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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep hearing how sex is still very important to most people in their 50s and 6os yet going by the people on this site its questionable.

Seems to me people in their 30s are the most prevalent on this site. As search for couples and single in their 50s and 60s there is a large drop off in the numbers.

As a single guys in his late 50s I find it increasingly harder to fined single ladies and couples on here within a reasonable area to me (2 hours drive}.

I guess one of the reasons is that some in their 50s and 60s have put sex to bed. Another could be people in this age group have no interest in swinging.

God forbid I loose interest in sex and I am still a virile guy who enjoys sex but it is far harder to find single ladies and couples in my age group.

I have had offers from people far younger than me and have met some in the past but to be honest I much prefer couples and singles in my own age group.

What are the opinions of us ermmm older generation of swingers on here?

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a playmate who is in his 50, s his amazing I prefer my age or older not into young lads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a playmate who is in his 50, s his amazing I prefer my age or older not into young lads "

Good for you Kelly we have similar thoughts. Maybe its because with people in your own age groups both are more relaxed with one another and on similar wave lengths do you think?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being cynical here but maybe just maybe alot of the people who list their ages in the 40's may actually be in their 50's but worried they wont get meets...just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not being cynical here but maybe just maybe alot of the people who list their ages in the 40's may actually be in their 50's but worried they wont get meets...just a thought "

Along with people in their 40s pretending to be in their 30s I guess there are lots of things people might fake on their profiles not just age like penis size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being cynical here but maybe just maybe alot of the people who list their ages in the 40's may actually be in their 50's but worried they wont get meets...just a thought "

I'm 45 I've never lied about my age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being cynical here but maybe just maybe alot of the people who list their ages in the 40's may actually be in their 50's but worried they wont get meets...just a thought

I'm 45 I've never lied about my age lol "
Ok I am cynical, you need a thorough examination by me to prove your age, its not painfull and fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I say.how naughty lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I say.how naughty lol "

and 2forfun.........get a room

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I'm in my 50s and having a great time and intend to do so for as long as I possibly can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm in my 50s and having a great time and intend to do so for as long as I possibly can. "

You go girl and why not indeed. A sexy 50s lady will get a hell of a lot more offers than a single guy in his 50s however I am sure there plenty of gas in your tank and for a long time to come,

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

We are in our 50's and we are proud of it.

Think our age puts people off as it means we are mature and secure in our relationship.

It means we know what we want and cannot be swayed.

Another factor is we are both straight, and many couples are looking for bi female play.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Plenty of us about - not hung up my swinging shoes yet.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Well I'm as horny now as I was when I was younger..............

Young women do nothing for me , I dont think a woman becomes a complete sexual being until she is at least 40 , and when a woman hits 50............Wooooooo hooooooo...:.........

mature, sexy, confident, ...........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm as horny now as I was when I was younger..............

Young women do nothing for me , I dont think a woman becomes a complete sexual being until she is at least 40 , and when a woman hits 50............Wooooooo hooooooo...:.........

mature, sexy, confident, ........... "

Yeah I think there is some truth in that but others will disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being cynical here but maybe just maybe alot of the people who list their ages in the 40's may actually be in their 50's but worried they wont get meets...just a thought

I'm 45 I've never lied about my age lol "

I am 59 and have no need to lie about my age either........Everyone has a choice to be truthful about their age if they want to.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were of the opinion that the 60+ club were far more promiscuous than any other age group and account for the most STI cases, maybe more to the Derby & Joan club than is thought, what happens at AGE UK ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 60 still active, still horny, still very capable and not nearly ready to stop having sex yet according to this site sex stops at 55. All those who are currently hypocritical toward us mature swingers are inexorably getting older themselves and one day when over 55 will find Fab throws them on the scrap heap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 60 still active, still horny, still very capable and not nearly ready to stop having sex yet according to this site sex stops at 55. All those who are currently hypocritical toward us mature swingers are inexorably getting older themselves and one day when over 55 will find Fab throws them on the scrap heap "

That's a bit harsh. I have met a couple of nice people since I have been on here a few weeks. However I do find it a little strange when people in our age group are looking for younger but hey its a free world and it's whatever floats your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 60 still active, still horny, still very capable and not nearly ready to stop having sex yet according to this site sex stops at 55. All those who are currently hypocritical toward us mature swingers are inexorably getting older themselves and one day when over 55 will find Fab throws them on the scrap heap "

why does not wanting to meet people outside of our own age group make us hypocrites? When we're in our 50s and 60s then we'll meet people in that age group until then we'll carry on as we choose to

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By *iamp86Man
over a year ago

preston

According to the daily mail at 52 I'm not even middle aged yet

To be honest age is but a number and its how you feel that's most important not how old you feel

Me I'm just horny ...

And I feel much younger than I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the ages we say we are and we are in far better shape than most younger people we come across in clubs.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havnt lied bout my age whats the point

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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago

North Wales


"I'm in my 50s and having a great time and intend to do so for as long as I possibly can. "

Just have to say that as a woman in her 50's like youself, your profile is fabulous. Instashag made me giggle, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes go to the over 50s social at Townhouse and there is no shortage of older people having lots of fun. I have never been turned down because I'm four years from my bus pass! Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I keep hearing how sex is still very important to most people in their 50s and 6os yet going by the people on this site its questionable.

Seems to me people in their 30s are the most prevalent on this site. As search for couples and single in their 50s and 60s there is a large drop off in the numbers.

As a single guys in his late 50s I find it increasingly harder to fined single ladies and couples on here within a reasonable area to me (2 hours drive}.

I guess one of the reasons is that some in their 50s and 60s have put sex to bed. Another could be people in this age group have no interest in swinging.

God forbid I loose interest in sex and I am still a virile guy who enjoys sex but it is far harder to find single ladies and couples in my age group.

I have had offers from people far younger than me and have met some in the past but to be honest I much prefer couples and singles in my own age group.

What are the opinions of us ermmm older generation of swingers on here?

Thanks."

From what I read in the forums and on other sites I frequent men and women of all ages "put sex to bed".

I think there are fewer people on here in their 50s and 60s because of the era we were brought up in, although the sixties and seventies were supposed to be very free and easy sexually they actually weren't, information wasn't available in the way it is now, women were still told that "nice girls didn't" and I think it left a lot of people wary of expressing their sexuality openly like a lot of us on here do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I hope my desire for sex doesn't disappear because I will be 50 when i will be able to leave my son at home for the night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm as horny now as I was when I was younger..............

Young women do nothing for me , I dont think a woman becomes a complete sexual being until she is at least 40 , and when a woman hits 50............Wooooooo hooooooo...:.........

mature, sexy, confident, ........... "
well I turned 50 2 weeks ago so here we gooooooo lol

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

If the human body regenerates itself every 5 years then aren't we technically only 5?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I'm positively ancient but so enjoying this site!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep hearing how sex is still very important to most people in their 50s and 6os yet going by the people on this site its questionable.

Seems to me people in their 30s are the most prevalent on this site. As search for couples and single in their 50s and 60s there is a large drop off in the numbers.

As a single guys in his late 50s I find it increasingly harder to fined single ladies and couples on here within a reasonable area to me (2 hours drive}.

I guess one of the reasons is that some in their 50s and 60s have put sex to bed. Another could be people in this age group have no interest in swinging.

God forbid I loose interest in sex and I am still a virile guy who enjoys sex but it is far harder to find single ladies and couples in my age group.

I have had offers from people far younger than me and have met some in the past but to be honest I much prefer couples and singles in my own age group.

What are the opinions of us ermmm older generation of swingers on here?

Thanks.

From what I read in the forums and on other sites I frequent men and women of all ages "put sex to bed".

I think there are fewer people on here in their 50s and 60s because of the era we were brought up in, although the sixties and seventies were supposed to be very free and easy sexually they actually weren't, information wasn't available in the way it is now, women were still told that "nice girls didn't" and I think it left a lot of people wary of expressing their sexuality openly like a lot of us on here do.

"

Yes I think there is a lot of truth in what you say. Good points indeed thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in my 50s and having a great time and intend to do so for as long as I possibly can. "

Same here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep hearing how sex is still very important to most people in their 50s and 6os yet going by the people on this site its questionable.

Seems to me people in their 30s are the most prevalent on this site. As search for couples and single in their 50s and 60s there is a large drop off in the numbers.

As a single guys in his late 50s I find it increasingly harder to fined single ladies and couples on here within a reasonable area to me (2 hours drive}.

I guess one of the reasons is that some in their 50s and 60s have put sex to bed. Another could be people in this age group have no interest in swinging.

God forbid I loose interest in sex and I am still a virile guy who enjoys sex but it is far harder to find single ladies and couples in my age group.

I have had offers from people far younger than me and have met some in the past but to be honest I much prefer couples and singles in my own age group.

What are the opinions of us ermmm older generation of swingers on here?

Thanks."

If I were you I would check out the offers you have received and if you find that the photographs and the profile appealing, just go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 52 and came on here 4 months ago thinking i would never get a meet . And i was wrong . There is still life in the old dog yet lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i've a playmate who is 45.. she's amazing

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

I am mid 50's and having a great time, I joined the site a couple of years ago for sex as hubby went of the boil a long time ago due to his disability, so I went a long time without..i thought at my age and size I wudn't get any interest but I was wrong, I am enjoying myself so much that no way am I giving it all up just yet, plenty of life in me yet..

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By *omeojulietCouple
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Both of us have tend to fancy older older then us... We find very sexy people in their 40s and 50s and Romeo also likes bbws, so age and weight not a major problem with us.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm 51 and haven't had a mid life crisis yet

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

My bestest friend/buddy/lover (all rolled into one) is nearly 64 and I've been seeing him for 6 years.

Love my older men and had plenty of rendevous with guys in their 50s.

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm not far from my 50th, yet i feel sexier and more potent than i have in many a year. I think its down to knowing better what i really like and what really turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being cynical here but maybe just maybe alot of the people who list their ages in the 40's may actually be in their 50's but worried they wont get meets...just a thought "

I've met someone who admitted that they'd changed their age as people wouldn't meet him though he actually looked younger than his actual age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 52 and came on here 4 months ago thinking i would never get a meet . And i was wrong . There is still life in the old dog yet lol "

Same age here and definitely ain't ready to retire yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 60 still active, still horny, still very capable and not nearly ready to stop having sex yet according to this site sex stops at 55. All those who are currently hypocritical toward us mature swingers are inexorably getting older themselves and one day when over 55 will find Fab throws them on the scrap heap "

I think you will find that people are also hypocritical towards the young ones too ie those in their 20's

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

im 72 pm me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im 72 pm me"

Thanks but no thanks and its nothing to do with your age I can assure you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great responses here and it puts a bit of faith back in us old wrinkles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm as horny now as I was when I was younger..............

Young women do nothing for me , I dont think a woman becomes a complete sexual being until she is at least 40 , and when a woman hits 50............Wooooooo hooooooo...:.........

mature, sexy, confident, ........... "

That's exactly what I've found. .and been told.....I love sex in all it's forms (as last night at VA proves) lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 52 and never been so horny but will only consider guys 40-50 as we find them more mature ... In mind and body !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 52 and never been so horny but will only consider guys 40-50 as we find them more mature ... In mind and body ! "

Guys 40 to 50 more mature than somebody over 50 then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 52 and never been so horny but will only consider guys 40-50 as we find them more mature ... In mind and body ! "
And how do you work that out ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

did i say i'm 57...today my birthday

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I keep hearing how sex is still very important to most people in their 50s and 6os yet going by the people on this site its questionable.

Seems to me people in their 30s are the most prevalent on this site. As search for couples and single in their 50s and 60s there is a large drop off in the numbers.

As a single guys in his late 50s I find it increasingly harder to fined single ladies and couples on here within a reasonable area to me (2 hours drive}.

I guess one of the reasons is that some in their 50s and 60s have put sex to bed. Another could be people in this age group have no interest in swinging.

God forbid I loose interest in sex and I am still a virile guy who enjoys sex but it is far harder to find single ladies and couples in my age group.

I have had offers from people far younger than me and have met some in the past but to be honest I much prefer couples and singles in my own age group.

What are the opinions of us ermmm older generation of swingers on here?

Thanks.

From what I read in the forums and on other sites I frequent men and women of all ages "put sex to bed".

I think there are fewer people on here in their 50s and 60s because of the era we were brought up in, although the sixties and seventies were supposed to be very free and easy sexually they actually weren't, information wasn't available in the way it is now, women were still told that "nice girls didn't" and I think it left a lot of people wary of expressing their sexuality openly like a lot of us on here do.

Yes I think there is a lot of truth in what you say. Good points indeed thank you.

"

You're welcome! Having said all that A and I are having a great time, both our kids are old enough to be off hand, we have the house to ourselves a lot, having lived a little we both think "sod it why not!" and neither of us is afraid now to say what we'd like to try...its results in some interesting weekends round our house I can tell you We both say that we have reached a stage in our life when we are physically and emotionally mature enough to form swinging relationships and we both the confidence to handle it ....who knew that all this fun was waiting for us in our fifties.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"did i say i'm 57...today my birthday "

Happy Birthday!!!!!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


" Having said all that A and I are having a great time, both our kids are old enough to be off hand, we have the house to ourselves a lot, having lived a little we both think "sod it why not!" and neither of us is afraid now to say what we'd like to try...its results in some interesting weekends round our house I can tell you We both say that we have reached a stage in our life when we are physically and emotionally mature enough to form swinging relationships and we both the confidence to handle it ....who knew that all this fun was waiting for us in our fifties."

this pretty much sums it..

well put..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well to be honest most females, couples are not interested in older people after mid 40's I have found. When you are young you want things young and new so it goes with sex contacts it seems. I'm 60 and and hardly anyone is interested in me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well to be honest most females, couples are not interested in older people after mid 40's I have found. When you are young you want things young and new so it goes with sex contacts it seems. I'm 60 and and hardly anyone is interested in me."

But your only interested in people younger than yourself according to your profile and you have no pic's at all so maybe there is a reason or two there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well to be honest most females, couples are not interested in older people after mid 40's I have found. When you are young you want things young and new so it goes with sex contacts it seems. I'm 60 and and hardly anyone is interested in me."
sorry i dont agree there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older men but rarely find my type on here. I think they are all settled down

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