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"Lol my hubby really wants to watch me being fucked , I am fine with this, lol was wondering do other men have the same thoughts, and would someone be ok with hubby watching lol xx" yes ive watched lisa twice now turns me on | |||
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"Biggest fantasy at the minute. " Might be a good time to ditch the single profile and join as a couple then? | |||
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"Biggest fantasy at the minute. Might be a good time to ditch the single profile and join as a couple then?" Working on it big time!! | |||
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"That's one of the thrills of swinging - watching your partner with others and being watched in return. "  | |||
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"Lol my hubby really wants to watch me being fucked , I am fine with this, lol was wondering do other men have the same thoughts, and would someone be ok with hubby watching lol xx" We are new here and have met another couple 2x hubby loves to watch another man fuck me, he also live to watch me and the other wimen get it in. If course I really live watching him fuck her too! This has only enhanced our already great marriage! | |||
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"Can't answer for other men but Mrs P loves to watch me with other women. So the same but the other way round lol. Such a hard life we lead but I'll live "Same here, Ess loves watching me fuck other women. I guess we will struggle along together. Lol | |||
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"That's one of the thrills of swinging - watching your partner with others and being watched in return. " | |||
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"That's one of the thrills of swinging - watching your partner with others and being watched in return. "Thank god lol I am normal then lol?? | |||
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"Can't answer for other men but Mrs P loves to watch me with other women. So the same but the other way round lol. Such a hard life we lead but I'll live
Same here, Ess loves watching me fuck other women. I guess we will struggle along together. Lol "  | |||
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"Hmmm with an arse like that when do you want me "Who was this aimed at lol. | |||
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"This is why we do same room half the thrill is being able to see/watch your partner " We'd never consider anything else   | |||
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"This is why we do same room half the thrill is being able to see/watch your partner We'd never consider anything else "2nd that | |||
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"Lol my hubby really wants to watch me being fucked , I am fine with this, lol was wondering do other men have the same thoughts, and would someone be ok with hubby watching lol xx" I've had it plenty of times, once you're that into a woman you quickly forgetsomeone is watching | |||
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 So, if you're interested, please contact me. "Lol my hubby really wants to watch me being fucked , I am fine with this, lol was wondering do other men have the same thoughts, and would someone be ok with hubby watching lol xx" | |||
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"It's fantastic. If he has inclinations that way as soon as you do it his mind will be blown " Can't agree more!!! | |||
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"This is why we do same room half the thrill is being able to see/watch your partner " had two meets (same couple) where he leaves us in bedroom with door open ....he stays in next room listening. her sex is always quite loud as well ....fantastic | |||
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"We've done this quite a few times, Mr C really loves watching me getting fucked and giving head but its surprising the number of guys that arent actually comfortable with being watched. We'd love to do it a whole lot more just shame guys are nervous about it. Mrs x" | |||
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"I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx" Would you still be a swinger ? For me I love seeing Kath enjoy herself it's like fantasy/porn right next to you. We always make sure everyone is involved so it may be that I'm taking a break chatting with the guys partner as they are still at it or just pausing for a second to admire. I love her to bits and think she is stunning so to see her in the throws of passion is amazing for me. I l ow its me she is coming home with at the end of the night | |||
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"I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx" | |||
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"I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx Would you still be a swinger ? For me I love seeing Kath enjoy herself it's like fantasy/porn right next to you. We always make sure everyone is involved so it may be that I'm taking a break chatting with the guys partner as they are still at it or just pausing for a second to admire. I love her to bits and think she is stunning so to see her in the throws of passion is amazing for me. I l ow its me she is coming home with at the end of the night " | |||
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"I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx Would you still be a swinger ? For me I love seeing Kath enjoy herself it's like fantasy/porn right next to you. We always make sure everyone is involved so it may be that I'm taking a break chatting with the guys partner as they are still at it or just pausing for a second to admire. I love her to bits and think she is stunning so to see her in the throws of passion is amazing for me. I l ow its me she is coming home with at the end of the night " Thank you x | |||
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"My hubby is happy to - wants to - watch me & another man or woman. But i don't think i want to watch him with other people... So where does that leave us... Anyone else the same? " Then just enjoy what you both feel comfortable with, I love to watch Ali, give him the show of his life, there's plenty of men who will oblige on here. | |||
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"We are both hoping to try this, and are looking forward to it, not so much being nervous lol as finding the right people lol" Ah never be nervous but saying that im always nervous and super shy hehe and weve been playing for 2 years. ""I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx" Would you still be a swinger ? For me I love seeing Kath enjoy herself it's like fantasy/porn right next to you. We always make sure everyone is involved so it may be that I'm taking a break chatting with the guys partner as they are still at it or just pausing for a second to admire. I love her to bits and think she is stunning so to see her in the throws of passion is amazing for me. I know its me she is coming home with at the end of the night" This, How on earth do you think swinging works? I'll let Mr C answer this one but in short for me its quite simply what has been said above. Were in a loving and secure relationship but have a love for seeing each other enjoying themselves with other people and knowing that when its home time hes mine and im his. Mrs x | |||
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"My hubby is happy to - wants to - watch me & another man or woman. But i don't think i want to watch him with other people... So where does that leave us... Anyone else the same? " If he's happy with that and you're happy then go for it. You'll probably find that you get more opportunities for MMF than MFF but you'll still have fun | |||
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"I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx" This is a swinging website which by definition is partner swapping, an easy extension of that is watching your partner with someone else. What confuses me more is why you would join a website like this if you have no idea what it actually entails ??? Its pretty offensive to suggest that you also cannot be in a loving relationship and partner swap/watch your partner with someone else and again bit of an odd opinion to have when you're an active part of a swingers website. Mr | |||
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" This is a swinging website which by definition is partner swapping, an easy extension of that is watching your partner with someone else. What confuses me more is why you would join a website like this if you have no idea what it actually entails ??? Its pretty offensive to suggest that you also cannot be in a loving relationship and partner swap/watch your partner with someone else and again bit of an odd opinion to have when you're an active part of a swingers website. Mr " This | |||
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"I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx This is a swinging website which by definition is partner swapping, an easy extension of that is watching your partner with someone else. What confuses me more is why you would join a website like this if you have no idea what it actually entails ??? Its pretty offensive to suggest that you also cannot be in a loving relationship and partner swap/watch your partner with someone else and again bit of an odd opinion to have when you're an active part of a swingers website. Mr " Glad you asked that as we thought the same hence why we asked would you still be a swinger in our first reply | |||
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"I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx This is a swinging website which by definition is partner swapping, an easy extension of that is watching your partner with someone else. What confuses me more is why you would join a website like this if you have no idea what it actually entails ??? Its pretty offensive to suggest that you also cannot be in a loving relationship and partner swap/watch your partner with someone else and again bit of an odd opinion to have when you're an active part of a swingers website. Mr" Its a shame you're offended by joannekoften's question, but i have to agree with her, that if I was in a committed loving relationship i too wouldn't want to see my other half fucking another guy. This may well be a swinging site but all sorts of people have joined looking for all sorts of things. I myself joined because i'm single and like to enjoy anonymous casual sex every now and then, and although my preference is to meet women only, i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol and at the end of the day, if they're happy i'm happy | |||
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" Its a shame you're offended by joannekoften's question, but i have to agree with her, that if I was in a committed loving relationship i too wouldn't want to see my other half fucking another guy. This may well be a swinging site but all sorts of people have joined looking for all sorts of things. I myself joined because i'm single and like to enjoy anonymous casual sex every now and then, and although my preference is to meet women only, i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol and at the end of the day, if they're happy i'm happy "To us that isn't swinging though. It's all about attitude and a lot of single guys simply don't get it. I suppose it's partly the difference between casual sex and recreational sex. There are single guys that understand but in our experience they are few and far between and it tends to show in their interaction socially and on forums in the way they talk and act. This is probably why you see quite a lot of couple profiles that say "no single guys" or "single guys we will find you" and also why a lot of, what most people would see as, good looking guys get nowhere and yet other guys that are, how should I put this, not conventionally good looking seem to get endless meets with couples. | |||
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"That's how we ended up with this great hobbie, I love to watch Ali, was always my fantasy, she didn't have to be asked twice." | |||
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" Its a shame you're offended by joannekoften's question, but i have to agree with her, that if I was in a committed loving relationship i too wouldn't want to see my other half fucking another guy. This may well be a swinging site but all sorts of people have joined looking for all sorts of things. I myself joined because i'm single and like to enjoy anonymous casual sex every now and then, and although my preference is to meet women only, i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol and at the end of the day, if they're happy i'm happy
To us that isn't swinging though. It's all about attitude and a lot of single guys simply don't get it. I suppose it's partly the difference between casual sex and recreational sex. There are single guys that understand but in our experience they are few and far between and it tends to show in their interaction socially and on forums in the way they talk and act. This is probably why you see quite a lot of couple profiles that say "no single guys" or "single guys we will find you" and also why a lot of, what most people would see as, good looking guys get nowhere and yet other guys that are, how should I put this, not conventionally good looking seem to get endless meets with couples."All single guys should read this !!! | |||
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"I love watching Tracy getting Fucked by other guys very horny. Hope you find a guy that will treat you with respect and have fun." We are looking and hoping to find a not to shy fun respectful man or a couple, watch this space lol. Would also like to thank you all for your very nice post, and reassuring comments wa hay there are real swingers out there THX ALL | |||
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"Lol my hubby really wants to watch me being fucked , I am fine with this, lol was wondering do other men have the same thoughts, and would someone be ok with hubby watching lol xx" I love being watched and filmed , it's a massive turn on for me . I'm in Exeter on 10th sept if your interested | |||
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"I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx This is a swinging website which by definition is partner swapping, an easy extension of that is watching your partner with someone else. What confuses me more is why you would join a website like this if you have no idea what it actually entails ??? Its pretty offensive to suggest that you also cannot be in a loving relationship and partner swap/watch your partner with someone else and again bit of an odd opinion to have when you're an active part of a swingers website. Mr Its a shame you're offended by joannekoften's question, but i have to agree with her, that if I was in a committed loving relationship i too wouldn't want to see my other half fucking another guy. This may well be a swinging site but all sorts of people have joined looking for all sorts of things. I myself joined because i'm single and like to enjoy anonymous casual sex every now and then, and although my preference is to meet women only, i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol and at the end of the day, if they're happy i'm happy "I don't think any offence was taken by the question more the statement of loving and caring relationship. Because it raises the question that if you find a partner who is also a swinger would you would stop them swinging or would you never have a relationship with a fellow swinger. | |||
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"My boyfriend has in the past enjoyed watching me get fucked. He says it is a turn on seeing me enjoying it and hearing me moan. Think it might be time I did it again " | |||
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"Lol my hubby really wants to watch me being fucked , I am fine with this, lol was wondering do other men have the same thoughts, and would someone be ok with hubby watching lol xx" Check out our latest pics, mu hubby is the one taking them so in our case Hubby very much likes to watch xx | |||
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"My boyfriend has in the past enjoyed watching me get fucked. He says it is a turn on seeing me enjoying it and hearing me moan. Think it might be time I did it again "You wont be short of offers.....here is one . | |||
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" This may well be a swinging site but all sorts of people have joined looking for all sorts of things. I myself joined because i'm single and like to enjoy anonymous casual sex every now and then, and although my preference is to meet women only, i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol and at the end of the day, if they're happy i'm happy "You dont understand why someone would partner share, yet you're here looking for casual sex. I'm afraid to say as others have that its the people like you who get single guys blocked on profiles. I have often wondered why some people join this site when they clearly have no idea what swinging is about and their preference is to meet other "singles" for 1 on 1 fun, it seems like a strange site to come to and hang your hat on if you really have no intention of joining in with the core purpose of said site. You need to be incredibly strong and loving to want to share your partner and enjoy them getting pleasure from another. Its also an incredibly horny experience and trying to diminish peoples relationship because you don't understand it is a bit crass. | |||
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"My hubby is happy to - wants to - watch me & another man or woman. But i don't think i want to watch him with other people... So where does that leave us... Anyone else the same? " Mr A loves to watch me with girls and guys, but our rule is that he doesn't fuck anyone else. His cock is MINE!!!! When we play with couples he is soft swap only. We always make that clear and never have a prob. | |||
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" This may well be a swinging site but all sorts of people have joined looking for all sorts of things. I myself joined because i'm single and like to enjoy anonymous casual sex every now and then, and although my preference is to meet women only, i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol and at the end of the day, if they're happy i'm happy
You dont understand why someone would partner share, yet you're here looking for casual sex.
I'm afraid to say as others have that its the people like you who get single guys blocked on profiles.
I have often wondered why some people join this site when they clearly have no idea what swinging is about and their preference is to meet other "singles" for 1 on 1 fun, it seems like a strange site to come to and hang your hat on if you really have no intention of joining in with the core purpose of said site.
You need to be incredibly strong and loving to want to share your partner and enjoy them getting pleasure from another. Its also an incredibly horny experience and trying to diminish peoples relationship because you don't understand it is a bit crass.
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"Its a shame you're offended by joannekoften's question, but i have to agree with her, that if I was in a committed loving relationship i too wouldn't want to see my other half fucking another guy. This may well be a swinging site but all sorts of people have joined looking for all sorts of things. I myself joined because i'm single and like to enjoy anonymous casual sex every now and then, and although my preference is to meet women only, i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol and at the end of the day, if they're happy i'm happy
I don't think any offence was taken by the question more the statement of loving and caring relationship.
Because it raises the question that if you find a partner who is also a swinger would you would stop them swinging or would you never have a relationship with a fellow swinger."That's a very good question. I haven't come across this situation yet as its been a long time since i've wanted to be in a relationship, as i love being single, but let's say for arguements sake that one day i did meet a female swinger and we both wanted to start a relationship with each other. Firstly, i would have to make it clear to her that i would no longer want to meet anyone else, but if she wanted to carry on seeing others i wouldn't try to stop her doing that, as its not my place to, but we would have to accept a relationship between us just wouldn't work so it would be best to just stay as two singles. I have to stress this is completely hyperthetical as i'm currently very happy being single and not seeking a relationship with anyone at all, whether they're a swinger or not. | |||
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"You dont understand why someone would partner share, yet you're here looking for casual sex. I'm afraid to say as others have that its the people like you who get single guys blocked on profiles. I have often wondered why some people join this site when they clearly have no idea what swinging is about and their preference is to meet other "singles" for 1 on 1 fun, it seems like a strange site to come to and hang your hat on if you really have no intention of joining in with the core purpose of said site. You need to be incredibly strong and loving to want to share your partner and enjoy them getting pleasure from another. Its also an incredibly horny experience and trying to diminish peoples relationship because you don't understand it is a bit crass." Ok you've gotten personal, like i thought you would, so let's try and take your points one by one. No i don't honestly understand why you and others like to share your partners, but it doesn't mean i'm trying to diminish what you do or even look down on it. Even though i don't understand it, i do accept it and that you and many others get a lot of enjoyment and fun from doing so and yes i've joined many couples myself on occasion and had a great time with them, so you're wrong, i have joined in with the core purpose of this site. Maybe you should check out peoples profiles and verifications before you start casting out your accusations. Yes i'm single and i like casual sex with women, and if there was a site for just singles who want to meet each other for casual sex i'd join it, but as no such site exists, i am here, like many others. And just consider this, if there weren't any singles on this site, how would couples here get to find people for MMF or MFF? Every comment i make i try and make it as honestly as i can, and invariably i will come across those who disagree, but hey that's life and its what the forum is all about. I'm no kiss-ass and will always try and be honest, but i will never try to put anyone down if their views or outlook differs from mine because we're all entitled to our opinion, so as much as you want me to understand your opinions i would only hope that you would offer me the same courtesy and try to understand mine. | |||
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"Couldn't have said it better. At least try and understand. The hypocrisy is laughable." That's just it, i'm trying to understand. If i didn't want to understand i wouldn't have made the comment in the first place. Isn't that what these forums are about? Gaining knowledge? Also, what hypocrisy? where have i been hypocritical? All i've done is made an honest statement, looking for an honest answer? | |||
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"but i have to agree with her, that if I was in a committed loving relationship i too wouldn't want to see my other half fucking another guy. This may well be a swinging site but all sorts of people have joined looking for all sorts of things. I myself joined because i'm single and like to enjoy anonymous casual sex every now and then, and although my preference is to meet women only, i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol and at the end of the day, if they're happy i'm happy "This is where you are being hypocritical. You want to enjoy the female's of different couples. Yet if you were with your own female you would not wish to share her or see her with others. Also you claim to not understand why someone could enjoy watching and go on to say that if you were in a committed, loving relationship you would not want to see her fuck another guy. That insinuates that you do not understand how a couple can be in a loving, committed relationship and share/enjoy others. To many on a swinging site that insinuation is going to be very offensive. And very very wrong. | |||
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"This is where you are being hypocritical. You want to enjoy the female's of different couples. Yet if you were with your own female you would not wish to share her or see her with others. Also you claim to not understand why someone could enjoy watching and go on to say that if you were in a committed, loving relationship you would not want to see her fuck another guy. That insinuates that you do not understand how a couple can be in a loving, committed relationship and share/enjoy others. To many on a swinging site that insinuation is going to be very offensive. And very very wrong." Firstly, I have never said i want to enjoy the females of different couples, so you're wrong there, and if you look at my profile you will see i'm looking for females ONLY, so how am i being hypocritical there? You're other point relates to my not understanding why couples like to share their partners. I've already said i accept there are many people who enjoy doing this and i've never said there's anything wrong with it, all i've said is i don't understand it and i wouldn't do it, so how am i being hypocritical there either? If my comments have offended you or anyone else i'm sorry, as it was never my intention. I've only tried to put forward an honest statement, as you do on these forums, with which you don't have to agree with or even understand, but as i've proved, you have no basis on which to call me an hypocrite on anything i've said and i would hope you have the decency to withdraw that accusation. | |||
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"I would imagine its a pretty common thing as they've signed up to a swingers site, which is generally swapping partners or fantasising about it at least " You'd have thought!  | |||
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"i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol" Right here you talk about meeting couples. Apologies if you are only here on a swinging site to meet single women for casual sex. This read as though you were happy to meet couples who's husbands let you fuck their wives. Which by your own admission you admitted you would not want to do if the roles were reversed. If you cannot see the hypocrisy in those statements then we'll just have to agree to disagree. Either way we really feel that your views expressed in this thread are why so many couples do not meet single men. | |||
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" This may well be a swinging site but all sorts of people have joined looking for all sorts of things. I myself joined because i'm single and like to enjoy anonymous casual sex every now and then, and although my preference is to meet women only, i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol and at the end of the day, if they're happy i'm happy
You dont understand why someone would partner share, yet you're here looking for casual sex.
I'm afraid to say as others have that its the people like you who get single guys blocked on profiles.
I have often wondered why some people join this site when they clearly have no idea what swinging is about and their preference is to meet other "singles" for 1 on 1 fun, it seems like a strange site to come to and hang your hat on if you really have no intention of joining in with the core purpose of said site.
You need to be incredibly strong and loving to want to share your partner and enjoy them getting pleasure from another. Its also an incredibly horny experience and trying to diminish peoples relationship because you don't understand it is a bit crass.
"So agree. Ok, I am on here as a single but I team up with a lady I adore to play as a couple. I love watching her have fun, if we were a full time couple it would be the same. I think its the really horny thought that despite getting fucked by others she still wants me afterwards. Still being wanted when she's had others is a real turn on. Also, my sexual urge is not my own climax but giving ... She loves to watch me enjoy giving pleasure to others ... | |||
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" Which by your own admission you admitted you would not want to do if the roles were reversed. If you cannot see the hypocrisy in those statements then we'll just have to agree to disagree. Either way we really feel that your views expressed in this thread are why so many couples do not meet single men."
Debs and I were talking to a single guy at a club and I knew he ticked all the right boxes for her right up to the point when he made a similar comment to me while she was at the bar.
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"i'm happy to meet couples too even though i don't really understand why the husbands let me fuck their wives and probably never will, but who am i to argue lol Right here you talk about meeting couples. Apologies if you are only here on a swinging site to meet single women for casual sex. This read as though you were happy to meet couples who's husbands let you fuck their wives. Which by your own admission you admitted you would not want to do if the roles were reversed. If you cannot see the hypocrisy in those statements then we'll just have to agree to disagree. Either way we really feel that your views expressed in this thread are why so many couples do not meet single men." Ah the 'swinging couple elite' strikes again! So you have to have a partner to swap? The husbands 'let' other men fuck their wives?! Wow! Bet your wives feel amazing at being used as bait so you can fuck other women.
People use this site however they want to. You seem to think that your opinion is right and everyone else is wrong. That's funny.
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".Ah the 'swinging couple elite' strikes again! So you have to have a partner to swap? The husbands 'let' other men fuck their wives?! Wow! Bet your wives feel amazing at being used as bait so you can fuck other women.
People use this site however they want to. You seem to think that your opinion is right and everyone else is wrong. That's funny. "'Swinging couple elite', us?  ... Yeah right.
I never said once you have to have a partner to swop. Because we don't think that at all! We were disscusing the attitudes, thoughts and feelings towards the couple.
I never said or implied once I 'let' my wife swop. I have way to much respect for my wife to talk about her like that atall let alone a public forum. As already said that phrase was used by someone that's single.
And I couldn't give a fuck how people use this site. But it's an open forum people are allowed to express their views and opinions.
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".Ah the 'swinging couple elite' strikes again! So you have to have a partner to swap? The husbands 'let' other men fuck their wives?! Wow! Bet your wives feel amazing at being used as bait so you can fuck other women.
People use this site however they want to. You seem to think that your opinion is right and everyone else is wrong. That's funny.
'Swinging couple elite', us? ... Yeah right.
I never said once you have to have a partner to swop. Because we don't think that at all! We were disscusing the attitudes, thoughts and feelings towards the couple.
I never said or implied once I 'let' my wife swop. I have way to much respect for my wife to talk about her like that atall let alone a public forum. As already said that phrase was used by someone that's single.
And I couldn't give a fuck how people use this site. But it's an open forum people are allowed to express their views and opinions.
Glad we amused you."My apologies to yourselves and the posters above you. I was on my phone earlier and quoted the wrong bit. I hold my hands up- I fucked up. Sorry. | |||
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"If I was married not sure I'd like that, but wouldn't mind being the one fucking while hubby watched " and do you not find this slightly hypocritical? | |||
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".Ah the 'swinging couple elite' strikes again! So you have to have a partner to swap? The husbands 'let' other men fuck their wives?! Wow! Bet your wives feel amazing at being used as bait so you can fuck other women.
People use this site however they want to. You seem to think that your opinion is right and everyone else is wrong. That's funny.
'Swinging couple elite', us? ... Yeah right.
I never said once you have to have a partner to swop. Because we don't think that at all! We were disscusing the attitudes, thoughts and feelings towards the couple.
I never said or implied once I 'let' my wife swop. I have way to much respect for my wife to talk about her like that atall let alone a public forum. As already said that phrase was used by someone that's single.
And I couldn't give a fuck how people use this site. But it's an open forum people are allowed to express their views and opinions.
Glad we amused you.
My apologies to yourselves and the posters above you. I was on my phone earlier and quoted the wrong bit.
I hold my hands up- I fucked up. Sorry. "No problem atall. My phone has many fucked up posts to answer for aswell
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"I dont get it. Can someone please explain what is horny about it (preferably the hubby). I'm not judging, its just that if I was in a committed loving relationship, I doubt i would like to see my other half fucking another woman. Interested to know why its a turn on xx" I used to think like this Joanne. In my late thirties I fell truly, madly, deeply in love with a man for the first time. I had loved before but this was so much more intense and it made me vulnerable. We used to swap erotic fantasies but never went further than that. When he told me that he would love to see me fucked by another man I felt insecure believing he did not love as he wanted to share me. I certainly knew I did not want to share him and that seeing him with another woman would have destroyed my self esteem. During a separation period I had my first girl-on-girl experience and it opened my eyes to the pleasure of NSA sex. Before then I only ever had sexual relations due to an attraction. Wow what a learning curve, sex without an emotional connection. I began to understand the mindset of some cheating bleeps who have said to me in the past "(I'm not cheating on her-in-doors emotionally as) it's only sex". When we got back together and during one raunchy session of fucking and love-making, I saw us in the mirror. It was as though I could step outside of myself and watch us and also be part of it. I found it so incredibly horny I could imagine watching my boyfriend with another woman. I loved my boyfriend and he loved me, this pleasure would be external to our love and yet enhance it... well this is what I imagine as we never got to try it (the dynamics of a distance relationship). Fast forward a couple of years following a permanent split, I started to get increasingly curious about exhibitionism, voyeurism, multiple partners etc and met someone off the internet who opened my eyes to swinging. We became exclusive and would partake in swinging clubs. Ohhh it was Heaven . Unfortunately though the sex was fantastic, there was nothing to gel us into a relationship so Sayonara was said.
The bottom line is that my mindset has changed (and I am much more secure in myself as a person). I am so much hornier and constantly watch non-vanilla porn putting myself in the position of the lucky girl. I would love to settle down with someone who has a similar mindset. Due to understanding the vulnerabilities that go with falling in love, the insecurities and jealousies which may arise, having a swinging partner is not the be all and end all for me, but very much desired. What is, is the fact he would have to allow the fantasies, ie enact them in the proverbial bedroom, for good sex starts with a horny body but great sex starts in the mind. | |||
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".Ah the 'swinging couple elite' strikes again! So you have to have a partner to swap? The husbands 'let' other men fuck their wives?! Wow! Bet your wives feel amazing at being used as bait so you can fuck other women.
People use this site however they want to. You seem to think that your opinion is right and everyone else is wrong. That's funny.
'Swinging couple elite', us? ... Yeah right.
I never said once you have to have a partner to swop. Because we don't think that at all! We were disscusing the attitudes, thoughts and feelings towards the couple.
I never said or implied once I 'let' my wife swop. I have way to much respect for my wife to talk about her like that atall let alone a public forum. As already said that phrase was used by someone that's single.
And I couldn't give a fuck how people use this site. But it's an open forum people are allowed to express their views and opinions.
Glad we amused you.
My apologies to yourselves and the posters above you. I was on my phone earlier and quoted the wrong bit.
I hold my hands up- I fucked up. Sorry. "Thought it was strange
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"Lol my hubby really wants to watch me being fucked , I am fine with this, lol was wondering do other men have the same thoughts, and would someone be ok with hubby watching lol xx" I have met couples where the hubby likes to watch and I have no problem, it can be a big turn on | |||
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"That's one of the thrills of swinging - watching your partner with others and being watched in return. " | |||
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"My hubby is happy to - wants to - watch me & another man or woman. But i don't think i want to watch him with other people... So where does that leave us... Anyone else the same? " This sounds like us a few years ago. After trying (and failing) to get anything going with any couples we'd contacted we settled on meeting a single guy. We loved it so much we didn't actually meet a couple for ages. When we did I (miss) was apprehensive - not because of jealousy but he obviously loved watching me with other men, and I just didn't feel the same way about watching him with other women. Must admit, even now it's something I have grown to like rather than it being an out and out turn-on.. but, let's just say, we manage | |||
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"That's one of the thrills of swinging - watching your partner with others and being watched in return. " Summed up perfectly, we both love seeing each other play with others we relive it afterwards all the time | |||
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"Lol my hubby really wants to watch me being fucked , I am fine with this, lol was wondering do other men have the same thoughts, and would someone be ok with hubby watching lol xx" We are the complete opposite where my wife likes watching me with other women but we have had a couple aswell where her fella watches me with her | |||
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"Lol my hubby really wants to watch me being fucked , I am fine with this, lol was wondering do other men have the same thoughts, and would someone be ok with hubby watching lol xx" Go ahead its a lot of fun and get hubby to take loads of pics to enjoy later or better still make a video . | |||
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