FabSwingers.com forum: Why do young girls like older guys ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive been on here a while now and had my fair share of fun and excitement .

But i find im getting more and more interest from girls in there early twenties than ladies my own age or older !

Just wondered if anyone has any thoughts on this ?

I personally prefer older ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god man and your moaning about it, you should read the female thread about younger men contacting them:~)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so why do you prefer older ladies than

younger females

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Lucky you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for the same reason as young guy mail me I guess, experience

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Have any of them followed through on the "interest"?

Are the profiles of these young girls real?

If yes to both, then don't sweat it and enjoy the attention i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want your house,your car and all your money!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence, experience, looks.

Women mature quicker than men (in a lot of cases).

I mainly go for guys in their 30s for the above reasons plus I've never found guys my own age attractive, I find them less attractive than women.

And im open minded but haven't found a guy under 25 that has changed my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid question.

Why does anyone like anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

I can't help but think this does happen. And that they would be massively dissapointed in my case

They must do. We see lots of couples where fem is 25 and male is 46 etc. not an issue for us though

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I don't. I prefer em young!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

Haha that reminds me of a joke.

what have women and a tornado got incommon.

They both arrive wet and wild and when they leave they take your house and car with them

(only a joke not a personal comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

I can't help but think this does happen. And that they would be massively dissapointed in my case

They must do. We see lots of couples where fem is 25 and male is 46 etc. not an issue for us though

My comment was only a cheeky one,not to be taken too seriously

Im sure that sort of thing happens in any relationship at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I shall try and explain ! Lol

Yes ive met these girls . Most of my verifications are from ladies under 25.

But my point about prefering older ladies ( or even ladies my own age ) is that im meeting for a sexual encounter and i believe experiance is a wonderful attribute.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

I wonder how much of the above is at the root of the grooming of younger, as in under-age, girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I shall try and explain ! Lol

Yes ive met these girls . Most of my verifications are from ladies under 25.

But my point about prefering older ladies ( or even ladies my own age ) is that im meeting for a sexual encounter and i believe experiance is a wonderful attribute. "

The men of the site roll eyes, as they feel your pain of having to deal with young fit inexperienced women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

I wonder how much of the above is at the root of the grooming of younger, as in under-age, girls."

What have I missed something here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

I wonder how much of the above is at the root of the grooming of younger, as in under-age, girls."

At no point has he mentioned under age, I think your off track with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

I wonder how much of the above is at the root of the grooming of younger, as in under-age, girls."

Do not quote my jokey post with anything to do with underage sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

I wonder how much of the above is at the root of the grooming of younger, as in under-age, girls.

At no point has he mentioned under age, I think your off track with that!

Its she that posts on the forum at all times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow just a minute !!!

Im talking early 20's nothing underage !!

How do some peoples minds work .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I shall try and explain ! Lol

Yes ive met these girls . Most of my verifications are from ladies under 25.

But my point about prefering older ladies ( or even ladies my own age ) is that im meeting for a sexual encounter and i believe experiance is a wonderful attribute. "

Have you ever thought maybe they want to meet you for the same reasons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

I wonder how much of the above is at the root of the grooming of younger, as in under-age, girls."

Wtf? Where did that come from?

Personally I find that astonishingly offensive

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"They want your house,your car and all your money!

I wonder how much of the above is at the root of the grooming of younger, as in under-age, girls."

Eh????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow just a minute !!!

Im talking early 20's nothing underage !!

How do some peoples minds work ."

Work? Or more likely don't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They dont where im concerned

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Are we really trying to insist that some of the mistreated underage girls who were groomed and made it into the papers and courts weren't attracted by the cars, money and lifestyle of some of their abusers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we really trying to insist that some of the mistreated underage girls who were groomed and made it into the papers and courts weren't attracted by the cars, money and lifestyle of some of their abusers?"

Completely and utterly out of context with this thread,stop acting like a troll

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Completely and utterly out of context with this thread,stop acting like a troll"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just keep that twisted thinking to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont know but bless them

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I appreciate some truths are uncomfortable but that doesn't stop them being truths and whilst some folks continue to bury their heads in the sand, the abuse will continue.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I appreciate some truths are uncomfortable but that doesn't stop them being truths and whilst some folks continue to bury their heads in the sand, the abuse will continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have tried to twist what the poster had said and Hi jack this thread.

if you feel so strongly about it post your own thread and see how many people reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyway dont suppose we could get back to my original point ?

Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyway dont suppose we could get back to my original point ?

Please"

You obvisouly have some wonderfull charm maybe even a gift, with slightly younger than you women, use it wisely and enjoy

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Anyway dont suppose we could get back to my original point ?

Please"

You mean "Why do young girls like older guys ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH is 16yrs my junior

Must admit though out of the two us, he's the one that's acts like the old fuddy duddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My OH is 16yrs my junior

Must admit though out of the two us, he's the one that's acts like the old fuddy duddy!

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well done you lol xx

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Younger girls like the more mature people as they have more experiance , and know how to please , Youngest weve met of here was 19 .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as per I completely missed all the nasty comments..

Bloody numptie ....

to the OP ... Lucky you! Fill yer boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are attracted to others for a myriad of reasons and one of those might be that of a provider. However what you're discussing isn't quite the same. These were vulnerable girls who were promised a lifestyle in order to be abused.

Abusive relationships are wrong but equating an older man to a younger woman relationship to this type of thing isn't "uncomfortable" it's almost libellous. So feel free to withdraw the comparison at any point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My OH is 16yrs my junior

Must admit though out of the two us, he's the one that's acts like the old fuddy duddy!

well done you lol xx

Why thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met my hubby when i was 17 and he was 38. i liked him because he reminded me of my dad when i was little the way he looked, the way he gave me attention and the way he spoiled me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why i said i like ladies atleast my own age is that we chat and laugh as equals with lots in common ! I luv having a laugh it can be the best part of a meet .

Its funny trying to chat with younger girls cos i feel like im from a different planet ! Lol

I dont even know who's number one in the charts ! Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't. I prefer em young!

Hellllloooo

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

I must admit i do better now with the ladies than i did 10 years ago, i try to draw the line at only playing with women 35-40yrs+.

Being human i give in sometimes to the odd younger one depending on how mature they are but i am having more fun now than i have ever had.

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always gone for older guys. My ex was 11 yrs older than myself.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I would love some younger ladies to want me ........

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Why i said i like ladies atleast my own age is that we chat and laugh as equals with lots in common ! I luv having a laugh it can be the best part of a meet .

Its funny trying to chat with younger girls cos i feel like im from a different planet ! Lol

I dont even know who's number one in the charts ! Lmao"

Make you right there mate, there seems to be no conversation or sense out of some of the younger women.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Men having young girlfriends/mistresses seems to have been quite usual throughout history. I (G) had a mistress over 25 years younger than I was for a couple of years during my last marriage. She got treated well, taken out and taken on holiday, had clothes bought for her, and in return I got lots of sex with an enthusiastic young women - a fair trade-off we both thought. I think she wanted to become my next wife and I made clear that wasn't about to happen but our relationship kept going.

She said she found men of her own age didn't know how to treat a female well, in and out of bed, and always concentrated more on themselves than on her. I used to treat her like a lady when we went out and in bed I'd always make her cum before I did. I liked being seen with a lovely young female and she had a lot of envy from her mates. I made very sure she didn't get pregnant!

We're still friends - but sadly she doesn't swing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes get attention from younger women and whilst it's flattering I don't encourage it. A lot of young girls are emotionally immature and don't know what they want yet so I'm just polite with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And others are emotionally mature and some older women aren't. Age isn't the absolute guide in this respect. However in the majority of cases it's a good guide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let you know when one approaches me

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

"for the same reason as young guy mail me I guess, experience "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't. I prefer em young!

Not from your verifications then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever the reasons, just enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been on here a while now and had my fair share of fun and excitement .

But i find im getting more and more interest from girls in there early twenties than ladies my own age or older !

Just wondered if anyone has any thoughts on this ?

I personally prefer older ladies"

Perhaps it's because (re the younger ladies)

(a) they couldn't care less about your spelling

(b) they assume the following quote made by you disrespecting many ladies here would not be attributed to them:

"Ive been turned down by people on here that i wouldnt give a second glance at on a night out !

But because of the women to man ratio on here very ordinary ladies are heavily sort after ! Its simple supply and demand !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And others are emotionally mature and some older women aren't. Age isn't the absolute guide in this respect. However in the majority of cases it's a good guide"

Granted, generally I'd agree. I have met one or two young ladies who are very level headed for their age, but even then I don't go there .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone !

Its good to chat ...

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"Ive been on here a while now and had my fair share of fun and excitement .

But i find im getting more and more interest from girls in there early twenties than ladies my own age or older !

Just wondered if anyone has any thoughts on this ?

I personally prefer older ladies"

Have you ever thought to ask these young ladies conacting you why they prefer older men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideal age for a mistress is a scientific calculation, I wont bore you with the details, but this is the result

half your age plus 7, always works out, so man age 50, needs a woman half his age = 25 +7 = 32

this calculation is fool proof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was younger i always seem to attract older men. I usually didnt get serious with them because i found the ones who like to chase younger wome usually underestimated me and thought because i was young i was impressionabe and would believe anything they said or do anything they wanted. My husband is 12 years older than me. We meet when i was 20 and he was 32. He usually dated and preferred older women before and after his first marriage so dating someone as young as me was out of the norm for him as well but we had an instant connection. I say give them a chance. You might be pleasantly surprised. You'll be able to tell quickly which ones are genuine and which ones to avoid. Just enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been on here a while now and had my fair share of fun and excitement .

But i find im getting more and more interest from girls in there early twenties than ladies my own age or older !

Just wondered if anyone has any thoughts on this ?

I personally prefer older ladies"

Send 'em my way!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

any woman younger than me ... lets face it ..... most of the women on fab...let me know if they want to meet xxx

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