FabSwingers.com forum: older women younger men

By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

I can go out on a weekend pull a slim toned fit uni student, I can spend 2 days talking to a girl on pof and meet her, but I come on fab and my face doesn't fit....... not into bbw- just not my taste but I do like to chat they don't give me a reply let alone the time of day, and older ladies my personal favourite still can't even strike up a conversation after sending my pics I'm not looking for a perfect body, looks are unimportant I just looking for friendly interesting older ladies that like younger mature guys for flirt fun and meets ..... flogging a dead horse?? I understand that they can be picky but is there such a thing as too fussy or is it there given right to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is their given right to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

But because of the women to man ratio on here very ordinary ladies are heavily sort after ! Its simple supply and demand !

Please keep trying because there really are some great people on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

But because of the women to man ratio on here very ordinary ladies are heavily sort after ! Its simple supply and demand !

Please keep trying because there really are some great people on here !"

Why would you lower your standards in here compared to a night out then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tick tock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !"

I look for younger men but Im afraid a comment like that would get you nowhere with me

Why contact them if you wouldn't give them a second glance on a night out?

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By *exyBlonde111Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

Sounds like you think you are something special....where as older woman like to be charmed an treated like a lady!. You obviously need more practice. simple as that!

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

But because of the women to man ratio on here very ordinary ladies are heavily sort after ! Its simple supply and demand !

Please keep trying because there really are some great people on here !"

this irritates me why even bother with fab then... yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would that irratate u ?

Its just my observation .

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

Sounds like you think you are something special....where as older woman like to be charmed an treated like a lady!. You obviously need more practice. simple as that!"

I knew exactly how it was gonna sound before I wrote it hence the top line, I'm not saying I'm something special, but how can I treat her like a lady if she doesnt even talk and I tend to agree with the supply and demand bit which is fair enough, bit not the dropping of standards I don't see it like that in fact the opposite I don't want or look for the skinny perfect bodied young girl, I like the older gal

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

Sounds like you think you are something special....where as older woman like to be charmed an treated like a lady!. You obviously need more practice. simple as that!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

Some people look better dressed dude maybe you are one of them if you can pull when dressed but don't get a reply to your naked body. The choice thing well women and guys have the right to choose there is nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged and talked to quite a few older women on here, all nice, intelligent, sexy women!!

What baffles me though is I had a woman add me as a friend, I accepted and sent her a message only for her to delete the message!! What was the point in inviting me at all? Startling!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

They are good enough to approach for a shag on here but you wouldnt look twice at them on a night out????

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I can go out on a weekend pull a slim toned fit uni student, I can spend 2 days talking to a girl on pof and meet her, but I come on fab and my face doesn't fit....... "

How do you approach these women on a night out or on POF??

Im sure its not with pics of you naked body and cock out

And im guessing, because I havent seen either FAB or POF profile, that they DONT say the same thing???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

They are good enough to approach for a shag on here but you wouldnt look twice at them on a night out????

My sentiments exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

They are good enough to approach for a shag on here but you wouldnt look twice at them on a night out????

My sentiments exactly. "

And mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site gets crazier

anyway any offer lady feel free to send me a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" .... looks are unimportant I just looking for friendly interesting older ladies ...."

And as I say every time, I find it charmless when men draw attention to my age. I like to be thought of as an attractive woman, not as an "older woman".

It may well be a fact that I've been on this planet for a good number of years, but I don't expect it to be stated, in a sexual context. Really makes my knickers dry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is brilliant how to make friends and alienate people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there was me wondering for a moment if my views on my thread were a bit maybe misguided..

Comments in this thread have just reinforced my views..

I prefer to be wanted not seen as an easy lay..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem at all meeting the more mature women from this site, so must be somthing your doing wrong, and if u can go out on a night n pull and on pof but complaining your not getting meets on here?? So tell me why your still on this site?

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

They are good enough to approach for a shag on here but you wouldnt look twice at them on a night out????

My sentiments exactly.

And mine!

Oh and mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

Ever thought it may be because they are not stupid !! And they can smell the ones that are looking for any pussy with a pulse !! WTF would they want to meet a man that was not into what they had to offer !! There are loads on here who want them for what they are !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

This is my thoughts entirely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This guys attitude is the very reason I don't meet younger guys. My few meets with younger guys were all pretty disastrous. They turn up late dressed like a tramp, have very limited conversation and a lousy technique when it comes to sex, but they all believe they are something special. Believe me older guys are far more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice opening line. should do well dont forget pics of lifted toilet seat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This guys attitude is the very reason I don't meet younger guys. My few meets with younger guys were all pretty disastrous. They turn up late dressed like a tramp, have very limited conversation and a lousy technique when it comes to sex, but they all believe they are something special. Believe me older guys are far more fun."
Sorry but dont tar us all with the same brush theres 40-50yr old blokes on here with the mind and personalitys of 10 year olds im always fresh and clean for a meet, dress to impress the same way a woman would and i try my best to fit what the woman is looking for, ibe had a bery sucessfull time in clubs and social events so its nothing to do with age, its the person themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple...don't get offended! Just enjoy the people that do want to chat to you!

I don't think chatting to a girl on a night out is comparable with FAB... But I guess it depends...I can go out on a weekend, talk to a fit toned uni girl and not feel the need to try and pull her. But we're all different! I can do the same on FAB too. Just enjoy the variety.

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over a year ago

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By *heekychappy1121Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Well you have seriously shot yourself in the foot with this post. Woman want to be made to feel special an sexy. Not just like an easy shag for you! The woman of fab deserve much better in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well you have seriously shot yourself in the foot with this post. Woman want to be made to feel special an sexy. Not just like an easy shag for you! The woman of fab deserve much better in my opinion."

Everyone wants to feel special and sexy...

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

It's nothing to do with age or what they look like or what I say its the fact that I send a pic and they ignore it, I write a long eye catching message send it with my pic and don't even get a reply they read and they delete, i'm not looking for them to drop their knickers cause I'm someone special just not look at my face and ignore me when I have taken the time to message them, there a button right underneath the message 'reply to msg' - no thanks takes two seconds, just tickled me how moat women on here are so judgmental on looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this totally! I am a mature female and I have a totally mind blowing unusual BJ technique but young guys like the OP I wouldn't give the time of day to, let alone the pleasure of the experience!

As for the other guy, with his lowered standards of women he'd fuck but not date, I don't meet any guy that I feel wouldn't be seen with me in a public place and likewise I don't meet anyone I wouldn't introduce my friends to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's nothing to do with age or what they look like or what I say its the fact that I send a pic and they ignore it, I write a long eye catching message send it with my pic and don't even get a reply they read and they delete, i'm not looking for them to drop their knickers cause I'm someone special just not look at my face and ignore me when I have taken the time to message them, there a button right underneath the message 'reply to msg' - no thanks takes two seconds, just tickled me how moat women on here are so judgmental on looks "

But it's accepted on here that no answer is a no thanks

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Older, younger, same age is doesn't matter. As long as a lady is sexually appealing to you is all that counts

Placing a label on someone is a sure fire way to get overlooked. Try just taking people for who they are.

Fab requires work, unlike the Friday night flings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

I'm taking everything on board - my attitude doesn't need change, I just can't get anyone to engage me in conversation, maybe I lack the skills to talk to older women, but I've never found it a problem in the clubs face to face, I'm a good conversationalist, and I do keep stressing I wast trying to come across as arrogant but thanks for your feed back - this is what the forums are for right? And sorry if I offended didn't mean to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello I love the younger guys always have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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what makes you think its mind blowing? Ive had women make the same statement and id rather have stuck my cock in a blender, dont make the same mistake as the OP amd think you have somthing special

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

Maybe I put the wrong topic heading....

My point is am I uglier to older people than younger people? Do older women like something different to younger women? I feel that's the case why am I not goodlooking on fab but am in real life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged and talked to quite a few older women on here, all nice, intelligent, sexy women!!

What baffles me though is I had a woman add me as a friend, I accepted and sent her a message only for her to delete the message!! What was the point in inviting me at all? Startling!!"

I agree with this I have had 3 ladies invite me as a friend when I message them they read delete and don't reply. The messages I have sent have been friendly, not rude or smutty and contained an element if intelligence ie no text chat!!!

why do they bother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

They are good enough to approach for a shag on here but you wouldnt look twice at them on a night out????

My sentiments exactly.

And mine!

And mine.

Maybe just maybe the older lady doesn't fancy you, even though you make the assumption she does ( because you scored a slim possibly d*unk 'chick' on a night out)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what makes you think its mind blowing? Ive had women make the same statement and id rather have stuck my cock in a blender, dont make the same mistake as the OP amd think you have somthing special"

I have verifications that say it is! The point I was making is I'm an older woman and why would I give the pleasure of my experience to a young guy with nothing outstandingly special to give in return? I'd prefer an older guy that knows what's what and is happy to stimulate my brain too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I put the wrong topic heading....

My point is am I uglier to older people than younger people? Do older women like something different to younger women? I feel that's the case why am I not goodlooking on fab but am in real life?"
Mate give ya head a wobble you sound so big headed, no wonder your having no luck with that attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what makes you think its mind blowing? Ive had women make the same statement and id rather have stuck my cock in a blender, dont make the same mistake as the OP amd think you have somthing special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what makes you think its mind blowing? Ive had women make the same statement and id rather have stuck my cock in a blender, dont make the same mistake as the OP amd think you have somthing special

Steady on chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what makes you think its mind blowing? Ive had women make the same statement and id rather have stuck my cock in a blender, dont make the same mistake as the OP amd think you have somthing special

Sadly young man, like the OP, you'll have to live your life never knowing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I put the wrong topic heading....

My point is am I uglier to older people than younger people? Do older women like something different to younger women? I feel that's the case why am I not goodlooking on fab but am in real life?Mate give ya head a wobble you sound so big headed, no wonder your having no luck with that attitude"

And your attitude is so more pleasant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems its time to get a seat and some healthy snacks and watch the young stud dig a hole for himself...

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

I think women on here are far far more big headed than I could ever be firstly I stated I wasn't being in the very first line of the original post, secondly I think women get far too much attention that does go straight to thier heads and one day it will alienate every single person because no one will be good looking enough, big enough or worth the effort, no one got the point I was trying to make and it was asking for advice I didn't think I put anything wrong! I worded it very carefully to get the point across, but now I'm sticking by the point above!! There's nothing wrong with me its the arrogance exuding from most of the women on here,

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"Seems its time to get a seat and some healthy snacks and watch the young stud dig a hole for himself..."

Yup I'm just parking up my jcb.....

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By *illyDudeMan
over a year ago

norh east

I feel like i got a tiny bit dummer reading some of the comments in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quit while your behind dude

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

You might not mean to be arrogant but it does come across that way maybe a little misguided to. It seems that you are saying that because you can pick up younger women older ones must be too picky if they don't fall for your abundant charms, not so, older women have a depth that comes with maturity and it goes beyond superficial attraction and isn't in the same league as times, fit uni students. Address your attitude and sense of entitlement don't assume that older women are all after younger men just for their youth and you might begin to understand.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

So if you don't have any issues picking up women from pof and going out why the question?

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

I have no sense of entitlement, I ha e the right attitude, my point which has been missed throughout the whole thread is I don't understand and was looking for light to be shed, and I did say before I took heed to some advice given and admitted that maybe I can't talk to them ....... but then there's cumming across as arrogant and then just being dam right arrogant which as some guys will agree that's what women come across as, "you're not even good enough to talk to" "I won't even bother to reply" not relieved them but that's what comes across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

Noticed 2 things - you have no problem with students or girls - so they are younger, and more impressionable. Us more mature ladies actually do have a brain cell and certain standards. We are not easily charmed by some young thing who thinks he is the best thing since sliced bread.

And your face probably doesn't fit. This is a swingers site sweetie - not instashag.com. If you want that, keep going to the pub or use POF. Us more mature ladies can spot the young ones that are looking for notches on bedposts or the real deal.

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

So if you don't have any issues picking up women from pof and going out why the question?

I joined fab to find older more experienced sexy women for chat, meets and the social side of swinging, and was looking for feed back and advice

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Ok but can you tell me what exactly you don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I put the wrong topic heading....

My point is am I uglier to older people than younger people? Do older women like something different to younger women? I feel that's the case why am I not goodlooking on fab but am in real life?"

This (posted half way down the thread) is what the OP doesn't understand.

Yet, nearly every woman has replied in a similar vein.

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over a year ago

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By *otwifeHunter808Man
over a year ago

Bury

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

I can go out on a weekend pull a slim toned fit uni student, I can spend 2 days talking to a girl on pof and meet her, but I come on fab and my face doesn't. fit....... not into bbw- just not my taste but I do like to chat they don't give me a reply let alone the time of day, and older ladies my personal favourite still can't even strike up a conversation after sending my pics I'm not looking for a perfect body, looks are unimportant I just looking for friendly interesting older ladies that like younger mature guys for flirt fun and meets ..... flogging a dead horse?? I understand that they can be picky but is there such a thing as too fussy or is it there given right to be?"
your right I've fucked more people for pof then on a fuck site crazy and better looking ladys as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

I can go out on a weekend pull a slim toned fit uni student, I can spend 2 days talking to a girl on pof and meet her, but I come on fab and my face doesn't. fit....... not into bbw- just not my taste but I do like to chat they don't give me a reply let alone the time of day, and older ladies my personal favourite still can't even strike up a conversation after sending my pics I'm not looking for a perfect body, looks are unimportant I just looking for friendly interesting older ladies that like younger mature guys for flirt fun and meets ..... flogging a dead horse?? I understand that they can be picky but is there such a thing as too fussy or is it there given right to be? your right I've fucked more people for pof then on a fuck site crazy and better looking ladys as well "
think you just cut your throat dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

I look for younger men but Im afraid a comment like that would get you nowhere with me

Why contact them if you wouldn't give them a second glance on a night out?

shot himself in the foot there lol

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"your right I've fucked more people for pof then on a fuck site crazy and better looking ladys as well "

So why stay

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Oh and good luck with getting more meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the ladies here if a guy doesn't want to be seen in public with me then he sure as hell wouldn't get in my knickers and just for the record my ex last year was 22 and was proud to be seen out with me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Maybe I put the wrong topic heading....

My point is am I uglier to older people than younger people? Do older women like something different to younger women? I feel that's the case why am I not goodlooking on fab but am in real life?

This (posted half way down the thread) is what the OP doesn't understand.

Yet, nearly every woman has replied in a similar vein. "

Op do you approach older women on a night out? I don't think the same approach works with older and younger women, look at it this way do you talk to your friends mothers the same way you talk to your friends? Could that be it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent read this whole thread cause I dont have time sweetie x I find your profile really rather off putting - good luck that you have slim toned young FBs but putting it so blatantly on the profile somehow is an instant rejection for me x I get 200 inboxs, friend and winks a day - Its a huge competition for you guys with the MILFS - if thats what you really want - tone down the profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what makes you think its mind blowing? Ive had women make the same statement and id rather have stuck my cock in a blender, dont make the same mistake as the OP amd think you have somthing special"
makes me laugh how some ladies brag about how good they are at giving bj's ! Its like there badge of honour ! Lol

No blokes gonna tell u it was crap are they ! Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

But because of the women to man ratio on here very ordinary ladies are heavily sort after ! Its simple supply and demand !

Please keep trying because there really are some great people on here !"

A disgusting comment, certainly worse than what the OP had to state. Unfortunately there are other men with oversized egos on here, or at least have been.

In June I met a 32 year old Eastern European from here. IMO no Adonis but not being Aphrodite, we were well suited

. He did have a sexy accent though

We had dinner and the conversation flowed. The evening progressed to the morning. We gave each other positive verifications. Unfortunately over the next week or so he moaned about the ladies of fab. He commented about how he used to date models but how here in England and on this website he was getting turned down by older and overweight ladies. His ego was mightily offended.

He asked me out on a date. When I asked if it was because he was desperate cos no-one else wanted him, he replied yes. Ironically I was "washing my hair"

He then left the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

They are good enough to approach for a shag on here but you wouldnt look twice at them on a night out????

My sentiments exactly.

And mine!

And mine.

Maybe just maybe the older lady doesn't fancy you, even though you make the assumption she does ( because you scored a slim possibly d*unk 'chick' on a night out) "
where is an older lady quated on that statement ?????

Its nothing to do with age ! Please re-read it and see ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck is all I have to say on the matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"makes me laugh how some ladies brag about how good they are at giving bj's ! Its like there badge of honour ! Lol

No blokes gonna tell u it was crap are they ! Lmao

Why is me bragging about my excellent talent any different to you saying on your profile that you're a confident lover?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"makes me laugh how some ladies brag about how good they are at giving bj's ! Its like there badge of honour ! Lol

No blokes gonna tell u it was crap are they ! Lmao

Why is me bragging about my excellent talent any different to you saying on your profile that you're a confident lover? "
haha my excelent talent !

There is alot of beautiful ladies who give amazing oral on here and they dont feel the need to brag about it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the context of the original post, I said it to explain why I don't go for younger men. Why give them the benefit of my experience when I can have far more fun with an experienced older guy. Your implication is that I'm unattractive and that's why I need to boast? You can take the piss out of my confidence as much as you like but getting personal about me when you don't know me, I object to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"makes me laugh how some ladies brag about how good they are at giving bj's ! Its like there badge of honour ! Lol

No blokes gonna tell u it was crap are they ! Lmao

Why is me bragging about my excellent talent any different to you saying on your profile that you're a confident lover? "

You're are only as good as the dick your sucking though. Technique is not universal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the context of the original post, I said it to explain why I don't go for younger men. Why give them the benefit of my experience when I can have far more fun with an experienced older guy. Your implication is that I'm unattractive and that's why I need to boast? You can take the piss out of my confidence as much as you like but getting personal about me when you don't know me, I object to that!

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no-ones getting personal !

So no need to feel like that !

But every womans verifications say what a great bj they give ! But they dont seem to feel the need to brag in chatrooms ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're are only as good as the dick your sucking though. Technique is not universal. "

I agree. Some guys find it far too intense and can't cope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"makes me laugh how some ladies brag about how good they are at giving bj's ! Its like there badge of honour ! Lol

No blokes gonna tell u it was crap are they ! Lmao

Why is me bragging about my excellent talent any different to you saying on your profile that you're a confident lover?

You're are only as good as the dick your sucking though. Technique is not universal. "
exactly !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its because its our pussy our rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because some young guys can be jerks on here (and generally in life) I disagree with this idea of all young people not having 'brain cells', not being able to hold a conversation and being inexperienced in bed. I'm educated, funny and pretty down to earth but by the sounds of it a few people on this site would stereotype me as being young, immature and up for anything. Maturer people can lack experience or be less conversational as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because some young guys can be jerks on here (and generally in life) I disagree with this idea of all young people not having 'brain cells', not being able to hold a conversation and being inexperienced in bed. I'm educated, funny and pretty down to earth but by the sounds of it a few people on this site would stereotype me as being young, immature and up for anything. Maturer people can lack experience or be less conversational as well."
very very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again out of context from the original post. The OP was saying he's being ignored by older women on here when he can go out and pull stunning fit young girls on a night out and he couldn't understand why. Me and other posters have tried to say why but basically it's down to personal preference. Besides which I have a mummy tummy and stretchmarks older than you, why on earth would a young guy want to see them? Perhaps it's so we can have an intelligent conversation about them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would we not want to see them. A person is beautiful and attractive regardless of those things. At least in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bollocks, if someone sends me a message with a face picture and I don't fancy the look of them, how would that make me judgemental? And it works in reverse too, I didn't then feel he was being judgemental, I just thanked him for his message and moved onto the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really out of context when you read the conversation again, and I don't mean that in abrasive way. Here is a quote from you earlier - ''I'd prefer an older guy that knows what's what and is happy to stimulate my brain too!'' I can understand you probably were pissed off at some of the comments made by some people but all I'm saying is that young guys can also have and want stimulating conversation and know 'what's what' contrary to your implication. You were all right about personal preference in fairness, which also means that some younger men will genuinely prefer maturer women (with stretch marks and all) so don't be too hard on yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

But because of the women to man ratio on here very ordinary ladies are heavily sort after ! Its simple supply and demand !

Please keep trying because there really are some great people on here !

A disgusting comment, certainly worse than what the OP had to state. Unfortunately there are other men with oversized egos on here, or at least have been.

In June I met a 32 year old Eastern European from here. IMO no Adonis but not being Aphrodite, we were well suited

. He did have a sexy accent though

He asked me out on a date. When I asked if it was because he was desperate cos no-one else wanted him, he replied yes. Ironically I was "washing my hair"

He then left the site."

Oddly enough a 'friend' tells me that I am too choosy and fussy and that's why I am not getting anywhere and that I should shag those I don't fancy anyway then show the verification to encourage more men to show an interest in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged and talked to quite a few older women on here, all nice, intelligent, sexy women!!

What baffles me though is I had a woman add me as a friend, I accepted and sent her a message only for her to delete the message!! What was the point in inviting me at all? Startling!!"

Why add her as a friend without chatting first then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women on here are far far more big headed than I could ever be firstly I stated I wasn't being in the very first line of the original post, secondly I think women get far too much attention that does go straight to thier heads and one day it will alienate every single person because no one will be good looking enough, big enough or worth the effort, no one got the point I was trying to make and it was asking for advice I didn't think I put anything wrong! I worded it very carefully to get the point across, but now I'm sticking by the point above!! There's nothing wrong with me its the arrogance exuding from most of the women on here,"

Now you are generalising that women are the same

Can you message me? No because I am not interested in your age group, nothing to do with arrogance, and there are lots of others like me too who have a peference for their own age group, and how shallow to think its all about looks too

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

To quote my reply on another post (coincidentally from another young guy moaning that he can't get meets):

To put it bluntly and briefly, no-one on here is entitled to anything from the other members. We're not entitled to pics, friend requests, winks, or even replies.

If our lives become so entwined with Fab that the lack of said pics, friend requests, winks, and replies are marring our lives in any way, Fab is probably not the right site for us.

And to quote a very relevant part of the Fab FAQs:

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

HTH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

I look for younger men but Im afraid a comment like that would get you nowhere with me

Why contact them if you wouldn't give them a second glance on a night out?

hey legs in that case , hello there

I'm over your way quite often on the beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not really out of context when you read the conversation again, and I don't mean that in abrasive way. Here is a quote from you earlier - ''I'd prefer an older guy that knows what's what and is happy to stimulate my brain too!'' I can understand you probably were pissed off at some of the comments made by some people but all I'm saying is that young guys can also have and want stimulating conversation and know 'what's what' contrary to your implication. You were all right about personal preference in fairness, which also means that some younger men will genuinely prefer maturer women (with stretch marks and all) so don't be too hard on yourself."

I'm not being hard on myself, I just couldn't imagine at 21 years old wanting to see a 50 year old guys wrinkly todger! Lol

So, in my opinion, the only reason why I could think a young guy would want a maturer woman is so that he can gain experience and use the tips on younger, nubile type females that he picks up on a Friday night!

I'm not here to train young men, I'm here to have nice mutually pleasurable sex with swingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dig dig dig digging away!!!!

It's lucky not many "younger" girls have read this post too as this "charmer" will be getting 0 meets haha

I do find it hard to get replies etc from ladies but I don't piss and moan about it I just think fine cool you're entitled to your tastes just as I am although I don't actually think I have an attractive or desirable body (confidence issues)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dig dig dig digging away!!!!

It's lucky not many "younger" girls have read this post too as this "charmer" will be getting 0 meets haha

I am also not fishing for compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm with the ladies here if a guy doesn't want to be seen in public with me then he sure as hell wouldn't get in my knickers"

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

I can go out on a weekend pull a slim toned fit uni student, I can spend 2 days talking to a girl on pof and meet her, but I come on fab and my face doesn't fit

looks are unimportant

or is it there given right to be?"

Ok you start of with stuff about not being bigheaded or arrogant. Then you go on about how easy you can pull women.

Why did you come to fab or stay on Fab if you can easily get women elsewhere? Why waste your time with Fab?

Looks are unimportant always sounds like I will shag anything with a fanny, tits and a pulse.

And yes it is everyones right to be fussy. We all have different types of people who we fancy.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"I totally agree with u Jay .

Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !"

So you wouldn't give them a second glance on a night out but on Fab you message them asking for a meet? You must have asked for a meet or how could they turn you down?

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

" there a button right underneath the message 'reply to msg' - no thanks takes two seconds"

When you reply with no thanks you often get a second message asking why not.

Some days if I am logged into fab a long time I can get a lot of messages. I am not a secretary. I am not going to sit there for ages replying to every message I get that doesn't interest me with no thanks.

As has been stated many times no reply = no thanks.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"Not at all big headed for what I'm about to say and don't take it as arrogance at all.

I can go out on a weekend pull a slim toned fit uni student, I can spend 2 days talking to a girl on pof and meet her, but I come on fab and my face doesn't. fit....... not into bbw- just not my taste but I do like to chat they don't give me a reply let alone the time of day, and older ladies my personal favourite still can't even strike up a conversation after sending my pics I'm not looking for a perfect body, looks are unimportant I just looking for friendly interesting older ladies that like younger mature guys for flirt fun and meets ..... flogging a dead horse?? I understand that they can be picky but is there such a thing as too fussy or is it there given right to be? your right I've fucked more people for pof then on a fuck site crazy and better looking ladys as well "

So why are you here?

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

Ypu tell a woman :

"It's not going to rain It's going to be sunny"

They see :

"It's going to rain"

Pure example not one read the first two.lines of my original post,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear! Toys and pram spring to mind!

I know it's 2.30am but you're talking a completely different language to me. After that outburst, I'm thinking perhaps stick to what you're good at and leave Fab to the swingers! Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it.

If you can get what you want in real life, why are you here, ranting that Fab ladies don't give you what you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, this thread has gone well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its about your face not fitting, its about the words on your profile, you sound arrogant, selfish and basically a dick, just my opinion, I am sure you have some redeeming qualities, but they don't come across on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think its about your face not fitting, its about the words on your profile, you sound arrogant, selfish and basically a dick, just my opinion, I am sure you have some redeeming qualities, but they don't come across on your profile.

Gosh, I wrote this after reading the original post, I hadn't read the following posts, looks like my opinion is pretty general,

I don't suppose we are all wrong.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"its fab it turns women loopy and stuck up, happy swinging people, "

And men, apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Ypu tell a woman :

"It's not going to rain It's going to be sunny"

They see :

"It's going to rain"

Pure example not one read the first two.lines of my original post, "

But saying "This isn't meant to sound arrogant" and then spouting arrogant bullshit is the same as saying "I'm not racist but..."

We all know that statement is followed by racist crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is brilliant how to make friends and alienate people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read the OP's last couple of posts, I only have one question - how bad do you think his hangover is this morning?

But maybe this would be a good time for us to draw this thread to a conclusion, given that it has just degenerated into personal attacks...?

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