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Older ladies... How young is too young?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx "
If it was a guy he would be labelled a perv?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

For me, the thought makes me shudder! But then I'm not into youngsters, but there are plenty people that are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I played with a 19 year old a few years ago, I wouldn't meet anyone that young again he was clueless in bed, and to be honest you cant expect any different at that age, I had to talk him thro absolutely everything which isn't my thing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i suppose in this country 15 is too young,if they are 16 then its legal innit...

in the yemen iirc 9 years old and they can go at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your as old as you feel

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

anyone near the age of my son I couldn't get my head around

but each to their own

he is legal a man and you haven't done anything wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm 25 and I rarely find older ladies that are interested, to be honest even the younger ones find it a turn off.

So if any ladies are looking to meet a younger lad then say hello :p x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone near the age of my son I couldn't get my head around

but each to their own

he is legal a man and you haven't done anything wrong "
Legally no............morally I think 19 is just too young to be at this table.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

I meet an older woman when i was 18 and it was on of the best experiances of my life haha she did have to lead but my god the sex was mindblowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its legal, then its purely your own preference. 19 will be too young for some, 19 will be fine for others.

At the end of the day, if you like the idea of meeting him, it would be a shame if you turned the opportunity down on the basis of someone elses age preference.

19 is fine in my books! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find myself attracted to the younger guys....think its the mmmmm fit torso pics

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

th ebiggest age difference we have met and played with is 23 years so if yu look at it like that 19 isn't too young.

It wouldn't be my thing but life is very short and if you like the idea and he is up for it.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find myself attracted to the younger guys....think its the mmmmm fit torso pics "

I must admit younger look better but its a toss up between looks and experience, and most will go for experience that's why us older women get so many messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple rule for us, the guy/girl/couple have to be 5 years older than our oldest child.

Thats just us but each to there own as long as its legal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true.....must say my best meets are usually guys in their 30/40's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find myself attracted to the younger guys....think its the mmmmm fit torso pics

I must admit younger look better but its a toss up between looks and experience, and most will go for experience that's why us older women get so many messages lol"

Lol....very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I don't want to under 25, I want someone experienced enough to know what thier doing.

Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often mentioned that I once (well several times actually) had sex with a woman twice my age, and it was wonderful, personally I found the age gap a huge turn on.

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By *aptzogMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

There isn't a right and wrong answer as long as everyone is a consenting adult.

At 19 he knows what he's doing, doesn't sound like he's under duress, so go for it and enjoy it.

If an older lady had seduced me at 19, I'd have been delighted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women are the best in my opinion

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx "

If you can't decide what's right for you , you are too young for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx

If you can't decide what's right for you , you are too young for it. The voice of experience filters into the forum rooms!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx "

Well at 50 he would be too young for me. But I've met plenty who were 20 years younger. So I don't think the age gap is that much.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

Am i the only curious what wargame shes playing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx

Well at 50 he would be too young for me. But I've met plenty who were 20 years younger. So I don't think the age gap is that much."
That is because you like the younger man. I think its a bit too young (19) to be into this kind of past time

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx

Well at 50 he would be too young for me. But I've met plenty who were 20 years younger. So I don't think the age gap is that much.That is because you like the younger man. I think its a bit too young (19) to be into this kind of past time "

My fb was 19 when he started to swing. He's 35 now. Very experienced and has a lot of great memories.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Age is only a number. You've both obviously got something in common already in the game you play online and he's instigating it not you so give it a try it might be fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

mind you having said all that I would have been quite concerned if my daughter had been having sex with a man twice her age when she was 19 ...and no, I can't tell you logically why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My younges was 22 and I was 54 and it was great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mind you having said all that I would have been quite concerned if my daughter had been having sex with a man twice her age when she was 19 ...and no, I can't tell you logically why "
Because there could be an inequitable situation developing!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"mind you having said all that I would have been quite concerned if my daughter had been having sex with a man twice her age when she was 19 ...and no, I can't tell you logically why Because there could be an inequitable situation developing!"

but wouldn't it be the same with a 19 year old man and 38 year old woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def not too young, he is legal! - I'd love a gang bang with One Direction! Ggggrrrrrr!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx

If you can't decide what's right for you , you are too young for it.

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I didn't say I didn't know what's right for me, I just asked for people's thoughts. I personally think he's too young for someone my age, but I know him well enough to tell him so. I guess I'm just very flattered!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am i the only curious what wargame shes playing ."

Kingdoms of Camelot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to and he offers, why not? Not for me, Im only after the over 30's, if you do have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Def not too young, he is legal! - I'd love a gang bang with One Direction! Ggggrrrrrr! "

Haha yeah, I can see the attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ruling used to be the guy had to be 10 years older than my daughter, now I'm happy with five - which means I'm still not old enough to be his mother

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

I have a rule.......... I wont meet anyone younger than my son who is 34 lol.......Ideally though prefer guys to be 45-55.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I played with a 19 year old a few years ago, I wouldn't meet anyone that young again he was clueless in bed, and to be honest you cant expect any different at that age, I had to talk him thro absolutely everything which isn't my thing at all "
should have told him there's a app for that .. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well a lot of younger males want to try experienced older ladies as they can teach them and new trick or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 36 is around the age all women should go for. However, may I suggest you make it 37 next year!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx

If you can't decide what's right for you , you are too young for it.

I didn't say I didn't know what's right for me, I just asked for people's thoughts. I personally think he's too young for someone my age, but I know him well enough to tell him so. I guess I'm just very flattered! "

In that case.

Age is meaningless. There can be 40 year olds who behave like chimps and are clueless as to sex.

It's always the person .... always.

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx "

He sounds a barrel of laughs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me to be fair I don't really like under 30s for guys. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So meet.. Not my thing but you should be able to tell within a couple of sentences if you want to go any further. Most young boys fantasize about the older woman encounter.. Will probably cum in his pants as soon as you say you'll meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I say is, if you both click, then age should not really matter.

I am 23, and there are many who are older than me that turn me on like mad! and it has been the same for them. But, then when she thinks of our age difference, we just cant meet.

Strange that, but it happens. Dont let age stop you. Its just a number at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Def not too young, he is legal! - I'd love a gang bang with One Direction! Ggggrrrrrr! "

..can i direct you to London?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

as young as you want, but for us we couldnt have younger than our son

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

for us 40 is as low as we will go as we have in there 30is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want that I feel actually wants me... A young lad I wouldn't be comfortable that was the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want that I feel actually wants me... A young lad I wouldn't be comfortable that was the case."

Your kidding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i the only curious what wargame shes playing ."

And there you go theres the difference lol

The 'older' ones don't care what the game is - it is irrelevant to the question pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want that I feel actually wants me... A young lad I wouldn't be comfortable that was the case.

Your kidding!"

No.. I don't want to have anyone that I think just sees me as an easy lay.. or that I should be flattered.. so I stick to over 30s mostly although I prefer guys older but not much older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have both been honest with age, then it is perfectly legal. Just depends if you both feel comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it!!! You'll make his lifetime!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I play a geeky online war game, one of the lads that plays is 19, and has been pretty suggestive about meeting up... I've just kinda laughed him off, the youngest I've had is 25 (recently) but just wanted opinions on how young would be too young? 19 doesn't seem too bad until I think that I'm nearly twice his age

Minx "

Wont meet No one my sons age or younger and he is 33 so tend to meet 40 or over....safer that way

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, the thought makes me shudder! But then I'm not into youngsters, but there are plenty people that are."

Same here

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By *heekychappy1121Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I find the mature woman very attractive an if you like the look of some1 then you should give it a go. Us younger guys aren't all bad . each to their own though

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By *ane_andrew69Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Wife had someone 19 years her junior. She said he didn't have the experience but made up for it with effort and stamina. Never the less she had a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a young guy starts a thread about older woman he gets shot down for calling woman older. Not one person has in here... says it all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's legal and I fancy a younger man, I go for it. Can't say Ive met many young guys that I've fancied though, I make a poor cougar

Xx

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By *orroHoodMan
over a year ago

London

When I was 17 I had my first older woman, she was 44 and can honestly say that it was the best I've had at that age.

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