FabSwingers.com forum: Too good to chat with you !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just sent a message to a lady on here with a bit of banter about a status she'd put up ! A bit of lighthearted chat to which i got a reply !

No thank you

I wasnt asking this lady for anything or because of her age seeking anything .

Is banter and lighthearted fun dead now on here ? Do all messages have to be about arranging meets ? Is chat dead ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try answer all my msgs

The trouble is when you answer some one and have banter they then think thats you agreeing to fuck them

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

NO THANK YOU!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will often reply with a no thank you if I wouldnt be interested.. no matter what the request..

If its on chat then I may speak with them... but if its direct to my inbox the chances are I will send back a thanks.. but no..

Or currently.. thanks but not looking to meet.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"I try answer all my msgs

The trouble is when you answer some one and have banter they then think thats you agreeing to fuck them

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OH so it doesnt then ooopppss

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you got a reply, many don't

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

My profile warns that I'm neither meeting nor want to chat.

And yet I still get messages wanting both.

Not everyone wants to banter, certainly not all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you got a reply, many don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime ive had a bit of banter with people ive never spoken to about a status then at some point you can guarantee the word meet will appear

While it does'nt stop me from responding some of the time as I do just see it as banter,for others like your lady its different

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

Start slowly , The banter will come if there is any interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think forums are best place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just sent a message to a lady on here with a bit of banter about a status she'd put up ! A bit of lighthearted chat to which i got a reply !

No thank you

I wasnt asking this lady for anything or because of her age seeking anything .

Is banter and lighthearted fun dead

now on here ? Do all messages have to be about arranging meets ? Is chat dead ?

I adore banter with or without the option to meet.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

It depends what you're on the site for. When you receive about 15 messages, from people who don't meet your preferences, every time you update status banter isn't always gonna be your frame of mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy talking and having banter in the forums doesn't mean I want everyone I talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a tricky one .... I love a bit of banter ... And will sometime reply is the message is funny ... But you do assume everyone that messages you is looking for a meet ! So unless you say then sometimes a no thanks is the reply !!!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Well as the lady in question might not like being discussed in the forums Im going to close this sorry.

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