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By *nquisitiveMale OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Now the dirty minded ones out there will have jumped to the conclusion that this is about cock's well it isn't, well some mention to them but just in a general form.

BUT why is it so hard to get any form of response or reaction from women on here? I would presume most of us are here for the same general purpose, unless you are one of the freaks who fakes a profile just to perv.

But having been on this site and having some but not a lot of success, I am starting to wonder if everyone is genuine or if the like the idea but don't have guts to go through with a meet.

Also why do gay men not read profiles. Thanks for the compliments, but I'm not suddenly going to get the urge to drop my pants and be sucked off, even closing my eyes won't make me think it's an attractive 20something model, I think the stubble will give it away.

I am sure the women and couples of this site are thinking the same of all the single men, but some of us are genuine, all we ask is for a chance.

So let's try this, if you are a female or a couple who would like to meet, send me a message or a friend invite or even a wink and I will contact you.

Gay men need not apply

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Set your filters so men can't message you.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Maybe that x ray mirror is scaring them off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what about bi men??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps its ur username?

and one of the pics(look well done btw), looks like u and ur gay mate are spitroasting the invisible woman...might be photoshop...might not be, most would think its not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks lovely and gay, and we do ok off here if you use the site correctly it works well, I appreciate it is easier for us as we are a couple that's why you would need to out more effort in attend clubs an socials to meet people face to face build friendships an see what might happen, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*over a year and not verified...

sorry but some people would prefer verified after such a time.A newbie might get better luck than u to be honest.Being on the site for too long without a verify can basically mean people will think ur a timewaster/fantasist.

perhaps its time U changed that and started seeing whats going on in ur local area, clubwise/social etc..there was a big club party a few weeks ago in manchester, I attended..and Im miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like attracts like

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By *ean Claude long swordMan
over a year ago

Kirkby

Mate I have the same problem I can really be a kick in the nuts when all u see is deleted

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By *nquisitiveMale OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton


"*over a year and not verified...

sorry but some people would prefer verified after such a time.A newbie might get better luck than u to be honest.Being on the site for too long without a verify can basically mean people will think ur a timewaster/fantasist.

perhaps its time U changed that and started seeing whats going on in ur local area, clubwise/social etc..there was a big club party a few weeks ago in manchester, I attended..and Im miles away"

Not being verified doesn't mean I am not experienced, just means I have chosen not to show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*over a year and not verified...

sorry but some people would prefer verified after such a time.A newbie might get better luck than u to be honest.Being on the site for too long without a verify can basically mean people will think ur a timewaster/fantasist.

perhaps its time U changed that and started seeing whats going on in ur local area, clubwise/social etc..there was a big club party a few weeks ago in manchester, I attended..and Im miles away"

I totally agree - your profile is good and you look nice ( not my type tho lol ) but its the lack of veri's ..... I meet youngsters with no veri's cause usually they are new to it and I'm often their first veri .... But I just wouldnt take the chance with someone whose been on here so long with nothing - you are up against loads of other guys - so you have to present the best way you can

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By *nquisitiveMale OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton


"Maybe that x ray mirror is scaring them off?"

Trying to be different and stand out from all the cock shots on here. Somehow need to stand out from the crowd.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"*over a year and not verified...

sorry but some people would prefer verified after such a time.A newbie might get better luck than u to be honest.Being on the site for too long without a verify can basically mean people will think ur a timewaster/fantasist.

perhaps its time U changed that and started seeing whats going on in ur local area, clubwise/social etc..there was a big club party a few weeks ago in manchester, I attended..and Im miles away

Not being verified doesn't mean I am not experienced, just means I have chosen not to show."

You're not hiding veris, you don't have any. If you were verified you'd have a green tick on your profile!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Maybe that x ray mirror is scaring them off?

Trying to be different and stand out from all the cock shots on here. Somehow need to stand out from the crowd."

I do like the picture it just made me do a double take lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*over a year and not verified...

sorry but some people would prefer verified after such a time.A newbie might get better luck than u to be honest.Being on the site for too long without a verify can basically mean people will think ur a timewaster/fantasist.

perhaps its time U changed that and started seeing whats going on in ur local area, clubwise/social etc..there was a big club party a few weeks ago in manchester, I attended..and Im miles away

Not being verified doesn't mean I am not experienced, just means I have chosen not to show."

ur asking for advice matey..I gave it, u are photo verified...but please look at it from the woman/cpls point of view...u are not a viable meet compared to other verified members. U can sing till ur blue in the face how experienced u are, but thats not gonna cut it with others.

try taking the advice given, rather than blaming it being so hard on here, when it isnt really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*over a year and not verified...

sorry but some people would prefer verified after such a time.A newbie might get better luck than u to be honest.Being on the site for too long without a verify can basically mean people will think ur a timewaster/fantasist.

perhaps its time U changed that and started seeing whats going on in ur local area, clubwise/social etc..there was a big club party a few weeks ago in manchester, I attended..and Im miles away

Not being verified doesn't mean I am not experienced, just means I have chosen not to show."

But this profile hasn't been verified by others you can't show what you haven't got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeezus Bastard shit, another one who thinks the word genuine actually means something on here.

The problem is yours, it's not that the ladies or even the gay men are ignorant.

Sort your profile out, get to socials and stop having any sort of expectations about the site. And finally, if you want a fuck go down your local pub and try there. As statistically you've more chance of getting one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in a year how many clubs have you been to ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*over a year and not verified...

sorry but some people would prefer verified after such a time.A newbie might get better luck than u to be honest.Being on the site for too long without a verify can basically mean people will think ur a timewaster/fantasist.

perhaps its time U changed that and started seeing whats going on in ur local area, clubwise/social etc..there was a big club party a few weeks ago in manchester, I attended..and Im miles away

Not being verified doesn't mean I am not experienced, just means I have chosen not to show."

As said photo verification means nothing really, verification in person would mean a green tick, not choosing not to show them. And with the new verification summary even if someone who verifies you leaves the site it will still show you are verified just not the actual verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a single on here and got a meet first weekend.its not that hard.look for gang bangs

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By *ike74Man
over a year ago

newport


"perhaps its ur username?

and one of the pics(look well done btw), looks like u and ur gay mate are spitroasting the invisible woman...might be photoshop...might not be, most would think its not

"

Lmao I like that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"And what about bi men?? "

They might not fancy him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now the dirty minded ones out there will have jumped to the conclusion that this is about cock's "

Now I didn't to be honest I immediately thought this is going to be a single male moaning about not getting replys or meets etc etc and it didn't disappoint

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I get tired throwing back the duvet: my playmate running marathons. Looking at us the nursery rhyme "Jack Sprat" springs to mind, but nowhere on his profile does he mention his training regime, if it did it would put me off and I'd be uncomfortable.

There are some super fit as fuck men on this site, you get RSI before you get to the end of their verifications, but women are beating a path to their door because their profile make a nice read, you can see they work hard on their bodies but it's not rammed down your throat. Perhaps people find your profile intimidating/off putting?!!

Who knows: on a positive love the pics!

Good luck.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


""Now the dirty minded ones out there will have jumped to the conclusion that this is about cock's "

Now I didn't to be honest I immediately thought this is going to be a single male moaning about not getting replys or meets etc etc and it didn't disappoint "

Yep, I thought single man whine about not getting meets too. We must be psychic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"perhaps its ur username?

and one of the pics(look well done btw), looks like u and ur gay mate are spitroasting the invisible woman...might be photoshop...might not be, most would think its not

Lmao I like that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Now the dirty minded ones out there will have jumped to the conclusion that this is about cock's "

Now I didn't to be honest I immediately thought this is going to be a single male moaning about not getting replys or meets etc etc and it didn't disappoint

Yep, I thought single man whine about not getting meets too. We must be psychic! "

You just get in tune with the psychic vibe of the forums

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