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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do many people do this? Couples I mean with other couples not with singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many people do this? Couples I mean with other couples not with singles "

Can't speak for anyone else but we don't

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

No, not penetrative. Oral yes. Both get tested though and mind who we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty on here that do.. most will say they don't... but the amount of times I have to remind someone or get asked do they really have to is stupid.

Won't get many admitting that they do. I have done in the past but only with my playpartner now.. and I don't even swallow others cum anymore much now either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many people do this? Couples I mean with other couples not with singles "

why only couples?,

In answer to your question we bareback with each other, but always covered with a meet, and like has been said many wont admit to it, every meet we have had has had to be reminded to cover up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This day and age all casual sex has to be protected !

I hate this fact as i feel next to nothing whilst wearing a condom but most people i think understand this and have other wonderful ways to finish me off !

It is a shame because bareback feels amazing but being careful is a necessary evil !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always have condoms on my bed side cabinet but have had a few men just put it in me without using one or have rubbed themselves up against me which is no better as far as i know.

older men are the worse, a lot of them dont like condoms because they lose there erections when they put them on.

i have been tested since and was ok though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty on here that do.. most will say they don't... but the amount of times I have to remind someone or get asked do they really have to is stupid.

Won't get many admitting that they do. I have done in the past but only with my playpartner now.. and I don't even swallow others cum anymore much now either x"

ive met loads that have no bareback on their profile then try and fuck me bare, no one on here will admit to doing it tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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ive met loads that have no bareback on their profile then try and fuck me bare, no one on here will admit to doing it tho"

I know, have had to hold my tongue on a few threads as people that I've witnessed going bare were slamming those that claimed to go bare..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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ive met loads that have no bareback on their profile then try and fuck me bare, no one on here will admit to doing it tho

I know, have had to hold my tongue on a few threads as people that I've witnessed going bare were slamming those that claimed to go bare..

"

now why am i not surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never claim to only do safe sex... But now I play regular with someone I won't risk that. So I'm loads more careful now.. x

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By *adyluck99Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

The amount that try and slip it in bare, all say safe though on their profiles. Sickens me, then they act all dejected when I am not impressed at what they are trying. No respect it regard as far as I'm concerned. Must wear condoms!

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

You very rarely see condoms in pictures......I'm sure lots are with their partners but sure there are many uncovered cocks going into holes of people who are not their partners than people admit.

Dont think there are many people who can say they have never had bareback......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive turn on - So long as all is above board.

Well, and wth my specific interest if both sides are clean, theres no risk of anything else. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting reading people's thoughts on this subject, even going unprotected doing oral is asking for trouble, people are not going to tell you if they have problems, your going to find out a while later from your doctor, it's a fine line to tread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting reading people's thoughts on this subject, even going unprotected doing oral is asking for trouble, people are not going to tell you if they have problems, your going to find out a while later from your doctor, it's a fine line to tread. "

I have never done oral with production.. and I think most of us get checked often. I know I would warn people had I had a problem.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"Interesting reading people's thoughts on this subject, even going unprotected doing oral is asking for trouble, people are not going to tell you if they have problems, your going to find out a while later from your doctor, it's a fine line to tread.

I have never done oral with production.. and I think most of us get checked often. I know I would warn people had I had a problem. "

You simply wouldn't play at all if you had had an incident (broken condom) until you,had all clear from clinic....bad enough that there had been an accident, what kind of shitbag would risk other peoples lives

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do many people do this? Couples I mean with other couples not with singles "

Barebackers are seen as the spawn of Satan on this site, so it'd be swinging suicide to admit to it. That said, some are honest in their preference, but not many in my experience.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"There are plenty on here that do.. most will say they don't... but the amount of times I have to remind someone or get asked do they really have to is stupid.

Won't get many admitting that they do. I have done in the past but only with my playpartner now.. and I don't even swallow others cum anymore much now either x"

Indeed. Of my last six meets, five lost their erection once a condom was produced leading me to believe they didn't use them, which they admitted when asked. Yet their profiles state "safe sex only".

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I know some people say use of condoms is a 'preference' like any other - but I would disagree. It shows a lack of respect for oneself, and any potential partners' health. Taking such risks should never be dismissed as simply a 'preference'.

Naturally couples would play together bareback as would be expected but when playing outside their relationship should really be 'covered', as, I suspect, many are.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i always have condoms on my bed side cabinet but have had a few men just put it in me without using one or have rubbed themselves up against me which is no better as far as i know.

older men are the worse, a lot of them dont like condoms because they lose there erections when they put them on.

i have been tested since and was ok though."

I meet men over 50 so agree with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you lose an erection when wearing a condom? never had this problem, is it common to?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


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ive met loads that have no bareback on their profile then try and fuck me bare, no one on here will admit to doing it tho

I know, have had to hold my tongue on a few threads as people that I've witnessed going bare were slamming those that claimed to go bare..

"

Yep, witnessed it too.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"There are plenty on here that do.. most will say they don't... but the amount of times I have to remind someone or get asked do they really have to is stupid.

Won't get many admitting that they do. I have done in the past but only with my playpartner now.. and I don't even swallow others cum anymore much now either x

Indeed. Of my last six meets, five lost their erection once a condom was produced leading me to believe they didn't use them, which they admitted when asked. Yet their profiles state "safe sex only". "

Same as happened to me, immediately think "riddled"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would you lose an erection when wearing a condom? never had this problem, is it common to?"

Very common.. not sure I've had a meet yet that doesn't have this issue. Can get it back again after. X

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Interesting reading people's thoughts on this subject, even going unprotected doing oral is asking for trouble, people are not going to tell you if they have problems, your going to find out a while later from your doctor, it's a fine line to tread.

I have never done oral with production.. and I think most of us get checked often. I know I would warn people had I had a problem.

You simply wouldn't play at all if you had had an incident (broken condom) until you,had all clear from clinic....bad enough that there had been an accident, what kind of shitbag would risk other peoples lives "

There's a married man that pops up on my local updates who posts a new photo everyday of him pounding raw a different pussy: never a condom in site.

I just think, you must really hate your wife!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"why would you lose an erection when wearing a condom? never had this problem, is it common to?"

Yes if you're not used to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some people say use of condoms is a 'preference' like any other - but I would disagree. It shows a lack of respect for oneself, and any potential partners' health. Taking such risks should never be dismissed as simply a 'preference'.

"

it's a preference, same as people mostly choose not to use one for oral. I choose now to mostly cover up.. but as I play exclusively with someone bare now I am more careful...

However should we decide to forgo with someone that would be our preference. As everyone is aware of the risks...

To be honest before I swung I never bothered getting checked or using condoms..now I do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a man turn up without condoms a few years ago, even though we both had safe sex on our profiles!

His blase attitude and obvious surprise when I mentioned them pissed me off so much I pretended I didn't have any.

Exit one disappointed and frustrated numpty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This day and age all casual sex has to be protected !

I hate this fact as i feel next to nothing whilst wearing a condom but most people i think understand this and have other wonderful ways to finish me off !

It is a shame because bareback feels amazing but being careful is a necessary evil !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have dvp nik bareback before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a man turn up without condoms a few years ago, even though we both had safe sex on our profiles!

His blase attitude and obvious surprise when I mentioned them pissed me off so much I pretended I didn't have any.

Exit one disappointed and frustrated numpty! "

Exactly the same happened to me !! I still have nightmares over it - cause he was horrible too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always provide my own anyway... X

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Always covered with others, it's a must and a deal breaker.

Between us we don't use condoms but any other play its not optional.

When I used to play as a single girl on a different site it never ceased to amaze me how many men would try without and have a variety of reasons/tactics.

I don't like them either, much prefer without but needs must

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always have fun bareback with each other but will be playing safe once we find a lady for regular fun !

These days with so many stds you have to be safe by using condoms.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one on here has just posted that the wife has hep c. And their info states that they want bareback!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just why????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty on here that do.. most will say they don't... but the amount of times I have to remind someone or get asked do they really have to is stupid.

Won't get many admitting that they do. I have done in the past but only with my playpartner now.. and I don't even swallow others cum anymore much now either x"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a man turn up without condoms a few years ago, even though we both had safe sex on our profiles!

His blase attitude and obvious surprise when I mentioned them pissed me off so much I pretended I didn't have any.

Exit one disappointed and frustrated numpty! "

Stupid man! Why risk the chance of having a wonderful time with you?

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty on here that do.. most will say they don't... but the amount of times I have to remind someone or get asked do they really have to is stupid.

Won't get many admitting that they do. I have done in the past but only with my playpartner now.. and I don't even swallow others cum anymore much now either x

ive met loads that have no bareback on their profile then try and fuck me bare, no one on here will admit to doing it tho"

Methinks doth protest too much...

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham


"Some one on here has just posted that the wife has hep c. And their info states that they want bareback!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just why????"

OMG! Why would anyone do that? They have some guts, I must say.

Any 'sane' person would, take a break from the site, get cleared up and NEVER go bareback again!!

People who want to play Russian roulette with there lives, knowing the risks ...... well I can't say I would feel sorry for them if they caught anything.

Harsh it may seem, but when I've had guys who have gone to fuck me without a condom, I feel there totally dis respecting me. They haven't even got the nerve to ask! Though if they asked, it would say to me they go bareback anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it, seen too many educated, professional 'never them' people turn up with stds. Different if it's a long term arrangement....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some one on here has just posted that the wife has hep c. And their info states that they want bareback!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just why????

OMG! Why would anyone do that? They have some guts, I must say.

Any 'sane' person would, take a break from the site, get cleared up and NEVER go bareback again!!

People who want to play Russian roulette with there lives, knowing the risks ...... well I can't say I would feel sorry for them if they caught anything.

Harsh it may seem, but when I've had guys who have gone to fuck me without a condom, I feel there totally dis respecting me. They haven't even got the nerve to ask! Though if they asked, it would say to me they go bareback anyway.

"

It is harsh.

Did you know that some STDs can be transmitted via oral sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im asked to give it bareback its a simple no thank you had one great looking and fit bobied lady saying its ok iv just showered so am clean was so turned on by this lady but no way i wended up driving 50 miles home with a throb on

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham


"Some one on here has just posted that the wife has hep c. And their info states that they want bareback!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just why????

OMG! Why would anyone do that? They have some guts, I must say.

Any 'sane' person would, take a break from the site, get cleared up and NEVER go bareback again!!

People who want to play Russian roulette with there lives, knowing the risks ...... well I can't say I would feel sorry for them if they caught anything.

Harsh it may seem, but when I've had guys who have gone to fuck me without a condom, I feel there totally dis respecting me. They haven't even got the nerve to ask! Though if they asked, it would say to me they go bareback anyway.

It is harsh.

Did you know that some STDs can be transmitted via oral sex?

"

I have heard you can get stds from oral, though the risk isn't as high. That's one of the reasons I stay away from people I know go bareback.

Also the nurses told me at the clinic I get checked, never to swallow as it's a easy way of catching something.

It's true that a lot of people who say they play safe don't, which does concern me at times.

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham


"If im asked to give it bareback its a simple no thank you had one great looking and fit bobied lady saying its ok iv just showered so am clean was so turned on by this lady but no way i wended up driving 50 miles home with a throb on "

Better to drive home with your throb on then a std. You did right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some one on here has just posted that the wife has hep c. And their info states that they want bareback!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just why????

OMG! Why would anyone do that? They have some guts, I must say.

Any 'sane' person would, take a break from the site, get cleared up and NEVER go bareback again!!

People who want to play Russian roulette with there lives, knowing the risks ...... well I can't say I would feel sorry for them if they caught anything.

Harsh it may seem, but when I've had guys who have gone to fuck me without a condom, I feel there totally dis respecting me. They haven't even got the nerve to ask! Though if they asked, it would say to me they go bareback anyway.

It is harsh.

Did you know that some STDs can be transmitted via oral sex?

I have heard you can get stds from oral, though the risk isn't as high. That's one of the reasons I stay away from people I know go bareback.

Also the nurses told me at the clinic I get checked, never to swallow as it's a easy way of catching something.

It's true that a lot of people who say they play safe don't, which does concern me at times. "

Right. Shit happens. I repeat...harsh!

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By *isa and HeddoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester


"Some one on here has just posted that the wife has hep c. And their info states that they want bareback!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just why????

OMG! Why would anyone do that? They have some guts, I must say.

Any 'sane' person would, take a break from the site, get cleared up and NEVER go bareback again!!

People who want to play Russian roulette with there lives, knowing the risks ...... well I can't say I would feel sorry for them if they caught anything.

Harsh it may seem, but when I've had guys who have gone to fuck me without a condom, I feel there totally dis respecting me. They haven't even got the nerve to ask! Though if they asked, it would say to me they go bareback anyway.

It is harsh.

Did you know that some STDs can be transmitted via oral sex?

I have heard you can get stds from oral, though the risk isn't as high. That's one of the reasons I stay away from people I know go bareback.

Also the nurses told me at the clinic I get checked, never to swallow as it's a easy way of catching something.

It's true that a lot of people who say they play safe don't, which does concern me at times. "

Actually safer to swallow as keeping cum in your mouth is more dangerous because that's where your very sensitive and absorbent taste buds are.However stomach acids will destroy anything that you swallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very true and i didnt get chance to talk to her after that she blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this thread was about horse riding???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a balancing point ! Seems men are getting a bashing on here as usual but i have been involved in a luvly meet with a very classy upper class lady and during some heavy kissing reached down and tried to position my cock for entry without a condom of which i wriggled back and pulled one out of my wallet and said we can never be too dafe can we !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a balancing point ! Seems men are getting a bashing on here as usual but i have been involved in a luvly meet with a very classy upper class lady and during some heavy kissing reached down and tried to position my cock for entry without a condom of which i wriggled back and pulled one out of my wallet and said we can never be too dafe can we !

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Its not just people who arent upper class who are iresponsible though, i have met two doctors who wouldnt use condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One i knew was married too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think if a profile states no bareback and they do they should be reported to Admin?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I know some people say use of condoms is a 'preference' like any other - but I would disagree. It shows a lack of respect for oneself, and any potential partners' health. Taking such risks should never be dismissed as simply a 'preference'.

it's a preference, same as people mostly choose not to use one for oral. I choose now to mostly cover up.. but as I play exclusively with someone bare now I am more careful...

However should we decide to forgo with someone that would be our preference. As everyone is aware of the risks...

To be honest before I swung I never bothered getting checked or using condoms..now I do.."

It's not a preference. It's a risk. I've used condoms since the age of 18. And I've known good friends who haven't - at least two are dead now. They just never considered the risks. They died of AIDS.

So, in my view claiming bareback as simply a preference like bbw, ethnic origin, men, women or age is naive at best. That won't kill you but bare backing carries that fatal risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think if a profile states no bareback and they do they should be reported to Admin?"

no because it's a preference. There is no laws being broken... I've gone bare in the past.. I am careful mostly... and now it's not just me I am more careful... However, it's everyone's right to choose..

what bugs me is those that preach safe sex but actually don't.

At clubs etc guys are swapping from pussy to pussy without so much as a wipe and often that's with people that bleat on about safe sex. There is nothing is safe.. it's safer sex... And then it's up to the adult to use what extra precautions they want..

I used condoms for the first time about 10years ago... before that i never bothered.. have to say my first test was nerve wrecking.. but now it's 2nd nature to me.

But I will always say it's a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One other little point is ive been asked by cpls to actually cum inside a lady as hubby likes sloppy seconds !

Well he might like sloppy seconds but he doesnt like his wifes health very much !

And thats quite commonly asked i believe .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do you think if a profile states no bareback and they do they should be reported to Admin?"

Oh for crying out loud: are you serious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One other little point is ive been asked by cpls to actually cum inside a lady as hubby likes sloppy seconds !

Well he might like sloppy seconds but he doesnt like his wifes health very much !

And thats quite commonly asked i believe ."

Don't worry what they are wanting... And I ywould think that if his wife didn't want it, she wouldn't have it.. to many people, sometimes myself included, worry to much about other people... Just look after yourself and do what your comfortable doing.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think if a profile states no bareback and they do they should be reported to Admin?

Oh for crying out loud: are you serious?"

I was only asking a question! I accept this is a free board to say what we want within reason but a simple no would have been a nicer responce!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well kitty !

Think youl find admin to busy checking that were all being nice to eachother on here and not being too naughty on the forums !

There way too busy to police non barebackers or even bloody obvious fakes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In an ideal world we would play bareback as we love the spontaneity of it all. It's a big fantasy of ours but sadly one that will stay that way due to the risks of the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some one on here has just posted that the wife has hep c. And their info states that they want bareback!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just why????

OMG! Why would anyone do that? They have some guts, I must say.

Any 'sane' person would, take a break from the site, get cleared up and NEVER go bareback again!!

People who want to play Russian roulette with there lives, knowing the risks ...... well I can't say I would feel sorry for them if they caught anything.

Harsh it may seem, but when I've had guys who have gone to fuck me without a condom, I feel there totally dis respecting me. They haven't even got the nerve to ask! Though if they asked, it would say to me they go bareback anyway.

It is harsh.

Did you know that some STDs can be transmitted via oral sex?

I have heard you can get stds from oral, though the risk isn't as high. That's one of the reasons I stay away from people I know go bareback.

Also the nurses told me at the clinic I get checked, never to swallow as it's a easy way of catching something.

It's true that a lot of people who say they play safe don't, which does concern me at times.

Actually safer to swallow as keeping cum in your mouth is more dangerous because that's where your very sensitive and absorbent taste buds are.However stomach acids will destroy anything that you swallow. "

No it doesn't!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We only do bareback with other Pro/Am models who like us get tested every 28 days & have written certs (driving license & Passports numbers are checked & documented to know its that person examined), you sometimes get the odd swinger who has regular monthly checks & certs but it very rare these days so we use condoms when swinging with others.

16 years of meeting 100's of people & we have always had clear results & hope to stay this way.

Some might say they are not in an adult industry but porn or swinging carries the same risk as at the end of the day its sex & people should be more responsible for their health.

Kim & John x

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Do you think if a profile states no bareback and they do they should be reported to Admin?"

This would be nothing to do with Admin if they did lol!

We agree to be as safe as you can without endangering others but no one can tell a person to use or not use condoms apart from the person you are having sex with.

People doing bareback should get tested monthly or at least every 3 months as its free at most GUM clinics & totally confidential, it depends if the person/s doing bareback are responsible adults & if they are not they shouldn't even be having sex with others full stop.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Interesting reading people's thoughts on this subject, even going unprotected doing oral is asking for trouble, people are not going to tell you if they have problems, your going to find out a while later from your doctor, it's a fine line to tread.

I have never done oral with production.. and I think most of us get checked often. I know I would warn people had I had a problem.

You simply wouldn't play at all if you had had an incident (broken condom) until you,had all clear from clinic....bad enough that there had been an accident, what kind of shitbag would risk other peoples lives

There's a married man that pops up on my local updates who posts a new photo everyday of him pounding raw a different pussy: never a condom in site.

I just think, you must really hate your wife! "

He won't give a shit about his wife. It's all about him and his 'needs'.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"We only do bareback with other Pro/Am models who like us get tested every 28 days & have written certs (driving license & Passports numbers are checked & documented to know its that person examined), you sometimes get the odd swinger who has regular monthly checks & certs but it very rare these days so we use condoms when swinging with others.

16 years of meeting 100's of people & we have always had clear results & hope to stay this way.

Some might say they are not in an adult industry but porn or swinging carries the same risk as at the end of the day its sex & people should be more responsible for their health.

Kim & John x"

Kim and John - fair play to you for being honest that you do bareback. Having spoken at length to other couples a lot of them don't use condoms but would never admit it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if a BJ is given to someone with a STD. Then she gives her partner a BJ and they have bareback . Would all three have STD?

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham


"Some one on here has just posted that the wife has hep c. And their info states that they want bareback!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just why????

OMG! Why would anyone do that? They have some guts, I must say.

Any 'sane' person would, take a break from the site, get cleared up and NEVER go bareback again!!

People who want to play Russian roulette with there lives, knowing the risks ...... well I can't say I would feel sorry for them if they caught anything.

Harsh it may seem, but when I've had guys who have gone to fuck me without a condom, I feel there totally dis respecting me. They haven't even got the nerve to ask! Though if they asked, it would say to me they go bareback anyway.

It is harsh.

Did you know that some STDs can be transmitted via oral sex?

I have heard you can get stds from oral, though the risk isn't as high. That's one of the reasons I stay away from people I know go bareback.

Also the nurses told me at the clinic I get checked, never to swallow as it's a easy way of catching something.

It's true that a lot of people who say they play safe don't, which does concern me at times.

Actually safer to swallow as keeping cum in your mouth is more dangerous because that's where your very sensitive and absorbent taste buds are.However stomach acids will destroy anything that you swallow.

No it doesn't!"

I didn't think so either. It is something I will have to look up.

At least talking about these things makes you more aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some one on here has just posted that the wife has hep c. And their info states that they want bareback!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just why????

OMG! Why would anyone do that? They have some guts, I must say.

Any 'sane' person would, take a break from the site, get cleared up and NEVER go bareback again!!

People who want to play Russian roulette with there lives, knowing the risks ...... well I can't say I would feel sorry for them if they caught anything.

Harsh it may seem, but when I've had guys who have gone to fuck me without a condom, I feel there totally dis respecting me. They haven't even got the nerve to ask! Though if they asked, it would say to me they go bareback anyway.

It is harsh.

Did you know that some STDs can be transmitted via oral sex?

I have heard you can get stds from oral, though the risk isn't as high. That's one of the reasons I stay away from people I know go bareback.

Also the nurses told me at the clinic I get checked, never to swallow as it's a easy way of catching something.

It's true that a lot of people who say they play safe don't, which does concern me at times.

Actually safer to swallow as keeping cum in your mouth is more dangerous because that's where your very sensitive and absorbent taste buds are.However stomach acids will destroy anything that you swallow.

No it doesn't!

I didn't think so either. It is something I will have to look up.

At least talking about these things makes you more aware. "

Consider this - if stomach acid destroyed everything then (a) the bacteria in food that causes food poisoning would not occur.

(b) oral medication would not work.

Stomach acids start the process of breaking down whatever enters it into its smallest components.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if a BJ is given to someone with a STD. Then she gives her partner a BJ and they have bareback . Would all three have STD?"

not necessarily... Just because someone has something, it doesn't mean you will catch it.. depends on many things.

I was told at the clinic that it's easier for a man to pass something to a woman, than it is for a woman to pass it on..

oral risks are relatively low, and it's also hard to find out if something was contracted orally...

Make sure though when you get tested that you get the mouth and throat swabs too.

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By *ouple_m_and_jCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

Gah, this is my pet hate subject. Always surprised how often it comes up between adults. I honestly couldn't go bareback - I'm one of those people who was overly protective - you only get one set of bits and I intend to keep mine functioning long term!

I have had girls ask me not to use a condom in the past, that would be a MASSIVE no then, and a very bad nagging feeling at the back of my mind about their intentions too.

What gets me is the variety of reasons though, "I have a bad reaction to them", "I don't enjoy it", "They hurt me", "it doesn't feel right" my head always hears, "I want to give you something."

I always presumed that it was the men who were more likely to try to avoid them, but thats just not so!

I made my bareback mistakes when I was but a teen, and was rewarded with a bundle of (now 17 and making Dad proud with her own sensible approach to boys) joy with arms and legs and a head... However, it could have just as easily been a bundle of rash, lumps or worse!

And hey, I'm clean and proud, never had a thing, and I don't want to tarnish THAT record!

For the record, the only person I've played bareback with in 18 years is Jen and it'll stay that way

Marcus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think if a profile states no bareback and they do they should be reported to Admin?

Oh for crying out loud: are you serious?"

That's exactly what I thought.

For f**k's sake, we're all adults here!

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By *MeisterMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think the moral of the thread is just bag up and protect yourself, because you live by the sword you die by the sword

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By *isa and HeddoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester


"Do you think if a profile states no bareback and they do they should be reported to Admin?

Oh for crying out loud: are you serious?

That's exactly what I thought.

For f**k's sake, we're all adults here! "

Yep, you don't want to do something don't do it, move on.

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"why would you lose an erection when wearing a condom? never had this problem, is it common to?

Yes if you're not used to them."

So inexperienced YOUNG guys lose there erections all the time when putting them on then !! Another case of you've seen it happen once or twice so it must be true for all older guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would you lose an erection when wearing a condom? never had this problem, is it common to?

Yes if you're not used to them.

So inexperienced YOUNG guys lose there erections all the time when putting them on then !! Another case of you've seen it happen once or twice so it must be true for all older guys "

Lots of men i have met in their fifties and older say they dont like condoms, yet all the younger men seemed used to using them.

when i mentioned it to them at the GUM clinic they said that older men grew up in a time when there wasnt so many STDs around, also if they have been married for a long time they wouldnt have been using them.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I was arranging a gangbang and found a guy who was visiting the area with a couple of friends and thought 'hey 3 for the price one 1 and they might even turn up!'.

So I contacted the guy and he said they would definitely be interested and he assumed it would be good clean bareback fun?

When I told him where to go he went off on one at me saying him and his mates were clean, not like me who is a filthy whore ... I couldn't quite get my head around his logic seeing as they were the ones willing to engage in bareback sex with multiple partners who they'd never so much as spoken to.

The mind boggles.

Recently I was in cam chat and a couple were on cam... then a guy came in and fucked the wife while the husband typed in chat, saying how the person was a last minute meet and he was fucking her bareback. I asked why and he said 'she's a cum slut haha'. He even said they had another meet lined up an hour later.

I was appalled. I do not understand the mentality at all. I put the couple on my hotlist and when the two meet veris turned up I put them on my hotlist ... and now have quite a web of men and couples who I would not touch with a bargepole.

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By *azyOldGitMan
over a year ago

leicestershire


"why would you lose an erection when wearing a condom? never had this problem, is it common to?

Yes if you're not used to them.

So inexperienced YOUNG guys lose there erections all the time when putting them on then !! Another case of you've seen it happen once or twice so it must be true for all older guys

Lots of men i have met in their fifties and older say they dont like condoms, yet all the younger men seemed used to using them.

when i mentioned it to them at the GUM clinic they said that older men grew up in a time when there wasnt so many STDs around, also if they have been married for a long time they wouldnt have been using them."

I fall into this category. Now a single widower, I dislike condoms as yes I sometimes do lose the old man when he gets shoved inside, but then again, I would sooner look a prick than be one.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"why would you lose an erection when wearing a condom? never had this problem, is it common to?

Yes if you're not used to them.

So inexperienced YOUNG guys lose there erections all the time when putting them on then !! Another case of you've seen it happen once or twice so it must be true for all older guys

Lots of men i have met in their fifties and older say they dont like condoms, yet all the younger men seemed used to using them.

when i mentioned it to them at the GUM clinic they said that older men grew up in a time when there wasnt so many STDs around, also if they have been married for a long time they wouldnt have been using them."

Its probably true, when I was a teenager and in my early twenties we only used condoms to prevent pregnancy so if we were on the pill didn't bother, it wasn't commonly known that they prevented STIs

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