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Degrees of bi?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think there are degrees of being bi? I have found that i can appreciate a beautiful women and i enjoy playing with them but men are my preference. My friend says this is called bi playful. im not caught up on labels or anything just curious to other peoples opinions. Are there other women that feel the same?

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Very definitely! I think that sexuality is on a continuum and we move through it depending on circumstance and choice!! Situationally bi I see it as

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

yes mr swinger is oraly bi only, and loves it but not interested in going further

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very definitely! I think that sexuality is on a continuum and we move through it depending on circumstance and choice!! Situationally bi I see it as "

i like this

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think there most definitely is. There are guys who will play with a CD, but who wouldn't dream of going with a guy guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like asking if there are different degrees of being dead,you're either bi or your not just as you're either dead or you're not

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I don't think it's an is/isn't I think it's on a scale, like any kind of sexual preference...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think there are varying degrees of being bi, and that it's a given that people are either straight or bi - within the 'bi' bit is a continuum as above. And bi people can vary and choose to what degree or extent they exercise their bisexuality.

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

I think the last poster is correct you're either bi or not.

However you can have different bi preferences as in swinging.

Giver, taker, both, oral, full etc so be happy and enjoy what you enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"like asking if there are different degrees of being dead,you're either bi or your not just as you're either dead or you're not"

But my level of attractions is not equal. I am much more into men but occasionally enjoy a woman. It just doesn't seem that black and white really. I have bi friends who are equally attracted to both and think about sex with both regularly. I would say they were "more bi " than i am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the last poster is correct you're either bi or not.

However you can have different bi preferences as in swinging.

Giver, taker, both, oral, full etc so be happy and enjoy what you enjoy.

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Good point

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"like asking if there are different degrees of being dead,you're either bi or your not just as you're either dead or you're not"

I have to disagree but then again I don't like labels and being dead has no choice to it being bi or not does!!

Until last year I'd never been with another woman but the situation arose and I chose to go with it. Does that make me bi no it doesn't but then again am i straight!! As far as I'm concerned I'm neither I'm just me

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

same here i watched a programme called

bi curious me and a girl on it fancied

women she was attracted to them,so i thought mm well i dont do that.

when i go to clubs i not look at the women

only men .but i have touched and kissed women , so what does that make me ??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I guess the term 'I am what I am' rings true then...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess the term 'I am what I am' rings true then... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like asking if there are different degrees of being dead,you're either bi or your not just as you're either dead or you're not

But my level of attractions is not equal. I am much more into men but occasionally enjoy a woman. It just doesn't seem that black and white really. I have bi friends who are equally attracted to both and think about sex with both regularly. I would say they were "more bi " than i am. "

sorry but if you fancy both sexes you're bi but I suppose preferences can change,I think a lot of young folk don't really know if they are str8,bi or curious,there is so much pressure on them in the media to conform to their peers,look at tom robinson:-he was openly gay and wrote songs about it,he met a woman fell in love with her and now is married with kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like asking if there are different degrees of being dead,you're either bi or your not just as you're either dead or you're not

I have to disagree but then again I don't like labels and being dead has no choice to it being bi or not does!!

Until last year I'd never been with another woman but the situation arose and I chose to go with it. Does that make me bi no it doesn't but then again am i straight!! As far as I'm concerned I'm neither I'm just me "

You think being bi is a choice?sexual attraction is innate not chosen,if its through a deliberate choice its a fashion thing!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"like asking if there are different degrees of being dead,you're either bi or your not just as you're either dead or you're not

I have to disagree but then again I don't like labels and being dead has no choice to it being bi or not does!!

Until last year I'd never been with another woman but the situation arose and I chose to go with it. Does that make me bi no it doesn't but then again am i straight!! As far as I'm concerned I'm neither I'm just me

You think being bi is a choice?sexual attraction is innate not chosen,if its through a deliberate choice its a fashion thing! "

Yes I do thinks its a choice. Everyone is able to have an attraction to either sex but you choose whether to act upon it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"like asking if there are different degrees of being dead,you're either bi or your not just as you're either dead or you're not

But my level of attractions is not equal. I am much more into men but occasionally enjoy a woman. It just doesn't seem that black and white really. I have bi friends who are equally attracted to both and think about sex with both regularly. I would say they were "more bi " than i am.

sorry but if you fancy both sexes you're bi but I suppose preferences can change,I think a lot of young folk don't really know if they are str8,bi or curious,there is so much pressure on them in the media to conform to their peers,look at tom robinson:-he was openly gay and wrote songs about it,he met a woman fell in love with her and now is married with kids"

my friends opinion is that i am just straight and only bi playful. but i dont agree with her assessment. I agree if you fancy both then you are bi. But to what degree? its easy if you are just one or the other but bisexuality seems to be a much grayer area don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attracted to a person regardless of their gender. I've been with men and women and enjoyed both. I fantasize about both sexes so yes i'm bi, however I couldn't be in a relationship with a women. (have tried and it didn't work for me)

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"like asking if there are different degrees of being dead,you're either bi or your not just as you're either dead or you're not

But my level of attractions is not equal. I am much more into men but occasionally enjoy a woman. It just doesn't seem that black and white really. I have bi friends who are equally attracted to both and think about sex with both regularly. I would say they were "more bi " than i am.

sorry but if you fancy both sexes you're bi but I suppose preferences can change,I think a lot of young folk don't really know if they are str8,bi or curious,there is so much pressure on them in the media to conform to their peers,look at tom robinson:-he was openly gay and wrote songs about it,he met a woman fell in love with her and now is married with kids"

Thing is, I don't 'fancy' women but I have played with them during play when things get going and it's something I (and the lady concerned) wants. We've never invited a lady to play in a room but have invited plenty of men as Zed actively WANTS to have bi fun whereas I just indulge if the moment happens to present itself during group play.

So yes, I think there are degrees of sexuality ranging from pretty much 100% straight to 100% gay.

To say someone is either bi or not is like saying someone is intelligent or not ... there are clearly different levels of intelligence. Why can't that apply to sexuality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like asking if there are different degrees of being dead,you're either bi or your not just as you're either dead or you're not

But my level of attractions is not equal. I am much more into men but occasionally enjoy a woman. It just doesn't seem that black and white really. I have bi friends who are equally attracted to both and think about sex with both regularly. I would say they were "more bi " than i am.

sorry but if you fancy both sexes you're bi but I suppose preferences can change,I think a lot of young folk don't really know if they are str8,bi or curious,there is so much pressure on them in the media to conform to their peers,look at tom robinson:-he was openly gay and wrote songs about it,he met a woman fell in love with her and now is married with kids

Thing is, I don't 'fancy' women but I have played with them during play when things get going and it's something I (and the lady concerned) wants. We've never invited a lady to play in a room but have invited plenty of men as Zed actively WANTS to have bi fun whereas I just indulge if the moment happens to present itself during group play.

So yes, I think there are degrees of sexuality ranging from pretty much 100% straight to 100% gay.

To say someone is either bi or not is like saying someone is intelligent or not ... there are clearly different levels of intelligence. Why can't that apply to sexuality?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once again, we're getting into labels, and I'm not sure most people fit in to simple categories. I'd consider myself bi because if I'm attracted to someone the gender is not an issue, but that's my explanation: a lot of guys who have sex with men wouldn't call themselves bi at all. The important thing is to recognise the diversity of other people and not to be too hung up about your own sexuality.

I've just been watching a lovely intersex girl on webcam, stripped to a small red thong. Because some of the men didn't bother to read her profile before they started lusting after her and making comments, they freaked out when she revealed her rather long and hard cock. Shame, because she was still a beauty.

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