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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Confuses me slightly when women only play safe with the male half of a couple and will go unprotected with the female. If its a couple whatever STI's the male has the female will have as well (obviously). If its for birth control understandable. Never really understand it and find it quite frustrating as condoms ruin it for the pair of us.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

And you have 'safe sex' on your profile. At least be honest if you bareback. Others preferences are theirs and don't have anything to do with you, just find other barebackers to meet! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Meaning non-contagious sex. Its not a preference in this instance it's stupidity and uninformation, last time I read girl on girl still has STI risk.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


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Meaning non-contagious sex. Its not a preference in this instance it's stupidity and uninformation, last time I read girl on girl still has STI risk."

Much of this just doesn't make any sense at all - Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Meaning non-contagious sex. Its not a preference in this instance it's stupidity and uninformation, last time I read girl on girl still has STI risk."

Got to ask.. and I have to say honestly clueless here but apart from condoms on toys how do women have safe sex..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


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Meaning non-contagious sex. Its not a preference in this instance it's stupidity and uninformation, last time I read girl on girl still has STI risk.

Got to ask.. and I have to say honestly clueless here but apart from condoms on toys how do women have safe sex.. "

Dental dams!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Meaning non-contagious sex. Its not a preference in this instance it's stupidity and uninformation, last time I read girl on girl still has STI risk.

Got to ask.. and I have to say honestly clueless here but apart from condoms on toys how do women have safe sex..

Dental dams! "

Sorry but totally new to playing with women... But really.. why would anyone use one.. it's same as using a condom for a bj I'm guessing.. just not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Indeed who in their right mind would find that a turn on. It bewilders me, the women we have messaged only seem concerned about STD contamination in relation the the make proportion correct me but it seems a little pre-judging and unfair, not to mention the unsaid but surely thought accusation that they would risk infecting their truest and dearest with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Indeed who in their right mind would find that a turn on. It bewilders me, the women we have messaged only seem concerned about STD contamination in relation the the make proportion correct me but it seems a little pre-judging and unfair, not to mention the unsaid but surely thought accusation that they would risk infecting their truest and dearest with it. "

Sorry but not sure what your point is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely this is in the wrong forum....swingers chat perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some are oblivious to the fact they can get nasties from licking and whatever else with a woman just as much as if it was with a man. Obviously not penetration

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There was crap about squirting in here so I guess I just slung it in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Some are oblivious to the fact they can get nasties from licking and whatever else with a woman just as much as if it was with a man. Obviously not penetration "

No I think most know that you can catch something but oral between women is classed as a lesser risk... I think we are all clever enough to realise that the only safe sex is no sex..

Still struggling to grasp your argument though. Unless the women are demanding safe sex while giving a bj... And then not doing so for oral on a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really don't think it matters where it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Indeed who in their right mind would find that a turn on. It bewilders me, the women we have messaged only seem concerned about STD contamination in relation the the make proportion correct me but it seems a little pre-judging and unfair, not to mention the unsaid but surely thought accusation that they would risk infecting their truest and dearest with it.

Sorry but not sure what your point is...

Well basically it seems that all the women are so thick on here , they all seem to think that they can only catch an Sti off the male , but they are more that happy to play with a woman unprotected , so for example if chris had an Sti so would I so if she played unprotected with me she would catch it anyway just don't see the point in using condoms "

Actually it's far easier for a man to pass on a std to a woman than it is for a woman to pass to a man...

Are you trying to say if they don't use condoms or dental dams for oral that they may as well go bare ...?

As if this is your point please pop along to your local clinic and discuss it with them.. as they will happily tell you that while there is a risk.. it's no where near as high as penetration.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In relation to infection by HIV/AIDS yes, other than that I would think it is as equal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In relation to infection by HIV/AIDS yes, other than that I would think it is as equal."

Nope.. not even close. Why do you think that most on here don't use protection for oral but do for penetration..

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts. Please dont resort to insults to get a point across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing that always worries me with posts like this is that it seems to show very little knowledge of things that the clinics are very happy to discuss with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you have 'safe sex' on your profile. At least be honest if you bareback. Others preferences are theirs and don't have anything to do with you, just find other barebackers to meet! Z"

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"One thing that always worries me with posts like this is that it seems to show very little knowledge of things that the clinics are very happy to discuss with you.

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