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By *heekyFifer OP   Man
over a year ago

Lochgelly

Just wondering if anyone else finds it intimidating when you see a big list of people listed in the friends section on someones profile???

I personally do as I have not even met up with anyone yet....hell, not even had a conversation yet....but when I browse someone and there is a big list of friends or verified users with comments I think its a bit off puting due to me being new on here. (Ive had a profile here for over a year but never done anything about it till now)

Thoughts on this then folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have friends in real life? People that you chat to but aren't necessarily friends with, such as people you work with or go to the pub with?

It's only the same thing. Don't let it put you off. Once you start meeting/ chatting to people you'll get more confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people think fab is akin to face book and feel the need to amass friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people think fab is akin to face book and feel the need to amass friends. "

I only add those I intend meeting hence the short list, and if they don't chat after being added they get deleted.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Some people add anyone to their freinds list.

Half them they don't even know what they look like, have never spoken to them and couldn't tell you who is on their list.

Don't take things at face value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people think fab is akin to face book and feel the need to amass friends. "

Or it might be that some people get to a lot of clubs and socials so meet a lot of people and use fab to keep in contact with them using the site as a swinging social networking site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if anyone else finds it intimidating when you see a big list of people listed in the friends section on someones profile???

I personally do as I have not even met up with anyone yet....hell, not even had a conversation yet....but when I browse someone and there is a big list of friends or verified users with comments I think its a bit off puting due to me being new on here. (Ive had a profile here for over a year but never done anything about it till now)

Thoughts on this then folks."

Why would people who have lots of friend and lots if verifications be worries about people's opinions who have none ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its easy to gather a huge list if friends but it doesn't mean much, some people like to have a long list and some don't. Also displaying verifications is optional so just because there are only one or two doesn't mean they don't have loads. The best thing to do is make your own mind up about people on an individual basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like to show their friends list. Maybe they think it makes them seem popular.

Some peope are more discreet...

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

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