FabSwingers.com forum: Bi gem what am I doing wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have posted many meet request but not one offer! ! See below as to what I'm asking for?

What to taste my first pussy! Who can help and yes mr j will watch

Marie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a lot of women would rather have 1-1, not be watched by a man.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Some women prefer not to be the first, so you know if you will like it or not.

Personally, I wouldn't meet because I'm not some performing toy to be wheeled out for the guys watching pleasure. You don't make it sound like much fun for the lady - its all about what you and your OH want.

if I meet with a couple, I want to play with both people, not just be the warm up act and then get to watch you n him rush off together.

As the dragons would say "for that reason, I'm out"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you post meets just looking for single women or couples?

personally I wouldn't want to meet a couple and just play with the woman. Its a bit like putting on a show which isn't my thing.

Sorry if that offends, its just my preference

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Meet requests can be very hit and miss, sometimes you might get a few responses and other times none. We haven't had much success with using it.

Maybe try contacting some ladies / couples privately explaining what you are looking for.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Some women prefer not to be the first, so you know if you will like it or not.

if I meet with a couple, I want to play with both people, not just be the warm up act and then get to watch you n him rush off together.

As the dragons would say "for that reason, I'm out""
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the feedback not sure about the wheeled out comment sure. Mr j is very respectful and it would never be like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a profile that is all about meeting single guys and wonder why single females aren't receptive to meets ads?

And as others have said, it seems all about you 2 and fulfilling your fantasies. Ask yourself what are you really offering? Why would a bi-fem looking to meet a couple chose you (an inexperienced female and a man that is watching) over a meet with a couple where all 3 parties play as equals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a meet request right now and not one single reply! However this IS the midlands, which is a bit arse for this sort of deal! Give it time! C x

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

I'm actually pleasantly surprised by some of the responses.

We don't ask many single fems despite wanting to meet with one because we assume a female wouldn't be comfortable playing with us both without some reassurance we're not just a single male trying to 'pull a fast-one'.

Not sure how we can make that reassurance, especially as having two young children means we don't tend to meet outside of our home. I'm certain a play-mate wouldn't feel comfortable coming here initially but it's the best we can do.

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