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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do married couples have problems with fuck buddy couples ?? After talking to a few people on here we have found that fuck buddy or play partner couples we have found negativity although we have found that we seem to have lots of fun with everyone and don't have a problem playing with either .. What do you think ??

lee n cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have a problem with this scenario.

FB's or play partners are fine by us.

Only problem we ever hate is when a couple plans to meet then the guy says he can only meet on his own and comes up with all the BS under the sun as to why the female cannot come

Enjoy your fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From previous experience of being part of a FB couple. Yes there are lots of people on this site that dont like the idea of playing with fb couples, I dont know why however everybody has their own preferences and make their own choices. It did not stop us from having lots of really good meets from this site and at the end of the day we just put it down to their loss lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"We don't have a problem with this scenario.

FB's or play partners are fine by us.

Only problem we ever hate is when a couple plans to meet then the guy says he can only meet on his own and comes up with all the BS under the sun as to why the female cannot come

Enjoy your fun."

I can't believe that ever happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have no problem with a fb couple long as they are honest with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've noticed that most couples don't even ask when we are at parties or clubs...

I am curious as to why some prefer couples that are in a relationship etc...? I don't think there is anything wrong with people's preferences just wondered if there was a reason for it..

Cali

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

"Do married couples have problems with fuck buddy couples ?? After talking to a few people on here we have found that fuck buddy or play partner couples we have found negativity although we have found that we seem to have lots of fun with everyone and don't have a problem playing with either .. What do you think ??

lee n cali"
ive been with my fb five years now we were meeting long before we joined fab and even then we joined seperately each having a single profile (we now also have a cpls profile) we always turn up if a meet is arranged even though we live forty miles apart and are open and honest about having single profiles on our cpls profile so people can view all three i know we arnt gonna float everyones boat so if we dont get a reply from mail or winks we never get offended x

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By *otwifeHunter808Man
over a year ago

Bury

I'm lookin for long term fuck bud ..any one looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do married couples have problems with fuck buddy couples ?? After talking to a few people on here we have found that fuck buddy or play partner couples we have found negativity although we have found that we seem to have lots of fun with everyone and don't have a problem playing with either .. What do you think ??

lee n cali ive been with my fb five years now we were meeting long before we joined fab and even then we joined seperately each having a single profile (we now also have a cpls profile) we always turn up if a meet is arranged even though we live forty miles apart and are open and honest about having single profiles on our cpls profile so people can view all three i know we arnt gonna float everyones boat so if we dont get a reply from mail or winks we never get offended x"

This is key!!

Being honest is essential - I/we maintain our own single profiles and are clear about our 'relationship' on the couples profile. Haven't had any negative feedback/issues (yet!) and it just adds another dynamic to our fun.

People's preferences are just that - and I've seen many that wont contemplate FB couples - and that's fine. The usual reason given is the lack of emotional connection, commitment and a perception that there is less of a bond between FB's potentially causing trust issues.

Tbh - as a single I've played with both married couples and FB's - and only had once incidence of any negativity and jealousy. And that was with a married couple.

But I guess as with all things it depends on the individuals concerned.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've noticed that most couples don't even ask when we are at parties or clubs...

I am curious as to why some prefer couples that are in a relationship etc...? I don't think there is anything wrong with people's preferences just wondered if there was a reason for it..

Cali "

I'm not in a couple but I understand married couples who only meet other married couples. If I were sharing the most important person in the world to me, I'd want it to be with someone entrusting me with someone equally important to them. Someone they just linked up with for a fuck wouldn't be for me.

Likewise I understand couples who only keep certain acts for themselves. I personally think it's "healthy" keeping something exclusive to the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've discussed this very subject over the years and what I'm about to say may seem a little controversial but it's just what we think. FB couples tend to be very focused on individuals. Not a criticism as sometimes this can be nice but like all things it would be boring to do the same things over and over again.

So what we've found happens when we meet with FBs is we tend to pair off with me ending up shagging the other woman and him shagging mrs N because that's what he is there to do, consequently we don't end up tangling up very much. With couples that are in LTRs they sort of know what each other likes and dislikes so the chemistry is more controlled and measured and things have been discussed that they like to do.

So I wont say oh we never meet FBs. We recently met some FBs and to be fair it was a great meet as it was passionate and sexy but we simply wouldn't want it to be like it all the time. All things in moderation eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've discussed this very subject over the years and what I'm about to say may seem a little controversial but it's just what we think. FB couples tend to be very focused on individuals. Not a criticism as sometimes this can be nice but like all things it would be boring to do the same things over and over again.

So what we've found happens when we meet with FBs is we tend to pair off with me ending up shagging the other woman and him shagging mrs N because that's what he is there to do, consequently we don't end up tangling up very much. With couples that are in LTRs they sort of know what each other likes and dislikes so the chemistry is more controlled and measured and things have been discussed that they like to do.

So I wont say oh we never meet FBs. We recently met some FBs and to be fair it was a great meet as it was passionate and sexy but we simply wouldn't want it to be like it all the time. All things in moderation eh."

thank you.. going to answer on my own profile as its logged in lol

See I have found that I expected a bit more togetherness from some couples we have played with.. I like to look and watch Lee while we are playing.. often there are lots of touches and prefer it when EVERYONE plays together...

I know a few FB couples that if you didnt tell anyone you werent together... that no one would know... ( in fact a few people sometimes get shocked with us) Due to the fact we know each others wants and desires very well.

Thanks to those that have answered.. its interesting for me as I have never played as a FB couple before.. and actually finding it better than when I played as a couple as I feel more included..

so maybe it depends on the dynamics of the FB couples then... as both of us like to give.. and have often found that we both spoil the woman.. and then Myself and the woman spoil the guys.. It was just something we were curious about

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