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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Arranged to meet a couple in a large busy pub last week. Sent them a friends request which they didn't accept, although we did exchange face pictures. Sent them our phone number, but they didn't send us theirs.

So we arrive, get a drink and wait. After half an hour nothing - no sign of them and no phone message to say they're running late, so we leave.

10 minutes later, 40 minutes after the arranged meeting time, we get a txt, which we found when we got home.

We're now blocked, sorry, is this our fault?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did the message say? Was it an explanation? But going by what you say, no it's not your fault!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting? "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, am assuming you didn't talk to them as a Cpl before arranging to meet up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never arrange to meet others without it being confirmed over the phone to start with, and having their contact number etc.

Obviously they had no real interest in you and have blocked further contact..

Not nice, but unfortunately it's how some do it.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting? "

^This

I wouldn't have gone ahead with it if the conversation was all one way. Doesn't sound like they had any intention of going ahead with the meet.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Arranged to meet a couple in a large busy pub last week. Sent them a friends request which they didn't accept, although we did exchange face pictures. Sent them our phone number, but they didn't send us theirs.

So we arrive, get a drink and wait. After half an hour nothing - no sign of them and no phone message to say they're running late, so we leave.

10 minutes later, 40 minutes after the arranged meeting time, we get a txt, which we found when we got home.

We're now blocked, sorry, is this our fault?"

From your description of events, nope not your fault,, howeverI think there were red flags there,:*}

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had sent a friends request that was'nt accepted and a phone number that was ignored then I would'nt have bothered to get off my arse to make any sort of effort to meet them regardless of what was said in messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had sent a friends request that was'nt accepted and a phone number that was ignored then I would'nt have bothered to get off my arse to make any sort of effort to meet them regardless of what was said in messages"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid is as stupid does

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"If I had sent a friends request that was'nt accepted and a phone number that was ignored then I would'nt have bothered to get off my arse to make any sort of effort to meet them regardless of what was said in messages"

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme


"Arranged to meet a couple in a large busy pub last week. Sent them a friends request which they didn't accept, although we did exchange face pictures. Sent them our phone number, but they didn't send us theirs.

So we arrive, get a drink and wait. After half an hour nothing - no sign of them and no phone message to say they're running late, so we leave.

10 minutes later, 40 minutes after the arranged meeting time, we get a txt, which we found when we got home.

We're now blocked, sorry, is this our fault?"

Just curious, did their text say they had cancelled or that they were going to be late?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting? "

This

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Why give someone a contact number, then leave the phone at home??

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting? "

have to say I agree with everyone else...

at what point doesn't basic common sense kick in????

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting?

have to say I agree with everyone else...

at what point doesn't basic common sense kick in????"

Its funny when you browse these forums because its often astounding how many people lack any sort of common sense.

Wont give us their number or accept a friend request ? ooh off I go to meet them then what could possibly go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting?

have to say I agree with everyone else...

at what point doesn't basic common sense kick in????

Its funny when you browse these forums because its often astounding how many people lack any sort of common sense.

Wont give us their number or accept a friend request ? ooh off I go to meet them then what could possibly go wrong

"

Never ceases to amaze me either.

OP if you couldn't spot the warning signs when they were that obvious then yes I think you need to take some responsibility. You certainly need to look at what you are doing to ensure someone is genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arranged to meet a couple in a large busy pub last week. Sent them a friends request which they didn't accept, although we did exchange face pictures. Sent them our phone number, but they didn't send us theirs.

So we arrive, get a drink and wait. After half an hour nothing - no sign of them and no phone message to say they're running late, so we leave.

10 minutes later, 40 minutes after the arranged meeting time, we get a txt, which we found when we got home.

We're now blocked, sorry, is this our fault?"

personally, I would have blocked them when they failed to send a phone number back, never mind actually going ahead with the meet!! that 'couple' was probably a sad old man sat in his car watching you arrive and leave...unfortunately that's how some people get their jolly's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got blocked too be a guy that was going to meet me then he blocked me ff

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

At least you got a drink on a nice eve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting?

^This

I wouldn't have gone ahead with it if the conversation was all one way. Doesn't sound like they had any intention of going ahead with the meet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they didn't accept your friends request, then didn't share their mobile number, why go ahead with the meeting? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The signs certainly flashed in front of you, in neon!! I'm sure you have learned by your mistakes and won't do it again, there's a lot of time wasters on here and a lot of very good people, its not that difficult to pick out who falls in which category

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

At least you got a drink in a pub with a lady that loves you. Look on the bright side, it won't happen again. Will it?

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