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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do other women find on here thst when your looking for couples its hard to get a good balance??

Seems to be full of hot women..then the ptr/husband is old/hairy/not attractive??

Or am I just being fussy??

loadssss of hot wifeys but not so hot hubbys???

unless im just more into women than men..coz I seem to fancy all the women on here yummmmyyyy )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found the same when we were playing with couples

They may have thought the same about us too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not alone..

But as the guy of this couple, i find the lack of pics of the other guys appalling!

How are you to know if the "couple" are a good match? Not only does Miss need to like and be attracted enough to play with him, I also want to enjoy watching her play with a fit guy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy for women to look hot we have fake eye lashes .. hair.. nails... etc we wear make up they dont.. give the poor men a break they are real ...

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

we all have differaant likes but we like to get to no the couple first but we agree if one not attracted to the other it a no go x x pics are a must on both personx x whats the point in meeting if no atractionx x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not alone..

But as the guy of this couple, i find the lack of pics of the other guys appalling!

How are you to know if the "couple" are a good match? Not only does Miss need to like and be attracted enough to play with him, I also want to enjoy watching her play with a fit guy..

"

I agree, far too many couple profiles with pics of the female only & not even one of the guy, that never bodes well x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah your totally right... we doll ourselves up then wonder why the men look average..

didnt think of that. .good point!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol try looking for a black couple where the wife likes white guys! Now that is an issue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of both us

Wayne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah your totally right... we doll ourselves up then wonder why the men look average..

didnt think of that. .good point!! Xx"

Your probably naturally yummy though .. hugs u.. for me if a man can snog well i dont care what he looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have pics of both us

Wayne"

Lets seeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get that, we get chatting and send face pics then they never reply lol it's got to be Alex lol but I love him as he is : ).. Can't wait for him to see this lol

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Hubby is Soooo Ugly.. When we Meet other Couples - The only option for us fem/fem/fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seems to be a lot of women who have looked after themselves over the years, but the guys have let themselves go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have pics of both us

Wayne

Lets seeeeee "

They are on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have pics of both us

Wayne

Lets seeeeee

They are on the profile "

And very nice they are to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omgg guys I am lovingggg yoyr replies hahaha

hubby is ugly hahaha

u nuttas ) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omgg guys I am lovingggg yoyr replies hahaha

hubby is ugly hahaha

u nuttas ) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not naturally yummy believe!!!

Maybe I just fancy my fella so much I struggle to find anyone as attractive

who knows

long as there women keep being hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have pics of both us

Wayne

Lets seeeeee

They are on the profile

And very nice they are to! "

Thank you and you get the from us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup! Agreed! Not many straight wives either!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

all the women on here look yummy to me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other women find on here thst when your looking for couples its hard to get a good balance??

Seems to be full of hot women..then the ptr/husband is old/hairy/not attractive??

Or am I just being fussy??

loadssss of hot wifeys but not so hot hubbys???

unless im just more into women than men..coz I seem to fancy all the women on here yummmmyyyy )"

YES!! I feel like I have to settle for second best, lol. I think M is more attractive than me(even with my make up on!) and there are obviously less pics of him than me but always send face pics of both us when chatting. We have played with one attractive couple and have a few that we message regularly. Feels so vain to care so much and I didn't think we would but we do! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very hard to find cpls where there's mutual attraction between everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby is Soooo Ugly.. When we Meet other Couples - The only option for us fem/fem/fun.. "

LOL, felt the need to look at your profile to see if you're messing or not!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I know Mrs saucy is hot hot hot,

But to be honest,

Scarlett Johansson would look like a minger next to Mr saucy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup! Agreed! Not many straight wives either!"

I'd actually class myself as straight but as I am willing to play with girls if caught up in the mood I put bi-curious, just because someone is bi or says they are doesn't mean they have to play with you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other women find on here thst when your looking for couples its hard to get a good balance??

Seems to be full of hot women..then the ptr/husband is old/hairy/not attractive??

Or am I just being fussy??

loadssss of hot wifeys but not so hot hubbys???

unless im just more into women than men..coz I seem to fancy all the women on here yummmmyyyy )"

I find it works both ways tbh...not all the wifeys are that hot....in fact most couples are distinctly average!

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

we must have been very lucky as nearly all our meets have been couples and we have all found each other attractive.

we do have face pics which we send with messages, we do prefer clubs than one to one meets perhaps thats a better option??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it works both ways tbh...not all the wifeys are that hot....in fact most couples are distinctly average! "

I beg to differ, the ones we have been in contact with recently are gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we must have been very lucky as nearly all our meets have been couples and we have all found each other attractive.

we do have face pics which we send with messages, we do prefer clubs than one to one meets perhaps thats a better option??

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

when we go 'talent spotting' in town or Trafford Centre Tea always says 'women get a crap deal, what on earth do they see in blokes' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my sexy lady experience the same problem when we hit the clubs... Granted.. we're mainly looking for a hot single guy to hook up with but we are open to play with a couple too... As stated above the lady is usually attractive but her man is unfortunately befitting a rounded tummy and not appealing in the looks department!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some times us men let the sides down. We expect all the ladies to be gorgeous and hot but we forget to look in the mirror :-/

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By *orthnorfolkduoCouple
over a year ago

Cromer

Well my excuse is all the hard work and nagging

But no seriously if we that bad, how come us ugly ones have good looking women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my excuse is all the hard work and nagging

But no seriously if we that bad, how come us ugly ones have good looking women "

That's why it's so baffling!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We find it hard to meet cpls even with pics of both of us on profile and we do send face pics of both when chatting . Mr must be ruining our chances lol

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By *orthnorfolkduoCouple
over a year ago

Cromer

Mannerism, it has to be

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Ahh it's cruel haha I think my Mr B is hotter than me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my excuse is all the hard work and nagging

But no seriously if we that bad, how come us ugly ones have good looking women "

Fantastic answer!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly punching above my weight with kris here! Ladies you don't know what you're missing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the interesting thing is - we all have different tastes so what is attractive for one person isn't for another

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Certainly punching above my weight with kris here! Ladies you don't know what you're missing!!!"

sorry. ..

doubt it you look super hot!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly punching above my weight with kris here! Ladies you don't know what you're missing!!!

sorry. ..

doubt it you look super hot!! Xx"

Meany

Kris.

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By *isa and HeddoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby is Soooo Ugly.. When we Meet other Couples - The only option for us fem/fem/fun..

LOL, felt the need to look at your profile to see if you're messing or not! "

me too, and 348 fabbed pics of you both together says... not ugly ! x

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester


"Its easy for women to look hot we have fake eye lashes .. hair.. nails... etc we wear make up they dont.. give the poor men a break they are real ..."

And finally it,s said. Hurraah. You ladies look a tad more real after a night on the sauce or in the mornings. Yeah give us a break

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Well my excuse is all the hard work and nagging

But no seriously if we that bad, how come us ugly ones have good looking women "

Don't want to worry you but the rest of us are thinking having a cull

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By *n need of helpCouple
over a year ago

hull

and women can look good in half decent lighting ,look at so called super models

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

And this, the amount of times people say to guys, ooooooh you don't realise how lucky you are. Really ? You create your own luck and of course attraction goes beyond the surface. Some of the prettiest girls and most handsome guys are rotten inside. All the kissarses and people putting them on a pedastal gives them the ego which spirals out of control. Some of the most beautiful and sexiest people we have met have been down to their inner self. Character and personality with mischievous seductive ability every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this, the amount of times people say to guys, ooooooh you don't realise how lucky you are. Really ? You create your own luck and of course attraction goes beyond the surface. Some of the prettiest girls and most handsome guys are rotten inside. All the kissarses and people putting them on a pedastal gives them the ego which spirals out of control. Some of the most beautiful and sexiest people we have met have been down to their inner self. Character and personality with mischievous seductive ability every time. "

I've found myself attracted to people that I would never have expected because they have the most amazing personality but when you are arranging to meet someone for the first time it can be hard to base it on more than looks. I do feel like a conceited cow though, hardly like I'm stunning!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Quite a few underlying things here.

Firstly, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and your definition of whats sexy in a guy will not be some universal standard.

Secondly, often people get together into a relationship for many reasons, the initial physical attraction is just that initial often as you get to know someone their personality is what makes you fall in love with them. This is obviously quite different to why the majority of people on here pick people for one night of physical no strings fun.

third, any woman who meets single guys will be turning down 10-20 of them a day often body beautiful (due to the extreme numbers of guys in swinging), this goes some way to create this idea that when you can get anyone you want why "settle" after all it is just a night of physical nsa fun so pick the best physical specimen.

Fourth, getting 4 people to find each other attractive is hard everyone has different things they like and that 4 way physical/mental attraction is imo the hardest thing to find in swinging.

I too get tired of being told how lucky I am, it is a compliment but it verges on a bit back handed.

In short, people find different things attractive and personality plays a big part in who we choose (I bloody hope so) to spend our lives with, these are often different criteria to that which you pick people to swing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's also probably because those women love their partners for who they are, not so much what they look like

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Hmmmmm interesting. "

I know right? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever seen the matrix? Bear with me here. In the matrix there's a bit where neo goes into the matrix loading programme and gets some guns etc which you might recall. He asks why there he looks different without his metal bits and no hair etc. It's explained by people having a residual self image. An image of what they look like in their head that differs from reality. I think that's what's happening with guys. I'm genuinely serious I was 3.5 stone overweight until recently and I knew I was a bit overweight but I still had an image of myself in my head . and didn't see how bad it had got. Now lost all the weight and feel much better but I do think it's an issue of people kidding themselves as to the reality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Certainly punching above my weight with kris here! Ladies you don't know what you're missing!!!

sorry. ..

doubt it you look super hot!! Xx

no....youve read it wrong!! Im saying..I doubt that.... coz you look super hot! Lol xx

Meany

Kris. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you just have a higher opinion of yourself than maybe is warranted we find a person with such a high opinion of themselves ss unattractive as old hsiry men. But thats just our humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its easy for women to look hot we have fake eye lashes .. hair.. nails... etc we wear make up they dont.. give the poor men a break they are real ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes there are quite a few fit women with not very attractive partners on here, my hubby said to me he thinks he would be too ugly to meet women on here and i said to him no there are all sorts on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are perfect lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's also probably because those women love their partners for who they are, not so much what they look like"

They would have too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its easy for women to look hot we have fake eye lashes .. hair.. nails... etc we wear make up they dont.. give the poor men a break they are real ..."

Well said and may I add my your HOT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't fancy the male half of a couple its not because I think super model material,am up my own arse or have over inflated grand delusions regarding how I percieve my own attractiveness.....its really very simple,I don't fancy him!

Like I said in my first post on this thread,I expect many couples may have thought the same about us,it very difficult on here to find 4 people that are all attracted to one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other women find on here thst when your looking for couples its hard to get a good balance??

Seems to be full of hot women..then the ptr/husband is old/hairy/not attractive??

Or am I just being fussy??

loadssss of hot wifeys but not so hot hubbys???

unless im just more into women than men..coz I seem to fancy all the women on here yummmmyyyy )"
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