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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do a majority of fems on this site, be it single fems or part of a couple, seem to be put off as soon as they see that Mr ss is a big built guy with a shaven head, short stylish and well kept beard and tats??

He is in no way unattractive, just built like a brick s*** house??

Is there no place on this site for guys like him???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no x

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

im sure there is, u look like a nice couple,

and nice eyes by the way xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im sure there is, u look like a nice couple,

and nice eyes by the way xx"

Thankyou x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Big sweeping generalisation there, but you're not alone. There are lots of threads by people amazed people aren't breaking speed limits to meet them so pick on one thing to make themselves feel better. The usual suspects are usually asian/married/short/bi/bbw...so thanks for something new.

For the record: I think your hubby is a hottie and I would! I also think you're absolutely stunning: your eyes are mesmerising!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Definitely a place for him... fancy moving up to aberdeenshire?

You're both hot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Big sweeping generalisation there, but you're not alone. There are lots of threads by people amazed people aren't breaking speed limits to meet them so pick on one thing to make themselves feel better. The usual suspects are usually asian/married/short/bi/bbw...so thanks for something new.

For the record: I think your hubby is a hottie and I would! I also think you're absolutely stunning: your eyes are mesmerising!

"

Thankyou xx

I know lots of people post these type of threads, maybe its a way of letting of steam from their frustrations. I think that's why I posted this, sad I know but bloody good therapy! lol

Were not looking for lots of meets, this isn't our life, just our "dirty little secret"

xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yeah, he's a big bugger isn't he?

I have a soft spot for 'biker types' so I wouldn't have a problem myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm me LOVES brick s**t houses

Move to Ireland

Dee

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reality is people are attracted to who they find attractive you say as much in your profile. You have to live with it or alter the way you look but above all everyone should accept that its only fair for people to have a choice who they meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your husband is gorgeous.

just my type

so yes there are ladies who like larger xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem most are into the Essex boy types not men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people like different things dont they? why i dont know.

its like i get messages to which i reply saying thanks but your not my type, so they say why not?

Same as im not everyone elses type.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"The reality is people are attracted to who they find attractive you say as much in your profile. You have to live with it or alter the way you look but above all everyone should accept that its only fair for people to have a choice who they meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does seem most are into the Essex boy types not men"

Another sweeping generalization

I need to fancy a man and my preference on my profile when it's on show is for tall, fit younger men, but that doesn't mean I won't find big built men attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love tatts on a guy and like to look at them once we've played

I also like well built man but it people chose xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your husband is gorgeous.

just my type

so yes there are ladies who like larger xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd meet you . Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow we both think you are horny as hell! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its just 1st impressions, some people see a photo of a big tattooed guy with a skin head and just assume hes a rough diamond,but without actually meeting or chatting with him they wont know,he could be a lovely guy just like myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think its just 1st impressions, some people see a photo of a big tattooed guy with a skin head and just assume hes a rough diamond,but without actually meeting or chatting with him they wont know,he could be a lovely guy just like myself "

I think that's very true

When we were at Pleasure's Friday a few guys said to us that they were too afraid to approach us as they were worried they might offend Mr ss lol

But, as couple's and single fems go we totally understand that they are very entitled to their opinion, I'm honestly not questioning that and never would. Just wanted to see the feedback on the subject

Thanks guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think its just 1st impressions, some people see a photo of a big tattooed guy with a skin head and just assume hes a rough diamond,but without actually meeting or chatting with him they wont know,he could be a lovely guy just like myself "

Oh ps, nice pics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaved headed male here too. Some women love it. Some hate it. Everyone has different tastes.

For those that do like shaved headed men ... you know what to do

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By *heekyladyCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Why do a majority of fems on this site, be it single fems or part of a couple, seem to be put off as soon as they see that Mr ss is a big built guy with a shaven head, short stylish and well kept beard and tats??

He is in no way unattractive, just built like a brick s*** house??

Is there no place on this site for guys like him??? "

I'd hope so ... he's tasty ...you lucky girl you x

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I like manly men so the bigger and beefier the better. The wonderful thing about this site is there all types looking for all types.

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford

I think there all just excuse, I've had loads, I know I don't suit all people / tastes ( shaved head, tatty, pierced cock, too short, not circumcised..... ) don't understand why they don't just say, don't fancy you, least that way you know and don't feel a freak lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have they said that it's him that put them off? There could be many reasons why they don't want to meet you.

I think you're both hot....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive have this problem myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have they said that it's him that put them off? There could be many reasons why they don't want to meet you.

I think you're both hot.... "

Thankfully most are honest and say so, yes. But others ask to see more pics of him then delete and block us lol. Not good for confidence. We prefer when people say so though, honesty is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shaved headed male here too. Some women love it. Some hate it. Everyone has different tastes.

For those that do like shaved headed men ... you know what to do"

Yep, take my clippers to all future meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have they said that it's him that put them off? There could be many reasons why they don't want to meet you.

I think you're both hot....

Thankfully most are honest and say so, yes. But others ask to see more pics of him then delete and block us lol. Not good for confidence. We prefer when people say so though, honesty is best "
if a single guy put this he would be slated about hes profile etc but because your a couple ppl are being nice,count yourselfs lucky lol. I just accept that everyone as diff tastes

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Some ladies do like big built guys, i've learnt this from experience.

And to chime in with everyone, those your eyes are lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if a single guy put this he would be slated about hes profile etc but because your a couple ppl are being nice,count yourselfs lucky lol. I just accept that everyone as diff tastes "

So would it make you feel better if everyone was being nasty to us?? What a strange thing to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some ladies do like big built guys, i've learnt this from experience.

And to chime in with everyone, those your eyes are lovely "

lol thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have they said that it's him that put them off? There could be many reasons why they don't want to meet you.

I think you're both hot....

Thankfully most are honest and say so, yes. But others ask to see more pics of him then delete and block us lol. Not good for confidence. We prefer when people say so though, honesty is best "

We get that too. It does shake your confidence but try not to let it. You have your preferences and there will be some people you won't meet. It's just the same for them.

I much prefer to get a mail saying 'sorry but you're not our type' than getting blocked but I suppose it boils down to the same thing really. Maybe they think they are sparing your feelings by saying you're not their type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if a single guy put this he would be slated about hes profile etc but because your a couple ppl are being nice,count yourselfs lucky lol. I just accept that everyone as diff tastes

So would it make you feel better if everyone was being nasty to us?? What a strange thing to say "
not at all but strange how its allways the single guys that get all the negative feedback.it may be your profile or just because its a swingers site dont mean ppl are gonna shag anyone.ive not once seen any of the regular trolls on here say that to you just because your a couple! If a single guy put up wot you have 100% ppl would be on hes case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We get that too. It does shake your confidence but try not to let it. You have your preferences and there will be some people you won't meet. It's just the same for them.

I much prefer to get a mail saying 'sorry but you're not our type' than getting blocked but I suppose it boils down to the same thing really. Maybe they think they are sparing your feelings by saying you're not their type."

Yes, your probably right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not at all but strange how its allways the single guys that get all the negative feedback.it may be your profile or just because its a swingers site dont mean ppl are gonna shag anyone.ive not once seen any of the regular trolls on here say that to you just because your a couple! If a single guy put up wot you have 100% ppl would be on hes case. "

Ok, fair comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not at all but strange how its allways the single guys that get all the negative feedback.it may be your profile or just because its a swingers site dont mean ppl are gonna shag anyone.ive not once seen any of the regular trolls on here say that to you just because your a couple! If a single guy put up wot you have 100% ppl would be on hes case.

Ok, fair comment "
just saying it as it is.from past experience.wont be long till i get jumped on then your see wot i mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" just saying it as it is.from past experience.wont be long till i get jumped on then your see wot i mean. "

I hope not, everyone's entitled to their opinion, including you, and I can only imagine how hard it must be for a single guy to meet people. Its hard enough for us with my lovely man looking the way he does, hence this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be it's just that some of the people you want to play with, don't want to play with you.

We all get it, it's just the way it is on here. You could say that I'm pretty much share the same description as you, and yes, we've been turned down loads of times, but then again, we've had some great times too.

We've always found that our best meets and friendships have come from meeting a parties or clubs, with people that we've never corresponded with.

When you've been here a little longer you'll grow a thick skin, and things like this wont bother you.

If I was a year younger and if you lived anywhere near us, we'd meet you for sure.

Hope you enjoy your time here

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Note to self.......... close jaw stop dribbling.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Note to self.......... close jaw stop dribbling....."

lol

Love your profile description! lol x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

He is sex on a stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a majority of fems on this site, be it single fems or part of a couple, seem to be put off as soon as they see that Mr ss is a big built guy with a shaven head, short stylish and well kept beard and tats??

He is in no way unattractive, just built like a brick s*** house??

Is there no place on this site for guys like him??? "

Oh there is definitely a place for guys like him a regular repeat meat of mine has shaven head & tattoos.

Shame you don't live nearer to me. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shame you don't live nearer to me. xx"

We travel when we can xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He is sex on a stick.

"

Thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They heading of this topic describes me to a T . Some women love it others don't. I'm not fussed as long as someone likes me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks and nice pics yourselves

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Just peeped and wow to both of you. Shame you dont live closer...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a majority of fems on this site, be it single fems or part of a couple, seem to be put off as soon as they see that Mr ss is a big built guy with a shaven head, short stylish and well kept beard and tats??

He is in no way unattractive, just built like a brick s*** house??

Is there no place on this site for guys like him??? "

My type of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm if you are ever up Burton way, give us a shout xxx

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By *igtruckerMan
over a year ago

leeds

Know what he means personally ime 6 ft shaved head gottee beard glasses tattoos an the odd pierceing .... Oh yea also built like a brick outhouse ... I was built when meat was cheap ... Everyone seams to give me a wide birth dunno why lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the type of guy I look for ......lol xx

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By *igtruckerMan
over a year ago

leeds

Carnt understand why my inbox is empty lol

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