FabSwingers.com forum: married couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering about the married couples on fabs. How long was it before you decided to try seinging. And more interesting how many wives were the ones to suggest trying it.

Did you suggest because you wanted to spice things up. Or even wanted to fuck a guy you might of fancied and swinging was a way of achieving this without upsetting partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bloody phone and big fingers sorry for spelling but im not re-writing lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were together less than a year when we mutually discussed swinging, we have a great sex life at home but both had boring exs and both felt the need to share our skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got married a few months after we started swinging. It's just fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we accidentally stumbled across Dogging and Swinging.

We were out and having fun in the back of our car and we noticed someone was watching.

Made us both horny as hell and carried on and the rest is history, lol.

We think its great to spice up our already fantastic life and sex life together and who knows what's next in store

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By *ubywants2playCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We had been together for about 13 years and married for around 6 when it all started for us. We've both always been faithful and Ruby used to cringe at the thought of another guy. Sex between us was always great though.

One night I went to bed and she stayed downstairs on the laptop. Hours later I awoke to find her going absolutely crazy on me. It was like she was possessed or something! We had been going through a bit of a 'dry-spell' due to having the babies and were both a bit worn down generally.

I wondered what had happened that night. A few nights later she mentioned in the course of conversation that she had once chatted to a guy who attended swing clubs. Totally coincidentally the following day I went to use te laptop and open on the desktop was a Facebook conversation with a guy from her work. Ruby had said absolutely nothing that was out of order for a marrow woman but this guy clearly wanted her badly and she was possibly encouraging him a bit. They had been chatting for months but I must stress that Ruby had not sent even one message that I took exception to. It still made me feel a bit weird do I confronted her. It was a bit awkward at first but I realised that is had stirred something in me because rather than feeling angry I was just aroused. I had spent ages talking dirty to her about other guys and girls during sex. I told her if she wanted to be dirty with men then she should do it that night in front of me. It was the best night I can remember. She found a guy online and chatted to him about what a dirty girl she was while I fucked her and then it went off the scale when she said he could call her. He did and the scene of her being talked dirty to by a guy as I fucked her was incredible, she was fiving as good as she got. It just spiralled from there really. She admitted that night that if we could have left the house (kids in bed) she would have asked me to take her to his hotel for a threesome.

It's just one from there really, we've had all sorts of experiences. Ruby ways puts it all down to the amazing of time I spent telling her how sexy she is and how much men want her in an atpt to coax her out of her shell. I don't think she ever believed it until she started getting the evidence.

The shell is well and truly shed now though and life is just one long chain of exciting scenarios.

Long may it continue

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By *aribbean QueenWoman
over a year ago

leeds

This isn't a post to encourage unwanted attention but I would love to be in a marriage where you could equally enjoy the attention of others yet have the intimacy of each other. Knowing you where doing the normal home stuff like shopping or arguing about who's turn it is to washing up and then having a wild night with another couple later that evening is the perfect combination !!! It's difficult to find someone in your life that can combine both worlds happily.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Was after we had been together for 18 yrs, started off discussing fantasies etc..

then took another year or so till we dipped our toes in so to speak..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was after we had been together for 18 yrs, started off discussing fantasies etc..

then took another year or so till we dipped our toes in so to speak..

Much the same as us. We've been together 18 years, married for 8. We tried a threesome 7 years ago and loved it, but it's taken us till recently to figure out it's what we want on a more regular basis.

Mrs Bling

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"Was after we had been together for 18 yrs, started off discussing fantasies etc..

then took another year or so till we dipped our toes in so to speak..

Mrs Bling"

Ditto for us to although Mr had to convince me for a while it was a good idea...took the plunge and haven't really looked back,still have a 'to do' list lol but enjoy the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggested it. He agreed, then had a jealous fit so now I'm here alone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suggested it. He agreed, then had a jealous fit so now I'm here alone..."

A very poor choice on his behalf I think.

Your rather stunning

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We started swinging a few weeks after we had first met, and got married 2 years later. We were watching a porn film shot in La Chambre when he suggested we tried it (the club and the activity) and she said yes.

We've just celebrated 10 years together and in 2 weeks we will be celebrating 10 years of swinging - by having a weekend at Youtopia!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suggested it. He agreed, then had a jealous fit so now I'm here alone...

A very poor choice on his behalf I think.

Your rather stunning

Lol, I always cringe when I read posts like that because it smacks of desperation..... Then I looked at the profile in question and I agree, he was clearly an idiot who made a very poor choice!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

While we were having fun one night I asked D how she would feel if one of her sexy girlfriends walked into the room naked and asked to get into bed with us. She came all over me which led to a lot more discussion of Bi curiosity mainly.

Started out looking for a single girl for us both to explore with. Gave up on that after a few months and decided to play with a couple.

Met some really cool people, then tried clubs and here we are a few years later lol.

D's now definitely not curious anymore

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I suggested it. He agreed, then had a jealous fit so now I'm here alone..."

He was definitely and idiot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years together then we played as a cpl and singles telling each other everything..lasted another 5 years then sadly came to an end

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I suggested it. He agreed, then had a jealous fit so now I'm here alone...

He was definitely and idiot..."

I disagree: this isn't for everyone, doesn't make the person an idiot!

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By *othingbetterthansexCouple
over a year ago

Accrington

I (Mr) suggested the idea of introducing another man to the bed while watching a porn movie together featuring a girl playing with two men. Mrs turned into the most horny woman in the world. So a few months later we booked a hotel and had a fantastic night.

We were married for 7 years before we suggested it

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

No it's not for everyone.

But to agree then have a jealous fit is not a sensible way to approach it is it?

We've always felt open and honest communication were a more sensible way of approaching it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mr & I were in to this life style bf we were married.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has always enjoyed hearing stories about me with other men- he really gets off on it. This led to him telling me that he wanted me to go out and fuck other people and then tell him about it- so I obliged. That's how it started for us!

We've been together 6 years and married for 3.

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

"We were together less than a year when we mutually discussed swinging, we have a great sex life at home but both had boring exs and both felt the need to share our skills

Thats excactly the same as us, we had only been together a few months, we think its selfish not sharing

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No it's not for everyone.

But to agree then have a jealous fit is not a sensible way to approach it is it?

We've always felt open and honest communication were a more sensible way of approaching it."

That's you, and good for you, but there isn't a manual on how to swing. I've read comments from couples stating how jealous they felt but pushed through it to keep the other person.

There are married people playing away who were once part of a swinging couple but the other half couldn't handle it.

Just because people do things differently to me doesn't make them idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it's not for everyone.

But to agree then have a jealous fit is not a sensible way to approach it is it?

We've always felt open and honest communication were a more sensible way of approaching it.

That's you, and good for you, but there isn't a manual on how to swing. I've read comments from couples stating how jealous they felt but pushed through it to keep the other person.

There are married people playing away who were once part of a swinging couple but the other half couldn't handle it.

Just because people do things differently to me doesn't make them idiots."

I think the original "idiot" comment was more about her being hot and he was an idiot to let her go. What you're saying here is also absolutely true. Swinging isn't for everyone and both halves of the couple need to be into it to make it work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it's not for everyone.

But to agree then have a jealous fit is not a sensible way to approach it is it?

We've always felt open and honest communication were a more sensible way of approaching it."

it is but not everybody is mature or confident enough to be able to do that.,

nobody ever knows how they're actually going to feel in any situation until they're in it no matter how much they talk or fantasise about it...or how their feelings will make them react...human beings are fallible and not very sensible particularly when in an emotional state...

We're not arrogant enough to assume that because we have agreed to enter this lifestyle we'll always be ok with everything each other does within it...you're right though-open communication is absolutely key

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"No it's not for everyone.

But to agree then have a jealous fit is not a sensible way to approach it is it?

We've always felt open and honest communication were a more sensible way of approaching it.

That's you, and good for you, but there isn't a manual on how to swing. I've read comments from couples stating how jealous they felt but pushed through it to keep the other person.

There are married people playing away who were once part of a swinging couple but the other half couldn't handle it.

Just because people do things differently to me doesn't make them idiots.

This is very much what I ment with my origional post. I just did a rubbish job of getting that across.

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