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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the money not used to cover hotel costs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution "

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use. "

Fair enough, but do the women get any money for attending??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use. "

I think it depends on the setting

if its a gang bang in a club then you pay for entry, if a couple was holding a gang bang in their house and charging guys £50 a shot id say they are paying for sex, who charges people £50 to go to their house?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive enquired to the profile i think your on about ! (the one based in warrington )

And ive also noticed its the same girls that say there there every week so either there well onto it ( but all the time is pushing it a bit ) or theres some kind of remittance in it for them !

Although these are only my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive enquired to the profile i think your on about ! (the one based in warrington )

And ive also noticed its the same girls that say there there every week so either there well onto it ( but all the time is pushing it a bit ) or theres some kind of remittance in it for them !

Although these are only my thoughts

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My thoughts exactly, it's a bit of a grey area,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use.

Fair enough, but do the women get any money for attending??"

if its a private party run by someone other than the woman id say they was getting paid, whos going to go and shag 20 men for free when someone else has charged them to be there? you have to be stupid, if you was doing it for free you'd shag men who hadn't paid surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use.

I think it depends on the setting

if its a gang bang in a club then you pay for entry, if a couple was holding a gang bang in their house and charging guys £50 a shot id say they are paying for sex, who charges people £50 to go to their house?"

But do the women attending the clubs get paid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive enquired to the profile i think your on about ! (the one based in warrington )

And ive also noticed its the same girls that say there there every week so either there well onto it ( but all the time is pushing it a bit ) or theres some kind of remittance in it for them !

Although these are only my thoughts

My thoughts exactly, it's a bit of a grey area,"

I've heard lots of things about the one local to me, mostly from guys who have attended it. All i'm saying is personally I would avoid it like the plague. But that's just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use.

I think it depends on the setting

if its a gang bang in a club then you pay for entry, if a couple was holding a gang bang in their house and charging guys £50 a shot id say they are paying for sex, who charges people £50 to go to their house?

But do the women attending the clubs get paid? "

Generally no.

I am aware of one tonight in the midlands where a club has been hired. there is a £30 admission.

Now no one may turn up in which case they are out of pocket. if loads turn up they have more than enough cash to cover the fees and whats happens with it is anyone's guess however the girl running it is on the site, clearly loves gangbangs and is not doing it for the money but the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use.

I think it depends on the setting

if its a gang bang in a club then you pay for entry, if a couple was holding a gang bang in their house and charging guys £50 a shot id say they are paying for sex, who charges people £50 to go to their house?

But do the women attending the clubs get paid? "

some clubs yes, there are some clubs that pay the women to attend, its not really a yes or no answer, some women get paid to have gang bangs in clubs some clubs don't pay and the women attend as customers and have gang bangs, if its a club whos advertising the women they usually the clubs that pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in any activity of this type where money comes into it, will always have somebody who will abuse it. I am aware of a fem on here who was secretly (to her) auctioned off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have attended two GBs where there was a gift or small donation for the hosts. This was not in any way prostitution as they provided refreshments, a venue and organise the event, so its a sort of bring a bottle sex party.

£50 per head is, for me, commercial and I would say it looks a lot like prostitution. When two or more people are engaged in selling sex in one premises that constitutes a brothel and is illegal in the UK. Take care!

Contributions towards a hotel cost are however probably ok. It is the perception of making a profit from the sex that is the key point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think in any activity of this type where money comes into it, will always have somebody who will abuse it. I am aware of a fem on here who was secretly (to her) auctioned off."

how did that happen?

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By *HAEDRUS2013Man
over a year ago

LONDON


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use. "

Hmm...think is a problem who don't swing normally and do see such events as open prostitution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution "

Just because you may have been declined the chance to attend a party there is no reason to be bitter and insinuate any party where there is an admission free is prostitution. It sounds very much like sour grapes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive also noticed in the meet today ladies advertising club meets day after day ! They must be on some sort of commision !

My opinion only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my ten penneth, but the thought does nowt for me. And I definitely wouldn't pay £50 .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive also noticed in the meet today ladies advertising club meets day after day ! They must be on some sort of commision !

My opinion only"

same ladies everyday or different ladies for different days?

To be honest I think there a select few females who enjoy group guy meets and they then advertise on the site.I dont think there is anything wrong with that.

Not aimed at anyone specifically but a s a general point if people are concerned such activities are prostitution then surely the answer is too just ignore such events? Whilst it is illegal it is rife in this country anyway.

I genuinely dont consider group meets where the organised ask for an entrance fee to be prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a gangbang meet in a hotel and charged the guys £5 each, that covered the cost of the hotel......

People paying £50 are obviously not just covering costs unless its in the Ritz.

I personally love them, I have one on Saturday, free of charge may I add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion is, be it a private party or a club if the women walks away with more money that she arrived with its prostitution, some may say they just charge to cover costs but when you look at how much some charge and what they payers get for their mpney it obvious more money is being made than covering costs, there's a couple on here who hold regular house parties, you take your own condom's and drink and they lay on a small buffet at their home, they charge single guys £40 to attend their home, there's no way that's just covering costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion is, be it a private party or a club if the women walks away with more money that she arrived with its prostitution, some may say they just charge to cover costs but when you look at how much some charge and what they payers get for their mpney it obvious more money is being made than covering costs, there's a couple on here who hold regular house parties, you take your own condom's and drink and they lay on a small buffet at their home, they charge single guys £40 to attend their home, there's no way that's just covering costs "

I think it is difficult to justify £40 especially when at home!

I have seen one where it is £30 being held at a club. IF you think of the fact its a commercial venue then that is perhaps more justifiable

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By *ubmissiveMissCouple
over a year ago

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I couldnt really care less...tonight i'm doing one for fun free of charge.If i could do one AND walk away with a profit to buy myself something nice even better!!

Really dont understand the problem.

I know of clubs where girls are paid to work there,and i know of some private house party gangbangs where cpls and single girls can attend free and single guys pay £60 to attend.

At least one girl will be paid to "perform" to keep the single guy happy,but gets about 150 quid,whereas the guy who runs it gets a hell of a lot more..20 odd guys 60 quid a head??

THAT pisses me off.Exploitation.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

People who've paid a reasonable amount are more likely to turn up though.

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By *ubmissiveMissCouple
over a year ago

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"Just my ten penneth, but the thought does nowt for me. And I definitely wouldn't pay £50 . "

I am always shocked that guys want to pay to go to one to be honest,to my mind its about the woman having the time of her life!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Just because you may have been declined the chance to attend a party there is no reason to be bitter and insinuate any party where there is an admission free is prostitution. It sounds very much like sour grapes."

I haven't been declined any invites, you seem to be very defensive, it's simple really, if the women attending get paid its prostitution, if they don't it isn't

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Gang bangs hold absolutely no appeal to me whatsoever, the thought makes me shudder. I'm sure there are ladies who enjoy gang bangs who shudder at the thought of sticking a dildo up a guys arse: it really is each to their own.

Therefore I don't get this "shaming". Don't want to pay to attend as you're sensitivities make you feel like a trick? Stay at home, knock one off and leave the greedy girls to get on with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use.

I think it depends on the setting

if its a gang bang in a club then you pay for entry, if a couple was holding a gang bang in their house and charging guys £50 a shot id say they are paying for sex, who charges people £50 to go to their house?

But do the women attending the clubs get paid? "

Mostly not... There are a few clubs that have hostess girls.. I have never been paid to be the girl at a gangbang ..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Just because you may have been declined the chance to attend a party there is no reason to be bitter and insinuate any party where there is an admission free is prostitution. It sounds very much like sour grapes.

I haven't been declined any invites, you seem to be very defensive, it's simple really, if the women attending get paid its prostitution, if they don't it isn't "

You seem to struggle to understand but its hardly suppressing as someone needs a modicum of intelligence to do so. If you think those that organise them are given free drink free hotel rooms to do so you are plainly deluded. Defensive? No we have never organised or attended one or intend to but people who lack incite and ask questions need to have things pointed out no matter how misguided they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gang bangs hold absolutely no appeal to me whatsoever, the thought makes me shudder. I'm sure there are ladies who enjoy gang bangs who shudder at the thought of sticking a dildo up a guys arse: it really is each to their own.

Therefore I don't get this "shaming". Don't want to pay to attend as you're sensitivities make you feel like a trick? Stay at home, knock one off and leave the greedy girls to get on with it! "

Tbh I couldn't care less what people do on here, I was just interested to know if the women who attend gangbangs do so for pleasure or financial gains.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Just because you may have been declined the chance to attend a party there is no reason to be bitter and insinuate any party where there is an admission free is prostitution. It sounds very much like sour grapes.

I haven't been declined any invites, you seem to be very defensive, it's simple really, if the women attending get paid its prostitution, if they don't it isn't

You seem to struggle to understand but its hardly suppressing as someone needs a modicum of intelligence to do so. If you think those that organise them are given free drink free hotel rooms to do so you are plainly deluded. Defensive? No we have never organised or attended one or intend to but people who lack incite and ask questions need to have things pointed out no matter how misguided they are."

What utter drivel, just read my OP, and my subsequent replies, if you think people don't arrange these parties for financial gain your both naive and stupid

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By *ubmissiveMissCouple
over a year ago

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lol mistress...precisely

Putting a dildo up a guys arse or even worse shagging a guy with a strap on makes me shudder!!

I dont think there is any shame in selling sex or buying it to be honest.

As long as the person selling it is doing it through free will of course and noone is exploiting him/her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gang bangs hold absolutely no appeal to me whatsoever, the thought makes me shudder. I'm sure there are ladies who enjoy gang bangs who shudder at the thought of sticking a dildo up a guys arse: it really is each to their own.

Therefore I don't get this "shaming". Don't want to pay to attend as you're sensitivities make you feel like a trick? Stay at home, knock one off and leave the greedy girls to get on with it!

Tbh I couldn't care less what people do on here, I was just interested to know if the women who attend gangbangs do so for pleasure or financial gains. "

I think the short answer is both

some do it for their own pleasure some do it for money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Just because you may have been declined the chance to attend a party there is no reason to be bitter and insinuate any party where there is an admission free is prostitution. It sounds very much like sour grapes.

I haven't been declined any invites, you seem to be very defensive, it's simple really, if the women attending get paid its prostitution, if they don't it isn't

You seem to struggle to understand but its hardly suppressing as someone needs a modicum of intelligence to do so. If you think those that organise them are given free drink free hotel rooms to do so you are plainly deluded. Defensive? No we have never organised or attended one or intend to but people who lack incite and ask questions need to have things pointed out no matter how misguided they are.

What utter drivel, just read my OP, and my subsequent replies, if you think people don't arrange these parties for financial gain your both naive and stupid "

Not all day. As per the above some dont even charge. Some only charge nominal sums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol mistress...precisely

Putting a dildo up a guys arse or even worse shagging a guy with a strap on makes me shudder!!

I dont think there is any shame in selling sex or buying it to be honest.

As long as the person selling it is doing it through free will of course and noone is exploiting him/her."

I agree, but what about the people attending, I know most couldn't care less who they shag but some would prefer to meet people who wanted to be there rather than those who are being paid to attend

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By *ubmissiveMissCouple
over a year ago

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and i know someone whose income is very much based on "attendance fees" from running these types of parties.They are very well attended and great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think the short answer is both

some do it for their own pleasure some do it for money"

I'd do it because I enjoyed it... I have been asked to do it for money, declined because I would rather pick the guys I want.. however have done it blindfolded which kinda means I hadn't a clue.

I think most paid greedy girls do it for enjoyment first.. money second

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By *ubmissiveMissCouple
over a year ago

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"lol mistress...precisely

Putting a dildo up a guys arse or even worse shagging a guy with a strap on makes me shudder!!

I dont think there is any shame in selling sex or buying it to be honest.

As long as the person selling it is doing it through free will of course and noone is exploiting him/her.

I agree, but what about the people attending, I know most couldn't care less who they shag but some would prefer to meet people who wanted to be there rather than those who are being paid to attend "

Yes I agree it would be awful to attend one where the girl looked as if she wasnt really enjoying it.

But there must be others who love being paid AND Love doing gangbangs!

You could equally go to a free gangbang arranged by a swinging couple where the woman has been pushed into it by the male partner.No way of knowing beforehand unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think the short answer is both

some do it for their own pleasure some do it for money

I'd do it because I enjoyed it... I have been asked to do it for money, declined because I would rather pick the guys I want.. however have done it blindfolded which kinda means I hadn't a clue.

I think most paid greedy girls do it for enjoyment first.. money second"

having worked in a few clubs that do paid gang bangs I can assure you most of the women do it for the money and moan like fuck about the guys they have to play with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol mistress...precisely

Putting a dildo up a guys arse or even worse shagging a guy with a strap on makes me shudder!!

I dont think there is any shame in selling sex or buying it to be honest.

As long as the person selling it is doing it through free will of course and noone is exploiting him/her.

I agree, but what about the people attending, I know most couldn't care less who they shag but some would prefer to meet people who wanted to be there rather than those who are being paid to attend

Yes I agree it would be awful to attend one where the girl looked as if she wasnt really enjoying it.

But there must be others who love being paid AND Love doing gangbangs!

You could equally go to a free gangbang arranged by a swinging couple where the woman has been pushed into it by the male partner.No way of knowing beforehand unfortunately."

True, I have to agree with a previous reply though, when money is involved it can create problems,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I think the short answer is both

some do it for their own pleasure some do it for money

I'd do it because I enjoyed it... I have been asked to do it for money, declined because I would rather pick the guys I want.. however have done it blindfolded which kinda means I hadn't a clue.

I think most paid greedy girls do it for enjoyment first.. money second

having worked in a few clubs that do paid gang bangs I can assure you most of the women do it for the money and moan like fuck about the guys they have to play with "

I can't say I am surprised, once you get paid it stops being a hobby and becomes a job, and that means the people you meet are customers, punters or whatever you call them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always enjoy what I am doing.. even when I've been paid. I wouldn't do it otherwise.

Not sure it matters.. you either want to go and pay your money or don't. .x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always enjoy what I am doing.. even when I've been paid. I wouldn't do it otherwise.

Not sure it matters.. you either want to go and pay your money or don't. .x"

That's fair enough, so why do you get paid then?? I am just curious to know in what circumstances you would be given money , and without being picky you said previously that you had been offered money but declined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of whether the women are doing it because they enjoy it or not, if they get paid for it then it is prostitution not swinging.

If the party is in a private house there is no need to charge 20 quid or more per single guy, as that is definitely making a profit not just covering costs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always enjoy what I am doing.. even when I've been paid. I wouldn't do it otherwise.

Not sure it matters.. you either want to go and pay your money or don't. .x

That's fair enough, so why do you get paid then?? I am just curious to know in what circumstances you would be given money , and without being picky you said previously that you had been offered money but declined "

I'd like to be able to pick my own guys... I've escorted so no issues with taking money for sex.. still picky though. However I love sex and do it for me not others.. greedy girl and gangbangs are better for me when not paid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always enjoy what I am doing.. even when I've been paid. I wouldn't do it otherwise.

Not sure it matters.. you either want to go and pay your money or don't. .x

That's fair enough, so why do you get paid then?? I am just curious to know in what circumstances you would be given money , and without being picky you said previously that you had been offered money but declined

I'd like to be able to pick my own guys... I've escorted so no issues with taking money for sex.. still picky though. However I love sex and do it for me not others.. greedy girl and gangbangs are better for me when not paid. "

I see, each to there own but I don't understand the difference between being paid for a gang bang and prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be several weekly or monthly gang bang parties being held that charge an 'admission fee', do the women involved get any of this money? If so surely that's classed as prostitution

Your not paying for the sex though, your paying to gain entry. Something I've had to explain to a few guys that think because they have paid that my body is there for them to use. "

He'll I'd pay to just watch anything else is a bonus lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I see, each to there own but I don't understand the difference between being paid for a gang bang and prostitution "

Not sure there is one.. but then it doesn't bother me.. nor do I have an issue with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I see, each to there own but I don't understand the difference between being paid for a gang bang and prostitution

Not sure there is one.. but then it doesn't bother me.. nor do I have an issue with it. "

Classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I see, each to there own but I don't understand the difference between being paid for a gang bang and prostitution

Not sure there is one.. but then it doesn't bother me.. nor do I have an issue with it.

Classy "

It's no real difference to swinging minus the pay really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I see, each to there own but I don't understand the difference between being paid for a gang bang and prostitution

Not sure there is one.. but then it doesn't bother me.. nor do I have an issue with it.

Classy

It's no real difference to swinging minus the pay really. "

Your joking?? You can't honestly say that prostitution is the same as swinging??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I see, each to there own but I don't understand the difference between being paid for a gang bang and prostitution

Not sure there is one.. but then it doesn't bother me.. nor do I have an issue with it.

Classy

It's no real difference to swinging minus the pay really.

Your joking?? You can't honestly say that prostitution is the same as swinging?? "

To me the only difference between swinging and when I escorted was the pay... But then some will see it different. I like the social side and to be honest half the guys you meet via fab see you as a free fuck anyway...

I've actually had more respect from paid customers than many a guy at a club..

I see that no one on a sex site can judge those that use sex in other ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I see, each to there own but I don't understand the difference between being paid for a gang bang and prostitution

Not sure there is one.. but then it doesn't bother me.. nor do I have an issue with it.

Classy

It's no real difference to swinging minus the pay really.

Your joking?? You can't honestly say that prostitution is the same as swinging??

To me the only difference between swinging and when I escorted was the pay... But then some will see it different. I like the social side and to be honest half the guys you meet via fab see you as a free fuck anyway...

I've actually had more respect from paid customers than many a guy at a club..

I see that no one on a sex site can judge those that use sex in other ways. "

Are you suggesting that because I am on here I can not judge others?? Bonkers, tbh what you do is your decision but to suggest swinging is like prostitution is ridiculous. Why don't you charge everyone you meet of here then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because a this is not a site to charge.. although see plenty of guys paying through the nose.. ie women demanding meals, clothes etc..

And b this is for recreation.. when I was working that was for work...

I'm saying that there is no difference to me on what I did... Quick faceless meets... Work I came out with cash to pay the bills, off here I didn't .

I just don't see how people have issues with working girls.. if they are doing it because they enjoy it... The ones that have to do I don't thinks right.

But then I don't think the people doing it to please their partners are any better..

I am not ashamed that I did it... Just currently not in a position to do it so I'm not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because a this is not a site to charge.. although see plenty of guys paying through the nose.. ie women demanding meals, clothes etc..

And b this is for recreation.. when I was working that was for work...

I'm saying that there is no difference to me on what I did... Quick faceless meets... Work I came out with cash to pay the bills, off here I didn't .

I just don't see how people have issues with working girls.. if they are doing it because they enjoy it... The ones that have to do I don't thinks right.

But then I don't think the people doing it to please their partners are any better..

I am not ashamed that I did it... Just currently not in a position to do it so I'm not"

I think people who pay for meals etc are fools, and like I have said what you do is your business, I don't agree with it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ew seems the lady is really digging a deep hole here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think people who pay for meals etc are fools, and like I have said what you do is your business, I don't agree with it though "

What exactly is your objection.. actually curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet on an equal basis !

Decent ladies always offer half to a room or any other expence !

If this wasnt atleast offered then thats not the type of lady i want to meet anyway .

Luckily ive never been dissapointed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet on an equal basis !

Decent ladies always offer half to a room or any other expence !

If this wasnt atleast offered then thats not the type of lady i want to meet anyway .

Luckily ive never been dissapointed !"

I have never met a single guy for a hotel.. and to be honest always pay my way...

However if a guy wanted to meet I'd expect him to buy my first drink and be prepared to get into a club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I think people who pay for meals etc are fools, and like I have said what you do is your business, I don't agree with it though

What exactly is your objection.. actually curious? "

With prostitution?? Under the right circumstances, nothing, obviously women who are forced into it is a different matter. When you charge money for sex you are crossing a line, people's expectations will change, for example if I go on a meet I don't expect sex , if I had to pay for a meet I would .

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

see i dont get the ettequite in a gangbang, do you just push your way to the front like all that ive seen in clubs?

do you stay silent, is there small talk?

is there a high five rule? :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message from a guy two nights ago from the south of England.

He asked if I would come to a gang bang and have sex with the guys. He also said he was going to charge at the door so could pay me some of the money. When I said no of course I'm not going to be pimped out he started giving me serious abuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"see i dont get the ettequite in a gangbang, do you just push your way to the front like all that ive seen in clubs?

do you stay silent, is there small talk?

is there a high five rule? :P"

Iam not sure either, but I wouldn't want to be the guy that's last in the cue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think people who pay for meals etc are fools, and like I have said what you do is your business, I don't agree with it though

What exactly is your objection.. actually curious?

With prostitution?? Under the right circumstances, nothing, obviously women who are forced into it is a different matter. When you charge money for sex you are crossing a line, people's expectations will change, for example if I go on a meet I don't expect sex , if I had to pay for a meet I would . "

It's actually there time you pay for, I've talked more on work meets than meets.. but then I don't meet unless I want to play.. that's either way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I like the social side and to be honest half the guys you meet via fab see you as a free fuck anyway...

"

can't argue with that

ive had loads of guys who have mailed me and asked me to meet them in their car suck them off and go, some guys do use fab as a free escort site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol mistress...precisely

Putting a dildo up a guys arse or even worse shagging a guy with a strap on makes me shudder!!

I dont think there is any shame in selling sex or buying it to be honest.

As long as the person selling it is doing it through free will of course and noone is exploiting him/her."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I see, each to there own but I don't understand the difference between being paid for a gang bang and prostitution

Not sure there is one.. but then it doesn't bother me.. nor do I have an issue with it.

Classy

It's no real difference to swinging minus the pay really.

Your joking?? You can't honestly say that prostitution is the same as swinging??

To me the only difference between swinging and when I escorted was the pay... But then some will see it different. I like the social side and to be honest half the guys you meet via fab see you as a free fuck anyway...

I've actually had more respect from paid customers than many a guy at a club..

I see that no one on a sex site can judge those that use sex in other ways. "

I agree with you Cali. The amount of guys that see the women on here as a 'free fuck' is ridiculous.

The people that get uppity and think there is some moral difference between sex workers and people swinging... that's also ridiculous.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"see i dont get the ettequite in a gangbang, do you just push your way to the front like all that ive seen in clubs?

do you stay silent, is there small talk?

is there a high five rule? :P"

A gangbang without banter and laughter would be a poor evening for me. And high fives are allowed.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


" I like the social side and to be honest half the guys you meet via fab see you as a free fuck anyway...

can't argue with that

ive had loads of guys who have mailed me and asked me to meet them in their car suck them off and go, some guys do use fab as a free escort site "

Yep you only have to see all the 'need a BJ now anyone free?' statuses to realise a lot of people really do think women are here to be used as a free cum dump.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"see i dont get the ettequite in a gangbang, do you just push your way to the front like all that ive seen in clubs?

do you stay silent, is there small talk?

is there a high five rule? :P"

No because with a face, two hands, two boobs and a fanny I can entertain more than one man at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I like the social side and to be honest half the guys you meet via fab see you as a free fuck anyway...

can't argue with that

ive had loads of guys who have mailed me and asked me to meet them in their car suck them off and go, some guys do use fab as a free escort site

Yep you only have to see all the 'need a BJ now anyone free?' statuses to realise a lot of people really do think women are here to be used as a free cum dump."

I think a lot of guys (not all!) think they are doing us a favour. Did you know... swingers need sex 24 hours a day or we shrivel up and die.

So they mail us and offer their cocks as an act of kindness And that's why they get pissed off when we turn them down. We should never turn down charity.

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By *isa and HeddoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester


"People who've paid a reasonable amount are more likely to turn up though."

Unless you can take card payments over the phone or net, the guests purchased mobile phone credit, they haven't paid anything, so how do you know they'll show?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


" I like the social side and to be honest half the guys you meet via fab see you as a free fuck anyway...

can't argue with that

ive had loads of guys who have mailed me and asked me to meet them in their car suck them off and go, some guys do use fab as a free escort site

Yep you only have to see all the 'need a BJ now anyone free?' statuses to realise a lot of people really do think women are here to be used as a free cum dump.

I think a lot of guys (not all!) think they are doing us a favour. Did you know... swingers need sex 24 hours a day or we shrivel up and die.

So they mail us and offer their cocks as an act of kindness And that's why they get pissed off when we turn them down. We should never turn down charity. "

I had an amazing offer the other day steel, really heart warming. Seeing as I couldn't go anywhere due to having children at home, this unverified photoless young man and his friend were willing to come and cum on my boobs - in my back garden.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen gangbangs advertised in a few clubs in the midlands.the girls playing are also escorts offering sexual favors on other sites aswell.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I meet on an equal basis !

Decent ladies always offer half to a room or any other expence !

If this wasnt atleast offered then thats not the type of lady i want to meet anyway .

Luckily ive never been dissapointed !"

"Decent ladies?"... Oh stop, I've run out of Tena!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I meet on an equal basis !

Decent ladies always offer half to a room or any other expence !

If this wasnt atleast offered then thats not the type of lady i want to meet anyway .

Luckily ive never been dissapointed !

"Decent ladies?"... Oh stop, I've run out of Tena! "

My sides!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" I like the social side and to be honest half the guys you meet via fab see you as a free fuck anyway...

can't argue with that

ive had loads of guys who have mailed me and asked me to meet them in their car suck them off and go, some guys do use fab as a free escort site

Yep you only have to see all the 'need a BJ now anyone free?' statuses to realise a lot of people really do think women are here to be used as a free cum dump.

I think a lot of guys (not all!) think they are doing us a favour. Did you know... swingers need sex 24 hours a day or we shrivel up and die.

So they mail us and offer their cocks as an act of kindness And that's why they get pissed off when we turn them down. We should never turn down charity.

I had an amazing offer the other day steel, really heart warming. Seeing as I couldn't go anywhere due to having children at home, this unverified photoless young man and his friend were willing to come and cum on my boobs - in my back garden."

was "back garden" an euphemism?

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"see i dont get the ettequite in a gangbang, do you just push your way to the front like all that ive seen in clubs?

do you stay silent, is there small talk?

is there a high five rule? :P

A gangbang without banter and laughter would be a poor evening for me. And high fives are allowed."

I host a lot of GBs, and the banter is all part of the fun.

I always wonder about the charging side of things, I normally ask all guests to bring a bottle of dry white wine, a lot of regulars ask what the lady's tipple(s) is / are. I view it that I have to clean up after, wash sheets etc so not being ridiculous, you wouldn't go to an ordinary party or BBQ without taking a bottle or bottles, maybe some meat. A lot of people say I should charge £10 or £20 quid for entry and I've often considered this. If I did I'd split it with the women involved, (let's face it they're the reason the men come along) and they often have to pay for babysitters petrol etc. Anyone got thoughts on this?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've got £4.37

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


" I like the social side and to be honest half the guys you meet via fab see you as a free fuck anyway...

can't argue with that

ive had loads of guys who have mailed me and asked me to meet them in their car suck them off and go, some guys do use fab as a free escort site

Yep you only have to see all the 'need a BJ now anyone free?' statuses to realise a lot of people really do think women are here to be used as a free cum dump.

I think a lot of guys (not all!) think they are doing us a favour. Did you know... swingers need sex 24 hours a day or we shrivel up and die.

So they mail us and offer their cocks as an act of kindness And that's why they get pissed off when we turn them down. We should never turn down charity.

I had an amazing offer the other day steel, really heart warming. Seeing as I couldn't go anywhere due to having children at home, this unverified photoless young man and his friend were willing to come and cum on my boobs - in my back garden.

was "back garden" an euphemism? "

I bloody well hope not, cos it was raining in my back garden

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Once money is involved it attracts the wrong sort of attention. Cops, HMRC, the newspapers, neighbours, all sorts up to and including criminals.

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By *heshirepartiesCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

Its not Prostitution as all money goes to rent of the house they we use only for the Partys ,drinks,condoms and everything else is supplied.

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By *heshirepartiesCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

No it covers the House Cost and everything else that is supplied

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By *heshirepartiesCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

Women who attend do not get any money cos they are Swingers not Prostitutes

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By *heshirepartiesCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

The entry fee isnt £50 and no where near that

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Its not Prostitution as all money goes to rent of the house they we use only for the Partys ,drinks,condoms and everything else is supplied."

Does that mean to say that if the proceeds of a bank raid are given to a good cause, it isn't robbery?

It's not how the money is disposed of which matters, it's how and why it's acquired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened because some idiots thought it was ok and they would get away with it

They didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not Prostitution as all money goes to rent of the house they we use only for the Partys ,drinks,condoms and everything else is supplied.

Does that mean to say that if the proceeds of a bank raid are given to a good cause, it isn't robbery?

It's not how the money is disposed of which matters, it's how and why it's acquired."

So are all swinging clubs brothels? Money changes hands and people have sex.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Its not Prostitution as all money goes to rent of the house they we use only for the Partys ,drinks,condoms and everything else is supplied.

Does that mean to say that if the proceeds of a bank raid are given to a good cause, it isn't robbery?

It's not how the money is disposed of which matters, it's how and why it's acquired.

So are all swinging clubs brothels? Money changes hands and people have sex. "

Brothel is a particularly pejorative word.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Its not Prostitution as all money goes to rent of the house they we use only for the Partys ,drinks,condoms and everything else is supplied.

Does that mean to say that if the proceeds of a bank raid are given to a good cause, it isn't robbery?

It's not how the money is disposed of which matters, it's how and why it's acquired.

So are all swinging clubs brothels? Money changes hands and people have sex.

Brothel is a particularly pejorative word."

Pejorative, now that is a sexy word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not Prostitution as all money goes to rent of the house they we use only for the Partys ,drinks,condoms and everything else is supplied."

So how come one of the houses I know has been used for your parties had a guy living there full time (and his son some of the time) at the time your parties were being held there....if the house was only used for parties???

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

If I was at a swingers party I would do a gang bang /bukkake for fun but if it was a film shoot or for a greedy club owner I would want paying...

Why should club owners/party promoters earn all the money on the girls backs.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Its not Prostitution as all money goes to rent of the house they we use only for the Partys ,drinks,condoms and everything else is supplied.

So how come one of the houses I know has been used for your parties had a guy living there full time (and his son some of the time) at the time your parties were being held there....if the house was only used for parties???"

Every time I go out down the Village I pick up loads of the safe sex packs that are on every bar. Lots of free lube and condoms.

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops


"see i dont get the ettequite in a gangbang, do you just push your way to the front like all that ive seen in clubs?

do you stay silent, is there small talk?

is there a high five rule? :P

Iam not sure either, but I wouldn't want to be the guy that's last in the cue "
oh theres always guys who prefer to be last in line and specifically ask to be so ....and the only stipulation at my gbs and my fb makes sure of this are condoms disposed of properly usually down my throat and take your shoes off at the door to protect the cream carpet lmao at what the neighbours must think at a shoe train the length of the backyard .....just as well we use a friends house, with his permission may i add

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"People who've paid a reasonable amount are more likely to turn up though.

Unless you can take card payments over the phone or net, the guests purchased mobile phone credit, they haven't paid anything, so how do you know they'll show?"

There are other ways of taking payments.

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By *give2uMan
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

I'm going to one on Thursday. It's in a club and there is a £20 entry fee whether it's a Gang bang or just a normal day where nothing might happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to one on Thursday. It's in a club and there is a £20 entry fee whether it's a Gang bang or just a normal day where nothing might happen"
sounds fun ! Not

Why not get a meet off a nice lady on here ? Save your money ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have contacted a party organiser and a lady that seems to be at everyone to ask for there side of things !

Hope they do !

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By *enusCouple
over a year ago

cleethorpes

There are some very interesting points raised in this conversation. On this occasion it's such a relief not to be involved in any controversy

We're planning on going to la chambre on Sunday evening and I do believe Mrs V would like to be gang banged in the dungeon. We won't be charging a fee and we'll even supply the condoms. All facial, tits and stocking ejaculations will be most appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cost of a decent and suitable hotel accommodation for a gang bang is £100+. This cost has to be split amongst the guys attending. There might be other small incidental costs as well such as drinks etc. So if 5 guys are attending this would give a costs of around £25 each. Pretty good value if gang bangs are your fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see i dont get the ettequite in a gangbang, do you just push your way to the front like all that ive seen in clubs?

do you stay silent, is there small talk?

is there a high five rule? :P

No because with a face, two hands, two boobs and a fanny I can entertain more than one man at a time."
and we have had this pleasure in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regardless of whether the women are doing it because they enjoy it or not, if they get paid for it then it is prostitution not swinging.

If the party is in a private house there is no need to charge 20 quid or more per single guy, as that is definitely making a profit not just covering costs."

I agree, if u have to pay anything just to hv sex wiv sumone then it is prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having hosted several gangbangs i can honestly say ive never considered asking for donations. If you are that hard up that you cant afford the hotel room then advertise for a host. There are plenty of trustworthy and genuine people that would step up to the mark.

Id never ask for money because i wouldnt want to look hard up. Plus im in it for the fun not to make money which some clearly are. After all charging £10 a head when theres 5+ people attending when itsbeing hosted in someones house or a travelodge is clearly making money but each to their own. If they are happy doing it there will never be a shortage of customers.

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