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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how is it that most of the male profiles I have looked at recently says they are straight, yet their verifications are all from men?

come on guys, who are you trying to kid? come on out of that closet and stop leaving us all guessing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fellas profile is bi, yet most of his messages are off 'straight' men. I think some worry that it will put some couples off or their mates may see??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My fellas profile is bi, yet most of his messages are off 'straight' men. I think some worry that it will put some couples off or their mates may see??"

good point !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get lots of supposedly straight guys pm saying they are really bi or want to try it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say if we was meeting with a male it would put us off if he was bi as the OH is totally straight!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I get lots of 'straight' guys mailing me asking if i want a BJ etc. I also have a couples profile with a TV, we're silver members so can see who's looked at us. We've got a GB advertised for her tonight, in events it says no straight guys, on the profile it says no straight guys, who do we get inquiries off?

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I have to say if we was meeting with a male it would put us off if he was bi as the OH is totally straight! "

Never see the point with that, I won't have a go at a straight guy, 'Gaydar' tells you when they are. Besides I'm only into TVs, so unless your other half dresses I've no interest. Most bi guys are good with 'Gaydar', it's one reason why we don't get hit to often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi half and it can get on me tits that some males in couples are terrified thinking I am going to jump on him.

Not the case at all guys

Yeah being bi puts couples off specially the male half. I can see there point in hiding the fact they are bi.

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

This subject comes up a lot on these threads and as a genuine straight guy it makes me grimmace that so many bi guys pretend to be straight, as it blurs the line between who is straight or bi and causes so much confusion amongst those who seek males of a particular sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet once that reached down to touch hubby's balls it closed the while show down so now I make it a point to ask are you Bi. had to learn the hard way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just point out that my fella is bi, that doesnt make his disrespectful or a leech!! He plays very straight too (he prefers the ladies) and if the other guy is straight he totally respects that. Any guy touching a straight guys balls is asking for trouble. Its the same as me being bi but I've played with couples where the woman is straight, I'm not desperate enough to feel the urge to grope her, I just enjoy her fella all the more

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bi and it says so on my profile. It also says I don't want to meet men and play 'straight' and prefer ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrrr anoys me bi means you can play with a female or male. If you don't wanna play bi simply say, and it will be respected not alienate us bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grrrrr anoys me bi means you can play with a female or male. If you don't wanna play bi simply say, and it will be respected not alienate us bi guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who avoid couples with bi guys are just fooling themselves. We're the honest ones. Demanding straight guys only. Even if you write long winded "don't you dare even look in my direction Mr Bi Guy" believe me; you'll have been with a bi Guy or with someone who has. Only difference is that they lie. We don't.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Surely isn't it up to the individual who they choose to meet. We choose only to meet straight single men. Nothing personal against bi men, just our choice or is that wrong.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Some bi guys bring distrust on themselves. I've lost count of the comments from bi gays saying all men are bi really!

What I truly don't understand is this: we will NEVER appeal to everyone: fact! This is a site for us as individuals to explore sexually, therefore, why join a site like this and lie to yourself?

So what if SOME couples are put off by bis, loads more aren't. Why pretend to be straight to meet a hot wife when you could double the fun and play with a hot wife and equally hot husband?

I think it sad some adults still can't be honest with themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely isn't it up to the individual who they choose to meet. We choose only to meet straight single men. Nothing personal against bi men, just our choice or is that wrong. "
not wrong at all. People just tend to tell you what you want to hear. Perhaps they are all straight. Just doesn't seem likely from the guys that pm us. Their verifications are all straight but they still want to taste cock. Go figure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is it that most of the male profiles I have looked at recently says they are straight, yet their verifications are all from men?

come on guys, who are you trying to kid? come on out of that closet and stop leaving us all guessing!! "

Peek a boo \o/ I'm here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I list myself as bi-curious, simply because I haven't been with a guy yet though the thought of it turns me on. I get lots (well some) of straight guys telling me how much they would like to ..... I'll leave the rest to you. xx

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Although we understand the many reasons for hiding their bi curiosity we immediately rule out them that message claiming to be curious or actually bi.

Unless it's a straight couple. But truth be told for us al bi is a bonus as for us it's loads more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says bi-curious yet i havnt met any guys as u can see from my verifications !

It says bi-curious because i never say never ! I dont know whats around the corner and what might happen sometime !

It seems seedy for a guy to be bi but really really wonderful that a lady says she's bi !

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and so it starts again.......ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi and it says so on my profile. It also says I don't want to meet men and play 'straight' and prefer ladies. "

Same here,

Have met 2 couples with straight male half's and none of us have had problems, have 2 more meets arranged again with straight male half's and don't foresee any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some bi guys bring distrust on themselves. I've lost count of the comments from bi gays saying all men are bi really!

Bd

What I truly don't understand is this: we will NEVER appeal to everyone: fact! This is a site for us as individuals to explore sexually, therefore, why join a site like this and lie to yourself?

So what if SOME couples are put off by bis, loads more aren't. Why pretend to be straight to meet a hot wife when you could double the fun and play with a hot wife and equally hot husband?

I think it sad some adults still can't be honest with themselves.

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Maybe the guy is happy to experiment but not happy to come out as being bi in public for fear of being ridiculed etc from mates, colleagues etc?

Just a theory, the other theory is ... Putting bi on a profile limits their chances x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi half and it can get on me tits that some males in couples are terrified thinking I am going to jump on him.

Not the case at all guys

Yeah being bi puts couples off specially the male half. I can see there point in hiding the fact they are bi. "

Your your profile pic of the 2 of you us so sexy..

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