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By *ouste OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newark

Got a message on here a few weeks ago from a guy saying hi and that he loved our photos, then said he thought he knew my wife, I did not believe him. He then told me her full name, where she worked, what department she worked in and where she sat in the office. Did not tell the wife as she would have wanted to delete our account on here. He said don't worry he would not say anything as he would not want anyone at work to know he was on here too. He then sent a friends invite.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Least he sent a friend invite. We both found out that work colleagues went to a club we go to via a third person. We decided to contact them and let them know what we knew as it's only fair. We become good friends after. If he has face pics that's fair enough I think as all here for the same reason

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By *ouste OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newark

He does not have face pics, but he was being quiet open, honest and seemed genuine. I was not sure whether to accept his friends invite at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm convinced I've seen a work colleague on here which is really funny coz there's only 3 of us! Haha what are the odds!!!

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"He does not have face pics, but he was being quiet open, honest and seemed genuine. I was not sure whether to accept his friends invite at first."
how does he recognise your wife? Surely not from your public pics. X

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By *ouste OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newark

We did have a photo on before where her tattoo was showing and he said he knew her from that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we were messaged on another site by a colleague of mine who used his (unusual)real first name and had clear face pictures as his avatar. He hadn't recognised me so we blocked him, I don't know him well and have no idea how he would react if he knew it was me and we eventually turned him down or things went a bit wrong so we thought it was the easiest option.

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By *ouste OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newark

How did your husband feel about a guy you work with seeing your photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it was and few weeks ago now whats happened since,has he been in touch?my first reaction would be to block him,there was absolutely no need for him to send you that message with so much information about your wife,he could have just passed your profile by but he chose to tell you he knew your wife,I think he sounds like a complete freak and the last sort of person id want to meet

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

You must have invited him as friend did you.

From the pics you have in public gallery I eoudnt recognise my own wife lol!

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By *akey2somCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a message on here a few weeks ago from a guy saying hi and that he loved our photos, then said he thought he knew my wife, I did not believe him. He then told me her full name, where she worked, what department she worked in and where she sat in the office. Did not tell the wife as she would have wanted to delete our account on here. He said don't worry he would not say anything as he would not want anyone at work to know he was on here too. He then sent a friends invite."

I work with a lady and we found out we were both on here and now we are mates and play together and go to clubs etc, now we have also found another colleague on here, i work very close with him but its all fine, as we all after the same thing..... mind i have now seen his erection in a photo....not sure how i feel about that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a club a while ago. Looked up from a bed to see one of my customers watching!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just say- It's vital you tell your wife. If she finds out by this guy saying something to her, closing your account on here could be the least of your worries!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"we were messaged on another site by a colleague of mine who used his (unusual)real first name and had clear face pictures as his avatar. He hadn't recognised me so we blocked him, I don't know him well and have no idea how he would react if he knew it was me and we eventually turned him down or things went a bit wrong so we thought it was the easiest option. "

I would have done the same thing as when people have a drink they blab their own secrets, let alone yours!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I was at a club a while ago. Looked up from a bed to see one of my customers watching!!! "

They'll be wanting a mates rates

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So it was and few weeks ago now whats happened since,has he been in touch?my first reaction would be to block him,there was absolutely no need for him to send you that message with so much information about your wife,he could have just passed your profile by but he chose to tell you he knew your wife,I think he sounds like a complete freak and the last sort of person id want to meet"

We're all here for the same thing so I don't know messaging saying he recognised his wife can be classed as a freak, a rather over dramatic statement

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I was at a club a while ago. Looked up from a bed to see one of my customers watching!!!

They'll be wanting a mates rates "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was spotted by a work colleague we have since become great friends and when we go on meets we tell each other who with and where we are its worked oyt great althou it did bother me at first because my b/f doesnt know at least he cant blackmail any one of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was at a club a while ago. Looked up from a bed to see one of my customers watching!!! "

Not to mention bumping into a freinds hubby lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL - awkward or not awkward?


"I'm convinced I've seen a work colleague on here which is really funny coz there's only 3 of us! Haha what are the odds!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it was and few weeks ago now whats happened since,has he been in touch?my first reaction would be to block him,there was absolutely no need for him to send you that message with so much information about your wife,he could have just passed your profile by but he chose to tell you he knew your wife,I think he sounds like a complete freak and the last sort of person id want to meet

We're all here for the same thing so I don't know messaging saying he recognised his wife can be classed as a freak, a rather over dramatic statement"

I don't agree we're all on here for the same thing at all,not everyone has good intentions on this site and some people behave apallingly,Ill stick by my comment because thats what I think,Ive been messaged by people I know in the past,ive just ignored it,what I would never do is say oh I know who you,name you,say where you live,where you work and describe what you're wearing that day.....personally I find that behaviour freaky and unecessary

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The swinging fraternity is a large community and apart from fab there are several other sites as well as the people that are not on swingers sites but just go to the clubs. Swingers don't live on a different planet to everyone else so your chances of seeing someone you know form work, from your area etc is probably higher than we all presume. I would guess the only time to prob be uncomfortable would be say, as a woman you had no inhibitions and you displayed x-rated public pics for all to see and you were messaged by a guy say from work you would never sleep with in a million years and never even looked at him at work, and he recognised you. You might then feel uncomfortable when you saw him at work as he has now seen all your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was at a club a while ago. Looked up from a bed to see one of my customers watching!!!

Not to mention bumping into a freinds hubby lol"

Oops. Oh forgot that !!

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By *ouste OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newark

To be honest the thought of him seeing her at work everyday after seeing her on here is a huge turn on, just not sure if I should accept his friends invite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a message on here a few weeks ago from a guy saying hi and that he loved our photos, then said he thought he knew my wife, I did not believe him. He then told me her full name, where she worked, what department she worked in and where she sat in the office. Did not tell the wife as she would have wanted to delete our account on here. He said don't worry he would not say anything as he would not want anyone at work to know he was on here too. He then sent a friends invite."
interested to know if you have now told your wife ??? if not if i was in her shoes i would be mortified that you have chosen to tell the site on a forums post that her work colleague knows her but she dont even know . if you have then id say id have rather known from the start and think it was selfish that you chose to keep that information from her so she didnt want to delete the account !!! loyalty trust and honesty is in my opinion what makes a good happy relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest the thought of him seeing her at work everyday after seeing her on here is a huge turn on, just not sure if I should accept his friends invite?"

Oh do me a favour! You said she would delete the account if she knew and now you're wondering about accepting a friends invite? the whole thing turns you on?

Perfect example of how a mans hard cock removes any sense of logical and rational thinking

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"we were messaged on another site by a colleague of mine who used his (unusual)real first name and had clear face pictures as his avatar. He hadn't recognised me so we blocked him, I don't know him well and have no idea how he would react if he knew it was me and we eventually turned him down or things went a bit wrong so we thought it was the easiest option.

I would have done the same thing as when people have a drink they blab their own secrets, let alone yours! "

Yup. Discretion takes a back seat when loose tongues start wagging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest the thought of him seeing her at work everyday after seeing her on here is a huge turn on, just not sure if I should accept his friends invite?

Oh do me a favour! You said she would delete the account if she knew and now you're wondering about accepting a friends invite? the whole thing turns you on?

Perfect example of how a mans hard cock removes any sense of logical and rational thinking "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest the thought of him seeing her at work everyday after seeing her on here is a huge turn on, just not sure if I should accept his friends invite?"

Thi should be in stories and fantasies section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was at a club a while ago. Looked up from a bed to see one of my customers watching!!!

Not to mention bumping into a freinds hubby lol

Oops. Oh forgot that !! "

Have to say, you can bump into "outside fab" freinds and it not be awkward etc, you just have to talk about it etc, me and 40nawty now have a very good freindship through this, we don't play with eachother but its nice to have her as my mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come across people I've worked with on here and also people I went to school with.

Unless they notice me on here I've not said anything about knowing and left them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest the thought of him seeing her at work everyday after seeing her on here is a huge turn on, just not sure if I should accept his friends invite?"

Bit too close to home for my liking. If she works with guy then that could be a recipe for disaster. Tell the guy no thanks and that your wife doesn't know and to leave it at that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How did your husband feel about a guy you work with seeing your photos?"

the same way I did, it was always a possibility and he hadn't recognised me anyway. Now when one of our daughters 23 year old friends winked at us ......

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By *CLCPLUKCouple
over a year ago

Gateshead


"To be honest the thought of him seeing her at work everyday after seeing her on here is a huge turn on, just not sure if I should accept his friends invite?"

Love the idea of that! Be great if a guy worked or recognised my partner (I think she wud like it 2)

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By *isa and HeddoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

Friend of mine met a woman who'd met her daughter at a dogging site. Not a lot they could say to each other in terms of criticising what they were both doing. Evidently they now both tell each other were they are going so they don't meet again which seems reasonable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have someone I work with as a fab friend. But we choose not to play with eachother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He does not have face pics, but he was being quiet open, honest and seemed genuine. I was not sure whether to accept his friends invite at first.

how does he recognise your wife? Surely not from your public pics. X"

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