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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have noticed at gangbangs that a significant proportion of the guys are very slow to start as it appears they are bothered by performing whilst being watched.

Likewise, since my friend and I set up a couple profile, some of her men have turned down a threesome because they cannot perform with another man there.

Personally I have no problem at all with "public" performance so wondered how many guys do? Those that overcome it how did you do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always difficult being the first if it's a queue system but watching others I challenge any guy not to get in the mood but in a group situation or 2on1 I have no problems. I'm not well built and im average looks but it's about confidence...

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

As a woman I can only imagine what it must be like.

I would be comparing myself to others way too much. Performance anxiety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was invited to do a porn film once but I bottled it.

3 guys and 2 girl all Fine, but 20 other random stood about shouting orders, drinking coffee and adjusting lights etc out me right off.

Too distracting and I left before it started... Unpaid I might add. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a woman I can only imagine what it must be like.

I would be comparing myself to others way too much. Performance anxiety.

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Unlike women men need to get hard to perform. This can be very difficult in stressful situations. Do women in gangbang situations take time to get horny?

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It's always difficult being the first if it's a queue system but watching others I challenge any guy not to get in the mood but in a group situation or 2on1 I have no problems. I'm not well built and im average looks but it's about confidence... "

I'll take on your challenge mate and honestly tell you that watching other naked men puts me off big time. As a 100% straight guy i find naked mens bodies ugly and repulsive. So, far from getting "in the mood" as you say, i get completely turned off and so i avoid like the plague any group situations as they do nothing for me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking at the guys, just the situation. The mere thought of a guys hairy arse makes me wilt! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a woman I can only imagine what it must be like.

I would be comparing myself to others way too much. Performance anxiety.

Unlike women men need to get hard to perform. This can be very difficult in stressful situations. Do women in gangbang situations take time to get horny? "

NO. I'm horny just thinking about all the attention from lots of hot, horny hard men. But can imagine it not being that easy for you guys to perform in front of others. I am available to practice with if anyone needs me. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much is the bus fare to The Isle of Wight? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much is the bus fare to The Isle of Wight? Lol x"

Ha ha from Manchester. Would be quicker to fly!

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm not looking at the guys, just the situation. The mere thought of a guys hairy arse makes me wilt! Lol"

You said, "watching others I challenge any guy not to get in the mood".

What's that all about then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not looking at the guys, just the situation. The mere thought of a guys hairy arse makes me wilt! Lol

You said, "watching others I challenge any guy not to get in the mood".

What's that all about then?

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As in watching others perform... Porn.... Group sex. Not looking, Watching?

U watch porn don't u? U don't look At the guys, u watch the action!

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm not looking at the guys, just the situation. The mere thought of a guys hairy arse makes me wilt! Lol

You said, "watching others I challenge any guy not to get in the mood".

What's that all about then?

As in watching others perform... Porn.... Group sex. Not looking, Watching?

U watch porn don't u? U don't look At the guys, u watch the action! "

Yes i watch porn but only seeing the women turns me on. Nothing worse in porn than seeing a mans hairy arse or ugly cock up close on screen, a real big turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, of those that cannot or do not want to perform, how many fear man to man contact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once you start going to clubs and being around naked people i think you lose the self awareness thingy,i have had around 30 people watching me and it never bothered me,i think being relaxed helps also

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