FabSwingers.com forum: Single guy do you prefer to meet couples or single ladies?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a first meet do you single guys prefer to meet couples or single ladies and whichever why? I don't know why but I do prefer to meet couples. I guess it could have something to do with keeping meets as simple with no potential issues esp with regular meets. You may have no preference at all of course. I don't want to upset etc the single ladies on here as the majority are simply looking for fun with no commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both...but for a 1on1 u can normally be a bit more touchy feely

and best about 1on1?- not having some twat telling u what to do and when..

*not met many like that, but they have cropped up, either during a meet or while chatting beforehand

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Just singles for me. I don't meet couples unless its just social.

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By *rimehertsguyMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I prefer to meet couples as you no where you stand with them I believe the husband lays down the boundarys of what goes and dont goes as they discuss what they want from the male before he arrives with a single woman u are always weary of what they want done to them as not always discussed before the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met more couples than I have singles, but that may be because I'm a couple that plays as a single.

I get my one on one time with my lady wife.

Being with a couple is different & exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to meet couples as you no where you stand with them I believe the husband lays down the boundarys of what goes and dont goes as they discuss what they want from the male before he arrives with a single woman u are always weary of what they want done to them as not always discussed before the meet."

whos faults that

sorry to butt in a single mans thread but if your saying you discuss what happens on a meet with couples but not single females i think that says more about you than the women

why wouldn't you treat them the same when talking?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you believe wrong. We both lay down the boundaries by mutual agreement its the only way it can possibly be a successful swinging relationship

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By *rimehertsguyMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I think you believe wrong. We both lay down the boundaries by mutual agreement its the only way it can possibly be a successful swinging relationship

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....oh right ok thats just your relaitioship but if your hubby dont want him cumming over your face but you do .do u just let him . I did say boundarys are set before the meet !

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By *rimehertsguyMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you believe wrong. We both lay down the boundaries by mutual agreement its the only way it can possibly be a successful swinging relationship

....oh right ok thats just your relaitioship but if your hubby dont want him cumming over your face but you do .do u just let him . I did say boundarys are set before the meet !"

If either of us want something and the other doesn't we don't do it. Because both of us want the other to get pleasure we discuss it and if the answer is still no we move forward having learned a bit nor about each other. The best swinging relationships are based on honesty and equality.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

And no if my husband didn't want a guy cumming over my face but I did I wouldn't just let him, we respect each other like that.

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By *rimehertsguyMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I think you believe wrong. We both lay down the boundaries by mutual agreement its the only way it can possibly be a successful swinging relationship

....oh right ok thats just your relaitioship but if your hubby dont want him cumming over your face but you do .do u just let him . I did say boundarys are set before the meet !

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By *rimehertsguyMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"And no if my husband didn't want a guy cumming over my face but I did I wouldn't just let him, we respect each other like that."
...... so u discuss things before your meets arrives like my thread said god help me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"And no if my husband didn't want a guy cumming over my face but I did I wouldn't just let him, we respect each other like that....... so u discuss things before your meets arrives like my thread said god help me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but surely meeting a single would take away all that, if the lady you met liked having her face cum on you could just do what she liked and not have to restrict what you do so as not to upset her fella?

that's just how i see it

ive always found meeting singles better as you can just let go and have a good time without having to worry about upsetting their mrs

if you talk about what you like with singles to you shouldn't have the worry about not knowing what they want to do

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By *rimehertsguyMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

Lol God ain't going to help you here! I think we're at cross.purposes. You said the husband lays down the boundaries I took that to mean within the relationship, I was wrong clearly. You also asked me if I would do something even if I knew my husband didn't want me to and I answered, sorry if that wasn't what you wanted from this thread."
..... I didnt publish the thread im just adding comments to it . Think we do have cross wires I ment the 2 of u discuss what goes before the meet arives but the hubby is more involved in making those rules when its his wife who is going to be played with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single or one on one with partners consent for me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I would hope people would have that conversation before you even started playing..... and that relates to both couple and singles....

so from that aspect it doesn't bother me as long as everyone is having a good time and not doing anything not agreed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, just playing at devils advocate here, but isn't too singles meeting for sex, just casual sex and not swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, just playing at devils advocate here, but isn't too singles meeting for sex, just casual sex and not swinging?"

yes

im not a swinger and never claimed to be

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Lol God ain't going to help you here! I think we're at cross.purposes. You said the husband lays down the boundaries I took that to mean within the relationship, I was wrong clearly. You also asked me if I would do something even if I knew my husband didn't want me to and I answered, sorry if that wasn't what you wanted from this thread...... I didnt publish the thread im just adding comments to it . Think we do have cross wires I ment the 2 of u discuss what goes before the meet arives but the hubby is more involved in making those rules when its his wife who is going to be played with x"

We'll at the risk of you asking God to help you again I would say that for us it is both of us who make the rules but will be A who often communicates them to single guys.......I think we might both be saying the same thing lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, just playing at devils advocate here, but isn't too singles meeting for sex, just casual sex and not swinging?"

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Ok, just playing at devils advocate here, but isn't too singles meeting for sex, just casual sex and not swinging?"

Probably but who cares what it's called.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, just playing at devils advocate here, but isn't too singles meeting for sex, just casual sex and not swinging?

yes

im not a swinger and never claimed to be "

Yes, but if you change your mind, you know where I am

Not saying I necessarily think it isn't swinging, but was just throwing a different aspect into the discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ok, just playing at devils advocate here, but isn't too singles meeting for sex, just casual sex and not swinging?

Probably but who cares what it's called. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest i don't class singles who meet couples swingers either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, just playing at devils advocate here, but isn't too singles meeting for sex, just casual sex and not swinging?

Probably but who cares what it's called. "

Good point, as long as it is fun

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By *rimehertsguyMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

So are only couples called swingers should single guys/females be on a sex site and not a swinging site . I dont know lol sex is sex isnt it cples or singles .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its down to the individul im happy to meet either. but for the right reasons not just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true ,most women are on here for "cup of tea and a slice of cake" sex. Hence I haven't many any women from this site. Nothing wrong with that by the way. What ever floats your boat. cake can be nice lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very true ,most women are on here for "cup of tea and a slice of cake" sex. Hence I haven't many any women from this site. Nothing wrong with that by the way. What ever floats your boat. cake can be nice lol."

ok whats tea and cake sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So are only couples called swingers should single guys/females be on a sex site and not a swinging site . I dont know lol sex is sex isnt it cples or singles ."

Lol if you're not a swinger you're just a fuxxer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok whats tea and cake sex? "

its like tea and buns sex only u have only one slice instead of a platter of buns to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok whats tea and cake sex? "

"oh the guy must be lovely, with lovely eyes and nice nails charm the knickers off me and be so polite I'll introduce him to my mother where they will comment on stories from the Daily Mail" you know mills and boon type crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok whats tea and cake sex?

i must be a guy then, i only want a shag

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

cake? Did someone mention cake? Victoria sponge please.

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By *ovetobenakedMan
over a year ago

stotfold

cake? Did someone mention cake? Victoria sponge please.

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wats that have your cake and eat it lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

cake? Did someone mention cake? Victoria sponge please.

wats that have your cake and eat it lol

Damn right! This is one of the few places that is possible

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Couples or single men with huge knobs

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By *ovetobenakedMan
over a year ago

stotfold

cake? Did someone mention cake? Victoria sponge please.

wats that have your cake and eat it lol

Damn right! This is one of the few places that is possible

so right lovely couple

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I have no preference now. However when I first joined Fab I wanted to meet women only. Think it was because I was scared of performance issues in front of another man. But after a few experiences with couples at clubs I soon realized I was missing out.

I think there's a different dynamic with both but then you could say no two females are the same; and that's what I love about Fab, the variety!

The most noticeable difference with a single woman is I feel it's easier/quicker to establish a rapport because you're concentrating on one person only.

But that's offset by the kick I get when I see a man getting off on seeing his wife/partner with another man; or the closeness/strength of a couple's relationship when they allow another man to enter the physical side of it (ok I'm jealous!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer meeting up with a couple purely for the more social side of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is for single ladies.

Or couples.

Or groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference really. All depends on who I'm meeting.

I would say meets with single females are easier, but that's just simple arithmetic. It's easier to keep 2 people happy than 3.

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By *yLittleMushroomIndeedMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

i have no preferences at all, couples or ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy both. Just enjoy the moment as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a preference as I enjoy meeting either, and hopefully something sparks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no preference now. However when I first joined Fab I wanted to meet women only. Think it was because I was scared of performance issues in front of another man. But after a few experiences with couples at clubs I soon realized I was missing out.

I think there's a different dynamic with both but then you could say no two females are the same; and that's what I love about Fab, the variety!

The most noticeable difference with a single woman is I feel it's easier/quicker to establish a rapport because you're concentrating on one person only.

At last an answer to the posted question for quite sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, just playing at devils advocate here, but isn't too singles meeting for sex, just casual sex and not swinging?"

I'm a swinger...thats what it says Iam on this site..being a member n all that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a first meet do you single guys prefer to meet couples or single ladies and whichever why? I don't know why but I do prefer to meet couples. I guess it could have something to do with keeping meets as simple with no potential issues esp with regular meets. You may have no preference at all of course. I don't want to upset etc the single ladies on here as the majority are simply looking for fun with no commitment. "

My first meet is long gone, however it was with a single girl. Since then I have come to prefer meets with couples. With the right people it's about much more than the sex if you meet for a social beforehand you can have a good laugh and a cracking night out, topped off with some sexy fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single ladies or maybe a couple of ladies..

. Hey, I can dream.....

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

WE to the LP!!

And to answer the original question, i don't have a particular preference. It usually comes down to my mood at the time.

To add to a previous point, i do dislike being "directed" by the male half of a couple. Thankfully those experiences have been very few, but its off putting and annoying as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer couples,

But that's because I'm greedy.

Nick

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

Lol you do really believe that?

The husband gets to say what is going to happen during the meet and the wife has no say? Lol, lol, lol, lol, etc

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

No you said the male half of the couple decides what is going to happen. You made no mention of the female half having her say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet couples although I do enjoy single ladies. With a couple you can make two people happy by pleasuring the female and give them a nice memory for the time they are on their own.

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

My first meet was with a single woman and meeting women on a 1 to 1 is still what i enjoy doing most by far. The only couples i don't mind playing with are the ones where the wife meets alone and the hubby stays away somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet anyone if they were happy to have me :D lol x

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