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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does this put people off? Someone in a different thread said they think it does.

We have a few and it's got me thinking should we hide the older ones?

Personally we love collecting them. It's a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mentioned in another thread that it puts some people off.

I know for a fact that it does some. Some even have it on their profile that if you have a long list of verifications you aren't for them.

I think with some it's down to not wanting to go with someone that appears to shag anything with a pulse. With others I think they are worried about privacy in that they assume someone showing a long list of veri's is more likely to let slip their secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love collecting them too but have the same worries, plus if you remove some ( we've removed the webcam ones as there's no point really) do people think oh what are they hiding? How many is too many? Well we have about twenty something showing but is that too many still? Always wondered about it ourselves

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Does this put people off? Someone in a different thread said they think it does.

We have a few and it's got me thinking should we hide the older ones?

Personally we love collecting them. It's a lot of fun "

As you can tell by the thread before I love to get them and the more veris someone has from actual meets and not just 'met for a coffee' types I think yes I'd like to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love collecting them too but have the same worries, plus if you remove some ( we've removed the webcam ones as there's no point really) do people think oh what are they hiding? How many is too many? Well we have about twenty something showing but is that too many still? Always wondered about it ourselves "

You could ask 50 people how many is too much and you'd probably get 50 different answers. Reason being there's no right or wrong answer. Only what's right for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We won't shag anything with a pulse lol. We just go to a lot of clubs. Which sometimes can attract a few in one go.

I might hide half and see if the mailbox lights up. I'm guessing they can be put back on later?

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Who knows what will put people off... to many.. to few... bad grammar.. graphic details... repeats... I will display what I like and if people pass me over because of it... c'est la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't let it bother me, the type of people it bothers, will Be The ones I don't want to meet anyway.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

People will draw their own conclusions all the time. Best you can do is use the site how YOU want to. If people are put off by numerous verifications, and you have numerous verifications, then they aren't the sort of people you want to meet anyway right?

Just do YOU, and the rest will fall into place. Don't compromise yourself and/ or pander to others for the sake of a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with all of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it good as i only use as a guide and do not take as the be all and end all.

If someone has say more than five i do not read them all as you can get a idea about the people fairly quick.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"We won't shag anything with a pulse lol. We just go to a lot of clubs. Which sometimes can attract a few in one go.

I might hide half and see if the mailbox lights up. I'm guessing they can be put back on later? "

I do quite a few GBs so that brings quite a few in and often some of the women will fancy do a massage meet as well which again is a totally different thing, I certainly don't go down the shag anything with a pulse route, these days I'm very picky who I host for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to show my veris, I think they show a little bit of my personality. My choice and if people don't like what they see then they will move on to the next person.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I prefer if people actually take time to scan through ours, before deciding that we may have too many.

A quick look will show that around half of ours are from socials etc, and we have been on here for quite a while, so in reality we are not really nasty shagmonsters lol.

However, with the ability to hide some verifs, who's to say how many someone actually has?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love collecting them too but have the same worries, plus if you remove some ( we've removed the webcam ones as there's no point really) do people think oh what are they hiding? How many is too many? Well we have about twenty something showing but is that too many still? Always wondered about it ourselves

You could ask 50 people how many is too much and you'd probably get 50 different answers. Reason being there's no right or wrong answer. Only what's right for you "

Completely agree with that that's why it's always interesting to see responses to these types of threads, it's just something we occasionally think about, as we are thinking about maybe just displaying the last few but will others then think " what are they hiding?" And makes a nice change to some of the threads on here recently :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer if people actually take time to scan through ours, before deciding that we may have too many.

A quick look will show that around half of ours are from socials etc, and we have been on here for quite a while, so in reality we are not really nasty shagmonsters lol.

However, with the ability to hide some verifs, who's to say how many someone actually has? "

That's why I like the veri summary shows who meets or cam's at a glance with our the need to read all , maybe they should bring in a new veri bit and have social,cam or play meet

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I couldn't give a flying rat's fuck what others think. Mine are all on display. Then people can see for themselves if I am for them.

Anyone who is so precious as to think I'm a 'slut' can go **** themselves.

The level of hypocrisy and snobbery around the issue of verifications is a joke on here. All this 'I'm after quality not quantity' crap as if someone who has a fair few veris has no standards. That kind of veiled insult pisses me off.

Who the hell is anyone on a site designed for people to hook up for sex to make judgements about how others conduct their sexual lives?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't give a flying rat's fuck what others think. Mine are all on display. Then people can see for themselves if I am for them.

Anyone who is so precious as to think I'm a 'slut' can go **** themselves.

The level of hypocrisy and snobbery around the issue of verifications is a joke on here. All this 'I'm after quality not quantity' crap as if someone who has a fair few veris has no standards. That kind of veiled insult pisses me off.

Who the hell is anyone on a site designed for people to hook up for sex to make judgements about how others conduct their sexual lives?"

The profiles that I were thinking about when I put the post earlier are women. To be fair there are a few guys on here that WILL shag anything with a pulse. So to some degree I can see where they are coming from.

I can also see where you are coming from also. Like I said in a previous post there is a wide variety of people on here with a wide variety of views and beliefs. I don't agree with a lot of them just like there's a lot of people that wouldn't agree with mine.

It's about accepting peoples views and not judging them for them. Each to their own and all that.

If you are that different then just move on. It's not the end of the world

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By *ittle nelWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I couldn't give a flying rat's fuck what others think. Mine are all on display. Then people can see for themselves if I am for them.

Anyone who is so precious as to think I'm a 'slut' can go **** themselves.

The level of hypocrisy and snobbery around the issue of verifications is a joke on here. All this 'I'm after quality not quantity' crap as if someone who has a fair few veris has no standards. That kind of veiled insult pisses me off.

Who the hell is anyone on a site designed for people to hook up for sex to make judgements about how others conduct their sexual lives?"

this

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I couldn't give a flying rat's fuck what others think. Mine are all on display. Then people can see for themselves if I am for them.

Anyone who is so precious as to think I'm a 'slut' can go **** themselves.

The level of hypocrisy and snobbery around the issue of verifications is a joke on here. All this 'I'm after quality not quantity' crap as if someone who has a fair few veris has no standards. That kind of veiled insult pisses me off.

Who the hell is anyone on a site designed for people to hook up for sex to make judgements about how others conduct their sexual lives?

The profiles that I were thinking about when I put the post earlier are women. To be fair there are a few guys on here that WILL shag anything with a pulse. So to some degree I can see where they are coming from.

I can also see where you are coming from also. Like I said in a previous post there is a wide variety of people on here with a wide variety of views and beliefs. I don't agree with a lot of them just like there's a lot of people that wouldn't agree with mine.

It's about accepting peoples views and not judging them for them. Each to their own and all that.

If you are that different then just move on. It's not the end of the world "

My post was not directed at anyone specifically. Just fed up with the holier than thou attitude of some people on a swingers site.

People's veris are their own concern. They can choose to hide them, show them, edit them or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I couldn't give a flying rat's fuck what others think. Mine are all on display. Then people can see for themselves if I am for them.

Anyone who is so precious as to think I'm a 'slut' can go **** themselves.

The level of hypocrisy and snobbery around the issue of verifications is a joke on here. All this 'I'm after quality not quantity' crap as if someone who has a fair few veris has no standards. That kind of veiled insult pisses me off.

Who the hell is anyone on a site designed for people to hook up for sex to make judgements about how others conduct their sexual lives?"

How lovely

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I couldn't give a flying rat's fuck what others think. Mine are all on display. Then people can see for themselves if I am for them.

Anyone who is so precious as to think I'm a 'slut' can go **** themselves.

The level of hypocrisy and snobbery around the issue of verifications is a joke on here. All this 'I'm after quality not quantity' crap as if someone who has a fair few veris has no standards. That kind of veiled insult pisses me off.

Who the hell is anyone on a site designed for people to hook up for sex to make judgements about how others conduct their sexual lives?

How lovely "

No it's not lovely and wasn't meant to be. Too many on this site judge others - and in the main it's women being judged. If someone has a huge list of verifications then that does not make them a bad person.

The way people so carefully use pheases as a general put down. Thought I would be more direct.

And I make no apologies for it. There are threads like this weekly and some feel the need to show how virtuous they are and, by omission, imply others are not.

If anyone judges others for having 'too many' then perhaps they should be looking at their own standards and values rather than those of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I couldn't give a flying rat's fuck what others think. Mine are all on display. Then people can see for themselves if I am for them.

Anyone who is so precious as to think I'm a 'slut' can go **** themselves.

The level of hypocrisy and snobbery around the issue of verifications is a joke on here. All this 'I'm after quality not quantity' crap as if someone who has a fair few veris has no standards. That kind of veiled insult pisses me off.

Who the hell is anyone on a site designed for people to hook up for sex to make judgements about how others conduct their sexual lives?"

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

It would seem ok for the couples to have a list of veris...

But it seems to be a bad thing for the singles (men & women)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 14 in just a few months of been on site and have had a lot of meets . A lot of mine are repeats and i do think it does put some ladies off me . I have had comments when i have messaged ladies like " You are to busy for me " . Will not take them off though . Ladies who really want to meet . Will xxx

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