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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do lots of people on here demand face pics with messages when they don't have any pics on their profile or they are all private??

Some come across as quite nasty on the status updates or profiles demand pics then slagging people off with updates like "can you not read? No pic no reply you will be blocked"

It seems always to be those with no pic on view who do this.

Anyway that's my gripe of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea but I just move on to a profile I do like

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By *isa and HeddoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why do lots of people on here demand face pics with messages when they don't have any pics on their profile or they are all private??

Some come across as quite nasty on the status updates or profiles demand pics then slagging people off with updates like "can you not read? No pic no reply you will be blocked"

It seems always to be those with no pic on view who do this.

Anyway that's my gripe of the day "

I think you're being quite reasonable, we both have face pictures on both our couples profile and our individual profiles.

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By *oxychickWoman
over a year ago

OLDHAM

I have had the same happen tonight, and has happened a number if times.

A guy asks for a pic - I send him one - but when I ask for one back, they avoid the question and just keep chatting.

Why bother as I won't meet without seeing a face. Have they something to hide? I also find it rude as they have asked for a pic, and not prepared to send one back. Maybe they think I won't be attracted to them, but not sending a pic back will end up with a block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do lots of people on here demand face pics with messages when they don't have any pics on their profile or they are all private??

Some come across as quite nasty on the status updates or profiles demand pics then slagging people off with updates like "can you not read? No pic no reply you will be blocked"

It seems always to be those with no pic on view who do this.

Anyway that's my gripe of the day "

I have been on here for possibly 5 years or more and there are, for some strange reason, some very nasty attitudes and aggression on here both from men, women and couples. Something I have never understood.

Swinging is about sexual playtime in a sociable setting and I think the genuine swingers on here are all fine.

My personal view is its those trying to use it as a cheap intro agency or escort site looking for a quick fuck are those who cause others to respond aggressively. I just move on if I get such a nasty response on the theory they will be no fun to meet anyway as their attitude stinks from the start.

I am hopeful its only the few that spoil it for the many.

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I totally agree with the OP, there are so many women and couples on here who insist on a face pic even before you start chatting and they don't even have one on show themselves. Now i'm willing to admit i'm not the most photogenic guy around, i know its hard to believe, but really honest i'm not lol, so i do dread the "face pic please" question as in most cases i don't hear anything back but when i do its a really good sign that a meet is going to be possible. So i'm well aware of how important a face pic is to most women and some couples, its just a pity that once your face pic is rejected there's no chance then of putting over your personality or your character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just think if someone sends first messege then they should enclose pics of themselfs if none on profile.

if i get messege with no pics in and i cant see any on profile of what a guy looks like i just delete.

as for me i like know who talking too and if my type anyways before go any further into convo else no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i just think if someone sends first messege then they should enclose pics of themselfs if none on profile.

if i get messege with no pics in and i cant see any on profile of what a guy looks like i just delete.

as for me i like know who talking too and if my type anyways before go any further into convo else no point "

This! I get bored if I don't get a face pic after a few messages. I'm not interested in faceless ping pong chit chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an ugly barstud hence why my face pic is kept for friends only lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an ugly barstud hence why my face pic is kept for friends only lol "

well save it for halloween messages then maybe??

only joking btw

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I might get my head bitten off for this but here goes anyway lol, as a plain looking guy who has his face pic regularly rejected, i do wonder if we all had to have face pics on our profiles, how many women and couples would still receive the level of male attention they currently enjoy? Tin hat on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an ugly barstud hence why my face pic is kept for friends only lol

well save it for halloween messages then maybe??

only joking btw "
oh my poor feelings lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do lots of people on here demand face pics with messages when they don't have any pics on their profile or they are all private??

Some come across as quite nasty on the status updates or profiles demand pics then slagging people off with updates like "can you not read? No pic no reply you will be blocked"

It seems always to be those with no pic on view who do this.

Anyway that's my gripe of the day "

OP - it's called double standards. And, if they have double standards about face pics, they are likely to have them about a whole host of other things.... so I just leave them to their own little world of 'Double Standarding' and move on to someone more human instead....

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get used to it. Fuck 'em.

One door closes, another one opens.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"I might get my head bitten off for this but here goes anyway lol, as a plain looking guy who has his face pic regularly rejected, i do wonder if we all had to have face pics on our profiles, how many women and couples would still receive the level of male attention they currently enjoy? Tin hat on lol"

we look like extras from the hills have eyes......luckily we've both got perty mauths

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Would you buy a car with out seeing it ? We dont have face pic on show but do have pics of face to send back when we get a msg with pic if we like the cpl or guy . Its only fair even if it dont come to a meet only ever had one blind meet never agine .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do lots of people on here demand face pics with messages when they don't have any pics on their profile or they are all private??

Some come across as quite nasty on the status updates or profiles demand pics then slagging people off with updates like "can you not read? No pic no reply you will be blocked"

It seems always to be those with no pic on view who do this.

Anyway that's my gripe of the day

I have been on here for possibly 5 years or more and there are, for some strange reason, some very nasty attitudes and aggression on here both from men, women and couples. Something I have never understood.

Swinging is about sexual playtime in a sociable setting and I think the genuine swingers on here are all fine.

My personal view is its those trying to use it as a cheap intro agency or escort site looking for a quick fuck are those who cause others to respond aggressively. I just move on if I get such a nasty response on the theory they will be no fun to meet anyway as their attitude stinks from the start.

I am hopeful its only the few that spoil it for the many.

"

You often find they can't be bothered to photo verify with the site or be a site suporter. Why can't they verify ?? I just move on

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"Why do lots of people on here demand face pics with messages when they don't have any pics on their profile or they are all private??

Some come across as quite nasty on the status updates or profiles demand pics then slagging people off with updates like "can you not read? No pic no reply you will be blocked"

It seems always to be those with no pic on view who do this.

Anyway that's my gripe of the day "

Just do not contact any profile without pictures who are demanding people send them a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the comment on double standards.

But then they are asking that if you mail then include a pic...not saying you must display one....

Now if those people emailed me without a pic attached asking for sex I would be outraged at the blatant double standards.....then keep it to myself and ask them politely for a photo lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Why do lots of people on here demand face pics with messages when they don't have any pics on their profile or they are all private??

Some come across as quite nasty on the status updates or profiles demand pics then slagging people off with updates like "can you not read? No pic no reply you will be blocked"

It seems always to be those with no pic on view who do this.

Anyway that's my gripe of the day "

think everyone should have pic of themselves in a balaclava ready to send to the mystery people asking for pics

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Demanding a photograph seems to be how the case in Fife (where teenager seems to have taken his own life) started out.

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I totally agree with the OP, there are so many women and couples on here who insist on a face pic even before you start chatting and they don't even have one on show themselves. Now i'm willing to admit i'm not the most photogenic guy around, i know its hard to believe, but really honest i'm not lol, so i do dread the "face pic please" question as in most cases i don't hear anything back but when i do its a really good sign that a meet is going to be possible. So i'm well aware of how important a face pic is to most women and some couples, its just a pity that once your face pic is rejected there's no chance then of putting over your personality or your character."

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Why do lots of people on here demand face pics with messages when they don't have any pics on their profile or they are all private??

Some come across as quite nasty on the status updates or profiles demand pics then slagging people off with updates like "can you not read? No pic no reply you will be blocked"

It seems always to be those with no pic on view who do this.

Anyway that's my gripe of the day "

I'm one of those people.

I ask for a face pic with their message, some read and take notice what I ask for, others don't.

If they want to meet me they'll do as I ask if they ignore my request then tough titty if they don't get a response.

If I like the look of someone from their body or cock pics and they're asking for a face pic then I send them a message with a face pic... Because its their profile and thats how they want to proceed.

Pretty "out there" in regards to actually reading a persons profile fully and doing what is asked of me

I wonder if it'll catch on and others will follow suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think whoever sends the first message should send a pic, if I get messages from men with no pics asking for mine I just ignor it, I think its a bit rude to ask for pics when you have not send one yourself, if I ever send a first message I always attach a pic and I expect the same

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I always think whoever sends the first message should send a pic, if I get messages from men with no pics asking for mine I just ignor it, I think its a bit rude to ask for pics when you have not send one yourself, if I ever send a first message I always attach a pic and I expect the same "

What naughty said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one on here has to bow down to other peoples demandy profiles

Theres so many others to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When sending a first message, we/I always send a pic...

Saves wasting everyone's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think whoever sends the first message should send a pic, if I get messages from men with no pics asking for mine I just ignor it, I think its a bit rude to ask for pics when you have not send one yourself, if I ever send a first message I always attach a pic and I expect the same "

Good to get the pics out if the way it saves time there has to be an attraction otherwise you could have messages going backwards and forwards then you get a pic and thing oh dear no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just get used to it. Fuck 'em.

One door closes, another one opens. "

or... "don't" fuck 'em!

If someone has a ranty profile I just leave them to it. It's unlikely they will understand my odd sense of humour.

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