things swing related at all times for us

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By *LandHMCouple
over a year ago

oxford

I think we both like the idea of separate rooms as it means you can concentrate on whats happening a little more.

When we've been in the same room it can seem a little hurried and a bit like a race. If J likes to take 20 minutes just playing with the G Spot knowing it will pay dividends later and the other guy is more into it straight away it can feel like you are getting left behind and you can feel pressure to catch up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same room for me every time. I would not recognise the phrase "more intimacy" when discussing NSA sex. Intimacy is what I have with the lady I love; it is pure sex for me and her when we meet others. In fact the opportunity for emotions to enter in 1 on 1 swaps is a danger I would suggest. I also love to see my lady enjoying herself.

Intimacy doesn't necessarily have to be emotions, it can mean privacy.

I am sorry, I do not see intimacy and privacy as the same thing.

However, why does one need privacy from one's partner? What does one do in separate room swaps (later described in detail) that cannot be done in front of your partner? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also prefer same room, we both enjoy watching each other in action.

We find this makes for an even better night when we leave and go back to ours for the rest of the night.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We prefer same bed. but sometimes it's sexy to be in separate rooms, especially swapped sleeping.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We do same room which in a club environment suits us as you have a little bit more safety & control....

But if away from the club scene we prefer seperate rooms. Preferably next to each other with the doors open so we can hear everything. Concentrate on the person we are having sex with

Wd40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only do same room and same bed swapping. We like seeing each other and going between partners, teaming up on each other and trying different ways to please everyone involvled. Just being two and two feels samey in that set up. :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the idea of separate room but have heard some horror stories that put us off. Mrs Mixed hates rough sex so I'd be worried that she wasn't enjoying it in the other room if I couldn't see her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we play to share the experience and often hold each others hand - or kiss and caress each other as we play - separate rooms not an option for us atm

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We love seperate room swapping, its very sexy. I would love to try an overnight swap too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love seperate room swapping, its very sexy. I would love to try an overnight swap too "

As in sleep in the same bed after? If so, what aspect appeals about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we play to share the experience and often hold each others hand - or kiss and caress each other as we play - separate rooms not an option for us atm "

You sound like us. I much prefer it when its like that rather than splitting off into two pairs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we play to share the experience and often hold each others hand - or kiss and caress each other as we play - separate rooms not an option for us atm

You sound like us. I much prefer it when its like that rather than splitting off into two pairs x "

totally - whether we play with a single fem or another couple - never a 2 and a one or two couples - always a 3 or 4 sum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played as a couple in the past and we would separate room swap. Then all come together and share some more fun together xxx

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By *onesal20Couple
over a year ago

North East England

Love both, although in different ways. Love a genuine foursome in the same room (not 2+2, but lots of interaction between parties) but seperate room is so horny listening to each other fucking, although only done it with trusted friends rather than new meets, but wouldn't rule it out for new meets now

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We love seperate room swapping, its very sexy. I would love to try an overnight swap too

As in sleep in the same bed after? If so, what aspect appeals about that? "

More time for fun, a greater level of intimacy, more time to get to know the other person etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love seperate room swapping, its very sexy. I would love to try an overnight swap too

As in sleep in the same bed after? If so, what aspect appeals about that?

More time for fun, a greater level of intimacy, more time to get to know the other person etc. "

Interesting. I can see the appeal but the reality is more likely to be that the woman storms out the room at 2am due to my snoring and sleep farts.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We love seperate room swapping, its very sexy. I would love to try an overnight swap too

As in sleep in the same bed after? If so, what aspect appeals about that?

More time for fun, a greater level of intimacy, more time to get to know the other person etc.

Interesting. I can see the appeal but the reality is more likely to be that the woman storms out the room at 2am due to my snoring and sleep farts. "

Haha!

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