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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been wondering for so long now if I was bi so I finally made myself go to a gay and bi sauna as I was there watching all the men and TVs having sex and kissing if finally dawned on me that I'm not bi I am happy I went so now I'm no longer wondering if I am or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you've answered your own question!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've been wondering for so long now if I was bi so I finally made myself go to a gay and bi sauna as I was there watching all the men and TVs having sex and kissing if finally dawned on me that I'm not bi I am happy I went so now I'm no longer wondering if I am or not "

that's good! Sometimes you have to try it to know for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, at least you know now.

Quite a few guys would not have done that, just kept on wondering.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport


"I've been wondering for so long now if I was bi so I finally made myself go to a gay and bi sauna as I was there watching all the men and TVs having sex and kissing if finally dawned on me that I'm not bi I am happy I went so now I'm no longer wondering if I am or not "

Congratulations you are now the ninth member of a very exclusive club, The FabSwingers Totally Straight Guys Club. One thing though, I think you should stop messaging me now.

Jenny.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, at least you know now.

Quite a few guys would not have done that, just kept on wondering."

I had to no it was driving me crazy lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Damn! I'll have to stop making comments bout your fence now your off it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been wondering for so long now if I was bi so I finally made myself go to a gay and bi sauna as I was there watching all the men and TVs having sex and kissing if finally dawned on me that I'm not bi I am happy I went so now I'm no longer wondering if I am or not

Congratulations you are now the ninth member of a very exclusive club, The FabSwingers Totally Straight Guys Club. One thing though, I think you should stop messaging me now.

Jenny."

Thank you very much and I will lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Damn! I'll have to stop making comments bout your fence now your off it. "

Yea right you will still find something else to comment about lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!"

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx"

And in my eyes, you have just ruined your own thread with your last comment, though that may just be me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx"

ouch! I really hope the person in question isn't a forum contributor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had to have full sex with a TV before you decided you didn't like it? Did you stay hard and finish, did you cum? Did you make your excuses and leave?

Either way you'll not be doing anal with a woman either will you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx

ouch! I really hope the person in question isn't a forum contributor "

No I have not seen her/Him on hear nothing against the person I don't mean any disrespect she/he helped me in a big way I now know I can't do it again xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx

ouch! I really hope the person in question isn't a forum contributor

No I have not seen her/Him on hear nothing against the person I don't mean any disrespect she/he helped me in a big way I now know I can't do it again xxx"

Well to be honest I thought what you said was very disrespectful towards someone that you had sex with, you spoke about them as if they were less than you and sound as if you used them. As you say you didn't mean any disrespect but I would hate to be spoken about in that way myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx

ouch! I really hope the person in question isn't a forum contributor

No I have not seen her/Him on hear nothing against the person I don't mean any disrespect she/he helped me in a big way I now know I can't do it again xxx

Well to be honest I thought what you said was very disrespectful towards someone that you had sex with, you spoke about them as if they were less than you and sound as if you used them. As you say you didn't mean any disrespect but I would hate to be spoken about in that way myself. "

I'm sorry you feel that way. But it wouldn't of matterd who I would of had sex with I would of still felt the same way and I do feel bad for using that person but they still helped me in a big way xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx"

Just to clarify, you thought you were bi, but you were not sure? So you fucked a man first, then went to a gay sauna second to find out? Surely it would have made more sense to do it the other way around , the fact that you were aroused enough to fuck a man suggests your probably bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You had to have full sex with a TV before you decided you didn't like it? Did you stay hard and finish, did you cum? Did you make your excuses and leave?

Either way you'll not be doing anal with a woman either will you!"

No I didn't stay hard and no I didn't cum and yes I left the sauna straight away. And I felt horrible afterwards and I still do but how would I of truly known if I hadn't of gone threw with it? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx

Just to clarify, you thought you were bi, but you were not sure? So you fucked a man first, then went to a gay sauna second to find out? Surely it would have made more sense to do it the other way around , the fact that you were aroused enough to fuck a man suggests your probably bi "

No I went to a gay sauna and I went to fuck a tv but I couldn't go through with it fully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You had to have full sex with a TV before you decided you didn't like it? Did you stay hard and finish, did you cum? Did you make your excuses and leave?

Either way you'll not be doing anal with a woman either will you!

No I didn't stay hard and no I didn't cum and yes I left the sauna straight away. And I felt horrible afterwards and I still do but how would I of truly known if I hadn't of gone threw with it? X"

I admire your honesty but I am not so impressed with your methods, why didn't you watch some gay porn etc,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx

Just to clarify, you thought you were bi, but you were not sure? So you fucked a man first, then went to a gay sauna second to find out? Surely it would have made more sense to do it the other way around , the fact that you were aroused enough to fuck a man suggests your probably bi

No I went to a gay sauna and I went to fuck a tv but I couldn't go through with it fully"

In which order??

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Your spelling is horrendous

Just saying !

;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You had to have full sex with a TV before you decided you didn't like it? Did you stay hard and finish, did you cum? Did you make your excuses and leave?

Either way you'll not be doing anal with a woman either will you!

No I didn't stay hard and no I didn't cum and yes I left the sauna straight away. And I felt horrible afterwards and I still do but how would I of truly known if I hadn't of gone threw with it? X

I admire your honesty but I am not so impressed with your methods, why didn't you watch some gay porn etc,"

I have I like watching shemales fucking women and mmf porn that's why I thourght I was bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your spelling is horrendous

Just saying !

;-)"

I know it is and thank you for pointing it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You had to have full sex with a TV before you decided you didn't like it? Did you stay hard and finish, did you cum? Did you make your excuses and leave?

Either way you'll not be doing anal with a woman either will you!

No I didn't stay hard and no I didn't cum and yes I left the sauna straight away. And I felt horrible afterwards and I still do but how would I of truly known if I hadn't of gone threw with it? X

I admire your honesty but I am not so impressed with your methods, why didn't you watch some gay porn etc,

I have I like watching shemales fucking women and mmf porn that's why I thourght I was bi"

Why? Shemales are basically men, so if you liked watching shemales fucking men than I could understand your confusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By bumming a man you will have caught gayness ... no going back now it's just a question of time before you start attending musical theatre

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You had to have full sex with a TV before you decided you didn't like it? Did you stay hard and finish, did you cum? Did you make your excuses and leave?

Either way you'll not be doing anal with a woman either will you!

No I didn't stay hard and no I didn't cum and yes I left the sauna straight away. And I felt horrible afterwards and I still do but how would I of truly known if I hadn't of gone threw with it? X

I admire your honesty but I am not so impressed with your methods, why didn't you watch some gay porn etc,

I have I like watching shemales fucking women and mmf porn that's why I thourght I was bi

Why? Shemales are basically men, so if you liked watching shemales fucking men than I could understand your confusion "

in mmf porn two men don't just fuck a woman thay fuck each other aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By bumming a man you will have caught gayness ... no going back now it's just a question of time before you start attending musical theatre "

I was wondering why I've been humming a show tune all day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By bumming a man you will have caught gayness ... no going back now it's just a question of time before you start attending musical theatre

I was wondering why I've been humming a show tune all day lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You had to have full sex with a TV before you decided you didn't like it? Did you stay hard and finish, did you cum? Did you make your excuses and leave?

Either way you'll not be doing anal with a woman either will you!

No I didn't stay hard and no I didn't cum and yes I left the sauna straight away. And I felt horrible afterwards and I still do but how would I of truly known if I hadn't of gone threw with it? X

I admire your honesty but I am not so impressed with your methods, why didn't you watch some gay porn etc,

I have I like watching shemales fucking women and mmf porn that's why I thourght I was bi

Why? Shemales are basically men, so if you liked watching shemales fucking men than I could understand your confusion in mmf porn two men don't just fuck a woman thay fuck each other aswell"

Do they?? Fair enough, but that is not my experience of mmf porn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You had to have full sex with a TV before you decided you didn't like it? Did you stay hard and finish, did you cum? Did you make your excuses and leave?

Either way you'll not be doing anal with a woman either will you!

No I didn't stay hard and no I didn't cum and yes I left the sauna straight away. And I felt horrible afterwards and I still do but how would I of truly known if I hadn't of gone threw with it? X

I admire your honesty but I am not so impressed with your methods, why didn't you watch some gay porn etc,

I have I like watching shemales fucking women and mmf porn that's why I thourght I was bi

Why? Shemales are basically men, so if you liked watching shemales fucking men than I could understand your confusion in mmf porn two men don't just fuck a woman thay fuck each other aswell

Do they?? Fair enough, but that is not

my experience of mmf porn "

Yes fmm is the straight 3sum don't ask me why lol the point is I have always wondered and now I know it was just something I had to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got quite a shock the first time I fucked a TV, my own fault though, I should have un plugged it first.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got quite a shock the first time I fucked a TV, my own fault though, I should have un plugged it first....."

Lol love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your spelling is horrendous

Just saying !

;-)"

Totally besides the point but also very very true!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx

And in my eyes, you have just ruined your own thread with your last comment, though that may just be me! "

+1

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"in mmf porn two men don't just fuck a woman thay fuck each other aswell"

I've had many an MMF with 2 straight guys...

Some people are pedantic about the order of the letters saying

mmf / fmm are when thr men are bi

mfm is where the men are straight

Personally mmf rolls off the tongue easier for me... so that's what I use regardless if the men are straight or bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say most straight guys know they're straight when just the thought of shagging another guy, or visiting a gay sauna, sends their shirt up their back like a roller blind, let alone actually trying it. R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say most straight guys know they're straight when just the thought of shagging another guy, or visiting a gay sauna, sends their shirt up their back like a roller blind, let alone actually trying it. R"

I thourght I was straight until I had a 3sum where I was blindfolded and got the best blowjob ever then later I was told it was by the man x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say most straight guys know they're straight when just the thought of shagging another guy, or visiting a gay sauna, sends their shirt up their back like a roller blind, let alone actually trying it. R

I thourght I was straight until I had a 3sum where I was blindfolded and got the best blowjob ever then later I was told it was by the man x"

Hence why I thourght I was bi but now I now I am straight and I'm happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never heard of someone having to go so far before deciding that! Im guessing that if it was one of the slim,smooth, big titted convincing ts from porn you'd have been fine.

But Ive been to Sauna Sauna and the girls that go there, except for one or two, aren't passable.

So I'd class you now as one of the guys that says he's straight but when a woman isn't available he'd take a very convincing TS instead. As long as he didn't have to see or touch their dick and shatter the illusion.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My dentist is bicuspid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met with a chap who wanked me and sucked me and it was great, unfortunately I didn't get turned on by sucking him. Help, confused.

For the record he's a top fellow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met with a chap who wanked me and sucked me and it was great, unfortunately I didn't get turned on by sucking him. Help, confused.

For the record he's a top fellow."

No need to be confused - you are what you are and there is no reason that you should worry that you don't fit neatly into societally defined categories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily the skin I have is the skin I wear. If there's a flow I go with it, it's a cliched view on life, but it's a view.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

So you don't like TVs then, that doesn't stop you liking cock!

Give it a few glasses of wine and you will rejoin the club

Together with Cabaret hands, mincing walks and being able to dance your ass off, eyebrow waxing, anal bleaching,, it's all waiting for you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So you don't like TVs then, that doesn't stop you liking cock!

Give it a few glasses of wine and you will rejoin the club

Together with Cabaret hands, mincing walks and being able to dance your ass off, eyebrow waxing, anal bleaching,, it's all waiting for you"

Er....I was dancing earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx

And in my eyes, you have just ruined your own thread with your last comment, though that may just be me!

+1 "

+2

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By *iverview1Couple
over a year ago

gourock


"Damn! I'll have to stop making comments bout your fence now your off it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, i thought of seein a guy, trouble with me, after few beers i probably would????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found out a coupel of things I don't like recently by trying them, its funny isn't it that some stuff you think you''d love...turns out you don't!

It is lol I even went as far as fucking a tv and it did nothing for me except made me feel dirty and a little sick but I no now and that's the important bit xxx

And in my eyes, you have just ruined your own thread with your last comment, though that may just be me! "

Wow I bet the tv in question, felt fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your spelling is horrendous

Just saying !

;-)"

nothing like staying on topic !

Who cares about the spelling !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The politically correct brigade are out today !

In full force !

Hey op thanks for your honesty wish more spoke there mind and not just post whats pc !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was confused now I'm not it may seem a bit extreme what I did but I needed to know and now I do! Instead of hiding away I took a big leap and now I know who I really am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you don't like TVs then, that doesn't stop you liking cock!

Give it a few glasses of wine and you will rejoin the club

Together with Cabaret hands, mincing walks and being able to dance your ass off, eyebrow waxing, anal bleaching,, it's all waiting for you"

What on earth is anal bleaching. Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been wondering for so long now if I was bi so I finally made myself go to a gay and bi sauna as I was there watching all the men and TVs having sex and kissing if finally dawned on me that I'm not bi I am happy I went so now I'm no longer wondering if I am or not

Congratulations you are now the ninth member of a very exclusive club, The FabSwingers Totally Straight Guys Club. One thing though, I think you should stop messaging me now.

Jenny."

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