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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do so many guys say they are straight when they want to bed a tranny ????? You are bisexual and dont know it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say so yes. i think its because they cant get a woman who looks as good as you.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

how others label themselves is their choice and many don't like labels and that is cool

I label them though and a man who munches on a cock, allows another man to suck his cock and or any anal play between them both is bi sexual

shoot me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9 % of who we meet are str8 on there profiles but are 100% bi ..the worse thing is you see they have played with str8 couples who state you must me str8 and not bi

the same on other sites too and clubs are worse str8 couples think they are str8 but ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight but must admit i do look at tvs profiles and pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says straight because I consider myself as being so, after all most tv's consider themselves to be girls. however I do openly admit and my search criteria shows that I want to meet tv's

Also a lot of ladies on here would instantly assume I'm a gender bender if I changed my display to no curious when it's not how it seems, and I would be filtering out possible interest for the wrong reasons

If someone were to ask me I'd openly admit that I meet pretty much anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many guys say they are straight when they want to bed a tranny ????? You are bisexual and dont know it!!!!"

Some guys don't see it that way. Strange I know but they just don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sexuality is on a line from completely straight to completely gay, and at various times in our life we may move along that line, I see Bi sexuality as a cop out.

Labels are for tins of food, not for sentient beings.

Some guys consider themselves straight, even though they would fuck any hole available,

and that's fine, its my boyfriend who is gay, as I have said before,

full balls, empty head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male to female transsexuals identify as female, so really the guy wanting to meet can consider himself straight. Cock or no cock, in my opinion gender is determined in the brain not between legs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was bi till my lass put me in a one on one situation and I hated it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Male to female transsexuals identify as female, so really the guy wanting to meet can consider himself straight. Cock or no cock, in my opinion gender is determined in the brain not between legs."

Spot on there! Nailed it hun xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awww thanks ena xxxx

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By *isa and HeddoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why do so many guys say they are straight when they want to bed a tranny ????? You are bisexual and dont know it!!!!"

We get this a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many guys say they are straight when they want to bed a tranny ????? You are bisexual and dont know it!!!!

Some guys don't see it that way. Strange I know but they just don't. "
its called denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blame is allocated to the wrong party though. If a couple has a male partner that is uncomfortable around a bi guy then that's there preference but it also their problem not the guys

a bi guy not with another bi guy is called a guy,

It is a but wrong that the site creates this situation whereby if a guy who is bi wants to play straight with straight couples he has to change his preference and you blame him for doing so,

Not going to be a popular opinion I.know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sucking a cock from time to time but i dont find men sexually attractive at all, just the cock if its a nice looking one and i cant kiss men, tried it but really didnt like it.

Now a convincing shemale is my ultimate sexual turn on, body , face , tits n ass of a woman but a nice big cock is amazing so I cant really class myself as bi sexual as i dont like men really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like sucking a cock from time to time but i dont find men sexually attractive at all, just the cock if its a nice looking one and i cant kiss men, tried it but really didnt like it.

Now a convincing shemale is my ultimate sexual turn on, body , face , tits n ass of a woman but a nice big cock is amazing so I cant really class myself as bi sexual as i dont like men really."
your bi end of just accept it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like sucking a cock from time to time but i dont find men sexually attractive at all, just the cock if its a nice looking one and i cant kiss men, tried it but really didnt like it.

Now a convincing shemale is my ultimate sexual turn on, body , face , tits n ass of a woman but a nice big cock is amazing so I cant really class myself as bi sexual as i dont like men really."
you defnitely can't class yourself as straight if you like sucking cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never said or class myself on here as straight but im no way near bi sexual as i dont like men as a whole.... i class myself as somewhere inbetween.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of PMs off "straight guys" according to their profiles. If they are straight I must be bi-sexual then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Saying that do i turn you on even you know im a guy in female clothes ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never said or class myself on here as straight but im no way near bi sexual as i dont like men as a whole.... i class myself as somewhere inbetween."
but you suck dick....ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never intentionally clicked on a tv's profile as I'm straight. If a guy does I'm guessing he is bi or bi curious. This is a sex site don't know why they are too shy to admit it in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying that do i turn you on even you know im a guy in female clothes ???"

if thats aimed at me then no sorry you dont turn me on because you look like a man in womens clothes.

Now a man in womens clothes who could be mistaken for a woman then possibly but he would have to be exceedingly convincing, someone who would be mistaken for a woman until they got their cock out but there isnt many on here that ive seen that are like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never said or class myself on here as straight but im no way near bi sexual as i dont like men as a whole.... i class myself as somewhere inbetween.

but you suck dick....ha"

and your point is exactly ?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying that do i turn you on even you know im a guy in female clothes ???"

Not saying this to be nasty or a creep but you could turn any man on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a complex one.

Straight is that you will only play with the opposite sex regardless of emotion through to those that will only be intimate with the same gender. It like 1 through to 10,000,000 with the term bi covering 2-99,999,999

Some try to explain with the terms heteexible and homoflexible to distinguish desire and willingness to play.

I have no definitive answer even for myself.

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Its simple..

If you only want sex with your own gender and the thought of a sex act with the other gender repulses you, you're gay.

If you want sex with both genders, you're bisexual.

If you only want sex with the other gender but the thought of a sex act with your own gender interests you, you're bicurious.

If you only want sex with the other gender and the thought of a sex act with your own gender repulses you, you're straight.

Simples ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its simple..

If you only want sex with your own gender and the thought of a sex act with the other gender repulses you, you're gay.

If you want sex with both genders, you're bisexual.

If you only want sex with the other gender but the thought of a sex act with your own gender interests you, you're bicurious.

If you only want sex with the other gender and the thought of a sex act with your own gender repulses you, you're straight.

Simples ffs"

this is by far the most common sensical post on here.

there is no variation between bi and not bi.

if you are happy o play with the same sex intimately, then you are bi, end of story.

if not then you are straight

if you are interested but never tried it, then curious.

if you eat a bag of chips, you are hungry

if you dont, you arent

if you fancy a bag of chips then you may be hungry, or hungry curious lol)

and, for us (venus specifies) a man that likes to play with other men is not a man she wants to invite to join us, whether he will play straight or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought I would see so much pathetic little homophobia on a swingers site, unprepared for that one

So tell me iam curious what is the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy playing straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never thought I would see so much pathetic little homophobia on a swingers site, unprepared for that one

So tell me iam curious what is the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy playing straight"

Bi guys are dirty, didnt you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh but bi women are fantastic, forgot to mention that one

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By *isa and HeddoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester


"Never thought I would see so much pathetic little homophobia on a swingers site, unprepared for that one

So tell me iam curious what is the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy playing straight"

Sadly there do seem to be some indications of homophobic attitudes creeping in. Maybe some of us should wear pink stars so we don't offend our less liberal minded 'swingers' on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How utterly nonsensical to suggest physical attraction has anything to do with sexuality,,,

Sexuality is defined by the nature of sexual behaviour we engage in…..

So if you willingly engage in same sex activity you are not straight regardless of whether you fancy the person or not..

As for the suit-yourself label argument….. Well that’s fine as long as your consciences feels its ok for what’s written on your profile to potentially deceive partners who may have an aversion to meeting guys who engage in same sex activity …..

To me a lie is a lie and I don’t trust liars,,,

The rest of the world seems quite happy to use the accepted terms of Homosexual. Heterosexual and Bisexual to categorise sexual behaviour so it seems utterly preposterous that on a site intended for sexually enlightened individuals that some people feel the need to try and blur those adequate definitions….

Ask your mates down the pub if men who engage in same sex activity are straight just because one of them is wearing a frock…. They’ll tell ya the truth…

People don't switch gender when they change clothes….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never said or class myself on here as straight but im no way near bi sexual as i dont like men as a whole.... i class myself as somewhere inbetween.

but you suck dick....ha

and your point is exactly ?!?! "
your nowhere near bisexual but you suck cock?.....does it really need explaining?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The elephant in the room is that any man actively seeking sex with TV's/CD's is doing so because he wants sex with someone dressed in women’s clothes but who doesn’t have female genitalia……

Because if he was straight, he'd just be looking for sex with women....

Sheeesh,,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did not think i could of stirred up such a hornets nest by asking one question xxx

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury


"The elephant in the room is that any man actively seeking sex with TV's/CD's is doing so because he wants sex with someone dressed in women’s clothes but who doesn’t have female genitalia……

Because if he was straight, he'd just be looking for sex with women....

Sheeesh,,,, "

Well put soxy

We get utterly fed up with the "bi" guys on here who state "straight" on their profile but when we point this out they claim to be bi as they know they wont get a meet without being bi. I know if Sir asked one of them to suck his cock they would freak out. We herer lots of times im straight but i play with transexuals. Sorry if they have a cock then your bi at least why cant people be honest. I also dont get the couples who are freaked out at the thought of a bi man but a bi fem is great. Recently had a message off a couple saying they couldnt meet us in chams on monday as he would punch any man who touched him. So could i go round to play with the fem on my own. Mmmmmm let me think double standards

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So tell me iam curious what is the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy playing straight"

It doesn't matter how you're playing, if you're a bi guy, you're still a bi guy. End of.

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"The elephant in the room is that any man actively seeking sex with TV's/CD's is doing so because he wants sex with someone dressed in women’s clothes but who doesn’t have female genitalia……

Because if he was straight, he'd just be looking for sex with women....

Sheeesh,,,, "

Spot on

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Interesting thread, it appears that the default stance of accusing everyone who differs from your own opinion as being a "homophobe" is out in force.

If labels don't matter then why are guys putting straight on their profile and openly engaging in bisexual and gay activities ? obviously it matters to someone (them ?), maybe the admission that they are infact bisexual or gay is too much as coming out of the closet is very hard even in the modern age.

What irritates me is the lying, when you get a guy who messages and has "STRAIGHT" written on his profile yet has various sexual meets from men and TS/TV's then hes lying now this might be a very small "lie" in the grand scheme of it things but its still a lie and something (where possible) we like to avoid playing with.

Have sex with whoever you want just be honest about it

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Sadly there do seem to be some indications of homophobic attitudes creeping in. Maybe some of us should wear pink stars so we don't offend our less liberal minded 'swingers' on here"

I for one am not homophobic, i could care less what someone's sexuality is, it truly doesn't bother me, but what does pee me off is the bi guys on here who try to blur the line between who is bi and who is straight, because it causes confusion amongst others and makes some people think even straight guys can be bi, which i can tell you is absolute rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never intentionally clicked on a tv's profile as I'm straight. If a guy does I'm guessing he is bi or bi curious. This is a sex site don't know why they are too shy to admit it in here. "

Or maybe he's just nosey? I click on profiles just to have a look. Doesn't mean I fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread, it appears that the default stance of accusing everyone who differs from your own opinion as being a "homophobe" is out in force.

If labels don't matter then why are guys putting straight on their profile and openly engaging in bisexual and gay activities ? obviously it matters to someone (them ?), maybe the admission that they are infact bisexual or gay is too much as coming out of the closet is very hard even in the modern age.

What irritates me is the lying, when you get a guy who messages and has "STRAIGHT" written on his profile yet has various sexual meets from men and TS/TV's then hes lying now this might be a very small "lie" in the grand scheme of it things but its still a lie and something (where possible) we like to avoid playing with.

Have sex with whoever you want just be honest about it "

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