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The ratio of fake unreal profiles on here !!!.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was chatting with a couple I know recently and the discussion turned to fakes on here.

We had a quite a heated chat as they as a couple looked at fakes with a different view to mine.

I think its about 50....50 they said for a couple its about 65% fake both myself and my friends are experienced swingers and time served so there's not a lot we haven't read or seen but some of the lame excuses we both have had to get to our private pics even we are surprised how clever people are getting.

We both agreed that the verification system on here needs tightening up.....but how !!!.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never met a fake. They never turn up when they say they will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you determine fake personally if i see a mf couple and it says male only playing at moment i am suspicious but without proof how can it be classsed as fake.

As for the verification process i believe cam veris should be discounted for all sexes mf f m to be consistent but thats just my view as i do not use cam to verify folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is 1:8.659. Fact

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Who knows. Even this thread could be a ploy. I see you have been here 6 months with no verifications. I even see in your profile you say you send a friend request as an ice breaker. I think if someone has meeting in person verifications then that would be something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50% ??

65% ???

Think your figures may be a tad extreme!!!

What makes you think its such a high number? There will always be fakes on any site - but if you have suspicions - report, block and move on!

There's plenty enough genuine folk out there with visible 'meet' veri's - just focus on interacting with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never met a fake. They never turn up when they say they will. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who knows. Even this thread could be a ploy. I see you have been here 6 months with no verifications. I even see in your profile you say you send a friend request as an ice breaker. I think if someone has meeting in person verifications then that would be something. "

You should have gone to specsavers !!!!.

Verified Genuine Profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't let fake profiles worry me, if I come across one, I report it, block it and move on.

In my experience of the site, I've really not come across many fakes. I also think it is not unheard if for a genuine single guy to be on this site for 6 months plus and not get a meet verification, I find chatting to people the best way to find out about people and I also think the current verification system acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows. Even this thread could be a ploy. I think if someone has meeting in person verifications then that would be something. "

^^^^ Agree! There is a local man to me who keeps staring new profiles in order to try and meet me. He gets photo verified as that's the only way he can get through my filters. His three profiles are currently on my blocked list. Two as a single man and one couples! Sad really but that's obviously how he gets his kicks!

Meet in person profiles are the only ones I take notice of to be honest. Anyone can get photo verified but all that proves is your a man / woman or couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol...and I've always wondered why "straight" guys are interested in meeting TV's....unless they're "fake straight guys"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows. Even this thread could be a ploy. I see you have been here 6 months with no verifications. I even see in your profile you say you send a friend request as an ice breaker. I think if someone has meeting in person verifications then that would be something.

You should have gone to specsavers !!

!!.

Verified Genuine Profile."
not showing your verification doesn't help though!

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By *artine EssexCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Before we meet anyone as a Couple we insist they meet with my Guy for a beer first. If they cant or wont make the effort to do so then they'll probably be a "no show" on the day anyway so best to pass them by

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Why send a friend invite as an ice breaker? You did that to us we would just ignore you or even block you as we have face pics for friends only or people we are talking to to see what we look like.

So as an ice breaker it does not work just makes YOU look like a pic collector.

A simple well worded message would be better as an ice breaker,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes no odds if people verified or not through meeting really.

is just a guide line.

most veries u read can be overated..and one persons experiance and enjoyment may not be anothers.

also verified users can still talk rubbish and arrange meet even if chat on phone too...yet the just not turn up and suddenly block you(happend to me)

yes makes people wary..does me and i get why so many on here have the Rants on there profile.

they fakes and people who generally talk a load of poo in real life, and same on here.

is case of shit happens and when does just dont worry about it..i used too but if someones all talk etc i just think pretty sad really and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of fakes ir just dreamers.

We often go through looked at me and block any unverified women.or couples who have no pics or unverified after a few months.

Last week in the top fab list were multiple porn models on one profile.I reported it,eventually they got removed but the profile Remained.

We just don't entertain anyone with meets on profile.there is enough ppl on here to choose with them.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"Before we meet anyone as a Couple we insist they meet with my Guy for a beer first. If they cant or wont make the effort to do so then they'll probably be a "no show" on the day anyway so best to pass them by"

That would put me right off. I'm more than happy to meet for a social drink first but I would definitely expect to meet both parties. Being asked to just meet the male would set off alarm bells for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows. Even this thread could be a ploy. I see you have been here 6 months with no verifications. I even see in your profile you say you send a friend request as an ice breaker. I think if someone has meeting in person verifications then that would be something.

You should have gone to specsavers !!

!!.

Verified Genuine Profile.not showing your verification doesn't help though! "

Or the new verification summary.

OP's profile screams fake

Seriously.. dont rely on any verification system as being gosple - it's just a tool and nothing more.

Do you own due diligence checks on others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows. Even this thread could be a ploy. I see you have been here 6 months with no verifications. I even see in your profile you say you send a friend request as an ice breaker. I think if someone has meeting in person verifications then that would be something.

You should have gone to specsavers !!!!.

Verified Genuine Profile."

Someone who sent us a friend request without a message would be blocked and hidden verifications would be suspicious just displaying 1 or 2 would be something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they only fake when no meet happens after a few messages or when messages are ignored or deleted? in that case add me to the percentage of fakes

I think those numbers grossly overinflated in my experience

People are far too quick to chuck the word fake/timewaster around in here when things don't go their way,its getting stupid

If you truly believe a profile is fake then report it to admin and let them have a look at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before we meet anyone as a Couple we insist they meet with my Guy for a beer first. If they cant or wont make the effort to do so then they'll probably be a "no show" on the day anyway so best to pass them by

That would put me right off. I'm more than happy to meet for a social drink first but I would definitely expect to meet both parties. Being asked to just meet the male would set off alarm bells for me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they only fake when no meet happens after a few messages or when messages are ignored or deleted? in that case add me to the percentage of fakes

I think those numbers grossly overinflated in my experience

People are far too quick to chuck the word fake/timewaster around in here when things don't go their way,its getting stupid

If you truly believe a profile is fake then report it to admin and let them have a look at it "

This ^^^^

I believe the vast majority of people who engage with me are NOT fake. Significantly less than 5% would be my estimate.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts. The advice is that if you think a profile is fake report it to Admin and they will have a look at it.

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