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MFF hubby & his FB question?

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By *eanclwyd OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl area

I'll start by saying I've had a lot more success over the years than my hubby ,I've also had a MMF with hubby & another man.

My hubby has starting seeing a woman who we both know & they have asked if I would like to join them, I admit a MFF does appeal to me but I'm a little worried if I did join them my hubby would spend more time pleasing her, although he says he thinks he may not get a look in with us, I'm torn between wanting to & being apprehensive, any advice? x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you have one small doubt don't do it.

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

how about something in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have had your fun, it's only fair he has his.

Go for it and make sure he has a night to remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you only live once

live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll start by saying I've had a lot more success over the years than my hubby ,I've also had a MMF with hubby & another man.

My hubby has starting seeing a woman who we both know & they have asked if I would like to join them, I admit a MFF does appeal to me but I'm a little worried if I did join them my hubby would spend more time pleasing her, although he says he thinks he may not get a look in with us, I'm torn between wanting to & being apprehensive, any advice? x

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I would say go ahead and do it , it might not work , it might , who knows.

my partner and I have had 1 threesome (was ok), but we have recently had another and he was able to keep us both entertained , so I said go ahead

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Apprehension is a little stronger than nerves but if hubby says it will be ok, then try it. Afterall, he night end up watching for a while and if you so notice him doing nothing, send him off to make a nice cup of tea.

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By *eanclwyd OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl area

I think I'm apprehensive coz we've known her for a long time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have one small doubt don't do it."

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have had your fun, it's only fair he has his.

Go for it and make sure he has a night to remember"

That's terrible advice

You should only do it if it's something you all want to do - not be doing it just to please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree if you feel that way don't do it. I went to a party last night with a few people but only one woman. Great evening but very small and spent a very enjoyable evening with everyone. A small thing in that my partner made her squirt which is something that he normally only does with me has caused upset all day today. Great people there, a lovely lady, fabulous hosts but it has ruined what was a great evening for me. Think long and hard xx

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'll start by saying I've had a lot more success over the years than my hubby ,I've also had a MMF with hubby & another man.

My hubby has starting seeing a woman who we both know & they have asked if I would like to join them, I admit a MFF does appeal to me but I'm a little worried if I did join them my hubby would spend more time pleasing her, although he says he thinks he may not get a look in with us, I'm torn between wanting to & being apprehensive, any advice? x

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It sounds to me that you have a few doubts about your husband and this particular woman. I'm not part of a couple but if i were i would tell my wife about my doubts and then expect her to not want to play with that person again at all. In my opinion, there are many other people around to play with so why endure the stress of having this someone around who you worry might have more fun with your hubby than you do? Just my opinion as a single guy.

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley


"If you have one small doubt don't do it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing that jumps out at me from your post OP (and it's early so I apologise if I've got this wrong) is the statement 'they have asked me if I would like to join them'.

He is your hubby yet he and another woman have made a decision to ask you. The partnership is you and him, not him and her, regardless of the fact he plays alone with her at times. She is the outsider not you.

If you want to experience a MFF then you and your hubby discuss together who you would like to invite to join you. Maybe it would be better if it wasn't this woman who he's played with a few times before.

If you and your hubby decide she is the right choice to invite to play with the two of you, then ensure that you are fulfilled as and when you want to be. I would say though that if there are any jealousy issues, it isn't fair to invite someone else to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do have to be 100% speak to him about your concerns before you agree to it .pins hubby

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By *essicaDamonCouple
over a year ago

Livingston


"The thing that jumps out at me from your post OP (and it's early so I apologise if I've got this wrong) is the statement 'they have asked me if I would like to join them'.

He is your hubby yet he and another woman have made a decision to ask you. The partnership is you and him, not him and her, regardless of the fact he plays alone with her at times. She is the outsider not you.

If you want to experience a MFF then you and your hubby discuss together who you would like to invite to join you. Maybe it would be better if it wasn't this woman who he's played with a few times before.

If you and your hubby decide she is the right choice to invite to play with the two of you, then ensure that you are fulfilled as and when you want to be. I would say though that if there are any jealousy issues, it isn't fair to invite someone else to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree if you feel that way don't do it. I went to a party last night with a few people but only one woman. Great evening but very small and spent a very enjoyable evening with everyone. A small thing in that my partner made her squirt which is something that he normally only does with me has caused upset all day today. Great people there, a lovely lady, fabulous hosts but it has ruined what was a great evening for me. Think long and hard xx"

sorry but why would another woman squirting have ruined your evening... Isn't the point of playing with others mutual pleasure...

Some women just squirt although I doubt I would at a party...

to op.. I will agree with the fact that your not the outsider... Your the partner not her.. so why have they asked you...

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By *eanclwyd OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl area

Thanks all for the comments, there are some that have made me look at this from a different point of view, especially saying it is her who should be joining us & not me joining them, I don't have a problem with them meeting, I'm going to chat to her & tell her how I feel x

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