FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys at clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay cant believe I am actually going to moan about this... but really... some need to learn manners..

Standing loudly outside a playroom boasting about how you have slammed everything in the club.. isnt going to get you anywhere.. Or touching without asking.. and even worse.. Touching after you have been told no.

just because I was being a greedy girl with my partner in perversion, some seemed to think that my NO meant just to that action... it actually meant in the end we stopped at went off by ourselves.

So please... No means NO.... I hate being ranty and mostly single guys are great when I have been to clubs.. but last night had a few incidents that were quite frankly annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg i would have been mortified as I have yet to brave the wonders of clubs yet. how scaring if its a new situation. that is very rude. can that person be banned?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

having been involved with a club a few years ago, I certainly recognise what you describe, we didn't let single guys in so it was the male half of the couple (mostly when the mrs was on her period and not playing ) and hubby was let loose to roam....

most trouble came from d*unken women, usually bi, pawing females and males without asking and not taking no for an answer.

I had to eject quite a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest as someone newly exploring with women I always find it really hard to start playing.. a may I... sometimes seems wrong.. but I have had many a d*unken woman paw at me and think its okay..

I wont even grope a guy without asking first..

To be honest its not something I have experienced many times.. and maybe it was just a bad lot... but if I had been a club newbie.( not sure a club newbie would be taking on groups of guys in an open room but) if I had been.. it would have been very scary...

So guys... if you recognise yourself in this .... please think first... As it can be very off putting.

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By *uckspilgrimMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

As a single guy, I agree with what you are saying, there are so many idiots that spoil it for us polite guys who play by the rules, drink is no excuse either, if you cant hold your drink or take no for an answer then don't go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That doesn't sound good. But I assure you I'm probably the most shy bloke in the club when I go which I guess can be a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to be really assertive in clubs. I like to play with my OH in public rooms but in _iew of others. Guys do see me there and try and touch me, if I don't want to I move away. Some continue and they get told no, my OH tends to say it and guys back off then.

It will happen regularly, you have to ensure you stand your ground

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have to be really assertive in clubs. I like to play with my OH in public rooms but in _iew of others. Guys do see me there and try and touch me, if I don't want to I move away. Some continue and they get told no, my OH tends to say it and guys back off then.

It will happen regularly, you have to ensure you stand your ground

I've got no problems with standing my ground. It just shouldn't happen.. some clubs it doesn't... I think that of late though behaviour has taken a dip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't do it myself, I'd have to wait for an invite if someone wanted me to join in.

My first ever club night with a fellow forumite last year was an experience.

It was a pretty quiet night but there was a pack of single men (approx 8), who had all come as a group that literally followed us to every room while I was having a quick tour of the club.

Every time we turned round their they were with cocks in hand expecting a show.

Eventually went to a private room and could hear them all outside the room. When we finally emerged, there was cum all over the floor and the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men just literally walk around with their cock out?

..i couldnt do that. I like the build up to her pulling my boxers down lol.

But, on a serious note. I think some men need to respect the boundaries and the rules. Makes it difficult for the rest of us.

Hope that doesnt happen again Cali x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

have to say I have seen this behaviour in clubs from certain people, however like _iew, the people who have tended to do it were the males of couples who were wandering around on their own......

the single blokes daren't do it at our club or they would be asked to leave and not come back.... whereas at some clubs couples get a bit more leeway....

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