FabSwingers.com forum: ignorant friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

does anybody else get there messages ignored from people on their friends list. what

do you do if it is regular. block or just leave it and wait to see if they reply?

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only message them if they message me first. just block them.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped."

Same here. And it is worse if they have met you and cannot even respond - even if to say a simple hi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped.

Same here. And it is worse if they have met you and cannot even respond - even if to say a simple hi."

i have met them before. its.getting very frequent now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped."

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped.

Same here. And it is worse if they have met you and cannot even respond - even if to say a simple hi.

i have met them before. its.getting very frequent now"

Accept that it was just a one-off meet. That's what I do - I message to see if they want to meet again. If no joy - off the friend list, leave myself a note in the notes facility to remind myself not to bother them again. Then forget about it and move on. They are not under any obiligation to respond or meet again - though it would be nice if they just said hi but we won't be meeting again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me a few weeks ago. Unfortunately there are a lot of people who are so full of shit on here. Just move on and dont think of it anymore x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Nope. Then again I don't allow any Tom, Dick or Harry on my list.

If the truth be told, I don't have any Geoffrey's either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't got any friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!!!! Was getting paranoid thinking I had some sort of stalker!! Have removed a few, blocked a couple and in future anyone that doesn't respond to my offer to meet either social or otherwise gets removed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped.

Same here. And it is worse if they have met you and cannot even respond - even if to say a simple hi.

i have met them before. its.getting very frequent now

he asked me to meet him again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my friends list is for my friends, if someone doesn't enrich my life, they wouldn't be on my list or in my life. Life is too short.

mind you that's the same with family members, in fact anyone in my life, if they don't add something to my life I don't want to know them, so don't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes!!!!! Was getting paranoid thinking I had some sort of stalker!! Have removed a few, blocked a couple and in future anyone that doesn't respond to my offer to meet either social or otherwise gets removed

thank you im taking your advice

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped.

Same here. And it is worse if they have met you and cannot even respond - even if to say a simple hi."

Yep totally agree if I've met for fun and they won't reply to a simple "hey" from now on they get dropped. Shame but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my friends list is for my friends, if someone doesn't enrich my life, they wouldn't be on my list or in my life. Life is too short.

mind you that's the same with family members, in fact anyone in my life, if they don't add something to my life I don't want to know them, so don't!"

Sensible lady.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped.

Same here. And it is worse if they have met you and cannot even respond - even if to say a simple hi.

i have met them before. its.getting very frequent now

he asked me to meet him again lol"

Yeah some guys will do that to stay on the list. They either make no arrangements to meet or cancel when they do. Don't waste your time with them. And if they message you as to why treat their messages the way they have treated yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does anybody else get there messages ignored from people on their friends list. what

do you do if it is regular. block or just leave it and wait to see if they reply?"

I delete them if the don't reply after a couple x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"does anybody else get there messages ignored from people on their friends list. what

do you do if it is regular. block or just leave it and wait to see if they reply?

I delete them if the don't reply after a couple x"

I delete after one ignored. Don't want to be accused of pestering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does anybody else get there messages ignored from people on their friends list. what

do you do if it is regular. block or just leave it and wait to see if they reply?

I delete them if the don't reply after a couple x

I delete after one ignored. Don't want to be accused of pestering. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

delete them no worth the hassle

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Sometimes it's just the thrill of the initial chase.

Sometimes it's just a one off.

Sometimes people only want to chat just before a meet is arranged.

Sometimes it is because they are plain ignorant.

There are lots of reasons. Far too many to list.

I quite often think to myself that I will reply later. But inevitably later gets even later. I am guilty of not responding quickly. But I always do eventually.

You know your relationship with him. No one else. I wouldn't block him. Just wouldn't bother sending him another message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does anybody else get there messages ignored from people on their friends list. what

do you do if it is regular. block or just leave it and wait to see if they reply?"

yes i do it a bit silly of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's just the thrill of the initial chase.

Sometimes it's just a one off.

Sometimes people only want to chat just before a meet is arranged.

Sometimes it is because they are plain ignorant.

There are lots of reasons. Far too many to list.

I quite often think to myself that I will reply later. But inevitably later gets even later. I am guilty of not responding quickly. But I always do eventually.

You know your relationship with him. No one else. I wouldn't block him. Just wouldn't bother sending him another message.

thats the way forward. removed as friend he will contact me.when he wants something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often think some treat Fab like BookFace.

Is there any need to be friends with anyone your not in at least semi-regular contact with?

Some see it as a means to share pics - which can easily be done just via messages!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I often think some treat Fab like BookFace.

Is there any need to be friends with anyone your not in at least semi-regular contact with?

Some see it as a means to share pics - which can easily be done just via messages! "

People use the site to suit their needs. Or at least I do.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped."

Yup this, dropped or blocked. If you've met them or not its so damn ignorant not to reply. We had a couple do it recently, rude or what, blocking saves us wasting our time. Mrs x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

my friend list is regularly cleared out. Its a rolling place of people I chat to, people I would like to meet, and friends from here.

If people consistently ignore messages and don't reply, then they are off - but I also have a few lovely people on there that contact is infrequent, but they are special

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Sometimes it's just the thrill of the initial chase.

Sometimes it's just a one off.

Sometimes people only want to chat just before a meet is arranged.

Sometimes it is because they are plain ignorant.

There are lots of reasons. Far too many to list.

I quite often think to myself that I will reply later. But inevitably later gets even later. I am guilty of not responding quickly. But I always do eventually.

You know your relationship with him. No one else. I wouldn't block him. Just wouldn't bother sending him another message.

thats the way forward. removed as friend he will contact me.when he wants something"

If he contacted me after blanking a message he'd be told where to go. Don't allow people to treat you as a convenience.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"my friend list is regularly cleared out. Its a rolling place of people I chat to, people I would like to meet, and friends from here.

If people consistently ignore messages and don't reply, then they are off - but I also have a few lovely people on there that contact is infrequent, but they are special "

Pretty much like mine. Currently have only 6 on there. One is my fb, two I have had a number of meets with, two I've met once and may meet again, one is a possible meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant"

which bit are u referring too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does anybody else get there messages ignored from people on their friends list. what

do you do if it is regular. block or just leave it and wait to see if they reply?"

All the time BBW it makes you wonder why they send the invites or bother accepting invites you send.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"does anybody else get there messages ignored from people on their friends list. what

do you do if it is regular. block or just leave it and wait to see if they reply?

All the time BBW it makes you wonder why they send the invites or bother accepting invites you send. "

some sense from a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does anybody else get there messages ignored from people on their friends list. what

do you do if it is regular. block or just leave it and wait to see if they reply?

All the time BBW it makes you wonder why they send the invites or bother accepting invites you send.

some sense from a man

That's probably as good as it gets from me tho

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant"

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met."

thank you for understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met."

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends"

does it really matter what the title's heading is ive explained what I meant below. everyone else has answered my question

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends"

Well pedantically speaking you are correct but the common use of ignorant to mean ignoring someone (which is what has happened) would be an acceptable use of the word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends

Well pedantically speaking you are correct but the common use of ignorant to mean ignoring someone (which is what has happened) would be an acceptable use of the word."

you mean the common mistake of believing it means to ignore someone when it doeant mean anything like that, is ok to use?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends

does it really matter what the title's heading is ive explained what I meant below. everyone else has answered my question

Well by the heading you call them uneducated just for ignoring you. When infact the ignorance is from you as tou dont know the real fact as to why they have ignores tou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's just the thrill of the initial chase.

Sometimes it's just a one off.

Sometimes people only want to chat just before a meet is arranged.

Sometimes it is because they are plain ignorant.

There are lots of reasons. Far too many to list.

I quite often think to myself that I will reply later. But inevitably later gets even later. I am guilty of not responding quickly. But I always do eventually.

You know your relationship with him. No one else. I wouldn't block him. Just wouldn't bother sending him another message.

Yep I think this ^^^ too

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends

Well pedantically speaking you are correct but the common use of ignorant to mean ignoring someone (which is what has happened) would be an acceptable use of the word.

you mean the common mistake of believing it means to ignore someone when it doeant mean anything like that, is ok to use?

Not really the point of the thread though. I think most people understand how she is using the word - even if it is incorrect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ignored just forget to reply but I get messages from them so it's ok. I delete friends who don't message at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some on here that are up themselves.

Just delete/block and move on.

Life's too short for mind games.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped."

Couldnt have said it better once a mail sent no reply swift exit for them on my friends list......I find it so ignorant by them not to reply and no excuse on here !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends

does it really matter what the title's heading is ive explained what I meant below. everyone else has answered my question

Well by the heading you call them uneducated just for ignoring you. When infact the ignorance is from you as tou dont know the real fact as to why they have ignores tou"

now your putting words in my mouth. really why the hell does it matter. if you dont like what i have written dont post simple as that. im not to bothered what the real meaning means. everyone else understood me

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped.

Couldnt have said it better once a mail sent no reply swift exit for them on my friends list......I find it so ignorant by them not to reply and no excuse on here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive started to get a bit more strict wiv ppl that cant b bothered to chat. Alot of men are quite ignorant and only want to talk when it suits them. I wipe them off my friends list now, lifes too short lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive started to get a bit more strict wiv ppl that cant b bothered to chat. Alot of men are quite ignorant and only want to talk when it suits them. I wipe them off my friends list now, lifes too short lol "

thank you. i too have now decided that this is the best way and i have deleted a few off my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we write to someone and they don't respond, we never bother again. If they are on our friends list, they get dropped."

We are pretty much the same if people don't want to reply we won't pester them although sometimes people have deleted as an oversight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but if I did Id remove them

If they ignore messages then they shouldn't be in my list

It makes sense in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends

does it really matter what the title's heading is ive explained what I meant below. everyone else has answered my question

Well by the heading you call them uneducated just for ignoring you. When infact the ignorance is from you as tou dont know the real fact as to why they have ignores tou

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No but if I did Id remove them

If they ignore messages then they shouldn't be in my list

It makes sense in my head"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

update:

before i made this thread i had messaged a guy and said when would you like to meet up again as he did say couple of days previous that he wanted to fuck me again. bare in mind i met him quite a few months ago. no harm.i dont think. to be ignored for.a.few days well more like a week. so fair enough hes not interested. to then be messaged " i will ask you when I want to meet"

excuse my language but what a cheeky fuck. hes been blocked and will never been unblocked again.

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By *heekyFiferMan
over a year ago

Lochgelly

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excuse my language but what a cheeky fuck. hes been blocked and will never been unblocked again.

wow that is the most blunt reply ive ever heard of ever....how could he ever have possibly thought anyone would be happy to be used like that???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends

does it really matter what the title's heading is ive explained what I meant below. everyone else has answered my question

Well by the heading you call them uneducated just for ignoring you. When infact the ignorance is from you as tou dont know the real fact as to why they have ignores tou

no wirds in your mouth as it is what you have written.

as people have said many times its a public forum and if you post you are open to opinions..

Callings others ignorant, which isnt the nicest of things to call someone, when your being ignorant yourself is hypocritical. All i did was start out by asking how they were ignorant as i was truely confused by the content of the thread... the answer im given is unfactual and i just corrected it.. how else do we learn things we dont know unless someone tells us.. you dont need to take offence..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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excuse my language but what a cheeky fuck. hes been blocked and will never been unblocked again.

did you not think to question him as to why you had to wait to be asked? Rather than take offence and blocking him cos of assumptions. Maybe he has a reason he said what he did and didnt word it well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont understand how it makes them ignorant

Be my friend and I'll ignore all your messages. Pretty ignorant especially if you have met them. Friend requests just for a peep at the pics I understand. But she's saying they've met.

ignorant means being unaware or ignoring facts not ignoring people

so how does it make them ignoranr friends

does it really matter what the title's heading is ive explained what I meant below. everyone else has answered my question

Well by the heading you call them uneducated just for ignoring you. When infact the ignorance is from you as tou dont know the real fact as to why they have ignores tou

no wirds in your mouth as it is what you have written.

as people have said many times its a public forum and if you post you are open to opinions..

no offence taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"update:

excuse my language but what a cheeky fuck. hes been blocked and will never been unblocked again.

did you not think to question him as to why you had to wait to be asked? Rather than take offence and blocking him cos of assumptions. Maybe he has a reason he said what he did and didnt word it well"

he defo meant it that way. as i did ask and got my message deleted

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I must be missing something. I'm here to meet like minded people. I hope it will lead to regular meets, that's not always the case.

If I write to a "friend" and he doesn't respond I don't give it a second thought and certainly don't get upset!

Ladies: look around, men everywhere! Ok, you've tasted one tasty morsel and you want more, but see this as a smorgasbord: fill your boots and don't worry about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'tis true there are zillions of us fellas - wouldn't worry if one doesn't reply - just pick 2 new guys to replace him :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I must be missing something. I'm here to meet like minded people. I hope it will lead to regular meets, that's not always the case.

If I write to a "friend" and he doesn't respond I don't give it a second thought and certainly don't get upset!

Ladies: look around, men everywhere! Ok, you've tasted one tasty morsel and you want more, but see this as a smorgasbord: fill your boots and don't worry about it!

im not worried. not worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"'tis true there are zillions of us fellas - wouldn't worry if one doesn't reply - just pick 2 new guys to replace him :D"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often dont reply to messages from people were friends with...I make the other half do it as I cant be bothered....as much as I like them im not interested in chatting on line or speaking on the phone I prefer when we're together to chat and have fun. Plus life happens and I sometimes just forget to reply. Its not being ignorent or rude its just not my thing. Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use the friends list to keep potential meets in there, also so we can share our photos as we prefer to do it this way. It may sound harsh but they are not really my friends I mean I havnt even met some of them... a friend to me is someone who I would see or talk to every now and then, close friends I see or speak to every week.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

What pisses me off is knowing they've read them and not replied in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does anybody else get there messages ignored from people on their friends list. what

do you do if it is regular. block or just leave it and wait to see if they reply?"

Happened today just now. Messaged em n said going to stop messaging you. No reply so will now remove n block. I'm far from desperate n it shows they can't be that interested.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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excuse my language but what a cheeky fuck. hes been blocked and will never been unblocked again.

There is no way of putting things that warrants the OP having to twiddle her thumbs to wait for him to decide whether to meet again. She's done the right thing by removing him from her friend list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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excuse my language but what a cheeky fuck. hes been blocked and will never been unblocked again.

did you not think to question him as to why you had to wait to be asked? Rather than take offence and blocking him cos of assumptions. Maybe he has a reason he said what he did and didnt word it well

There is no way of putting things that warrants the OP having to twiddle her thumbs to wait for him to decide whether to meet again. She's done the right thing by removing him from her friend list."

thank you. you have offered some great advice on here.

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over a year ago

" life happens and I sometimes just forget to reply. Its not being ignorent or rude "

Why get upset? I write to people when I have time and when it works for me and I imagine it's the same for others. If there is a delay, or I forget, it would be a shame if anyone were to take offence, as I am 100% genuine and friendly and have no intention of being ignorant. Real life just gets in the way sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" life happens and I sometimes just forget to reply. Its not being ignorent or rude

im not upset. im happy

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over a year ago

"I must be missing something. I'm here to meet like minded people. I hope it will lead to regular meets, that's not always the case.

If I write to a "friend" and he doesn't respond I don't give it a second thought and certainly don't get upset!

Ladies: look around, men everywhere! Ok, you've tasted one tasty morsel and you want more, but see this as a smorgasbord: fill your boots and don't worry about it!

Sometimes you meet someone whos much better too.

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over a year ago

Never keep a friends list for this very reason .What's the point ? Its not facebook.

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