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do you mind being told to do somethin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Following on from the fingering thread I thought I would ask...

I don't mind if a guy asks me to do something Different when I am playing with him and love to learn new things, same with when I now play with women.. I listen to the responses but also what they say..

Yet when I well try to get a guy to play with me how I like they seem to ignore or have even had a guy get offended and say it's me ..0

So do you listen...?

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do yes whats the point in playin if yoy cant have pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think u should listen and not b offended , if I say it's usually not that there doing it wrong it's just there near the spot that gets me ... Why not say , same as when I'm down on a guy , if he says anything I listen ... Nothing better than hearing them groan with pleasure ... Hey we're all different !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to know what the other person likes, it's a turn on. I wouldn't do something they don't like.

If someone ignored my wishes or said I didn't know my own mind then I'd leave.

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

I think the point is mutual pleasure. Honestly I think it's selfish ass hats who get offended. My hubby gets off on making me moan. We are new to this life style and have recently met a wonderful couple who not only listen to what we want and need but let us know what they want. I think that's the hottest thing is learning about your partners turn ons.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I'm definitely better at taking directions than giving them... having said that I have boundaries I dint want crossed and I can be quite forceful if they are not understood and respected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking directions from a lady is very important for me. The fact the lady is getting exactly what she wants is such a turn on for me.

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's good to watch people play with there own partners and watch what they like doing and you can learn a lot from watching xx lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Taking directions from a lady is very important for me. The fact the lady is getting exactly what she wants is such a turn on for me.

S"

Same here, then second a more meets with that person just get better and better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's good to watch people play with there own partners and watch what they like doing and you can learn a lot from watching xx lee "

You know I think the same.. and I know that everyone likes things differently.. so I'm more than happy to have direction... But for me letting people play with me is new, and I've been shocked by how many don't listen to A woman's response ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what the woman wants the woman gets

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I certainly don't like to be asked, so YES, tell me what to do ..... please sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do as im told

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By *ike74Man
over a year ago

newport

The point is to please and enjoy so way would you mind some instructions to this end??

For I never mind

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By *yLittleMushroomIndeedMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

i would love to learn new things but i havent been able to meet anybody as nobody it seems doesnt want to meet me to teach me anything new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is everything...

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