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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am in a quandry, I know this is a swinging site but........ if you know two people and the one keeps telling how much of a good time he has with this other man (who has straight on his profile) but says dont tell.......... or she wont meet me anymore, what do you do, shouldnt everyone have the knowledge their being shagged my a hidden bisexual or not

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

In my opinion you should tell her straight away. If i was seeing a woman who was also shagging a bisexual man i would want someone to tell me as she would be involved in very risky sex as far as i'm concerned and i would want to be told straight away.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there are a lot of people who are unaware that they're meeting bi males. Personally I would keep out of it apart from asking the guy to shut up about his exploits, we should all assume we're partaking of risky sex and act accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep out of it, its not your place to say anything, and just because he's bisexual doesn't mean he's not practising safe sex!! He's bisexual, not a leper!!

Although this guy needs to keep his mouth shut if he wants his business kept private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep out of it, its not your place to say anything, and just because he's bisexual doesn't mean he's not practising safe sex!! He's bisexual, not a leper!!

Although this guy needs to keep his mouth shut if he wants his business kept private "

^^^^^^ This! Not anyone's place to say anything and maybe there's a good reason why she wont meet you anymore!

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham


"Keep out of it, its not your place to say anything, and just because he's bisexual doesn't mean he's not practising safe sex!! He's bisexual, not a leper!!

Although this guy needs to keep his mouth shut if he wants his business kept private "

I agree just because a guy is bi, doesn't mean there going to be crawling with all sorts. It really gets to me how bi men are portrayed this way and wonder if it's because of homophobic views people hold. If it's to do with anal, well look at how many women do it, and it's not a problem there. To be honest, the main people i've seen who don't rubber up tend to be straight. I really feel for bi men, having to put up with peoples negative attitudes about there sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep out of it, its not your place to say anything, and just because he's bisexual doesn't mean he's not practising safe sex!! He's bisexual, not a leper!!

Although this guy needs to keep his mouth shut if he wants his business kept private

oh i agree with that im not slating bi men i am worrying that the tv the bi man is seeing doesnt use condoms and does it for money and booze thats my concern nothing to do with bi men in general

I agree just because a guy is bi, doesn't mean there going to be crawling with all sorts. It really gets to me how bi men are portrayed this way and wonder if it's because of homophobic views people hold. If it's to do with anal, well look at how many women do it, and it's not a problem there. To be honest, the main people i've seen who don't rubber up tend to be straight. I really feel for bi men, having to put up with peoples negative attitudes about there sexuality. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People slating bi men REALLY need give their heads a shake, every single person on here will have slept with someone who has slept with someone else who has slept with a bi man before, my husband is bi, he's also very clean, selective and always practices safe sex.

Also most men who inbox him on here asking to meet are 'straight' so let's not be small minded and think its something to panick about. Ultimately its her choice to have sex with who she chooses, and whether he's bi or not it makes no difference as long as she's safe.

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I agree just because a guy is bi, doesn't mean there going to be crawling with all sorts. It really gets to me how bi men are portrayed this way and wonder if it's because of homophobic views people hold. If it's to do with anal, well look at how many women do it, and it's not a problem there. To be honest, the main people i've seen who don't rubber up tend to be straight. I really feel for bi men, having to put up with peoples negative attitudes about there sexuality. "

Thank you, ma'am. You got all covered, bbb

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham


"I agree just because a guy is bi, doesn't mean there going to be crawling with all sorts. It really gets to me how bi men are portrayed this way and wonder if it's because of homophobic views people hold. If it's to do with anal, well look at how many women do it, and it's not a problem there. To be honest, the main people i've seen who don't rubber up tend to be straight. I really feel for bi men, having to put up with peoples negative attitudes about there sexuality.

Thank you, ma'am. You got all covered, bbb "

Thank you too. It's nice too see that other people have the same view.

Also would like to add - the reason why it's easier to catch something through anal sex, is if you rip or tear, an infection if more easy to get into your body.

But how many people know, that a mans anus is approximately half an inch wider then a females? May not sound like a lot, but it is considering how small the anus is.

So if we want the real facts, a women is a lot more likely to get infected through anal, if a partner had a std, then a guy.

Too all the bi guys out there, do your thang, be proud and confident about your sexuality, and if people do not accept you for being bi, then there really not worth it.

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

just because hes bi doesnt mean he has anal sex, im bi but dont.

so the risk is no higher than a woman and a man together

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham


"just because hes bi doesnt mean he has anal sex, im bi but dont.

so the risk is no higher than a woman and a man together"

That is also true. Most bi guys I've seen play don't even do anal.

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