FabSwingers.com forum: Weeding out the fakes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, we've jut spent thirty minutes looking through a search and have found at least four definite fakes using the google reverse image search and finding that the pictures are taken from porn sites. We have reported these fakes, of course, however we also realise that we could have continued down the list and probably reported another 10 at least, if not more. Are we just wasting our time reporting them? Just to have them log back on with a new fake profile probably only hours later?

OR do you all fancy a mass uprising against fakes whre we pledge to spend thrity minutes each reporting all the fakes we can find in that time to admin!? I think we know what your general response will be.....I know, I know we all have so many better things to do! It's just so frustrating to waste hours on searches full of fakes that it sometimes seems that wasting hours ing them out may be time better spent in the long run?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We couldn't be moithered with doing that - it's pretty easy to spot fakes -loads of genuine people so it's better just to message the real profiles. Z

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Until the proper checks are put in at source you are probably wasting your time to be honest. For every one reported another ten will be submitted and approved. I don't bother anymore - well you can't from the mobile site anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stick to the genuine profiles!

You will be there forever if you just seek out fakes

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

If you're bothered just filter out all non-verified and that should get rid of at least 80% of the fakes but will also get rid of genuine newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And one other point is if you can only be verified by meeting in person !

This webcam verification is so open to abuse !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuine...honest

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Sorry, I'd rather spend that time searching and messaging people who are real on here.

Look only for photo-verified, or verified. Block anyone not verified if it bothers you.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"And one other point is if you can only be verified by meeting in person !

This webcam verification is so open to abuse ! "

Just go for picture verified.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's easy to spot fakes! Most are single men trying to pass off as couples...why? I have no idea, but they do, but the female half of a couple should easily be able to spot them as men and women speak totally different, and proper couples 'normally' have a half decent written profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And one other point is if you can only be verified by meeting in person !

This webcam verification is so open to abuse !

Just go for picture verified."

I'm not picture verified.. But certainly not a fake.. Anyone can photo shop a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, we've jut spent thirty minutes looking through a search and have found at least four definite fakes using the google reverse image search and finding that the pictures are taken from porn sites. We have reported these fakes, of course, however we also realise that we could have continued down the list and probably reported another 10 at least, if not more. Are we just wasting our time reporting them? Just to have them log back on with a new fake profile probably only hours later?

I already do this on a regular basis!

Maybe I just have too much free time on my hands!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And one other point is if you can only be verified by meeting in person !

This webcam verification is so open to abuse !

Just go for picture verified.

I'm not picture verified.. But certainly not a fake.. Anyone can photo shop a pic

Why have you chosen noyt to be photo verified?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I already do this on a regular basis!

Maybe I just have too much free time on my hands!

good to hear we're not the only ones then!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good intent

Only ones I report are, if there is a full face of female on a guy with his head chopped off pic.. But even then, I have given up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst fakes are usually female profiles age under 20 and the only pic is a stunning face pic !

Probably some guy getting of by pretending he's a young stunning girl .

And there never gold or silver members

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"And one other point is if you can only be verified by meeting in person !

This webcam verification is so open to abuse !

Just go for picture verified.

I'm not picture verified.. But certainly not a fake.. Anyone can photo shop a pic

That's why I look for verified in person too. Along with a variety of pics - including face pics. Hard to fake all of that - though, I concede, not impossible.

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By *atladyCouple
over a year ago

wigan

im not verified but neither am I a fake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooo you found me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x"

Personal preference I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And one other point is if you can only be verified by meeting in person !

This webcam verification is so open to abuse !

Just go for picture verified.

I'm not picture verified.. But certainly not a fake.. Anyone can photo shop a pic

Why have you chosen noyt to be photo verified?

I've never been in a position where I felt I needed to, maybe if I had been unfortunate not to get any meets then I may have reconsidered ..as it is I feel it's not required. My choice

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x"

Just cos we don't want to? I would think a good range of meet verifications would be more likely to show that you are genuine rather than an easily photoshopped photo verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x"

have the rules on photo verified changed cos the reason I won't do it is I won't put fully naked pic of me on internet with face too. I'm not comfortable with my body at the best of times. And I know its not public but for someone i don't know to be lookin at pic of me I just don't feel happy with it

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x

It's either fully naked body OR face. Doesn't have to be both

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x"

We're not photo verified because we can't see the need, we meet regularly, display a few verifications and assume that nobody would bother to pretend to be a 56 year old couple

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I wont photo verify because, whilst I have pics on here and verified by meets, I will not subject myself to having my face pic along with me holding up a sign with my profile name, just in case it gets into the wrong hands, but that is just me of course (it is the internet of course!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im fake

end offff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x"

the obvious answer is choice, however another obvious answer is:

the face image is held on fab, the people that run the site or help run the site are human, if I was very worried about my images being exposed elsewhere I may wish to never be photo verified.The site isnt(in my opinion) going to be as secure as the pentagon(and after all..teenage hackers have cracked that ffs!)

so theres two good reasons

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yeah as you're discovering the odd attitude towards photo verification is just that odd, its a private picture that afaik the only people who will ever see it are FAB admins.

However, if you have multiple verifications over a long time from various sources do you really think the photo verification requests are aimed at you ?

Its a tool to prove people are real if you have multiple verifications then you have already verified yourself and there is no need to get photo verified onto of this nor is there a need for someone with 50 odd meets to get all indignant and be like "OMG IM NEVER GETTING PHOTOT VERIFIED".

Well yes you have shitloads of meets of course you're real.

argh.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Luckily for me there are very few people who pretend to be single men, so I tend to suffer more from no-shows than fakes. However when it comes to whether someone wants to be verified or not I tend to stay out of others profiles.

It's our responsibility to vet who we meet, not anyone else's.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x

Just cos we don't want to? I would think a good range of meet verifications would be more likely to show that you are genuine rather than an easily photoshopped photo verification."
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x"

I am on my own profile - but didn't see the point on the couples one as we've a fair few veri's between us.

If a profile has been meet verified by someone i'm confident is genuine - that tends to be a good enough reference for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fake, I don't exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x"

Never got round to it when I first joined and when I got to about 10 meet verifications decided it was pointless. If people choose not to meet me because I'm not photo verified then so be it but if it's affected me I've never noticed!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm fake, I don't exist

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x

10 meets! u tart!!!!!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

As an addendum to my last post.

I cant speak for the admins but I believe the photo verification system is there to show that there is a "real" person there on a newbie profile, Its a tool to show that someone or a couple or whatever has taken a face/body pic with a sign.

If users circumvent this and go right to meet verifications then thats all good but I dont think if you're sitting on a load of meet verifications that photo verification bears any relevance any more.

There are all tools provided by FAB to allow you the user a bit more info and help on making an informed decision on who you invest time in.

So for those of you sitting on shitloads of meet verifications I wouldn't say the photo verification question is aimed at you, nor is there a need to get so angry about it or indignant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x

We're not photo verified because we can't see the need, we meet regularly, display a few verifications and assume that nobody would bother to pretend to be a 56 year old couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As an addendum to my last post.

There are all tools provided by FAB to allow you the user a bit more info and help on making an informed decision on who you invest time in.

So for those of you sitting on shitloads of meet verifications I wouldn't say the photo verification question is aimed at you, nor is there a need to get so angry about it or indignant.

typical response from a FAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

typical response from a FAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!"

we have been caught out !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x

10 meets! u tart!!!!!"

Guilty as charged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So for those of you sitting on shitloads of meet verifications I wouldn't say the photo verification question is aimed at you, nor is there a need to get so angry about it or indignant.

No anger or indignation here...just giving my reason as to why I never bothered with it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x

We're not photo verified because we can't see the need, we meet regularly, display a few verifications and assume that nobody would bother to pretend to be a 56 year old couple

With the possible exception of a 66 year old couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x

We're not photo verified because we can't see the need, we meet regularly, display a few verifications and assume that nobody would bother to pretend to be a 56 year old couple

With the possible exception of a 66 year old couple lol"

I was a bit annoyed when I met 69cpl..really thought it was about the position..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will always be fakes. Why get annoyed by it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be fakes. Why get annoyed by it?"

cos its MY life!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I dont want to swing unless I can get really angry about things on the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be fakes. Why get annoyed by it?

cos its MY life!

So live it the way people tell you to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont want to swing unless I can get really angry about things on the internet.

Me too. I fuck harder when I'm angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont want to swing unless I can get really angry about things on the internet.

yeahh i'm always giving the middle finger!...but its actually meant sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be fakes. Why get annoyed by it?

cos its MY life!

So live it the way people tell you to!!

I will after u do, then we can double back forward one time when we have agreed that neither of us will or wont or have

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I dont want to swing unless I can get really angry about things on the internet.

Me too. I fuck harder when I'm angry.

Have I ever told you, your knickers only fit where they touch and you've got a stinky arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are genuine people who have fake pictures on their profiles. I have met a couple at socials in the past and thought...no it cant be them then checked out pictures to find they have come from porn sites. Why who knows but life is definitely strange.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

If you report a fake profile on here, all that happens id admin block you from looking at that profile.

The profile doesn't get deleted, you just cant see it anymore.

I reported two last week, which a friend of mine still says are on the site, one of them has photographs of another member on here that I took for her...

so I KNOW they are fake, so I reported it and now I am blocked from looking at that profile !

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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Would be interested to know why genuine people don't phot veryify, Sorry, I'm sure there's a good reason but we can't think of it? x"

We have been on fab pretty much since the start but have never quite got around to getting photo verified. No real reason we have never done it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experienced couples and singles can often easily spot the fakers. However I feel sorry for newbies who are genuine as it is they that are most likely to be taken in by fakers.

I don't understand why single guys in particular don't get photo verified to improve their chances of getting meets. That is unless they are fakers after all

Personally I believe I have done all I can to prove I am not a faker. I am always happy to have a social meet before any playing, happy to cam or chat on the phone but that's just me.

Fakers are the scourge of swinging sites IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont want to swing unless I can get really angry about things on the internet.

Me too. I fuck harder when I'm angry.

Have I ever told you, your knickers only fit where they touch and you've got a stinky arse

Get yer keks off!!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I dont want to swing unless I can get really angry about things on the internet.

Me too. I fuck harder when I'm angry.

Have I ever told you, your knickers only fit where they touch and you've got a stinky arse

Get yer keks off!!!

I've got the chuckles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting discussion. Reality is that I have a verified photo but only one couple who has met me has verified that but then their profile was deleted and they rejoined under a new name. I have had several meets recently but never verified them nor did they do so to me - simply because such verifications here tend to go into too much detail which not everyone wants to share! May be better if verifications were kept to just a brief comment to verify the person or persons met do exist! But agreed there are probably people here from both sexes who are false. Happy swinging with real people. X

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True butterfly.

Ive seen you in tarn with your can of special brew swearing at the pigeons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet mostly happily married men, so would never verify another persons profile or ask them to verify me.

we all have free choice, so far the few guys I have met have been real, not holograms.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is re_iewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly re_iew your feedback and take the necessary action. After re_iewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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