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By *armers OP   Woman
over a year ago

castle bromwich

I've been thinking about age limits of late. I've been asked by a few people in their late teens (19) and early twenties to play. I find it difficult to say yes because they are not much older than my child but then on the flip side I've been seeing a gentleman that's around the same age as my dad.

So should we not think about age and see it as a number or do you have to really think about the age first before agreeing to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with that one, as a man swiftly approaching fifty. I sometimes see a profile that's just perfect in my eyes but can't contact because of age. This is most irritating thing about this site. However people do have the discretion to chose.

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By *onch37Man
over a year ago

msutton in ashfield

Interesting question

I particularly like the more mature lady. I am 38 and still I have not been able to encourage one to have some fun. It seems there is some kind of stigma to age and a stereo type that puts them off. It's soooo frustrating!!

Are there any older ladies out there that would have some fun with a younger guy that are interested in me??

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By *armers OP   Woman
over a year ago

castle bromwich


"Interesting question

I particularly like the more mature lady. I am 38 and still I have not been able to encourage one to have some fun. It seems there is some kind of stigma to age and a stereo type that puts them off. It's soooo frustrating!!

Are there any older ladies out there that would have some fun with a younger guy that are interested in me?? "

I've hada few messages from guys who are in there early twenties and I have thought ooo two young why would they want an old gal like me yeti would not batter with some one older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it the same. I seem to not be able to find a older guy to meet up with. apparently I am always too young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age range on my profile is actually just generic.

im open to meeting people of all ages, as I prefer to play with someone I click with. And, if im honest. I dont really click with those around my age as our interests are quite different or the sense of humour is conflicting.

however, those older than me I seem to get on better with and am more laid back with.

not sure why that is though.

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By *onch37Man
over a year ago

msutton in ashfield


"I have it the same. I seem to not be able to find a older guy to meet up with. apparently I am always too young. "

How old a guy are you looking for??

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By *onch37Man
over a year ago

msutton in ashfield

How much of an older guy ate you looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it that people are stuck on a #.....

Yes Ivan see young girls 18 and below have no freaking reason to be on this site .... is it different for

A boy 18/20 to be pn this site? ?? .......

Women being asked by younger guys 25and up on this site well its up to you ladies. nobody should judge you ...if it was the other way you can bet a dollar and get a hundred back the man would do it ..... alot of women I see on hear are very attractive. ") I say do it. And do it hard lol. (MR) HEAR.....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

age is just a number ... put up your fooking upper limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age limits 35to65 my message filters are open so anyone around that age can message me but I do get lads around my eldest ones age message me and they don't understand when I say no I now tend to delete messages as there is no way.in hell I could play with anyone that age I do prefer someone my age or a little older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me age isn't a big thing I don't mind if a woman is 18 or 70 as long as there is a attraction xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy with our age limits which will rise when our age does. May bump it up by 5 for the right reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our age range limits are important to us but for the right person we would be flexible as our profile states

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is a number however if people choose to have limits its for personal reasons or just the fact they want younger or older depends on what they are looking for

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By *armers OP   Woman
over a year ago

castle bromwich


"age is just a number ... put up your fooking upper limit "
who would I like to put up the upper limit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting question

I particularly like the more mature lady. I am 38 and still I have not been able to encourage one to have some fun. It seems there is some kind of stigma to age and a stereo type that puts them off. It's soooo frustrating!!

Are there any older ladies out there that would have some fun with a younger guy that are interested in me?? "

Yes as 38 is my limit though you are just too far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer people my own age group and whilst my minimum is 38, I would if I saw someone I fancied the look of go a little lower but probably nothing below 36 and that includes clubs/parties too

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By *orny1103Man
over a year ago

Walsall

I am 51, but it seems a lot of profiles set upper limit of 50....and then switch on filters so you can't even introduce yourself.

I respect that people have preferences, but age (within reason!) is a number, so i find being blocked from contact on so many profiles a little frustrating.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Age limits are a preference thing the same as all the other choices we have on here I don't understand why because people can't find what they want they thing others should alter their preference to encompass them.

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By *lman52Man
over a year ago

glasgow

how very true, it is even worse at over 60

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By *anchesterman87Man
over a year ago

middleton

I see age as a number i have had a 5 year relationship wil a lady 15 years my senior and we have a child. So it can work

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Our age rule is simple. Nobody younger than our kids, and as our eldest is 30 that is where we set it, although we really prefer a bit older than that.

After saying that we do most of our swinging in clubs and we don't ask for birth certificates, so no doubt one or two slip through the net, but we would never arrange a meet with anyone below our limit, or play with anyone obviously younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age limits are a preference thing the same as all the other choices we have on here I don't understand why because people can't find what they want they thing others should alter their preference to encompass them."

absolutely

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By *onch37Man
over a year ago

msutton in ashfield

I travel with work and am in the Gloucester area from time to time??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel with work and am in the Gloucester area from time to time?? "

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore the youngsters 18 plus x Im addicted to them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have it the same. I seem to not be able to find a older guy to meet up with. apparently I am always too young. "
look on the bright side, being too young means you are getting closer each day, those too old keep getting older

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

My age range is just another preference indicator and fluctuates all the time, maybe I should leave it as the defaul 18 - 99 as in any case makes it makes no difference to whom is able to contact me (apart for Fs). I chose very early on to be in control of whom I contact...just another preference. If I am attracted to someone, their age will mean nothing...but I do find that I cannot always contact them because of their own preferences. I accept that this is their choice and I move on!

I hope this makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have the same situation. i like an older woman but it seems a majority of women do not like playing with younger men because of the age gap but personaly i think age is a number but depends on the woman or mans prefernces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have it the same. I seem to not be able to find a older guy to meet up with. apparently I am always too young. "
look on the bright side, being too young means you are getting closer each day, those too old keep getting older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been thinking about age limits of late. I've been asked by a few people in their late teens (19) and early twenties to play. I find it difficult to say yes because they are not much older than my child but then on the flip side I've been seeing a gentleman that's around the same age as my dad.

So should we not think about age and see it as a number or do you have to really think about the age first before agreeing to meet? "

Its one of the filters you can use on here. I think many set wider limits but ideally look for within those limits. When there is so many to choose on here it seems foolish not to filter out people are more than likely not for you.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

Ive had alot of issues age wise. Ive been swinging since i was 18! And i mainly play with over 40's qnd 50's (i like a cougar!) And normally get back the line ''your as old as my child'' I find if your patient with people and your articulate and show personilty you can get past preduces and boundrys. If people take the time age normally matters little. !

Sorry for the spelling was done on my phone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had alot of issues age wise. Ive been swinging since i was 18! And i mainly play with over 40's qnd 50's (i like a cougar!) And normally get back the line ''your as old as my child'' I find if your patient with people and your articulate and show personilty you can get past preduces and boundrys. If people take the time age normally matters little. !

Sorry for the spelling was done on my phone!"

So if someone responds with the line 'your as old as my child' do you then send them another message?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I certainly DON'T want anyone old enough to be my patent or young enough to be my child.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

Depends how long we have been talking genreally if its the second mail. I thank them for there time. If weve been chatting for a while and i like them my normal reply but im not your child and try to contiune the convosation.

There a fine like between persitance and harressment.

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By *aulsussex5Man
over a year ago

nr Gatwick

My personal view is they have to be at least 8 years older than my step kids. would just feel plane wrong to me to have sex with anyone their age even though they are early 20's... they are still my kids!

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

At the end of the day ( i really hate that phrase!) Were all someones kids and ee all have parents as long as i like you i find you attractive weather you 24 or 44 it shouldmt matter

Sorry again using my phone and have fat fingers!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Age limits are a preference thing the same as all the other choices we have on here I don't understand why because people can't find what they want they thing others should alter their preference to encompass them."

Oooh this!!!

I'm constantly amazed that people set THEIR preferences, but get into a right tiswas when others have the audacity to exclude them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age limits are a preference thing the same as all the other choices we have on here I don't understand why because people can't find what they want they thing others should alter their preference to encompass them.

Oooh this!!!

I'm constantly amazed that people set THEIR preferences, but get into a right tiswas when others have the audacity to exclude them! "

I go along with this too.

This may be because I don't have children of my own yet but I don't get the whole won't shag anyone under or the same age as my children.

You aren't actually shagging your children, you're meeting someone that has no link to them whatsoever, they are a totally different person. At least that is how I currently see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.S. I'm not saying that to get anyone to change their preferences, everyone is fully entitled to have their own and only meet those who meet their personal preferences. Just my thoughts on it that's all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


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I go along with this too.

This may be because I don't have children of my own yet but I don't get the whole won't shag anyone under or the same age as my children.

You aren't actually shagging your children, you're meeting someone that has no link to them whatsoever, they are a totally different person. At least that is how I currently see it."

In my case its because having kids of a certain age means that you know many of their peer group so I know how lots of men of 22 & 24 behave, how they talk, what their interests are etc and I don't want to be involved sexually with them, there is also the possibility that we would arrange to meet a guy and someone who has spent his Saturday afternoon laying on our living room floor eating pizza might turn up. That is only my reasoning others will think differently.

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