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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u want a 3 some, but then single guys can't message you ? Making it kinda hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meet a guy it will be hard i think

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?! "

think it would be dam well impossible as you've blocked guys ?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"u want a 3 some, but then single guys can't message you ? Making it kinda hard "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that hard! The FB and I had an MMMF Friday!

Keep looking and I'm sure you'll find a suitable candidate! Good luck!!

*I'd volunteer but the FB and I are at xtasia all weekend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?!

think it would be dam well impossible as you've blocked guys ?"

Nothing stopping them messaging folks - saves a lot of 'no thanks' when guys they're not interested in mail!

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By *haynebabeCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

there is alot of single guys on here looking for single guys it could be that you have the single guys block cause it does say you not looking for single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people block single guys from contacting them as they prefer to do the searching and it saxes them being inundated with messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy crap seriously? Have u even tried looking

Just about every guy would jump at the opportunity

I certainly would, and I'm only down the road :D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe because you have blocked single males messaging you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have started looking and to be honest its quite difficult. Perhaps we better knuckle down and study the form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the thread and own unique brand of detective skills. It could be because you blocked single guess?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Try and arrange a GB one day! Almost impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed your meet, but....sigh, hardly local. Shame as I love your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem finding a guy.

What problems are you facing OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As previous poster said, you want a mmf (so you claim) but block single men from sending you a message. So is it just men you message that cannot make it? I can understand why you do this but perhaps you need to be clearer in your original post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys would find u, but how can they when you have blocked single guys,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem we had was we had people contacting us from 250 miles plus away when we said localish. We like to chat to people first before anything proceeds, and we were called time wasters for this. So sad .

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"there is alot of single guys on here looking for single guys it could be that you have the single guys block cause it does say you not looking for single guys"

Perhaps they've been innundated with fantasisers and timewasters when they've posted in the past so they've blocked single men.

Maybe the OP is commenting on their lack of success now they're trying to search for a suitable candidate! The more successful men have precious little time on their hands. Look at me ... my only free slot this month is Saturday 31st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well have a look at me. Generally hard, not that far away. Non judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem we had was we had people contacting us from 250 miles plus away when we said localish. We like to chat to people first before anything proceeds, and we were called time wasters for this. So sad ."

local means different things to different people, uk is local to me,

state within 20 miles, or whatever you perceive to be local,

many people do reply to messages by saying your too far away, as an excuse to put someone off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

local means different things to different people, uk is local to me,

state within 20 miles, or whatever you perceive to be local,

many people do reply to messages by saying your too far away, as an excuse to put someone off.

Lets be realistic when our profile say we can't accom, so people think we will travel 200 miles for a few hours, sorry local is local ie up to 50 miles. Also we are honest if the person is not right for us we do tell them, same as people after chatting to us say we are not for them, I prefer someone to be honest than bull shit.

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall


"u want a 3 some, but then single guys can't message you ? Making it kinda hard "

Yup surely does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm assuming that as have you have blocked singlemales you are being proactive in seeking them out. In that case the advice is no different to most single guys, your profile is shockingly poor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont believe it

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

we've never had any problem finding single men when we need them and I'm very choosy

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We have never had a problem finding them either. Good luck, it will be worth the effort.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?! "

Ok, now I know this has been said before, you've requested that males inbox you yet we're blocked from doing so?

So those who say they are looking and making their choice as to who to meet should read what they've requested in their meet request in their profile page.

This is a very common error when arranging meets.

Couples who prefer to seek out males to meet decide to arrange a meet and then forget to adjust their likes section and unblock single males when they've requested to be in boxed.

I think it would be an idea for the site to have a reminder when creating a meet to unblock those that are normally blocked if you've selected them for this meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with OP - its easy to find MMF / GB with mates / brothers - but I find it near on impossible to being together two stranger men for MMF - most say yeah yeah then melt on the day - I only do it with mates/ brothers now ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of single men in here would team up for stranger MMF it's many people's ideal situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldnt say its difficult finding a single bloke, maybe the word missing is 'suitable'.

messages from london or scotland showing interest are hardly helpful if you live in the midlands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u want a 3 some, but then single guys can't message you ? Making it kinda hard "

Right on! Love the filters! Long may they remain threesomeless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have started looking and to be honest its quite difficult. Perhaps we better knuckle down and study the form. "

My lady friend and I have been looking for another male. It is interesting how many men seeking 1 on 1 with her suddenly shy away when a threesome MFM is mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with OP - its easy to find MMF / GB with mates / brothers - but I find it near on impossible to being together two stranger men for MMF - most say yeah yeah then melt on the day - I only do it with mates/ brothers now ! X "

Brothers? Isn't that incest or have I misunderstood?

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Same here. It's finding someone suitable that's the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with OP - its easy to find MMF / GB with mates / brothers - but I find it near on impossible to being together two stranger men for MMF - most say yeah yeah then melt on the day - I only do it with mates/ brothers now ! X

Brothers? Isn't that incest or have I misunderstood? "

would only be incest if the brothers fucked each other.

nothing stopping siblings sharing the same lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, really struggle to get one.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

To much on the OP blocking single guys!!!

You are assuming they dont contact single men!

Maybe, just maybe, the OP picks the profiles they like and mails them? Blocking single men simply prevents unwanted messages/attention from those they have no interest in!

Ever considered that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm assuming that as have you have blocked singlemales you are being proactive in seeking them out. In that case the advice is no different to most single guys, your profile is shockingly poor. "

Have you guys ever in your life pulled a punch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.

We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?! "

We've never had any trouble finding guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.

We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected. "

I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's too many men on here that think they're gods gift to women or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have trouble finding a couple, so the complete opposite.

Gotta find that attraction though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never found it to be a problem but most back out last min or no shows but some have turned up for fun

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

We haven't had as much luck with single guys as I thought we would, but its definitely not from a lack of messages, just from a lack of desireable ones. Some of the approaches and expectations defy explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We haven't had as much luck with single guys as I thought we would, but its definitely not from a lack of messages, just from a lack of desireable ones. Some of the approaches and expectations defy explanation. "

Feel that pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We haven't had as much luck with single guys as I thought we would, but its definitely not from a lack of messages, just from a lack of desireable ones. Some of the approaches and expectations defy explanation. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's too many men on here that think they're gods gift to women or something. "

For me it's the ones that think they are joining in because the other man involved isn't good enough... I take great offence at that. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's too many men on here that think they're gods gift to women or something. "

heck I'm just here to get my rocks off....I don't care if I'm crap shag as long as I enjoy it. gods gift ? Mmmmm maybe not

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

you could try raising your age limit

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

OP...your profile is hardly descriptive. Just putting that out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's too many men on here that think they're gods gift to women or something.

For me it's the ones that think they are joining in because the other man involved isn't good enough... I take great offence at that. X"

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I've had a few mmf meets and I don't find it that hard to find a single guy, but like people have said it does take a while for the right guy. Especially those that can perform in front of a.n.other guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?? I'm surprised by this we have endless messages from men asking to join us? Maybe there aren't so many horny males in your area. Xx

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?! "

Its not , I would like to get to know you , ball in your court !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the problem of find a couple that would like me to join in I think there's to many blokes been idiots on here so the real genuine guys don't get a look in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really?? I'm surprised by this we have endless messages from men asking to join us? Maybe there aren't so many horny males in your area. Xx"

Oh great, hordes of competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really?? I'm surprised by this we have endless messages from men asking to join us? Maybe there aren't so many horny males in your area. Xx"

We get loads of guys asking.. but rarely ones we would accept. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im still looking for my first MMF. Have been lucky enough for an FFM somehow...if anyone is near London or looking for another to join. Im available (well, I have to give it a go eh).

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

We agree as it took us a while and it was quite painful lol

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By *enguy30Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?! "
Its a shame you are not in manchester!!!! im always looking for couples who are looking for MMF!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.

We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected.

I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard."
free at the right time... so there wife's don't find out there fuckin another woman

* cReEpS rOunD cRyPt * -|-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard. free at the right time... so there wife's don't find out there fuckin another woman

* cReEpS rOunD cRyPt * -|-"

Lol about right.. I'm also getting picky in my old age.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.

We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected.

I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard."
bloody difficult, but hope to rectify soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a problem finding a guy. Finding the right guy is difficult.

We always struggle to find someone we want to meet or who is willing to put in the effort to get a meet. So you're not alone in finding it more difficult than expected.

I think you got it right, finding a guy is easy. But the right guy, free at the right time... That's hard.bloody difficult, but hope to rectify soon"

Still not understanding why though people have issues or problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hard to find a guy to have a threesome with!! You'd think it wouldn't be that hard wouldn't you?! "

Move to Chester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it difficult? I've had a few MMF and I'm rather choosy, its about picking out the genuine and having patience

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg


"There's too many men on here that think they're gods gift to women or something.

For me it's the ones that think they are joining in because the other man involved isn't good enough... I take great offence at that. X"

Couldn't agree more. Its amazing to me how many guys have turned us completely off with little mind games and not nearly as clever and subtle as they think suggestions and assumptions.

We just like to push the envelope and find ways to get each other off even harder. We are already each other's ultimate lover. It has been surprising how many guys have messaged with the assumption that they are coming in to "help" me in an area in which I am deficient.

We have even had guys try to begin to joust with me for dominance in their earliest communications. Complete turn off.

My guess is they are the same guys that post that no one will meet up with them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would help if single men werent blocked

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