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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens

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By *uroladiesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I guess there are rude people everywhere including FAB. Block anyone who is rude I say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you attach photos etc to emails?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they find your messages rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male or female its part of life some being rude ignore and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not encountered any rude or mean people on here yet, but I guess just ignore the rude ones and concentrate on the nice friendly people instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens "

rude in what way exactly?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 20/08/13 13:13:46]

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

When your not a rude person yourself its tough to get your head around how others can be... but as the replies suggest the only thing for it is to block... my blocked list is full of them.. chin up mate.. some good and some bad

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens "

Not being funny but if it happens frequently, could it be in response to something you've said?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens

rude in what way exactly?"

Bad manners , not sexual rude . I can take a thanks but no that's cool but some are horrible people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true Sereena

But as someone who replies to every message and yes alot saying no thank u ! I find it hard to know others train of thought when they deem someone not even worth a 2 word answer !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as in abusive to you?

TBH I thought most either didnt respond or just said no thanks

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Never had any rude messages at all

Some slightly offensive ones, but not personally rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had couples add me as a friend then im the one that mails them when they added me then they dont answer mail again in few days asking do u not answer its a shame timewasters cant be banned for the rest of our sakes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens "
Would you really wish to meet people who don't care about being rude replying to you? I think you should just think .. Thank god I never meet them and found out before not your sort .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens Would you really wish to meet people who don't care about being rude replying to you? I think you should just think .. Thank god I never meet them and found out before not your sort ."
there is that :0) lol ill keep that in mind from now on

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

You may think your message wasn't rude however if you send a message to a couple where you fall into their category of not what they are looking for, they may see this as rude. For example, we clearly state we don't want to hear from straight males, we get at least four messages a day from straight males. That to us is rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find the minority let down the majority in all walks of life, no matter where you look.

Usually grounds for most stereotyping as well.

Just giggle at them and keep going, far more fish in the sea ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if we are all hyper sensitive then any message from someone who hasn't followed the information on our profile is clearly rude. However not bein hypersensitive I would really only call a message rude if the content was derogatory or abusive. As of yet we've not had any of those at all. When we say no thanks to people we get a "thanks for replying" or "oh, may I ask why?" Or "no worries" or no reply at All. So I'm not sure why everyone seems to get rude messages?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No worries, glad to provide the right advice. :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens "

I think its a control thing and because there's so many men to choose from here they probably on a power trip. Just sad twats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may think your message wasn't rude however if you send a message to a couple where you fall into their category of not what they are looking for, they may see this as rude. For example, we clearly state we don't want to hear from straight males, we get at least four messages a day from straight males. That to us is rude. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens "

I'm interested to know a few things

How often (approximately) has it happened?

What do you classify as rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens Would you really wish to meet people who don't care about being rude replying to you? I think you should just think .. Thank god I never meet them and found out before not your sort . there is that :0) lol ill keep that in mind from now on "
you keep it in mind each time you get a nasty one .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens

I'm interested to know a few things

How often (approximately) has it happened?

What do you classify as rude?"

I'm intrigued too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barnsleykink why not filter all single guys and wink the bi one so they can msg you back? save's a lot of wasted time and msg's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a couple in my area (no names here) who have the most offensive, belligerent and caustic profile I have ever seen. At the end it says something like "if you not put off contact us".

I thought, if you are in person ANYTHING like the way your profile is written then I have no desire to share a bus with you let alone a bed. I pointed it out to a friend of mind on here and she said if she had read it she would not have got past the second sentence. They do not appear to have many meets; is this natural selection at work?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Barnsleykink why not filter all single guys and wink the bi one so they can msg you back? save's a lot of wasted time and msg's "

And how do we do a search for bi males? Is there a new feature in browse page? Is it not just simpler for people to read a profile and if they don't tick the boxes they move onto the next profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy with good manners and get a lot of very rude replies , I'm never rude to anyone on here and am surprised how often this happens "

Report them abusive messages are not tolerated and people who send them are really not fit to be here. Then ignore hun and chat to people who want to chat to you I am sure there are plenty.

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