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To kiss or not to kiss?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've noticed a few profiles saying that they don't kiss during meets. Is it just me but I couldn't imagine having sex and not kissing? It's one of the best bits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are so right....kissing is so important before, during and after sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes kissing is so important n one of my fav past times but i have met one of the cpls on here that dont kiss god it was strange. Was like beans on toast with no beans not right x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

We don't make it a firm rule, personally, but I (Amy) prefer not to as it feels like I'm just going through the motions to please someone else. It doesn't compare to the Earth-shattering experience I get when Vince kisses me so it seems pointless to be honest. - Doesn't mean I WON'T, it just doesn't do anything for me.

I prefer to sink my teeth into your neck and chest (and vice versa).

- Amy. x

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By *eteJDTMan
over a year ago

Jersey

Just seen this and I agree kissing is so important. As a prelude to sex, during and after and even, depending on the circumstances, instead of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss yes most definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hell yes kissing is so important n one of my fav past times but i have met one of the cpls on here that dont kiss god it was strange. Was like beans on toast with no beans not right x"

Crumbs in the bed too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Yes kissing definitely has to be part of it. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A social meet and a bit of a kiss and a snog really heightens the anticipation of another meet and makes the sex so much better. Gives me butterflies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yes kissing is so important n one of my fav past times but i have met one of the cpls on here that dont kiss god it was strange. Was like beans on toast with no beans not right x

Crumbs in the bed too!"

defo not right like a chicken tikka with no tikka x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't meet anyone who doesn't kiss. It's what turns me on in the first place

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

If I were single then yes, I'd definitely want to kiss on a meet - but we're a couple and the way in which we play doesn't necessitate kissing. In fact, it would detract from it.

We play with single bi guys (with emphasis on the bi play)- this takes place in clubs and is more a spontaneous, horny encounter - kissing just doesn't feature. We also often indulge in group play. We just don't feel the need for intimacy and kissing in a scenario like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. Its sensual and can be erotic. It

Adds to the overall experience of a meet. Without kissing it just becomes mechanical and clinical sex and that does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are so right....kissing is so important before, during and after sex "

after is for shoving a meet over and starting on the text... I will kiss others but like another lady says it's pretty much like going through the motions... It rarely (once so far) does anything for me when not my regular play mate..

I never start with kissing either, just feels weird.. normally start with my mouth on his cock.

Although it's worth noting I don't meet one on one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own guys but to me it feels so strange as it is a big part of foreplay for me even durong sex i love and even adore kissing the other person/persons

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By *eanclwydWoman
over a year ago

Rhyl area

I love being kissed it's where it all starts for me, but each to their own & what ever you're comfy doing or not

I asked my hubby once if it bothered him when I'm being passionately kissed by another man? he said if he likes to watch me getting down & dirty with another man why would kissing upset him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing

But meet a couple from here and they don't. It is obvious they don't, but in return i get some outrageous sex and role play so each to their own...

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

It is all part of the turn on for me , love kissing passionately !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing. Its sensual and can be erotic. It

Adds to the overall experience of a meet. Without kissing it just becomes mechanical and clinical sex and that does nothing for me. "

i totally agree

this is one reason im not keen on dogging as there is no real intimacy involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a major part to play, intimacy, foreplay and during sex.

Crap meet without it in my opinion.

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By *anzellMan
over a year ago

Essex

Sex without kissing = cold and clinical sex...not my bag.

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By *lowwormkjmCouple
over a year ago

Worksop


"Kissing is a major part to play, intimacy, foreplay and during sex.

Crap meet without it in my opinion. "

This ^^^^^^ its a deal breaker for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its a deal breaker for me too ! Crap kisser or no kissing ! Then its just not going to happen .. Need the passion to get really turned on ... Or I would personally feel like a hooker ... But I can see why some couples only want to kiss each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex without kissing = cold and clinical sex...not my bag."

most of my verifications would tell you how hot and passionate it is... Most people don't even try to kiss...

I enjoy it with my play partner but that's different...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As someone said on another thread we're all individuals and should conduct ourselves as we see fit. Not kissing causes some quite emotive reaction which I find a bit odd considering most people want nsa but state lack of intimacy as one of the main reasons they won't meet someone who doesn't kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a pre-requiste for us, perfect to get the juices,blood & mind racing. Without that level of sensuality and eroticism, might as well get jiggy wih the rabbit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex without kissing = cold and clinical sex...not my bag.

most of my verifications would tell you how hot and passionate it is... Most people don't even try to kiss...

I enjoy it with my play partner but that's different..."

Exactly, just different dynamics, still red hot...

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"As someone said on another thread we're all individuals and should conduct ourselves as we see fit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say, I don't look for sex on a meet, just a kiss - if its a good kiss, the sex usually takes care of itself.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Kiss kiss kiss... I am all about sensuality and affection. .. without that I just don't get turned on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh yes kissing very important, its all part of the build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The least anyone can do to get the mood going is kiss. It's the first point of contact, just like there's a first base in baseball. Cant be ignored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing can be a massive turn on

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By *tmartiniCouple
over a year ago

DERBY

hi yes I understand where you are coming from, but kissing is supposed to be

intimate between people who love each other. maybe it is a turn on for some people. I no its a turn on for me. but some people do not want that apart from with there partner. does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are so right....kissing is so important before, during and after sex "

love a good passionate kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The least anyone can do to get the mood going is kiss. It's the first point of contact, just like there's a first base in baseball. Cant be ignored!"

I honestly have had about 4 people ever try to start off play with a kiss... Normally they just get naked and I get busy. Lol

so for you that's true.. but not for everyone. I have to have a connection with someone to enjoy a kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The least anyone can do to get the mood going is kiss. It's the first point of contact, just like there's a first base in baseball. Cant be ignored!

I honestly have had about 4 people ever try to start off play with a kiss... Normally they just get naked and I get busy. Lol

so for you that's true.. but not for everyone. I have to have a connection with someone to enjoy a kiss. "

That's true, but then I'd like a connection before i do anything. Call me crazy but I really have to feel I can trust someone. But then nobody ever says, 'oh hey Dan, how's things? Wanna fuck?' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd almost rather not have sex if it didn't involve kissing. (Almost)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are one of the couples that don't kiss on meets. We aren't on here for intimacy we have each other for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"kiss"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The least anyone can do to get the mood going is kiss. It's the first point of contact, just like there's a first base in baseball. Cant be ignored!

I honestly have had about 4 people ever try to start off play with a kiss... Normally they just get naked and I get busy. Lol

so for you that's true.. but not for everyone. I have to have a connection with someone to enjoy a kiss.

That's true, but then I'd like a connection before i do anything. Call me crazy but I really have to feel I can trust someone. But then nobody ever says, 'oh hey Dan, how's things? Wanna fuck?' lol"

I don't need to trust someone to fuck them, but I do to kiss.. I also enjoy sucking cock and fucking but don't (apart from few exceptions.)enjoy kissing others.. I find it very faked and very much an act.. so if I can get away without having to kiss on the lips I'm fine.

I'm also very reluctant to receive oral too X yet have lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't need to trust someone to fuck them, but I do to kiss.. I also enjoy sucking cock and fucking but don't (apart from few exceptions.)enjoy kissing others.. I find it very faked and very much an act.. so if I can get away without having to kiss on the lips I'm fine.

I'm also very reluctant to receive oral too X yet have lots of fun. "

Well then good for you, you get what you want and that's good enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Well then good for you, you get what you want and that's good enough."

What I'm really trying to point out is that in reality no one has ever refused a play meet despite me making it clear .. and that includes couples.

It's one of those things I also rarely see when watching others too.. in fact I've seen my play partner get more dirty looks because he loves to kiss than I ever imagined. So I think that while it's prevalent as a must have on here...in actual practise I rarely see people kissing at clubs and parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we kiss sometimes we don't depends on the other persons preferences. I love seeing silk kiss other women it really turns me on but am less fussed about kissing someone else myself.

I guess we just go with the flow and it wouldn't put us of meeting anyone as everyone has boundaries.

MissD

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Kissing is a must for us as we think it is part of the fore play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are one of the couples that don't kiss on meets. We aren't on here for intimacy we have each other for that"

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Each to their own but I wouldn't consider a meet without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't think of playing without kissing as its a big turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, when ive had a social, Ive just wanted to lean in and kiss the guy, but too public, then if we get to do a bit more in private I go shy

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

It depends on the lady in question, if we've chatted a little while & there's a natural vibe in the air then it feels right to lean in & kiss her lightly, if there is a response then the lightly can turn more heated & passionate!

Then it's about time to leave the pub & go somewhere private to examine this exiting new thing we've been lucky enough to discover together!

If on the other hand there's no vibe then I gotta say I feel like a guest along for the ride but not really included

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